Ināʻoe e ulu ma ka porn porn e nānā i nāʻano porn a me ka loaʻa kau pono ma luna o ka wahine, ʻaʻole paha ʻoe e pane nui i ka moekolohe me kahi kanaka maoli. Hiki i kēia ke kumu o ka huikau nui. ʻO ka mea hoihoi, ʻo ka poʻe i haʻalele i ka porn pūnaewele ʻike pinepine lākou i ka hoʻi ʻana o kā lākou mau wahi maʻamau, ʻo kēlā me kēia ʻano. I ka pōkole, mai kuhi ʻoe he "asexual" ʻoe a hiki i kou wehe ʻole ʻana i ka porn no kekahi mau mahina. ʻO ka porn o kēia lā ka mana o ka libido haʻahaʻa no ka moekolohe i nā mea hoʻohana he nui (Study pili: ʻIke ʻOihana a me ka Pono i waena o nā ʻIke Pelekane: He Hōʻikeʻike In-Depth, 2017).
Kākoʻo empirical a i ʻole ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka porn e pili ana i ka moe kolohe?
E like me ka makahiki 2020, aia ma luna 110 hoʻopaʻa haʻawina e hoʻopili nei i ka porn a i ʻole porn / moe kolohe i nā moe kolohe, ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa o ka lolo i nā mea hoʻonāukiuki, a me ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa ʻana i ka moekolohe a me ka pilina.. ^ E Ha yM. Ma kahi o nā ka noiʻi, aia i kēia ʻaoʻao kahi ʻatikala a me nā hālāwai ninaninau e pili ana i nā mea ʻike ma mua o 150 (urology professors, urologists, psychiatrist, psychologists, sexologists, MDs) keʻae a ua hoʻokō maikaʻi i ka ED i hoʻokomoʻia i ka porn a me ka poho pūpū o ka moekolohe.
Eia kekahi ma nā loiloi e nānā ana i ka male ʻana o nā kāne kamaliʻi mai nā makahiki 2010 i hōʻike i nā pae moʻaukala o nā moekolohe. Ua kākauʻia ma kēiaʻatikala a ma loko o kēia pepa i nānā 'ia e ka poʻe i hoʻokomo i nā kauka o ka Navy Naʻauaoʻo 7 - ʻO ka PūnaekalaʻIke Pūnaewele ke kumu e hana ai i nā mea pili kino? ʻO kahi hōʻike me nā hōʻike hōʻailona (2016)
Ua hōʻikeʻia nā pālākiho Historical ED: Hoʻoponopono muaʻia keʻano o ka hana'ekeptic i 1940s i ka wā e Ua pau ka'ōlelo a Kinsey ua emi iho ka nui o ED ma lalo o 1% i nā kāne ma lalo o 30 makahiki, ma lalo o 3% ma ia mau 30-45. ʻOiaiʻo ED e pili ana i nā'ōpio'ōpiopio,ʻo kēia 2002 hōʻike i ka hoʻonaʻauao kūpono o 6 kiko kiʻekiʻe ED hōʻikeʻia ka 5 o ka 6 hōʻike i nā uku no ED no nā kāne ma lalo o 40 o 2%. ʻO ka 6th ua hōʻikeʻia nā huahelu o 7-9% i nā huahelu, akā,ʻaʻole i hiki ke hoʻohālikelikeʻia ka nīnau i hoʻohanaʻia me ka 5 mauʻike'ē aʻe, aʻaʻole i helu maʻi pā'ālua honua: "Ua pilikia pahaʻoe i ka mālamaʻana a i ka loaʻa paha o kahi kūkuluʻana i kekahi manawa i ka makahiki hope? ".
Ma ka hopena o ka 2006 free, kahe i nā porn tube i ka laina a loaʻa iā ia ka loiloi pinepine. ʻO kēia ua hoʻololi i keʻano o ka porn hōʻaiʻai maʻamau. No ka manawa mua ma ka moʻaukala, hiki i nā mea nānā ke holomua me ka maʻalahi i loko o kahi noho kūkoko me kaʻole hoʻomaha.
