David Ley ya haɗu tare da babban kamfanin masana'antar batsa xHamster don inganta rukunin yanar gizon sa kuma ya shawo kan masu amfani cewa jarabar batsa da jaraba ta jima'i labaru ne!

David Ley shine marubucin Labarin na Jima'i Jima'i, Adalci mai tsada don Dicks da kuma Matan da Ba a Tsira: Matan da suka Batar da Mazajen da suke Kaunarsu game da farin ciki na cuckoldry. Ya rubuta 30 ko makamancin haka ne aka sanya hotal a yanar gizo kuma watsi da NoFap, batsa batsa, jarabar jima'i, tasirin lalata da lalata ta batsa da tasirin batsa akan dangantaka. David Ley a kai a kai ya tabbatar da cewa yin amfani da batsa ba shi da illa kuma idan wani ya sami matsala to saboda suna da “sauran batutuwan”. Shirye-shiryen TV, mujallu, gidajen yanar gizo sukan juyo zuwa Ley a matsayin “hukuma” kan jarabar batsa da tasirin batsa saboda masu binciken lafiya - wa zai ba da cikakken hoto game da jihar binciken jarabar intanet - gaba ɗaya ba'a maida hankali kan batsa na intanet musamman. Kuma ba su da sauƙin samuwa kamar Dr. Ley. Saboda haka ya isa ya tsara tattaunawar a cikin kafofin watsa labarai duk da cewa ya karancin ilimi a cikin matsalar kwayoyi da yanayin yanayin jima'i, kuma bai taba fitar da wani bincike na asali ba.

David Ley kuma makusantansa Nicole Farko galibi suna aiki a cikin tandem, tare da daidai aka ambaci "masana," yayin da ainihin masu sha'awar ƙwaƙwalwar ƙwaƙwalwar ƙwaƙwalwa, waɗanda suka wallafa babban girmamawa kan masu amfani da batsa (Voon, Kraus, Potenza, Brand, Laier, Hajela, Kuhn, Gallinat, Klucken, Seok , Sohn, Gola, Kor, da sauransu), an tsallake. Babu Ley ko Prause suna alaƙa da kowane jami'a, duk da haka wasu 'yan jarida, watakila tasirin ayyukan watsa labaru mai karfi na Prause, sun fi son duka biyu a kan manyan masana kimiyya a Jami'ar Yale, Jami'ar Cambridge, Jami'ar Duisburg-Essen, da Cibiyar Max Planck. Tafi siffa.

Shekaru da yawa Ley da babban amininsa Nicole Prause sun yi maƙarƙashiya a bayan fage, suna sarrafa 'yan jarida, raba maganganu, aika wasiƙa zuwa ga shuwagabannin gwamnatoci, har ma da yin tasiri kan tsarin bita a cikin hanyoyin da ba a fahimta ba (waɗannan shafukan suna ba da cikakkun bayanai game da halayen da aka faɗi: Page 1, Page 2, Page 3, Page 4, Page 5.) Dukansu suna ɓata suna, tursasawa da yin amfani da yanar gizo da ƙungiyoyi waɗanda suka yi gargaɗi game da lahani na batsa ko buga rahoton ɓarnar batsa. Abin baƙin ciki, wannan ya haɗa da yin lalata da lalata da samari waɗanda suka yi magana a bainar jama'a game da murmurewa daga lalatawar lalata ta batsa. Takaddun shaida a cikin waɗannan hanyoyin: Gabe Deem #1, Gabe Deem #2, Alexander Rhodes #1, Alexander Rhodes #2, Alexander Rhodes #3, Nuhu Ikilisiya, Alexander Rhodes #4, Alexander Rhodes #5, Alexander Rhodes #6, Alexander Rhodes #7, Alexander Rhodes #8, Alexander Rhodes #9, Alexander Rhodes # 10, Alex Rhodes # 11, Gabe Deem & Alex Rhodes tare # 12, Alexander Rhodes # 13, Alexander Rhodes #14, Gabe Deem # 4, Alexander Rhodes #15. Dukansu Prause & Ley suna damuwa da su debunking batsa-induced ED kamar yadda babu abin da zai cutar da su pro-batsa ajanda (Sallah / Ley shima ya shirya a Yakin shekaru 3 da wannan takarda ta ilimi da kuma kamfanin iyayen jaridar, MDPI).

