Wahi a nā mea loiloi ka hoʻohana ʻana o ka porn i waena o nā ʻōpio i ko lākou mau manaʻo i ka moekolohe maʻamau a me ko lākou manaʻo i nā wahine.
Me ka kaomi ʻana o kahi kiʻi, ua loaʻa nā keiki o nā makahiki āpau i kēia manawa a 24-7 komo i nā kiʻi, a piʻolua kekahi.
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ʻO nā hewa ka mea i like me ka mea i hoʻopiʻi ʻia, nā ʻōpio o nā keiki ʻōpio hana hewahewa a no laila, i ka weliweli o nā mea āpau, nā kiʻi a me nā wikiō o ka hewa i kākau ʻia a hoʻoili ʻia no kēlā me kēia poʻe e ʻike.
no ka mea, ʻO Palona ʻO Rehtaeh , 17, ka mea i pepehi kanaka ma mua o kēia mahina, ke kiʻi ʻo ke kolo ʻana i kona ʻano me ka hewa ma mua. ʻO nā mahina ma hope o ke kākala Cole Harbour, NS, ua ʻōlelo ʻia ka mea ʻōpio e ʻehā mau keiki kāne ma ke ʻano he kīnā ʻole ma kahi pāʻina, ua kiʻi ʻia kekahi kiʻi weliweli mai kēlā pō ʻo ia me nā kelepona o kāna mau hoa. ʻO ke kiʻi, i wehewehe ʻia e kona makuahine, ʻo ia kekahi o ka poʻe hana hoʻomakee ʻakaʻaka ae hāʻawi ana i nā manamana lima i ka wā e kū ana ʻo ia i ka ʻōpio. Aneane like me kāna mea e hoʻokau nei no kahi loiloi.
Kaleponi ʻōpio Ua hana ʻo Audrie Pott, 15 mau lā ma hope o ke kiʻi ʻana o nā kiʻi kolohe o kāna mau keikikāne ʻekolu mau mea ma ka pūnaewele. ʻO Steubenville, ʻO Ohio's Jane Doe e aʻo wale nō paha i nā kikoʻī koʻikoʻi o kāna hoʻopilikia ʻana ma hope o kahi wikiō a me nā kiʻi i kau ʻia ma ka Pūnaewele e hoʻopiʻi ana i ʻelua mau lālā o ka hui pôpeku'āina kūloko i kāna moe kolohe ʻana.
I kēia mau hihia, ua hoʻowalewale kekahi o ka hōʻeha i kekahi mea hōʻeha o ka hoʻohālikelike. Ke hoʻāʻo nei ka pīhoihoi e hoʻoholo i nā mea lurks i loko o ka noʻonoʻo o kēia mau mea ʻōpio.
"Pono ʻoe e nīnau iā ʻoe iho, he aha ka manaʻo o ke keiki 15 ʻoihana e loaʻa kekahi kaikamahine e makemake i ka moe aku i nā keiki kāne ʻehā a no ke ʻano o kona manaʻo he kūpono a maʻamau paha? A eia ʻoe e nīnau, no hea mai lākou i kēia mau manaʻo? ”Wahi a Peter Jaffe, ke kipi i ke Center for Research and Education on Violence Against Women and Children ma Western University. “ʻAʻole ia mai ka hoʻonaʻauao wahine i hele ai lākou i ke kula.”
Hoʻokahi kikoʻī: ʻike ʻia i nā ponokala. ʻAʻohe manawa ʻē aʻe i loaʻa pū ai ka ponokala - e komo pū ana me nā kiʻi ʻinoʻino - e komo maʻalahi i nā keiki o nā makahiki āpau. Ma kahi hōʻike hoʻokahi US, 70 pālua o 15- a 17 mau makahiki makahiki i ʻōlelo ʻia e nānā ana lākou i nā porn, aʻo kahi noiʻi Kanada ua loaʻa i nā keiki ʻōpio e like me ka 10 i loaʻa i ka porn. I ka manawa i hiki ai lākou i 20, ke aʻo like ʻana ua aneane hiki ʻole ke loaʻa nā kāne nāna i ʻike ʻole i nā kumuwaiwai X -UM.
