Binciken kimiyya a baya kwayar halitta ta haifar dysfunction kafa.
03 / 06 / 2016 6: 26 AM AEST | updated Yuni 21, 2016 12: 39
Emily Blatchford Associate Editor Edita, HuffPost Ostiraliya
Shin kun taɓa cin karo da sunan PIED? Yana tsaye ga 'Hanyoyin Lantarki na Yau', kuma wannan yanayin ne da ke damun samari maza' yan Australia.
A zahiri, a cewar mai ba da shawara game da dangantaka, mai ba da ilimin jima'i da kuma haɗin gwiwa na Impotence Ostiraliya, Alinda Small, ba wai kawai shari'ar PIED ce a kan ƙaruwar ba, abin da ta fi hulɗa da ita a Sydney al'auraye.
"Rashin tasirin lalata ta hanyar batsa shine ainihin gabatarwar da nake gani a wannan lokacin," Small ya fadawa Huffington Post Australia. "Yawancin samarin da nake gani suna sha'awar batsa kuma suna fama da larurar rashin ƙarfi sakamakon hakan."
To, menene aka gina?
Da farko dai, bari muyi magana game da lalatawar erectile. ED shine yanayin da mutum baya iya samun ko kiyayewa wani kamfani wanda ya isa don yin jima'i. Akwai iya zama dalilai masu yawa game da dalilin da yasa mutum zai iya samun ED (duka jiki da kuma tunanin), ciki har da dalilai na kiwon lafiya.
Daya daga cikin matsalolin tunanin mutum, abin da yake faruwa a kwanan nan, shine an yi la'akari da abin da ya shafi tashar finafinan Intanit don ƙarfafawa. Wannan shi ne KASHI.
Small ya bayyana cewa, "Muna da halin da duk mazajenmu suka girma suna kallon batsa akan intanet," "Yana canza yadda tsarin kwakwalwarmu yake - tsarin lada - yake aiki da gaske."
“Ya kai ga irin wannan yanayin inda tsammanin annashuwa yake da yawa, jima'i na al'ada tare da abokin rayuwa na ainihi baya samar da irin wannan matsala.
Yaya ta yi aiki?
Small ya ce, "Ainihin, abin da ke faruwa shine matakan dopamine suna samun harbi yayin da kake da 'labari', kuma batsa ita ce mafi alherin komai, '' in ji Small.
“Da zarar kun kamu, batsa tana kara tsanantawa, don haka sai mutane su fara fifita kwayar a kanta.
“Ya kai ga irin wannan yanayin inda tsammanin annashuwa yake da yawa, jima'i na al'ada tare da abokin rayuwa na ainihi baya samar da irin wannan matsala. Ba kamar sabon abu bane, musamman a halinda ake ciki, misali, saurayin yana tare da budurwa na dogon lokaci.
"A lokuta da dama za su gwammace su yi yawo kai kadai saboda sun sami wannan matsalar."
Idan ka fi son tunanin abubuwan da ke faruwa akan al'aurar jima'i zuwa ainihin, jima'i na ainihi baƙon abu ne a gare ka, saysananan ya ce saboda kasancewa, samun dama, bambancin ra'ayi da yawan batsa a waje ya yi yawa da yawa don gasa.
"Ba wani labari [na zahiri] da zai iya doke labarai 20 daban-daban a fuska 10 daban-daban a lokaci guda," in ji Small.
“Kuma muna magana ne game da abin da ya shafi jima’i da dabbobi har zuwa cikin bacin ran juna - kwakwalwar mai kallo kawai ta shiga cikin damuwa.
“Maimakon hoto daya zaka sami biyar ko shida kuma kawai ka kamu da wannan bugar.
“Abin takaici, tare da abokin rayuwa na ainihi, ba ku samun irin wannan saurin. Gaskiya abin yana da matukar ban tsoro. ”
Me yasa yake faruwa a yanzu?
Ko da yake hotunan batsa ya kasance a cikin shekaru daban-daban, intanet din ya jawo hanyoyi daban-daban, kuma hakan ya ci gaba. A gaskiya ma, an ba da shawara saboda yawancin mutane suna samun batsa a yau, kamfanonin fina-finai suna yin karin kuɗi fiye da duk wasanni masu sana'a.
Small ya ce "Jarabawar batsa babbar matsala ce a wannan lokacin," in ji Small. “Abin tsoro ne musamman ga yara ƙanana saboda [shiga yanar gizo ta batsa] shine kawai abin da suka sani.