Kwanan nan, Prause da Ley sun haɓaka ayyukansu na rashin daidaituwa kuma yawancin lokuta ba bisa doka ba don tallafawa tsarin masana'antar batsa. Misali, a Janairu 29, 2019, Prause ya shigar da kara aikace-aikacen kasuwanci don samun KABRAINONPORN da KABRAINONPORN.COM. A watan Afrilu 2019, kungiya karkashin jagorancin Prause da Ley suka shiga ciki Haramtacciyar cinikayya mara izini of YourBrainOnPorn.com ta hanyar kirkirar “RealYourBrainOnPorn.com.

Don tallata shafin da ba bisa ka'ida ba, masu ƙwararrun "ƙwararrun" sun kirkiro wani asusun Twitter (https://twitter.com/BrainOnPorn), YouTube channel, Facebook page, da kuma buga wani latsa release. A wani yunƙuri na neman ruɗar da jama'a, sanarwar da aka watsa ta ce ta samo asali ne daga garin Gary Wilson - Ashland, Oregon (babu ɗaya daga cikin “masana” da ke zaune a Oregon, balle Ashland). Yi hukunci da kanku ko "ƙwararrun" sun ci gaba da sha'awar masana'antar batsa ko ingantaccen binciken kimiyya ta hanyar yin izgili wannan tarin gado na RealYBOP. Rubuta cikin Dr. Prause bambancin saɓo, tweets sunyi amfani da batsa, suna ɓatar da halin yanzu na binciken, kuma mutane da ƙungiyoyi da yawa kungiya sun yi ta damuwa.

Bugu da kari, “kwararru” sun kirkiri wani asusun na Reddit (mai amfani / sciencearousal) to spam batsa maida forums reddit / maras kyau da kuma reddit / NoFap tare da promotional drivel, da'awar amfani da batsa ba shi da lahani kuma yana ɓarna gaBayOnPorn.com da Gary Wilson. Yana da mahimmanci a lura cewa Prause, wani tsohon malami, yana da Tarihin tarihi da yawa na amfani da sunayen laƙabi da yawa don aikawa a kan tattaunawar tattaunawa na batsa. (YBOP yanzu haka) sun shiga harkar shari'a tare da Prause da kawayenta na lalata).

Rikici na sha'awa (IOC) ba sabon abu bane ga David Ley. Lauyoyi suna biyansa kyawawan kuɗaɗe don "lalata" lalata da batsa; yana sayar da littattafai "lalatawa" jima'i & jarabar batsa; yana karɓar kuɗin magana don "lalata" jima'i da jarabar batsa. Duk wannan yayin tursasawa da kuma ɓata mutane da kungiyoyi waɗanda ke yin magana game da mummunan tasirin batsa na intanet.

Koyaya, a halin yanzu Ley bisa hukuma ya ƙetare layi. Shine tare da hadin gwiwar masana'antar batsa babban kamfanin XHamster, wanda ke siyan ayyukansa don inganta rukunin yanar gizon su (watau StripChat) da kuma shawo kan masu amfani cewa jarabar batsa da jarabar jima'i sune tatsuniyoyi! Ka lura da yadda Ley zai gaya wa abokan cinikin XHamster menene "karatun likita da gaske faɗi game da batsa, camming da jima'i":

Shin Ley zai gaya wa abokan cinikin XHamster cewa kowane binciken da aka buga a kan maza (game da 70) ya danganta ƙarin batsa don rage yawan jima'i da gamsuwa ta aminci? Shin Ley zai gaya masu cewa duka 52 neurological karatu a kan masu amfani da batsa / masu jarabar jima'i suna ba da rahoton canje-canje kwakwalwa da aka gani a cikin masu shan kwayoyi? Shin zai sanar da masu sauraron sa cewa 50% na masu amfani da batsa Rahoton yana kara hauhawa zuwa kayan da a baya suka gano ba shi da so ko kyama? Ko ta yaya Ina shakka shi.

Musamman, David Ley da sabon da aka kafa Harkokin Kiwan Lafiya na Jima'i (SHA) suna da haɓaka tare da rukunin yanar gizo xHamster (StripChat). Duba “Rashin daidaito ya hada kai da Allianceungiyar Lafiyar Jima'i don bugun kwakwalwarka mai lalata batsa. ” Stripchat ya sayi gabatarwar SHA, don haka kai tsaye yana biyan Ley da wasu don hidimominsu na batsa.