Heʻumi mau papahana i laweʻia mai ka 2010 hōʻike i kahi ala nui o ka hana'electile dysfunctions. Ma nā hoʻonaʻauao 10, nā'āpana hana'āpana o ere ma ka 40 mai 14% a 37%,ʻo ka uku no ke libido liʻiliʻi mai 16% a 37%. Ma waho aʻe o ka hikiʻana o ka porn streaming (2006)ʻaʻoheʻano pilikino e pili ana i ED me ka'ōpiopio i hoʻololi houʻia i nā 10-20 mau makahiki hope loa (ua emi nā wīwī a paʻa, hoʻohanaʻia ka lāʻau lapaʻau,ʻo nā mea he nui ma nā kāne 20-40 wale nō 4% mai ka 1999 - e nānā i kēia loiloi o nā puke). ʻO ka hopena hou i nā pilikia pili i ka wahine e hoʻohui like me ka hoʻolahaʻiaʻana o nā nīnau he nui e pili ana i ka hoʻohanaʻana i ka porn a me ka "porn addiction" i nā moe kolohe a me ke kumu haʻahaʻa i nā hoʻokūkū pilikino.
Eia kekahi mau ʻōlelo hōʻike ponoʻī:
Ma mua o koʻu hoʻomakaʻana i ka nofap, hoʻomanaʻo wau e nānā mau ana i nā kaikamāhine e puni ana iaʻu aʻaʻole loa e mahaloʻia. ʻO nā meaʻoi loa o ka wela ka mea i pili i aʻu, a ua hōʻea wau i kahi wahi e hikiʻole ai i kekahi ke hoʻohuli iaʻu a iʻole e hopu i koʻu manaʻo. Ua hoʻomaka wau e noʻonoʻo wau i ke kolohe aʻaʻohe oʻu makemake i kekahi.
A laila nofap hiki, a ʻike wau i loko o nā makahiki o ka nānā ʻana i loko o nā kaukani he mau kaukani o nā kiʻi a me nā wikiō o nā wahine maikaʻi a maikaʻi ʻole a maikaʻi ʻole, ke hoʻowahāwahā nei wau iaʻu iho i ko lākou nani a nani. Ma hope o ʻelua mau pule ma nofap Me he mea lā ua hoʻomaka koke ka wela ʻana o ke kaikamahine a puni iaʻu. Akā ʻo ia iaʻu ua loli. ʻAʻole pono ia e fap, e nā kāne. ʻAʻole pili ʻia nā wahine maoli i nā hōkū porn, a ʻaʻole loa ia. Mai ʻae e numbed iā ʻoe iho i ka poʻe maoli. ʻO lākou wale nō ka mea hiki ke aloha iā ʻoe. Ua manaʻo wau he'anikani.
I kēia mau lā,ʻike nui au i nā wāhine he nui. ʻAʻole wau e hopohopo nei no nā hemahema hou. Kamahaʻo ia.
Ma mua o ka nofap wau e hōʻino nei i koʻu kūlana / Karma ua hoʻopuniʻia au e nā wāhineʻino, ua kū'ē wau iā lākou, a ua kū'ē nō wau iaʻu iho. Ua hoʻololiʻo NoFap i koʻu ola ma nāʻano he nui.
I kėia lä, ua loaʻa wau i kahi kaikamahine i kuʻi 'ia e kahi kaikamahine i manaʻo mua' ia MEH akā maikaʻiʻo ia, makemake wau i kona mau maka he kanaka nuiʻo ia. ʻAʻole wau eʻimi hou ana i nā kino, heʻano nui kaʻike o ke aloha iaʻu i kēia mau lā! permalink
Ua wehewehe ʻoe iaʻu e ke kāne ... ʻo kaʻu makaʻu makaʻu ʻoiai he wahine maoli ʻole wau i kēia manawa ʻaʻole maopopo iaʻu !! permalink
Ua lilo wau i Porn i meaʻokoʻa ma waho o ka wahine maʻamau. Ua paʻa pono koʻu moekolohe i kahi pale.
ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke hoʻomanaʻo i ka manawa hope loa i makemake loa ai au i kahi wahine i ke ola maoli. Eʻike wau i kekahi mau wahine maikaʻi, akā,ʻaʻole loa ia.
Ua ho'ōki au i ka holoʻana i ka pili, aʻaʻole wau e mālama hou i ka pili maoli. ʻO wau nō he puʻupaʻa,ʻaʻoleʻo ia e hoʻopilikia iaʻu. Ua nele wau i ka makemake no ke kino pili kino.
ʻAʻole aʻu i komo i ka paʻi a me ke aloha i nā makahikiʻeono.
ʻAʻole mālama wau inā ʻike ʻia nā kaikamahine, a i ʻole nā kānaka ma ka laulā. I kēia manawa ke pana aku nei au i nā holomua ma mua iaʻu no ka mea ʻaʻole i hoihoi mai ka nānā ʻana mai ka wahine ʻē.
ʻO ka hapaʻoi aku iʻoi aku nei kaʻu kūlana. ʻO koʻu ola wale nō kēia, a ināʻaʻole he mea'ē aʻe,ʻo ia ka mea. Ua hoʻopōʻino maoliʻo Porn i koʻu lolo.
Ua lilo wau i mea maʻamau i ka hana maʻalahi
Pono pono e manaʻo koʻu mau hoaaloha he kāne male wau no ka mea ʻaneʻane wau e hōʻalo i ka moekolohe me nā wahine no ka mea ʻike wau ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke māʻona iaʻu, ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi o ka hāʻawi ʻana iaʻu i kahi puʻupuʻu. ʻAʻole wau e huli i ka porn Hell, pono wau e noʻonoʻo i kahi kolo fetish pupule e kūkulu i kūkulu i kēia mau lā. Manaʻo ʻolua ʻaʻole e hoʻōla mai ka fapt iaʻu? Ua ʻike anei ʻolua i ka hoʻonui ʻana o ka libido a hiki ke hoʻi i ka wahine vanilla?
ʻO Porn-Induced ED hui pūʻia me kahi pilikino malihini:ʻO ke alanui lōʻihi, akā ho'ōla loaʻia
Kūkū 4 [230 lā]:
Ke nānā nei wau i ka porn no ka manawa lōʻihi ua hoʻopau loa ʻia i kaʻu moekolohe. Me ka ʻole wau he asexual maoli. Makemake wau e hoʻonele iaʻu iho i ka hoʻokalakupua e ʻae ai i kahi "reboot" ... makemake wau e kūkulu i kahi ʻano hou o ka moekolohe, kahi e pili ana i nā wahine maoli a kaʻawale loa mai ka porn.
Ua hana! ʻO kaʻu mea hoihoi i nā wahine maoli i hoʻonui ʻia i nā pae i hiki ʻole ma mua. Mahalo wau i ka nani o, a ʻume ʻia wau i ka mana, i ka laulā o nā wahine ma mua o ka wā ma mua. He aha hou aʻe, ke noʻonoʻo wau a iini paha i ka hoʻokuʻu moekolohe i kēia manawa, he wahine maoli kaʻu e noʻonoʻo nei, ʻaʻole e noho ana i ka kamepiula a e nānā pono ana i ka papakaumaka.
ʻO Bisexual a i ʻole HOCD wale nō (kaʻu ʻike & ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo iā HOCDers)
ʻAʻohe oʻu hoihoi i kekahi kanaka a transgender paha a hiki i koʻu hoʻomaka nui ʻana i PMO. Ua manaʻo wau i kaʻu "gay" mua ma kahi o 18-19 a ma ia manawa ua 7 mau makahiki i loko o kaʻu hana kolohe .. A laila manaʻo wau he kāne ʻole wau ma hope o ka bisexual a me 100% gay no kekahi mau pule, hehena, manaʻo wau ua mau nō ia a hiki i kahi mau mahina i hala! HOCD maoli a kolohe kēia PMO āpau me kāu kemika lolo. Kaua iā ia. He mau mahina a mau makahiki paha kā mākou e ola ai, akā he waiwai ia.
