Anyways, I've literally met more girls just this semester than all of my previous semesters combined. My mindset has completely changed. For one, I make eye contact with everyone now while walking around campus, no more staring at the ground or fearing to look at someone's face. Just smile at people every single day, and you will immediately notice how much of a happier and more outgoing person it makes you.
I just reached day 90 on my rebooting process. It wasn't that hard but it isn't my first attempt though to be honest. I don't know why but when i started the reboot my brain switched to it's mode and there weren't any PMO urges at all.
On this day, October 9th, 2014, I have completed 90 days of nofap. I'm going to try to keep this a bit short, so here's how my journey went: Before nofap I was: Socially awkward, Unfocused, Lonely, Nervous around girls, Weak - both physically and mentally, Unattractive.
I did it. 90 days. Although I have wanted to write this for a while, I felt that I should keep with tradition and give the usual 90-day success story. Well like any other ordinary success story, I'll start off by how I was before NoFap. You've probably already imagined a stereotypical porn user/fapper who was awkward, soft-spoken, and shy.
My number one tip for no fap is: Open up and tell people in real life! Be vulnerable and open up about your problem to people you trust and let them know about this new challenge you're attempting. The main power of opening up is releasing the shame you have around porn & masturbating. It also gives you accountability.
I now give all my sexual energy to my woman. No more jerking off behind her back. I desire her like a man is supposed to. I also can finish every time because sensitivity has returned. Guys, I could only orgasm maybe 10% during sex before because of decreased sensitivity. And, yes, even with a condom I finish now.
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After the 90 days i started masturbating with my own imagination and i do this for about a year now. After i got rid of the porn addiction my orgasms became stronger, as much strong as i first started masturbating at 13 (no porn involved). At the peak of my porn addiction orgasms were so weak, it was almost unbelievable.
First of all, let me introduce myself in a few following sentences. I am coming to this great community of people who support each other from the Czech Republic. This small republic lies in the middle of Europe and not everyone knows where to find it. :) I am 17 years old Christian and this nofap challenge is probably going to be one of the most challenging ever.
27yo married male, struggled with PIED via PMO since teen years. Exposed to internet porn at a relatively young age; nothing special there, but over time I ran way with it to the point of routine...at least once a day, nearly everyday, sometimes 3-4 in a day over 15+ years.
Finally reached 90 days I joined nofap in April and it took me 6 months to reach my goal. I did hardmode because I don't have a girlfriend. Nofap has not changed me, I changed because I chose to. I chose to do to nofap and that was my first step towards self-improvement.
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