Shekara guda bayan wannan post din ya fara bayyana, Ley ya ba da tabbacin cewa ba shi bane kai tsaye wani "kamfanin batsa" ya rama, amma duk da haka wannan ke rarraba gashi: Stripchat biya diyya ga SHA wanda bi da bi biya Shugaban kwamitin SHA Ley. Wannan yayi daidai da likitan neman afuwa game da shan sigari wanda yake ikirarin cewa Phillip Morris bai biya shi kai tsaye ba, amma a maimakon haka an biya shi Cibiyar Taba Kaya. Nice gwada, David. (Ley ya kuma tabbatar da cewa Stripchat ba shine ba kawai wanda ya sayi kayan gabatarwa na SHA kuma cewa kashi ɗaya daga cikin kudaden shiga SHA yana zuwa daga Stripchat. Don haka menene?)

Babu wanda ke sayen Ley ta matakin-rabuwa ɗaya, gami da 'yan jarida (Maganin jima'i - a cikin gidan yanar gizon cam wanda ke ba da ilimin psychosexual ga masu amfani da damuwa):

“Nunin nunin jiki ne mara izini, banda taga mara fa'ida. A can, wani mutum yana zaman shakatawa a hankali cikin riga mai shuɗuwa mai haske a gaban wani wuri mai hasken rana. Danna shi kuma kun shiga tattaunawa tare da Dr David Ley, masanin ilimin halin ɗan adam hayar Stripchat don bayar da zaman kulawar rukuni kyauta ga masu amfani da shafin. ”

A cikin tallan haɓakar su, ana yi mana alƙawarin ƙwararrun masana ilimin kwakwalwa na SHA don gamsar da masu amfani da “damuwa ta batsa” da “kunya” (Ley da sauran ƙwararrun masana “SHA”) shekaru masu nisa ne daga kasancewa ƙwararrun masana kwakwalwa).

Fledungiyar healthariyar Lafiya ta Jima'i (SHA) kwamitin ba da shawara ya hada da David Ley da wasu biyu RealYourBrainOnPorn.com “masana” (Justin Lehmiller da Chris Donaghue). RealYBOP rukuni ne na bayyane pro-batsa, 'shelar kwararru' da shugabanni suka nuna Nicole Farko. Wannan rukunin yana aiki a halin yanzu haramtacciyar alamar kasuwanci ta ƙetare doka da oda Yayi wa JBOP halal. A sa a sauƙaƙe, waɗanda ke ƙoƙarin shiru YBOP suma ana biyan su don yin haɗin gwiwa tare da masana'antar batsa don inganta kasuwancin / kasuwancin su, kuma tabbatar da masu amfani cewa shafukan batsa da kyamarar yanar gizo ba su da matsala. (Lura: Nicole Prause yana da kusanci, haɗin jama'a ga masana'antar batsa kamar yadda rubuce a wannan shafin.)

The asusun banki na StripChat Twitter ya bayyana hakikanin dalilin biyan SHA “kwararru”: don sanyaya damuwarsu dan hana asarar biyan kwastomomi. SHA za ta cim ma hakan ta hanyar "yin magana game da sabon bincike game da jima'i, camms da jaraba," wato, ciko ayyukan da masu binciken su ke yi. Za a Ley / SHA ambaci cewa daruruwan nazarin suna danganta amfani da batsa don tasiri mara kyau?

In wannan labarin, Ley yayi watsi da haɓaka haɓaka masana'antar batsa:

Gaskiya ne, ƙwararrun masana kiwon lafiyar jima'i suna yin kawance kai tsaye tare da dandamali na batsa na kasuwanci suna fuskantar wasu abubuwan da za su iya faɗuwa, musamman ga waɗanda suke son gabatar da kansu a matsayin marasa ƙarancin tsari. "Ina tsammanin cikakkiyar [masu ba da shawara game da batsa) ga duka kururuwa, 'Oh, duba, ga, David Ley yana aiki don batsa,'" in ji Ley, an ambaci suna akai-akai tare da nuna kyama a cikin al'ummomin anti-taba al'aura kamar NoFap.

Amma ko da aikinsa tare da Stripchat babu shakka zai samar da abinci ga duk wanda ke ɗokin rubuta shi a matsayin son kai ko kuma a aljihun ɗakin batsa, don Ley, cewa cinikin ciniki ya cancanci hakan. "Idan muna son taimakawa [masu sayen batsa], dole ne mu je wurinsu," in ji shi. "Kuma wannan shi ne yadda muke yin hakan."

Yin son kai? Ley na tunatar da mu likitoci masu taba sigari, da xualungiyar Lafiya ta Jima'i suna tunatar da mu Cibiyar Tuba.