Makemake wau e like me ka moekolohe
ʻO kāna ʻano hoʻohenehene, akā kupaianaha i ka nui o ka porn i make i koʻu ʻiʻo maoli a i ʻole ka ʻike i ka moekolohe. Paheʻe wau i kēia manawa, akā manaʻo wau he hana maoli i ka ʻimi ʻana i ka makemake a me ka ʻike ʻana i koʻu kino ma mua o kahi ʻike hoʻokaʻawale ʻē. I kekahi lā aʻe aia kahi AMA e kahi mea hoʻolaha pūnaewele porn a like me kahi pupule ua kaomi wau i ka loulou i hāʻawi ʻia. Akā i koʻu hiki ʻana i laila ua hoʻololi koke nā manaʻo mua o ka hoʻowalewale i 'no fucking thank you!'
Ke holo nei nā mea maikaʻi, ʻaʻole wau i kaumaha hou kahi o ka mea hauʻoli loa a haʻaheo hoʻi. ʻO ke kaumaha loa kekahi mea paʻakikī i koʻu ola a kaumaha loa e noʻonoʻo ʻo ia ka hopena o ka masturbation. Ma muli o ka nalowale ʻana o koʻu kaumaha ua loaʻa iaʻu kahi manaʻo pilikino hou aʻe i kēlā me kēia lā, ʻike wau i kuʻu mau wāwae e kū paʻa ana ma ka honua.
Ma hope o ka pauʻana o ka puʻuwai,ʻaʻole aʻu mau pilikia nui ma koʻu ola, akā, he pōpilikia,ʻo ia ka hopena hōʻeha. Hele mai ia i nā nalu. I kekahi manawa,ʻaʻohe oʻuʻano hoʻonāukiuki a ke manaʻo nei au he hui wikixual au, akā, ke hele mai nei ia e like me ke kai eʻe e puhi nei i koʻu mau manaʻo i waho a mālama iaʻu e pili ana i nā wāhine. A laila, kēia hopena a pau e pili ana i nā moe eʻino maoli: Ke moe nei wau no ka porn a i kekahi manawa uaʻano like koʻu mau moe. I koʻu alaʻana, ua pilikia wau no ke koena o ka lā, ke kuhi nei au iaʻu iho ua pale wau,ʻoiai inā eʻike wau he mea moe wale nō ia.
ʻO kēlā, ʻo kaʻu mau moeʻuhane wale nō ka mea paʻa ʻole i koʻu ola. Ua kāohi piha koʻu ʻano, piha i kaʻu mau koi. Makemake wau e hoʻomaikaʻi aku i hoʻokahi fapstronaut i paipai i kahi ʻano maikaʻi no ka hakakā ʻana i nā koi. ʻO wai kona inoa? ʻO ke ʻano Buddhist? ʻAʻole wau ʻike hou, akā wehewehe wale ʻia i ka manawa e loaʻa ai ka ʻiʻini i kekahi mea, ʻaʻohe mea - he porn, masturbation a i ʻole meaʻai meaʻai a i ʻole ʻāpana kokoleka, e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe. No laila no ka mea ke noʻonoʻo ʻoe e pili ana i ka porn e kuhikuhi i kou mau manaʻo i ka noho pū ʻana me kahi kaikamahine, cuddling, aloha ...
