Age 18 - 90 days, tons of confidence, a lot more social

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So today is day 90. What's happened in my life:

My life has quite literally changed since day 1. To start, I had a girlfriend, my first ever. It was the time of my life, and this couldn't have happened without [Reddit]nofap. However, she dumped me (because of nothing I did, she just wasn't ready for a relationship), and then I went on to get a date for prom (again, another first) within literally 2 weeks of her dumping me, and again, I have to relate this to nofap.

Things that I've noticed have changed:

• I am a LOT more social,

• Can talk to women A LOT LOT LOT easier,

• Tons of confidence,

• I feel like I can control my body,

• I feel like I can also talk to anybody easier in general,

• Look women in the eyes,

• Less objectification of women,

• I have realized how fucked up fapping was,

• I feel clean,

• I feel alpha

How I did it:

Well for one thing, I went on my first date within like 3 weeks of starting, and I knew if I caved I wouldn't act the same around her, which would make things weird, so that kept me going for the first month and a half. After that, it really wasn't horrible to continue going, but it was sort of a challenge. What honestly helped me was being a lot more social, and just having a lot going on in my life. Furthermore, I've been running every day (all year) and I told myself that if I was about to fap, I would punch myself in the dick. That bit helped too.

When I felt like I was about to fail, the website yourbrainonporn.com (I think that's what it was) helped me a lot, cause I'd go on there and read why porn is bad for me. Lastly, just as a failsafe, I edited the host file on my mac (which blocks access to sites) to block any porn site that had videos, or at least the ones on the first like 10 pages of Google, which were any of quality. I also installed reddit enhancement suite and turned on the NSFW filter WHICH IS A MUST IF YOU PLAN ON BEING ON REDDIT AT ALL.

I truly hope this helps at least one person out there, and if you're having trouble, please feel free to ask any questions, or just say what your situation is and I'll be glad to help. Good luck!