Yayinda aka rama don ƙarfafa abubuwan tattaunawa na masana'antar batsa, Ley yana da ƙarin rikice-rikice na sha'awa.

Rikice-rikice na sha'awa #2: David Ley ne ana biya don cin amanar batsa da kuma jarabar jima'i. A karshen wannan Psychology yau blog post Ley yana tallata ayyukan sa:

"Bayyanar sirri: David Ley ya bayar da shaida a shari'oin da suka shafi da'awar jima'i."

A cikin sabon gidan yanar gizo na 2019 David Ley ya ba da nasa sabis ɗin “ramawa” sosai:

David J. Ley, Ph.D., masanin halayyar ɗan adam ne kuma mai ba da izini na mai kulawa da ilimin jima'i, wanda aka kafa a Albuquerque, NM. Ya ba da ƙwararren mashaidi da shaidar zur a cikin shari'oi da yawa a kusa da Amurka. Dokta Ley ana ɗaukarsa ƙwararren masani game da ɓatar da ikirarin jarabar jima'i, kuma an ba shi ƙwararren masani kan wannan batun. Ya bayar da shaida a kotunan jihar da na tarayya.

Tuntuɓi shi don samun jadawalin kuɗin sa kuma shirya alƙawari don tattauna sha'awar ku.

Rikice-rikice na sha'awa #3: Ley ta kashe kuɗaɗe don sayar da littattafai guda biyu waɗanda ke musun lalata da jarabar batsa (“Labarin na Jima'i Jima'i, ”2012 da“Dangantakar Kwallo na Dicks,"2016). Pornhub (wanda ke ɗaukar hoto na MindGeek na batsa) yana ɗayan ɗayan tallafin baya guda biyar da aka jera don littafin Ley's 2016 game da batsa:

Lura: PornHub ya kasance Shafin Twitter na biyu don sake tallata sakon farko na RealYBOP tana ba da sanarwar rukunin yanar gizonta "gwani" (pro-batsa), yana ba da shawara ga daidaitawa tsakanin PornHub da Masana realYBOP. Kai!

Rikice-rikice na sha'awa #4: A ƙarshe, David Ley yana samun kuɗi ta hanyar Taro na CEU, inda yake inganta akidun addan masu kara kuzari da aka bayyana a cikin littattafansa guda biyu (waɗanda basa kulawa (?) yin watsi da ɗimbin karatun da kuma mahimmancin sabon Wahalar Cututtuka Raunin Jima'i a cikin littafin bincike na Kungiyar Lafiya ta Duniya). Ley ya rama saboda maganganunsa da yawa waɗanda ke nuna ra'ayoyinsa game da amfani da batsa. A cikin wannan gabatarwar 2019 Ley ya bayyana don tallafawa da haɓaka amfani da batsa: Haɓaka Cikakkiyar jima'i da Amincewa da Amfani da Labarin Batsa a cikin samari.

Wannan shine ainihin bakin dusar kankara. Yi wadannan shafukan don ƙarin abubuwan da suka faru da suka shafi David Ley:

Sabunta # 1: StripChat ya sanar da wani zaman David Ley: Stripchat Ya Kawo Zaman Lafiya akan Layi Akan Layi Don Adireshin "#NoNutNovember"

Lura: Abubuwan da ke sama suna niyya ga Nofap.com da wanda ya kirkiro Alex Rhodes. Duba - Nicole Prause, David Ley & RealYBOP sun daɗe suna tursasawa da ɓata sunan Alexander Rhodes na NoFap.

Sabunta # 2 (Nuwamba, 2019): A ƙarshe, wasu daidaitattun hanyoyin watsa labarai game da mai zargi na ainihi, mai ƙeta, mai tursasawa, mai saɓa alamar kasuwanci, Nicole Prause: "Alex Rhodes na ictionungiyar Taimakon Batsa ictionwararriyar 'NoFap' ya Obsunshi Lafiyar Farfesa na Farfesa don lalata kai" na Megan Fox na PJ Media da kuma "Yaƙe-yaken batsa sun zama na mutum a cikin Nuwamba Nuwamba", na Diana Davison na Millennika na Post. Davison ya kuma samar da wannan bidiyon na mintuna na 6 game da halayen rashin ladabi na Prause: "Shin batsa mai jaraba ne?".

Sabunta # 3: Ley yanzu yana da nasa shafin na "StripChat": https://stripchat.com/blog/tag/sexuality/

Ya isa yace.