Maikaʻi loa kaʻu pmo / ed manaʻo wau he kāne ʻole wau no kekahi mau makahiki. ʻAʻole wau i aloha nui ʻia i nā wahine i ke ola maoli no ka mea loaʻa iaʻu nā hotties āpau aʻu i makemake ai e hoʻohaʻahaʻa iā lākou iho iaʻu ma ka pūnaewele. ʻOiai ʻaʻole wau i hoihoi i nā wahine maoli aia wau i loko o kekahi ʻano purgatory, kahi aʻu e pili ana i ka moekolohe wale nō ka mea i maopopo. A laila ua hana kekahi mea a ala wau i kekahi lā a haʻi aku ʻAʻole pono kēia e loli, makemake au i kahi hoa i koʻu ola, makemake wau i kahi wahine e aloha a aloha ʻia, makemake wau e lilo i mea kūikawā no kekahi, aʻo ia naʻu. Mai ia manawa ua hui wau i kaʻu SO a ʻoi aku koʻu hauʻoli ma mua o kaʻu.
Ua hoʻohana au i ka manaʻo e hiki iaʻu ke lilo i wahine
Akā i ka pō nei, mahalo iā NoFap, makemake nui wau i kahi hoaaloha naʻu. He kaikamahine maikaʻi akā maʻalahi ʻo ia. ʻOiai, ʻo ka mea pili i ka naʻau me ka ikaika o ka moekolohe i hana ʻia iaʻu - no kekahi o nā manawa mua i koʻu ola - makemake i kekahi ma ka lumi like. ʻAʻole wau he horny no ka ʻohana, makemake wau e ʻike i kona kino a ʻoluʻolu iā ia. Ua aʻo mai ʻo Porn iaʻu i ka ʻumeʻume i ka hiʻohiʻona hiʻohiʻona o ka moekolohe, akā i kēia manawa ʻike wau i ke ʻano o ka ʻiʻini no ka paʻi a me ka pili. Makemake nui wau e hoʻomau i kēia ʻano, no laila ʻaʻole pono wau e hana. ʻO wai me aʻu?!
Makahiki 22 - Hoʻōla ʻia ʻo ED: Ua manaʻo wau he asexual, disfunctional, ʻōpala o ke kanaka wau.
Ua hoʻomaka wau e hoʻokipa i nā kaikamahine no kaʻoiaʻiʻo!
Ke hele nei wau e like me ka lōʻihi a hiki iaʻu ke hoʻomanaʻo. A ʻaʻohe hoihoi wau i nā kaikamahine i ke kuʻuna a me ke ʻike ʻana i ka masturbation i kōkua iaʻu i ka wehewehe ʻana i nā mea aʻu e ʻike ai i ka maikaʻi o nā kūlana kūlohelohe.
Mau nō koʻu makemake i ke ʻano o kahi wahine wahine (ma o ka ʻehā-wahine, ʻokoʻa loa ʻo ia ka mea i ʻike ʻia ma o ka media) akā, ʻo nā ʻano ʻokoʻa a pau loa i ʻike ʻia e ka mea leole i hoʻopiʻi ʻole iaʻu. No laila ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke lawe iaʻu iho e nānā i nā kiʻi o nā mea i wehe ʻia e ka undergarment. Ua manoanoa loa.
ʻAʻole loa wau iʻoluʻolu mai, aiʻole hoʻi i ka paʻiʻana i kekahi. He mau kiʻiʻo DeviantArt a me nā kiʻi kiʻi kiʻi Google. ʻAʻohe meaʻoiaʻiʻo. ʻAʻole loa he kanaka maoli, ma ka pakuhi aiʻoleʻole.
I kēia manawa,ʻo wauʻo kuʻu Pihola Viitala o kuʻu mele kaulana loa. Ke hoʻomaka wau e hauʻoli i nā manaʻo liʻiliʻi liʻiliʻi e pili ana i nā wāhine a ua hoʻomaka wau e noʻonoʻo i nā manaʻo o ka honiʻana i kekahi ma nā lehelehe a me ka paʻaʻana iā lākou.