ʻO nā kiʻi'onikala ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻopiʻi wale ʻia i nā mea he ʻano nui o ka hōʻoki ʻana a i ka hoʻopaʻi ʻana i ka moekolohe. Eia nō naʻe, ua ʻōlelo ka poʻe loea, nā mea noiʻi a me nā mea ʻepekema he kānalua nui ka hoʻohana ʻana o ka porn i waena o nā ʻōpio he hopena hohonu loa i ko lākou manaʻo i ka ʻano moe kino, ko lākou manaʻo i nā wahine a me ko lākou hiki ke hoʻomaopopo pū i ka mea e pili ana i ka moekolohe.
"Kahi hewa ma mua o ke kiʻi porn, a inā hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻowalewale i ke kiʻi i ka porn, e hoʻokau mau ʻia nō hoʻi," wahi a Robert Jensen, ka mea kākau ʻōlelo nūpepa ma ke Kulanui o Texas ma Austin a me ka mea kākau o Loaʻa: Ka ponokala a me ka hopena o ka Makculinity . ^ E Ha yM. "He ʻano ka naʻaupō ka manaʻo ʻana he kuleana ka media nui a me nā kiʻi porn. No ka mea ʻaʻole ia he mea hoʻowahāwahā ke manaʻo ʻana e hoʻonui nā pono i kēia mau kumu i ke kolohe."
ʻO nā mea aloha o nā kiʻi kiʻi kiʻi huki i nā makahiki o Playboy a me Hustler i hōʻike ʻoi loa ua lilo ka ponokala i wahi nui i ka moʻomeheu koʻikoʻi a hiki iā ia ke kōkua i ka pālahalaha ʻana i kā mākou lewa a hoʻomaikaʻi i ko mākou mau moekolohe.
Akā aneane aneane ua pau nā mea iʻike ʻia i ka wā 'o ke kiʻi o ka porno i kēia manawa. Loaʻa ka 24-7 i nā kiʻi a me nā wikiō he nui i kekahi mau kaomi, me ka hoʻomau ʻana i nā kiʻi ʻinoʻino, ʻaʻole nō i ʻike ʻia a ʻike ʻole ʻia kāna mau ʻōlelo ʻana.
A ʻoiai lākou ke hoʻopaʻapaʻa ʻia nā "pono" o nā kiʻi i nā kiʻi. Ma kahi hōʻike 2010 o 50 kiʻi maʻalahi i nā kiʻi pākeke, ʻike ʻia nā mea noiʻi i nā kiʻekiʻe o ka waha a me ka hoʻoikaika kino kino. ʻO nā hōʻike 304 i kākuhi ʻia, 88 pākēneka i loaʻa i ka hōʻeha kino kino, e komo pū me ka spanking, ke kūloʻo a me ka palapa ʻana, ʻoiai ua kokoke 50 pākēneka i loaʻa ka hōʻino waha kuhihewa, ka inoa inoa. I ka hapanui o nā hihia, ua hōʻeuʻeu ka kāne a pane ʻole nā wahine i nā manawa likeʻole a i ʻole ʻoliʻoli paha. ʻO 10 ka hapaha wale nō o nā hiʻohiʻona e loaʻa i ke ʻano kūpono pilikino.