NASIHAR CIKIN SAUKAR DA WANNAN HAKA

Rashin Gina Yanzu Yana Ba da Lafiyar Jima'i kyauta

Kun ji labarin Snapchat. Amma kun ji labarin Stripchat?

Gidan yanar gizon, wanda shine tushen kulab ɗin ta hanyar ruwan tabarau na kyamarar gidan yanar gizon, kwanan nan ya gudanar da bincike na ciki tsakanin masu amfani da shi. Kashi arba'in da biyu bisa dari na masu amfani suna ba da rahoton fuskantar "wasu" damuwa game da lokacin da suka shafe akan shafin. Kashi goma sha ɗaya cikin ɗari na masu amfani sun ce suna fuskantar damuwa " akai-akai ko akai-akai ".

Bugu da ƙari, kashi 29 na masu amfani da ma'aurata sun ba da rahoton cewa sun damu matattararsu ta zama magudi, yayin da 31 bisa dari na masu amfani da aure sun bayyana cewa Stripchat ya haifar da matsaloli a cikin dangantakar su.

Stripchat ya ɗauki waɗannan lambobin da muhimmanci: "Damuwa da damuwa damuwa matsala ce," sun yarda. “Kamewa yakamata ya zama abin farantawa rai da mafaka daga damuwar rayuwar yau da kullun - bawai abinda ya kara faruwa ba. Wannan shine dalilin da ya sa Stripchat ke alƙawarin kasancewa shugaba a fagen tunani da kyautatawa ga masu amfani da shi. ”

Saboda haka, Stripchat ta sanar da kawancen ta tare da xualungiyar Lafiya ta Jima'i "don kawo masu ilimin psychologists, masu bincike game da jima'i da kuma masu kwantar da hankali game da dandalin ta duniya don amsa tambayoyi game da jarabar jima'i da rashin yarda ta kan layi" kamar na watan Agusta 1. Zai kuma tattauna game da "hanyoyin da waɗannan za a iya daidaita su a rayuwarku."

Wasu daga cikin waɗannan tambayoyin sun haɗa da masu zuwa:

  • "Shin kamara magudi ne?"
  • "Shin zaka iya fada cikin soyayya da samfurin cam?"
  • "Shin batsa jaraba?"

Ganin cewa Dr. David Ley, wanda ya jagoranci zaman 1 ga Agusta, [2019], ya wallafa wani littafi mai taken Labarin na Jima'i Jima'i, da alama ana iya amsar cewa amsar wannan tambayar zata kasance 'a'a.'

The masana'antar batsa ya sa ƙarin fiye da NFL, NBA, da MLB a hade. Hakanan yana yin fiye da NBC, CBS, da ABC a hade. Rumor yana da shi cewa masana'antar batsa a matsayin babban raga tsakanin $ 6 da $ 97 biliyan a shekara. Don haka Stripchat yana shawo kan masu amfani da ita cewa batsa na iya zama mai cutarwa da cutarwa ga alaƙar su ba shine ainihin abin da wasu za su iya kira kyakkyawan tsarin kasuwanci ba.

Max Bennett, Mataimakin Shugaban Kamfanin Media News a Stripchat, yayi sharhi cewa farkon watan Agusta 1 "wata dama ce gare su su wuce wasu tatsuniyoyi da kuma ta'addancin da ke tattare da batsa, kuma suyi magana da masanin abin da kimiyya ta ce a zahiri."

Amma menene ainihin ilimin kimiyya?

Don masu farawa, yin amfani da batsa yana lalata da launin toka a cikin kwakwalwa, rahoton Cibiyar Max Planck. Yana sa maza mafi kusantar wahala daga lalatawar datti. Haka kuma an sani zuwa haifar da lamuran lafiyar kwakwalwa a cikin maza da mata, gami da damuwa, bacin rai, da al'amuran hoton jikin mutum.

Ba abin mamaki bane cewa ɗaya cikin uku masu amfani da Stripchat sun ba da rahoton cewa Stripchat ya haifar da matsaloli a cikin dangantakar su. Mutanen da suke amfani da batsa son soyayya ga abokin tarayya kuma sun fi gamsuwa da jima'i. An kuma nuna hotunan batsa kara kafircin aure by 300 kashi.

Don haka ko da masana Stripchat sun gano cewa batsa ba jaraba ce ba kuma camming ba yaudara bane, har yanzu akwai sauran tambayoyi waɗanda masana da ake kira masana ilimin jima'i ke buƙata. Max Bennet ya lura cewa “duniyar waje ba koyaushe take yarda da” mutanen da suke amfani da batsa ba. Wataƙila akwai dalilin wannan tunanin.

