The Ten Questions of Relapse Prevention

Overcoming pornography addiction calls for determinationOthers report that this list can be useful in preventing further relapses:

  1. Will acting on this temptation bring me long-term satisfaction or instant gratification?
  2. What will be the end result if I act on this temptation?
  3. If I choose to act on this temptation will it make my life better or worse?
  4. Do I take 100% responsibility for my own actions or do I blame others and make excuses?
  5. Can the addicted part of my brain force me to act out against my will?
  6. Is there a part of me that wants to walk away from this?
  7. Can I choose to follow that part that wants to walk away?
  8. Is there a feeling of peace that will come to me if I walk away?
  9. Would I feel better about myself tomorrow if I didn’t act out today?
  10. Will I honor the rational part of my brain that is encouraging me to walk away from this temptation?

One can positively direct one’s mind by learning to ask the right questions.