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Dear Sugars, Should I marry my porn-addicted fiancé? With Noah Church

Listen to the episode here. Cheryl Strayed (author of Wild) and Steve Almond invited me onto their wide-ranging advice podcast “Dear Sugar Radio” to help them tackle the issues of porn addiction and problematic porn use in a relationship. Together we answer a letter from “Unsure”, who is engaged to a man who can’t seem to stop using porn and (worse) lying to her about it. We also cover my story and general info about porn addiction and porn-induced symptoms.

Do Women Get Addicted To Porn?--Jessica's Story

Jessica Harris shows us that porn hooks many women too and discusses how it distorted her self-image, her relationships, and her sexuality:

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-Noah Church

70 Years Old, Finally Free of a 50+ Year Addiction to Porn!

I talk with Ross Smith, recovered porn addict who is now living the happiest time of his life and hopes to help others recover by sharing his experiences.

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"How long should I wait to date as I recover from porn-induced erectile dysfunction?"

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-Noah B.E. Church

"Wack: Addicted to Internet Porn" Now Available as a Free PDF

Noah Church here. When I wrote "Wack: Addicted to Internet Porn" back in 2014, I wrote it because I needed a book like it years ago, but no one had written it yet. I had to learn the information contained in Wack the hard way, but in the process I discovered that many, many more people could benefit from a book specifically about Internet porn addiction and recovery. Since then, the information in "Wack" has helped thousands along their own journeys to recover from porn-induced sexual and social problems.

Is Porn Addictive? - Response to Laci Green

Response video to Laci Green's "Is Porn Addictive?":

Laci's original video:

Full definition of addiction from the American Society of Addiction Medicine:

College of Charleston: Noah Church and Todd Love (video)

On November 16, 2015, the College of Charleston's "Think Differently Forum" addressed the topic of porn use as a potential for harm. Author and coach Noah B.E. Church and Dr. Todd Love, a psychotherapist whose practice focuses on patients with porn-related problems, led the discussion.

I missed out on the best years of my life

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My husband's porn addiction


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