Dangane da "kimiyya," idan har da gaske ne Stripchat ya zama jagora cikin nutsuwa da nutsuwa ga masu amfani da shi, to zai basu shawara su daina yada magana baki daya.

Wani labarin:Maganin jima'i - a cikin gidan yanar gizon cam wanda ke ba da ilimin psychosexual ga masu amfani da damuwa"

Kalmomi: Andy Jones
16th Satumba 2019

Fuskar allo na shafin yanar gizon jima'i na Stripchat ruwan hoda ne, mai motsi jiki. Kowane murabba'i yana fasalta fuskar da jikin mai wasan kwaikwayo tsirara, writhing da tunkuɗa su a cikin ƙaramin duniyar bidiyon su.

Makaranta_ Koyarwa, mai duhu mai gashi"jarabce ”tare da almara na almara-zamanin Uma Thurman bob da tsagaitawa, tana zurfafa ayaba. MilkyFetishMegan ya zama babban nau'i ne na fuska, nono mara kai, nonuwa kamar idanun bey waɗanda ke kallon allon. GingerSnaps, ma'aurata masu son ruwa (wadanda suka ci nasarar YNOT kyauta ga"Mafi kyawun Ma'aurata, 2019”), Suna farantawa juna rai da mata daban daban. Na latsa bidiyo da na Sarauniya Wani ya so taka leda a bango. Duk masu wasan kwaikwayon suna watsa shirye-shirye kai tsaye daga dakunan kwana, a kowace kusurwa ta duniya.

Nunin nunin jiki ne mara izini, banda taga mara fa'ida. A can, wani mutum yana zaman shakatawa a hankali cikin riga mai shuɗuwa mai haske a gaban wani wuri mai hasken rana. Danna shi kuma kun shiga tattaunawa tare da Dr David Ley, masanin ilimin halin ɗan adam da Stripchat ta ɗauka don bayar da zaman ba da horo na ƙungiyar kyauta ga masu amfani da shafin.

Yana nan saboda abokan cinikin Stripchat suna cikin damuwa. Shafin kwanan nan ya gudanar da bincike na 6,000 masu amfani, yawancinsu mazan ne 18 - 24. Ya gano hakan 11% damuwa"da yawa ”game da amfanin gidan yanar gizon su. A zahiri, shafin ya yi mamakin kwazon tambayoyin masu amfani, wanda ya fito daga:"Shin taba al'aura mara lafiya? ", To:"Shin ina yaudarar abokiyar zamana? ” Kuma cikin damuwa:"Shin na lalace don alaƙar gaske? ” A halin yanzu, abin damuwa 40% sun ce sun ƙaunace masu yin hakan.

Tare da matakin lamirin zamantakewar da galibi ba a gani a duniyar batsa sun yanke shawarar magance waɗannan batutuwan kai tsaye. Wanne ne inda Dr Ley ya shigo: likitan kimiyya da marubucin Labari na Jima'i Jima'i.

"Akwai bambanci tsakanin jin yadda kake amfani da hotunan batsa ya wuce gona da iri kuma ainihin abin ya wuce gona da iri. ”

Ley ya ce Stripchat, tare da Kawancen Kiwan Lafiyar Jima'i, sun tunkare shi saboda suna son masanin halayyar dan adam da ke goyon baya"rashin kunya, hanyoyin lafiya ”don magance matsalolin da ka iya tasowa ta amfani da kyamarar jima'i ta yau da kullun. Tambayar ita ce, shin taƙaitaccen zaman tattaunawa na kan layi na iya taimaka wa wanda yake tunanin sun kamu da lalata da 'yan matan cam?

A daya bude kofa daya ya isa ga wasu masu amfani da dari, kuma kamar yadda yake da sauran windows, da zarar kun shiga, zaku samu tambayoyi Dr Ley. Wasu suna ba'a (ɗayan masu amfani da shi ya ce Ley yayi kama"likita ne mai yawan giya ”) amma galibinsu na nuna damuwa ne. የሰማይ አካላት"Shin yin awoyi hudu a rana yana kallon kyamaran yanar gizo masu ban sha'awa? ” tambaya daya mai amfani. Dr Ley da alama baiyi tunani ba:"Idan ka share awowi biyar a rana kana kallo TV, shin za ku damu da cewa kun kamu da shi? TV? ”Ya tambaya.