"ʻAʻole ʻo kēia ka wikiō a kou makua kāne," wahi a Jaffe. "ʻO ka hapa nui o nā kiʻi porn i kēia manawa e hoʻohilahila a hoʻohaʻahaʻa i nā wahine. ʻAʻole ia e pili ana i nā pilina olakino, a ke manaʻo nei wau inā ʻike pinepine ʻia kekahi ʻōpio i kēlā mau puke, he hopena kona. "
ʻAʻole paha he mea kupanaha no laila, ua ʻike ʻia ka nui o nā haʻawina e ʻike nei i ka hopena o nā kiʻi kiʻi kikowaena i loaʻa iā ia ka hopena maikaʻi loa i nā pākeke, a ma nā kāne nui loa; , he mea hoʻokae i ka hoʻopiʻi a hōʻino paha i ka mea nāna ia e pepehi.
Ke aʻo ʻia ʻana nei ʻo USN 2011 o 10- a i 15 mau makahiki ʻelima ma mua o ʻekolu mau makahiki i loaʻa nā hopena like. Ua nīnau ʻia nā keiki 1,200 inā lākou i ʻike i nā waiwai o X-kiʻi, e komo pū i nā mea moekolohe.
"Ke kākoʻo nei kā mākou ʻikepili i kēia hypothesis inā nānā ʻoe i nā keiki e hōʻike ana i ka nānā ʻana i nā mea hoʻoweliweli X-maikaʻi, ʻoi aku ka nui o lākou e hōʻike i ka hana moe kolohe," wahi a Michele L. Ybarra, kahi mea noiʻi me ka Center for Innovative Public Health Research . ^ E Ha yM. "Wahi a nā keiki nāna i hōʻike i ke ʻano kīnā ʻole, like ʻole me ka poʻe i hōʻike ʻole ʻia ʻole i ke kiʻi i ka porn."
Ua ʻike ʻia ka noiʻi ʻana i ka poʻe e nānā ana i ka waiwai kīwaha X-ʻeono i ʻoi aku i ʻeono manawa e hōʻike pono ai i ka hōʻike no ka moe kolohe.
Hōʻike ʻo Jaffe ʻaʻole ʻo ia i pīhoihoi i kēia mau ʻike. "Aia nā pūnaewele i hoʻolaʻa ʻia no ka hana non-consensual sex me nā wahine inu ʻona. Aia nā mākaukau aʻo e pili ana i ka hana ʻana, a pehea e ue ʻia ai, "wahi āna. "Uaʻike wau e ʻoi aku ana ka hana ʻinoʻino aʻe i laila, ke ʻike nei ʻoe i ka hoʻonui ʻana i nā hana moʻo i ke ʻano moeʻuhane."
ʻO ka lolo o kahi ʻōpiopio he wahi kūpono kūpono no ke kiʻi ʻana i nā kiʻi. Ma waena o nā makahiki o 10 a me 15, aia ka lolo o ke kaikamahine ʻōpiopio ma ke kūlana kiʻekiʻe o ka ulu ʻana a me ka ulu ʻana. ʻO kēia nō kekahi manawa ke ʻike mua nei i nā kamaliʻi he nui i nā ponokala. Ua ʻike ʻia nā ʻepekema ʻepekema i ka ʻōpio ʻōpiopio i ka mea like ʻole i ka pākeke - a hiki paha i ka hana ke ʻano pehea e pane ai kā lākou lolo i ka moe kolohe ke noi aku.
I nā makahiki i hala iho nei, ua hana nā kānakaʻepekema i ka nānā ʻana i nā lolo o nā keiki mai ka wā kamaliʻi a hiki i ke 20 e nānā i ka ulu ʻana o ka lolo. No nā makahiki i manaʻo ʻia ka manaʻo koʻikoʻi kēlā - nā ʻāpana noʻonoʻo i ka ʻōpala - ua kolo ʻia i ka wā o ka wā kamaliʻi a emi iki ka haʻahaʻa. Ma kahi o nā scans e hōʻike ana i ke kiʻekiʻe o ka hina hina i ka wā o ka wā'ōpiopio, hāʻawi ʻia i ka lolo elasticity, akā ke hoʻolōʻihi i ka holomua i ka pākeke. ʻO ia no ka mea ulu maikaʻi nā hina hina i kahi o kahi kua i mua o mua me ka pahu o mua e hoʻomohala i hope. He kūpono paha kēia i kēia, ʻoiai he kuleana kēia o ka lolo no nā hana mana, e like me ka hoʻolālā, mālama ʻana i nā hoʻokauwā, ka hoʻoponopono a me ka noʻonoʻo ʻana.