“Misali, wani abokin harka da nake gani budurwa ce‘ yar shekara 23. Zai iya ci gaba da shi har zuwa lokacin shigar azzakari cikin farji, amma sai ya yi rashin tsayuwa.
“Saboda bai san abin da yake ciki ba. Ba shi da masaniyar yadda farji zai ji da gaske, kuma yana matukar damuwa game da shi. Abin da ya sani kawai shi ne abin da ya gani a kan layi.
“A zahiri, masana kimiyya suna tattaunawa yanzu kan yadda muke rasa abin da ɗan adam yake da shi na ɗaura ɗan adam koyaushe. Akwai ra'ayoyi masu canzawa game da menene soyayya, menene soyayya.
“Maganar gaskiya ita ce, yin lalata da rikici ne a karon farko. Amma ba sa ganin hakan lokacin da suke kallon batsa. An tsara shi daidai kuma cikakke kuma matar tana hauka da jin daɗi. ”
Abin da kimiyya ta gaya mana
Yayin da har yanzu ba a fahimci komai da bincike ba, an kara yawan masana suna fahimtar matsalolin jima'i da ke haifar da batsa da kuma matsalolin da suke wakiltar a zamanin yau.
Kamar yadda ƙananan ke taɓawa a baya, akwai ƙwarewar kimiyya mai tasowa cewa jita-jita batsa zai haifar da tsangwama tare da haɗin kai biyu, kuma saboda haka, "Rashin jan hankali ga aboki ɗaya na iya zama sakamakon abin da ya fallasa shi, a cewar bincike."
Yin amfani da batsa na batsa da yawa yana nuna yana shafar tsarin lada na kwakwalwa da kuma yadda take aiki, sakamakon da zai zama mafi bayyana yayin da aka sauƙaƙa ganin yadda yake da sauƙi don samun damar samun labarai marassa ƙima tare da dannawa ɗaya kawai.
A takaice dai, yawancin batsa yana iya tasiri tasirin jima'i da kuma hulɗar tunani, kuma, kamar yadda Small ya rubuta a cikin 'yan kwanan nan, "Ganin cewa kashi 35 cikin XNUMX na dukkan abubuwan da ake zazzagewa a intanet batsa ne za mu iya tabbatar da cewa batsa ta zo nan kuma za mu sami karin bayani game da tasirin… a nan gaba."
Abin da ya yi?
Bisa ga Ƙananan, daya daga cikin manyan matsalolin da suke fuskanta waɗanda ke iya yin watsi da labarun ED shine gaskiyar da yawa sukan ƙi yin magana game da shi.
Small ya ce "Matsalar ita ce mutane da yawa ba sa magana game da shi, musamman samari." “Yana buƙatar ƙarfin hali sosai don zuwa gabatar da GP ɗinku, wanda shine abin da mutane ke yi. GP na iya ba da wasu lambobi na masu ilimin jima'i amma galibi maza ba su da ƙarfin halin yin kira na ɗan lokaci.
“Wannan wani bangare ne na dabi’ar mutum. Maza suna ganin hakan a matsayin nuna matsayinsu na maza, don haka ya kamata a gabatar da cewa gabatar da wani abu da ke ainihin su a mazajensu, kuma a yarda cewa ba ya aiki… da kyau, mutane ba su magana game da shi saboda abin kunya ne. ”
Wannan kuma zai iya ba da babbar kalubalen ga waɗanda ke cikin dangantaka mai tsawo.
Small ya ce: "Idan kun kasance tare da abokin tarayya, musamman ma abokiyar zama, zai iya zama da wahala." “Mata suna ɗauka da kaina. Suna tsammanin basu isa ba ko kuma basa yin wani abu.
"Abin da ba su sani ba ba haka ba ne - tsarin tunani ne na maza."
“Kada ku zauna tare da shi. Ba wani abu bane wanda zaka shawo kansa.
Ƙananan ƙwararrun wadanda ke damuwa suna iya samun wasu matsalolin da bala'i mai tsabta ya kamata neman taimako mai sana'a.
"Ku je wurin GP ɗinku ko je ku ga likitan kwantar da hankali, da farko, kuma in ji shi," in ji Small. “Muna mu’amala da jima’i a kullum. Babu wani hukunci, wani abu ne da muke gani koyaushe.
“Yana da muhimmanci a samu karfin gwiwar yin waccan kiran waya na farko, saboda akwai zabi a wajen.
“Kada ku zauna tare da shi. Ba wani abu bane wanda zaku iya cin nasara akan kanku. Zauna a cikin dakinka kana karanta littafi ba zai taimaka maka ka shawo kanta da kanka ba. ”
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