A zahiri, bayar da misalin kwatankwacin ɗan kaɗan, Dr Ley yayi jayayya da cewa"akwai bambanci tsakanin jin amfani da hotunan batsa ba shi da iko kuma a zahiri ya zama ba shi da iko. Kuna iya jin kamar ba ku da iko a kan abin birgewa, amma duk lokacin da kuke daidai kuna sarrafawa. ”

Daga amsoshi kamar waɗannan, yana da wuya a san ko"far ”akwai don bayar da taimako mai mahimmanci ko don kiyaye mutane a kan shafin ta hanyar ɗora filastar magana akan wasu tsoro na gaske. Bayan duk wannan, nutsar da hayaniyar nishi dari na jin daɗi shine yawan tashin hankali na ma'amaloli. Samun damar yin masu yin aikin sulhu ne ta hanyar hulɗar da ke cajin ku ta hanyar hulɗa. Sautin kuɗi yana da ƙarfi a nan fiye da kowane mashaya mai tsada. Masu amfani suna siyan alamu a cikin fakiti - watau 90 Alamu don $9.99, 2255 Alamu don $199.99 - kuma duk alamar da aka kashe tana samun kara"ping ”onscreen wanda zai basu damar mu’amala da wanda suka zaba. Ba sabon abu bane, in ji shafin, don mai huda guda ya kashe $10,000 wata guda a kan kamerayen jima'i. Daga wannan hangen nesan, ba karamin ma'ana bane ga tsarin kasuwancin su suyi hayar mai ilimin kwantar da hankali wanda zai gayawa masu amfani su fita.

Wanne, ba shakka, shine ainihin abin da wasu zasu buƙata. Ba da matsala ba, masanin ilimin Paula Hall na jima'i da masu ba da shawara game da batsa Cibiyar Laurel ya ce masu yin lalata da jima'i suna da yawa daga cikin abokan cinikin da ke zuwa wurinta don taimako. Ta ce masu amfani sun kamu da tunanin cewa wannan dangantaka ce ta mutum fiye da sauƙi, batsa ta iska-iska.

"Mutane suna fara kashe lokaci da kudi fiye da yadda suke zato, ”in ji Hall. የሰማይ አካላት"Suna ci gaba da bin wannan kwayar cutar ta dopamine. Sun fara lura da cewa basu bata lokaci tare da ƙaunatattun su ba, ko kuma suna barin ƙungiyar da wuri don ƙarin lokaci akan waɗannan rukunin yanar gizon. Hakanan zasu iya sha'awar amfani da su a wurin aiki. Sau da yawa yakan ƙare da su ta amfani da kwamfutar aiki. Hakan na iya kawo karshen aikin su kuma na ga mutane sun rasa aure a kai. ” A farkon wannan shekarar, 38mai shekaru Andrew Barnbrook har da zamba ga maigidan sa na £250k in ba da kuɗi don jarabarsa don yin lalata tare da wata mace takamaiman.

Abin fahimta ne cewa layuka tsakanin gaskiya da rudu na iya zama marasa haske. Kowane wasan kwaikwayon Stripchat yana bawa mai kallo fahimta mai maye cikin duniyar mai yin sa; don wannan kankanin lokacin, kana cikin dakin su, kusan kamar - a ce a hankali - kun koma wurin su bayan kwanan wata. Abota ce ta filastik, amma kowane daki-daki yana da ikon jan hankalin ka: kofi mara komai a bayan fage tare da taken taken wahayi akan sa, matashin da bai dace ba da saitin duvet, sunan da aka zana a sama da cinyar dama. KirstieVegas, mai walƙiya mai launin launin fata wacce ta fito daga Faransa tana da matashin kai na Kyaftin Amurka. Wancan ne saboda tana son Kyaftin Amurka ko kuma saboda finafinan Marvel sune ƙugiya mai kyau don sa maza suyi hira?

Kuma suna ƙaunar yin hira. Tambayoyin mai amfani sun shiga cikin masu aikatawa tare da saurin-injin-bindiga, daga amintattun tambayoyin jima'i -"don Allah a gaya mani don yin maniyyi ”- don tattaunawa kan batutuwan tarihi da ayukan hutu -"Daga ina kuka zo? ”,"Kuna wasa COD? ”- don biyan buƙata -"Shin da gaske kake cum? ”Da"Za ku iya squirt? " (wannan tambayar ta ƙarshe tana cikin kowane ɗakin hira da na shiga).