He meaʻokoʻa iaʻu. ʻO kēia mau mea aʻuʻaʻole wau e noʻonoʻo mua i kēia manawa, akā i kēia manawaʻo wau 1/2 a hiki i ka 90 Days, e like me kaʻu eʻike nei i ka mea maʻamau i ka pilina, ke kāne, a me ka mare. Ke hoʻomaka nei wau eʻoliʻoli i nā mea iʻikeʻia e nā mea'ē aʻe i nā kānaka. He hōʻailona o ka ho'ōlaʻana, a ua paʻa wau i ka nānāʻana i ka hopena.
I ka poʻe oʻoukou e'ōlelo ana, "Hell ē, e ka hoahānau! E mālama iā ia! "Hoʻolālā wau e hele i ka hala o ka hōʻailona 90 Day i kaʻOkakopa 15th a hala ka hala o ka lā 180 ma Ianuali 13th. No ke aha e makemake ai wau e hoʻihoʻi i ka pō?
ʻImi hui mākou? Hiki iā māua ke nīnau maʻaʻole?
ʻIke paha ʻolua i ka asexual? Aia wau i loko o ka moku like a no kekahi mau makahiki. Ua noʻonoʻo wau a noʻonoʻo mau nō naʻe ʻaʻole pili nā kaikamahine iaʻu a pili i kaʻu mau kūlana, no laila ke hōʻoia nei kēia i koʻu noho male ʻole ʻana a me ka hele ʻana i nā kaikamahine e hoʻohālikelike nei i nā kāne ʻē aʻe aʻu e kamaʻilio pinepine ai. He mau nīnau. He 14 mau lā ia i ka wā i wehe ʻia a wehe hou ʻia kāu mau maka "kūlohelohe" i ka nani maoli o ka maoli, maoli, i kēlā me kēia lā a puni ʻoe i ka nani? He kūlana maʻamau kou kūlana o kēia manawa?
Ua hala nā lā 7 naʻu (he lā hoʻomaha koʻu badge). Ke hopohopo nei wau i kēia manawa ke hāpai nei wau i ka nani o nā wahine a puni iaʻu ma ʻō aku o ka hana maoli no ka mea ua huhū wau a makemake nui i ka porn pūnaewele a hiki ke hāʻawi i kaʻu ʻono ʻike. ʻO ka mea ʻoi loa ka maikaʻi ʻole o nā kaikamahine ʻoniʻoni a me nā kiʻi 3D. He kaikamahine maoli nā kaikamahine ʻōpio ʻaʻole anei? ʻAʻole paha mākou e launa me lākou, akā me ka webcam a me nā ʻenehana ʻē aʻe, paʻakikī paʻakikī e manaʻoʻiʻo ʻaʻole pili nā wahine i nā hōkū porn i hoʻopaʻa ʻia a i ʻole nā hōkū porn pili ʻole nā wahine maoli.
ʻO kaʻu kumu i ka hopena o NoFapʻaʻole i loaʻa i nā kaikamahine. He makemake maoli i nā kaikamāhine.
No laila i nā manawa āpau aʻu PMOing makaʻu nui wau i nā kaikamahine. ʻAʻole wau i makemake e hoʻāʻo a kokoke i kahi kaikamahine. Ua waiwai nui wau i koʻu kaʻawale. ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi kaikamahine ʻaʻole ka pahuhopu nui. Akā ke hele maoli wau ma NoFap, hoʻomaka wau e ʻike i nā kaikamahine he nui aʻu i makemake ʻole ai ma mua.
ʻO wau nei,ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua hoʻololi maoliʻia koʻu mau manaʻo a me koʻu hilinaʻi.
ʻO ka hoihoi i nā wahine "maoli" ke hoʻomaka nei e hoʻi.
I kekahi manawa ma hope, ua noi au pehea ka lōʻihi o ka "reboot" mai ka hoʻohana ʻana iā Anime / Hentai.
https://www.reddit.com/r/pornfree/comments/bac0kc/rantconfession_i_feel_like_animehentai_might_have/
ʻO ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka