Kuhi ʻia kēia ʻatikala (unuhi Google) ʻekolu mau loea i ʻōlelo he porn ka mea e pilikia ai ka wahine: Socionomen Inger Björklund, psychotherapist ma RFSU Clinic; ʻO Stefan Arver ke kauka nui a me ke poʻo o ke kikowaena no Andrology a me nā lāʻau moekolohe ma ka haukapila ʻo Karolinska University ma Hudding; ʻO Psychiatrist Goran Sedvallson.
ʻOi aku ka nui o nā kāne ʻōpio i ʻeha i ka "maʻi porn." Ma ka pūnaewele, ʻimi lākou i ka poʻe me ka pilikia like. "Ma kahi wale nō wau e nānā nei i ka porn - ʻaʻole me kaʻu kaikamahine," i ʻōlelo ʻia e kekahi o nā mea i hōʻino ʻia.
Hāʻawi ka pūnaewele US Your Brain On Porn i nā kāne e nānā nei i ka nui o nā porn a ʻaʻole hiki ke loaʻa hou kahi kūlana ke hoʻāʻo lākou e moekolohe. ʻO ka nānā ʻana i ka nui o ka ʻai ʻana o nā ponokala kiʻi i ka ʻōnaehana uku o ka lolo a alakaʻi i nā "ʻano kukui" i hoʻopilikia ʻia, ʻo ia hoʻi ʻaʻole hiki i kekahi ke hauʻoli i kahi hoa "maoli".
I kēia manawa, ua hele kēia mau mea i Suetena. Ma ka upena, aia kahi mau manaʻo kūkākūkā kahi i loaʻa ai i nā kaukani kāne he nui, ke'ōpiopio'ōpiopio, ka pilikia o ka hoʻonohonohoʻana i ka wā i ka wā e pili ai. ʻO ka mea maʻamau i nā mea he nui lākou i hana pinepineʻia i ka nānāʻana i ka porn.
ʻO nā haʻawina nīnau a me ka papa'ōpio e hōʻike ana heʻeiwa o nā keiki kāne heʻumi e nānā pono ana i ka porn aʻoi aʻe paha,ʻo ka helu maʻamau no nā wāhine'ōpio heʻekolu a heʻumi. 'Ōlelo pinepine nā kaikamāhine i kā lākou hoʻohanaʻana i nā kiʻi ponoʻole e hōʻoluʻolu ai, nā kāne, akā no ka manawa e hoʻomaha ai iā lākou iho.
Kākau kahi kāne 19 makahiki ma kahi nätsajt ua manaʻo ʻo ia ʻaʻole kekahi mea "kūpono" a ʻimi i ka ʻike no ke aha i hiki ʻole ai iā ia ke kūlana i ka wā ʻo ia me kāna ipo wahine. Ua hauʻoli wale ʻo ia inā nānā ʻo ia i ka porn a me ka masturbated ʻoiai. I ka wā e moe ana kahi wahine ʻōlohelohe i mua ona i kahi moe, ʻaʻohe mea i hana ʻia, ʻaʻole ʻo ia a me ke ʻano holoʻokoʻa i pīhoihoi.
ʻO ka Socionomen Inger Björklund, ka mea kālaihana ma RFSU Clinic ma Stockholm no nā makahikiʻelima, i'ōlelo mai ai he nui nā mau'ōpio a me nā poʻeʻeleʻele i ka loaʻaʻana o nā pilikia kūkuluʻana ma hope o ka nānāʻana i nā porn nui. ʻAʻoleʻo ia a me nā hoa iʻike i ka pilikia porn impotence me kaʻikeʻole i ka pilikia i ka pōʻaiapili.
- Akā me he mea lā ʻaʻole lawa ka ʻoiaʻiʻo e hana i kahi pīhoihoi ikaika. ʻAʻole pili maoli ke "niho" o ke kāne. ʻAʻole kēia he hanana hou, akā loaʻa ka porn o kēia lā a puni ka uaki. ʻO nā kelepona I, nā pale I, nā kamepiula, nā kīwī - i kēlā me kēia manawa a me nā wahi āpau e ʻike ai ʻoe i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni e hoʻonui ana i ka sophisticated, i ʻōlelo ʻo Inger Björklund.
Wahi a ia, hiki i kahi hanana i kekahi manawa ke pili iā ia no nā kumu like ʻole he mea weliweli paha ka launa ʻana me kahi kanaka ʻē aʻe. A laila ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ke ola ʻana i kā lākou moekolohe ma kahi honua moemoeā virtual.
- I ke ola "maoli", ʻoi aku kou maʻalahi. ʻO ka mea e nānā i ka porn ʻaʻole e hoʻokumu i ka pilina i kekahi. No laila, ʻo ka ʻai nui o ka porn e paʻakikī e loaʻa kahi ola maʻamau a me ka maʻamau maʻamau.