"Shi [sexcam] ya fi soyayya - babu ƙin yarda, babu wasa - kuna hira da budurwa mai lalata sannan za ku yi jima'i. ”

Masu wasan kwaikwayo na Stripchat har ma sun fara ɗaukar matakai don hana magoya bayansu shiga damuwa. የሰማይ አካላት"Na bar masu amfani su sani cewa ba ni da sha'awar yin soyayya kuma na kafa iyaka, ”in ji Melrose Strip, 26, a cam yarinya na 3 shekaru. Tana iya watsa shirye-shirye zuwa 1000 masu amfani, sau hudu a kowane mako kuma ta ce tana ci gaba da tafiya mai tsinkaye tsakanin kiyaye samari da sha'awarta da kuma kawar da hankali mara kyau.

Darnell *, 27, yana amfani da shafukan cam tsawon shekaru biyu. Na same shi a kan zancen ikirarin jima'i game da tattaunawar"NoFapp ”- wani shafin amfani da rigakafin batsa inda maza ke ba da shawara ga juna kan yadda za a daina yin lalata da hotuna. Hakanan a NoFapp akwai matan aure da budurwa waɗanda suke da bege don tseratar da abokin hulɗarsu daga matsalar jarabar jima'i ko kuma suna ƙoƙarin yin ma'amala da lalacewarta. Darnell yana jin tsoron abokan aikinsa ko danginsa zasu ga yadda yake kashe mafi yawan maraice.

Ya ce amfani da kyamarar sa ta hanyar batsa ya fito ne daga Pornhub. የሰማይ አካላት"Wannan shi ne ƙofa ta magani, ”in ji shi ta hanyar imel. Ya fara nuna damuwa kan wata yarinya 'yar cam ta Rasha wacce ya gani a shafin batsa na iska-iska. Amma, tun sun gaji da wannan 6 - 7 bidiyon da take da ita, Darnell ya fara neman ƙari kuma ya yi tuntuɓe a cikin bayanan nata a shafin yanar gizo mai ɗauke da kuɗi. Wannan, in ji shi, ya kasance dama ce ta tattaunawa da ita na gaske.

"Ina tsammanin na fi sauran mutanen da suke tattaunawa da ita, ”in ji shi.Codka jamhuuriyadda soomaaliya"Zan faɗi abubuwa kamar:"Dimple dinka idan kayi murmushi yana da kyau. ” Ko zan tambaye ta game da waƙar R'n'B da na ji ta yi wasa a bidiyon da ya gabata. Ta amsa da gaske. Na ji kamar na ci zafin yarinya a makaranta. ”

Darnell ya ce wannan sabon kink yana jin daɗin sakewa fiye da kallon abubuwan batsa na yau da kullun waɗanda aka halitta don kowa da kowa. Ya kara zama cikin damuwa. Ya so Shazam duk waƙoƙin da 'yarsa cam zata buga a finafinan ta na jima'i kawai don ya tattauna da ita game da su kuma yana hanzarin kashe dala40 - 50 sati a kan shirinta.

​"Ya gwammace yin jima'i, "in ji shi. የሰማይ አካላት"Babu kin amincewa, babu wasanni. Kuna hira da yarinya mai lalata sannan kuma zaku sami jima'i. Kuna iya kallon ta ta al'ada, duba yadda ta tashi. Amma sai na damu lokacin da wasu masu amfani suka yi tsokaci game da jikinta, cewa tana da kyawawan farji. Na yi fushi su ma sun so ta. ”

Darnell ya kammala karatunsa ga sauran caman matan kamara amma yana sha'awar rage amfani da shi. የሰማይ አካላት"Ina kashe $400 wata daya da shan bakar kofi don ci gaba da hira da su, don sanya su duka cikin farin ciki. Ina son shi amma na tsani kaina a lokaci guda. ”

Ina tunanin Darnell yayin da nake kallon Dr Ley a cikin tagarsa ta Stripchat. Ya ce babu wata shaidar batsa da ke jaraba, cewa a zahiri yana da kyau ku kawo 21 lokuta sau daya a wata don amfanin kirinka da kuma cewa - idan kana cikin damuwa kana dadewa da jima'i ta hanyar yanar gizo - yakamata ka tara abubuwan da kake so kawai"lafiyayye ”watau motsa jiki ko yin hulɗa da juna, maimakon rage yawan batsa. Batutuwan mu game da batsa, in ji shi, ba lallai ba ne ya danganta da batsa da kanta amma kuma ga kunyar da al'umma ke nuna mana na kallonta.