Hōʻike ʻo MRI scins o ka hana'ōpiopio i ka mea hana ikaika i ke kaʻina hana e pili ana i nā pili neural, a no laila ke kumu pākuʻi a me nā mea e hoʻolaʻa i nā ala neural. Manaʻo ʻepekema i ka hana "use-it-or-lost-it" i ka hana ma ʻaneʻi - a ʻo ke ʻano o ka wā ʻōpio i hoʻolilo iā ia i kona mau lā a me nā pō e maopopo ai pehea ka hele ʻana o kona lolo.
Ua loaʻa nō hoʻi i nā ʻōkuhi nā puʻuwai ke hoʻomau ʻia ka lolo o ka ʻōpiopio e nā wahi e pili ana i ka leʻaleʻa a me ka uku, a me ka pane ʻana i ka naʻau, e wehewehe nei i nā makahiki ʻoi aʻe i nā makahiki roller coaster e pili pū ana i ka poperty.
ʻO kēia ʻano līlū e hana nei i loko o ka lolo o ke ʻōpiopio e hiki ke maʻalahi i kahi lure a me nā hopena lōʻihi o nā kiʻi porn, e manaʻoʻiʻo nā ʻepekema.
"Ma ka ʻōpio o nā ʻōpiopio, ke kī ʻole o ka mana ma waena o ka ʻimi ʻana i ka ʻimi o ka lolo, ka laha uku a me ka cortex mua o ka lolo, ka lolo kiʻekiʻe e kāohi i nā hopena a me ka hopena," wahi a Gary Wilson. ka mea nāna i hoʻokumu i ka pūnaewele KuuWaiwai . ^ E Ha yM. "Ke alakaʻi nei kēia i ka makemake e ʻimi i nā leʻaleʻa, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā moekolohe, e like me ka porn porn, ʻaʻohe paʻa ʻole o ia ʻano."
Ua manaʻoʻiʻo ʻo ia inā inā e ʻōpio nā ʻōpio i ko lākou ʻōpio ke nānā aku i nā kiʻi o nā kiʻi, hiki iā lākou ke "hoʻōla" iā lākou iho e pono ai e ala ʻia.
Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Wilson, i nā kuʻekuʻe koʻikoʻi o ka hoʻohana ʻana, i nā ʻōpio a me nā pākeke, ua hana like ka lolo i ka ala like me ka porn e like me nā hana ʻē aʻe.
Eia, ua hōʻole ʻia kekahi mau loiloi e pili ana i ka ʻikepili i ke kiʻi ʻana i ka pili ʻana i ka lawehala. ʻOi aku ka paʻakikī o ka noi ʻana i nā poʻe'ōpiopio e lawelawe, ma muli o ka kumuhana koʻikoʻi.
"He mea paʻakikī ka hana ʻana no ka mea hiki ʻole iā ʻoe ke ʻike maʻa i ka poʻe i lalo o ka ponokala," wahi a Ybarra, ka mea i kī ʻoi i ka nui o ka noiʻi ʻana i ka ʻōpio he mau mea noiʻi i hoʻokele ʻia. "Akā ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī o ka hana no ka mea paʻakikī ka hana o ka poʻe ʻepekema a me nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa a maikaʻi e pili ana i ka pona."
ʻO kekahi mea hoʻohui ʻo ia ke kumu, ʻoiai ke piʻi ʻana o ka ponokala, e iho ʻia nā helu "resmi".
