Hana 'Porn' i nā kāne me ka hopohopo ʻole i loko o kahi moe: Dr Deepak Jumani, Sexologist Dhananjay Gambhire

Hana ka 'Porn' i nā kāne me ka manaʻolana ʻole ma ka moe

Lisa Antao, TNN Ian 5, 2013,

He ʻike maopopo ia ʻo ka hapanui o nā kāne e nānā porn. Akā ʻo ʻoe kekahi o kēlā mau kāne e loaʻa mau i kā lākou mahele lāʻau o ka nānā ʻana i nā mākua ma ka pūnaewele?

A i ka hana ʻana pēlā, ua lilo ʻoe i ʻano kamaʻāina puni honua i ka honua o ka porn? Inā ʻae, a laila hiki iā ʻoe ke hele no ka pilikia, keu hoʻi inā aia ʻoe ma lalo o ka manaʻo o ka nānā ʻana i nā mea a nā poʻe e hana ai i nā wikiō e hiki ai ke hoʻomaikaʻi iā ʻoe i loko o ka ʻeke. Wahi a kahi noiʻi noiʻi, hiki i ka nānā ʻana i ka porn pūnaewele ke hoʻololi i ka hana a nā kāne i loko o ka lumi moe.

ʻO nā hopena o ka haʻawina e'ōlelo ana i kaʻikeʻana i ka porn,ʻo ia ka mea e hōʻeuʻeu ana i nā kāne'ōpio a hiki i ka mea hikiʻole iā lākou ke hauʻoli i ka hana maʻamau. ʻO ka hopena kēia o ka hoʻonāukiuki o dopamine (kahi neurotransmitter e hoʻonāuki i ka hale hoʻokipa ma ka lolo) i ke kumu mau no ka nānāʻana i nā kiʻi pono. I ke kaʻina hana, hoʻokumuʻia kekahi hana hoʻopunipuni kahi e loli ai ka lolo i kona hiki ke pane i nā kūlana maʻamau o ka dopamine ke hoʻohanaʻia ia i kahi kiʻekiʻe o ka dopamine. ʻO keʻano o kēia mau mea, he pono kaʻike o nā poʻe i ka hopena o keʻano e ho'āla ai i ka wahine.

E nānā i ka hihia o Abhinav Varma 31 makahiki (hoʻololi ʻia ka inoa), he loea IT i hoʻopili nui ʻia e nānā porn ma ka pūnaewele a ua male ʻia mai nā makahiki ʻehā i hala. "E like me ka nui o nā kāne maʻamau, nānā pū wau i ka porn mai koʻu wā ʻōpio. Eia nō naʻe, me ka hala ʻana o ka manawa aia ka maʻalahi maʻalahi o nā ʻano porn ma ka pūnaewele e kūpono i nā makemake o kēlā me kēia. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻoi aku koʻu makemake i ka nānā ʻana i ka porn ma mua o ka moekolohe ʻana me kaʻu wahine, ”ʻae ʻo ia. Ke ʻimi nei ʻo Varma a me kāna wahine i ka ʻōlelo aʻo male no ka hopena o kāna hōʻalo i ka nānā ʻana i ka porn.

Ua ʻae ʻo Sexologist Dr Deepak Jumani i ke aʻo ʻana e ʻōlelo ana, "Ua māhuahua ka nui o nā hihia e like me ka makemake nui a me ka pīhoihoi o nā ponokala pūnaewele no ka mea hiki ke loaʻa, hoʻolimalima a inoa ʻole. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, i kēia lā e noho nei mākou i kahi kaiāulu piha i ka moekolohe a ʻike ʻia mākou i nā tona o ka ʻike, a ʻo ka hapa nui i hoʻopunipuni ʻia. " Koho ʻo ia i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni e hōʻemi i ke kālā moekolohe ma ka leʻaleʻa a me ke aloha.

Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Sexologist Dhananjay Gambhire, ka mea i hālāwai pū me nā hihia like ʻole i kāna hana, "ʻO ka mea i hōʻike ʻia ma ka porn ʻaʻole ia he moekolohe maoli. ʻO kēia nā hana e like me ka kiʻi a me ka titillation, a ʻo ka hana like ʻana e hua ai ka nui o ka hōʻoluʻolu a me ka holo pono ʻole. ʻOi loa i nā lā mua, hiki ke hōʻeha loa kēia i nā pilina moekolohe. "

No ka lapaʻau, ua hōʻikeʻo Dr Gambhire i ka hoʻonāukiʻana i ka maʻi,ʻo ia ka nohoʻana mai ka porn. Hoʻopukaʻia nā'ōlelo aʻo a i kekahi manawa lāʻau.