Bayan shekaru goma na amfani da batsa, na bar kallon 2 shekaru da suka wuce. An Fabrairu 14th, 2013. V-Day. Ba a dawo ba tun lokacin. Dalilin da nake da shi don barinwa sun kasance mai sauƙi:
Da farko, Na yi fushi cewa hankalina na 'jima'i' na kaina ya rage zama shi kaɗai a cikin duhu a cikin ɓarna da ɓarna a cikin ruɗaɗɗen mafarkai na mata masu biyayya a cikin yunƙurin yunƙurin jin saki daga tashin hankali a cikin jikina da mara kyau a cikin zuciyata. Kuma - Na damu da yadda amfani da batsa ya zama mai tilasta.
Na biyu, Na yi fushi game da dukan rikice-rikice na maza da maza suka yi a kan mata da 'yan mata - kuma batsa ya zama kamar hanyar da nake da shi na taimaka wa wannan tashin hankali. (Haka ne, wasu maza da yara maza suna fama da cin zarafi - sau da yawa wasu mutane suka aikata, amma yana da muhimmanci a san hakan mata da 'yan mata suna samun yawancin rikici). A karshe, Ni mutum ne mai taurin hankali wanda zai yi kawai game da wani abu da zai bi ta hanyar abin da nake aikatawa, ko da kawai don tabbatar da mutane ba daidai ba saboda shakka na warware! Kuma na sanya sadaukar da kai ga aboki na kusa: Babu batsa don shekara 1. Lokaci.Farawa, ban san abin da zan sa ran ba. A wancan lokacin, Ban san kowa ba wanda ya bar. Ban taɓa yin magana da abokaina game da batsa ba. Kuma ban san wani abu ba game da kimiyya na batsa. Ko da yake ina jin kawai, na san cewa na damu da kalubale: Ina so in ga yadda rayuwata zai zama dabam bayan shekara guda ba tare da batsa ba.
Sake Gyara My Brain:
Saboda yawancinmu (samari) mun fara kallon-sauri, batsa mai tsaka-tsakin intanet a lokacin da kwakwalwarmu ta fara aiki - lokacin da muke da shekaru 12-17, mun sami wani mummunan rauni. Wanda sau da yawa yana buƙatar sane, dogon ƙoƙari don warkewa da murmurewa daga. Karin bayani
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