Pehea e make ai ka Pilikia i kou Puke ʻana
(Cómo la pumehana a hui i libido: la anorexia sex)
Hiki i nā vixens e hoʻonui i kāu hae akā hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻalele iā ʻoe i ka hapalua-mast me nā wahine ola maoli.
Nui nā kāne i kā lākou 20 i hoʻomaka e nānā i porn i kona wā ʻōpio (ʻoiai ʻoiai 14) a i kēia manawa hoʻopau i ka porn i kēlā me kēia lā i kahi libido haʻahaʻa a i ʻole hiki ʻole ke kiʻi i kahi kikowaena, e like me ka hōʻike i kahi mea pili ma ka Society of Andrology a me Sexual Medicine. hōʻike ʻana o nā kāne 28,000.
Wahi a ANSA lawelawe lawelawe ANSA, ua hāʻawi aku nā mea noiʻi i kahi inoa i ke kūlana: anorexia seksual.
Hele mai kēia me he mea kāhāhā iā Marnia Robinson a me kāna kāne ʻo Gary Wilson, nā mea kākau o ʻO ka pua ʻumi a Cupid: mai mau hana i ka Harmony i ka pilina pili.
Hoʻomaopopo ka male i ka wā i hele aku ai nā kāne me ka libido haʻahaʻa e hōʻikeʻike ana i kahi pūnaewele i holo ai lākou no ka hoʻohui. Ua hana koke ʻo Wilson i ka pūnaewele koubrainonporn.com a ua ʻike i nā "mau haneli a me nā haneli" o nā ʻae forum mai 25 mau wahi hoʻokūkū ʻē aʻe i hana i nā hōʻeha āpau i nā hōʻeha like.
"Loaʻa i nā poʻe ʻōpio ua ulu uʻi nā kelepaʻi o nā wikiō pūnaewele kiʻekiʻe," wahi a Robinson. “I kēia manawa ua hoʻokūkū kēia noiʻi i nā mea a mākou e ʻike ai no nā makahiki - he mau hōʻailona hoʻohiki kēia mau kāne. Ua ʻōlelo ka poʻe loea iā lākou, 'E lawe i kahi Viagra' a me "ʻOi wale kekahi hana hopohopo." ʻIke aku lā ʻoe ʻaʻole loaʻa ka hana kaumaha me kou lima ponoʻī. "
ʻOiai he anecdotal, ua kākoʻo ʻia kā lākou hōʻike e ka American Society of Addiction Medicine hou i ka wehewehe hou ʻana i ka hoʻohui ʻana, i paʻi ʻia ma ʻApelila ʻ stateslelo ʻia nā ʻano āpau e hoʻomaikaʻi ana, ʻaʻole wale nō o nā mea pili, hiki ke lilo i mea hoʻouluulu e pili ana i nā "hana hana."
"ʻO ia ka mea i kapa ʻia he kaʻina hana kaʻina," wahi a David Smith, MD, ka pelekikena o mua i ka American Society of Addiction Medicine a me ka koikoi ʻana o Loaʻa i kāu pahu. ^ E Ha yM. “Hōʻike hōʻike hōʻike i hiki iā ʻoe ke lilo i hoʻohui i ka dopamine a no ka mea ke ʻano e like me ke ʻano o ka porn, ka ʻai, a me ka ke kīwaha i hoʻokuʻu ʻia i nā dopamine hiki iā lākou ke alakaʻi i ka mea pili. ʻO ia ke kumu i hoʻokomo ʻia ai i ka wehewehe hou "
ʻAe ka Pūnaewele no ke kiʻi koke ʻana i ka porn, ka mea e hoʻopili ai ka lolo no kēlā ʻano stimulus ʻike mau, hoʻopaʻapaʻa ʻo Wilson. ʻO nā jack porn hou a mea hou paha i ka hoʻokuʻu ʻia o dopamine akā hiki ke alakaʻi i ka hiki ʻole ke masturbate me ka ʻole o ia, i ʻōlelo ʻo ia.
"No ia mea i ka manawa i hele ai lākou i loko o ka lumi moe me ka wahine maoli a paʻa nā kukui ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke kiʻi i ke ʻano koi a lākou e pono ai a hiki ʻole ke ala aʻe," wahi a Robinson.
Mai hopohopo i ko mākou manaʻo loea. ʻOiai ʻo 87 ka nui o nā kāne i nānā i ka porn i loko o ka makahiki i hala, he hapa liʻiliʻi wale nō o nā kānaka e hele i ka laina i loko o ka hoʻohui. E like me kekahi hana, e makaʻala wale ʻoe inā pilikia ʻoe e pani ana inā he hopena maikaʻi ʻole.
Inā ʻike ʻoe he bona fide sex anorexic, haʻalele i ka turkey anu, ʻāpono ʻo Wilson. "No nā poʻe ʻelemakule ke ʻike nei mākou e pili ana i nā wiki 8 e ho'ōla," wahi a Wilson. "Akā no ka poʻe ʻōpio, nā kāne ma kā lākou 20 e ulu aʻe ana me ka pūnaewele kiʻekiʻe, e nīi aku a ma ka 3 a i 4 mau mahina no ka mea ʻaʻole lākou i lawe i ka wahine maoli a me ka hoʻopā maoli ʻana i ko lākou wā ʻōpio."
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