“Noho ka pue wale i kona pae haʻahaʻa i 40 mau makahiki kea i ka lāhui, no nā ʻōpio a me nā mākua. . . ʻoiai i kahi manawa i loaʻa ai ka porn ma nā wahi āpau, "wahi a Christopher J. Ferguson, he loea pili o ka psychology a me ka hoʻoponopono kalaima ma Texas A&M International University.
Ua hana ʻo Ferguson i kahi loiloi meta o nā haʻawina āpau e nānā ana i ka pilina ma waena o ka porn a me ka hoʻouka ʻana a ʻike i nā pilina ʻaʻole hiki ʻole ke hōʻoiaʻiʻo ʻia. "ʻAʻole mākou e ʻike pono i kēlā pili."
Akā ʻo kekahi pilikia ʻo ka wehewehe ʻana o ka lawehala, ʻaʻole i ʻoki ʻia a ʻoki ʻia, wahi a Jensen. ʻO ka ʻike o nā haumāna o ke kula i ka US. ʻO kekahi noiʻi e ka US Justice Department e pili ana i ka hōʻeha ʻana i nā wahine ʻona wahine ʻoiai ʻo 28 no waho o nā haumāna wahine 1,000 a he pōmaikaʻi lākou. Ua hoʻopaʻa ʻia kekahi mau haʻawina e like me ke kiʻekiʻe ma ka ʻehā. ʻOiai ʻo ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa loa ka hewa nui loa i hōʻike ʻia ma ka US, a ʻokoʻa nā ʻano o ka prevalence. Ua ʻike ʻia kahi hoʻokolohua kāne kāne haʻahaʻa kula ua kokoke ka hapaha o lākou ua hana lākou i ka hana hoʻohiwahiwa i kahi lā, e hoʻolilo ana i kā lākou lā e uē ai, a e walaʻau paha.
A ʻo nā kāne a me nā wahine, ʻo kā lākou ʻike i ka mea pili i ka lawehala he mea weliweli nō hoʻi. Ma kahi o 75 pākēneka o nā wahine nāna i ʻike i ka wehewehe kānāwai o ka lawehala, ʻaʻole maopopo lākou iā lākou iho he poʻe i hōʻeha ʻia.
Ma ka hōʻike like pū kekahi, komo kekahi i 12 kāne i hana i nā hana i hoʻokō i ka wehewehe kānāwai i ka moekolohe a i ʻole hana hoʻowalewale, akā 84 pākēneka o lākou ua ʻōlelo lākou i kā lākou hana ʻana "ʻaʻole maoli kolohe."
ʻO kahi hoʻomaopopo e hoʻomau nā poʻe loea i ka holo.
“Inā hōʻike ʻia nā kiʻi o kēia wā i nā hanana i hōʻino ʻia, hoʻowahāwahā a hōʻino wale i nā wahine, pehea lā e pili ai i ka ʻike ʻana o nā poʻe e hōʻino a hoʻokamila ʻia? Ua ulu lākou i ka hana i ke ʻano e hana ʻia ai ke kolohe ʻia i nā makahiki i hala? He mea hiki ke hoʻololi i ka porn i ke ala o maopopo iā mākou i ka huaʻōlelo, "wahi a Jensen.
E like me nā hopena ʻē aʻe o nā pona e pili ana i ka nohona kanaka, ʻōlelo ka hapa nui e kali mākou e kali a ʻike.
"Ke hana nei mākou i nā hoʻokolohua nui loa i ka hanauna o ka poʻe holoʻokoʻa," i ʻōlelo ai ʻo Jensen. "Ke hoʻolaha nei mākou iā lākou i nā pae kiʻekiʻe o kēia pāpā i ke ʻano hypersexualized me ka manaʻo ʻole o ka hopena. ʻO kekahi o nā mea a mākou e ʻike nei i kēia manawa (me kēia mau hihia kīmekē hakakā) e ʻike ʻia nei i kēia. ”
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