Aia kekahi mau pane i kēiaʻano pilikia? ʻAe, paneʻia Inger Björklund. ʻO ka mea nui loa,ʻo ia keʻikeʻana ua hoʻokomoʻoe i nā hana kolohe. ʻO kahi hana mua,ʻo ia ka ho'ākāka ponoʻana i kā lākou hana i pilikia a iʻole kekahi mea āu e makemake ai e loli.
- Inā makemake ʻoe i ke kōkua e wāwahi i ke kumu a hoʻāʻo e ʻike hou i ke ʻano o ka hui pū ʻana me ke kamaʻilio ʻana me he mea lā e loaʻa hou ai kahi ola moekolohe.
Ma kahi pūnaewele pūnaewele e kākau nei i kahi kanaka'ōpio he wahine puʻupaʻa ia a me ka moe koloheʻole a hiki i ka makahiki 18.
Ke makemake ʻo ia e moekolohe no ka manawa mua, ʻaʻole ʻo "piʻi i luna ʻo Willie" a me ka "blåvägrade" i ka nui o kā lākou hoʻāʻo. Ua hoʻomaka ke kanaka ʻōpio e ʻimi i ka ʻike ma ka punaewele. Ma laila ʻo ia i ʻike ai i nā pilikia like. Hoʻomau ʻo ia:
"Ua lilo ia i porn a me ka masturbation e like me ka mea i hewa. Inā ʻoe no kekahi manawa - noʻu heʻeono mau makahiki - hana pinepine i ka hana ʻana i ka lolo me ka porn e pili ana i nā mea i loaʻa i ka dopamine. I nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe, hiki i ke kino ke lilo i kino a pīhoihoi e pili ana iā ia ke nānā aku i ka porn a masturbate i ka manawa like. E moe paha kahi kaikamahine ʻōlohelohe i mua o koʻu wahi moe no lailaʻaʻohe mea, ʻaʻole manaʻo ke kino ua lawa ka pīhoihoi. ”
ʻO Stefan Arver ke kauka nui a me ke poʻo o ka Center for Andrology and Medicine Sexual ma ka Halemai Kula ʻo Karolinska ma Huddinge. Ua lohe ʻo ia i ka hanana o ka "porn impotence" a kekahi e hōʻike nui nei e pili ana i ka moekolohe ma o ka porn a laila lilo ʻo ia i ka hoihoi.
- Hiki iaʻu ke noʻonoʻo i nā kāne ʻōpio i ʻike ʻole i ka moekolohe ke loaʻa i kahi moekolohe keu ke nānā lākou i ka porn nui. E noho i kahi moemoeā me ka ʻole o ka poʻe e ola ana, e like me ka hāʻawi ʻana o ka porn, hiki ke hana i nā mea i manaʻo ʻole ʻia e pili ana i ke ʻano o ke ʻano o ka nohona wahine e hana nei. Hiki iā ia ke alakaʻi i nā pilikia e ʻike i ka pili a me ka palekana me kā lākou hoa, a laila hiki ke alakaʻi i nā pilikia e like me ke kiʻi ʻana i kahi kūlana.
Ma ka haukapila ma Karlskrona, kahi hoʻokipa kūkākūkā maʻamau no 1984. ʻO ka lunaʻo Goran Sedvallson, me kaʻike nui o keʻano kilokilo a me nā mea kālaihana,'ōlelo maiʻo ka mea nānā pono i nā porn pinepine i ka hopena i nā hiʻohiʻona hana hewaʻole.
- Malia paha ʻaʻole hiki i nā kāne ke manaʻo a leʻaleʻa paha ke pili maoli lākou. Paʻi ʻia lākou ma ka honua moʻolelo fiction o nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke lawelawe i ka moekolohe maʻamau i ke ola maoli. ʻIke i kēia ke kumu i nā pilikia no ke kanaka a me ka pilina.
E ulu ka pilikia me ka ikaika ʻole o ka porn, no ka hoʻonui ʻana o ka loaʻa, e manaʻoʻiʻo iā Goran Sedvallson. Ua lawe ʻo ia a me kona mau hoapili ma Karlskrona i ka makahiki i hala e kūʻē i kekahi mau kipa hou he kanalima. Aia nā mea maʻi ma waena o 17 a 80 mau makahiki - a manaʻo lākou he pilikia koʻikoʻi ko lākou me ko lākou moekolohe.
- ʻAʻole i loaʻa iā mākou nā keikikāne ʻōpio a me nā kāne i ʻike i ka "porn impotence." ʻO kaʻu helu ma ka nānā mua ʻana i nā keʻena ʻōpio a me nā mea like - ke ʻimi nei lākou i ke kōkua i nā manawa āpau. No kahi ʻōpio, ʻaʻole maʻalahi ka ʻae ʻana, no ka laʻana, ʻaʻole hiki ke loaʻa iā ʻoe ke hele me kahi kaikamahine.
ʻO Thomas Lerner
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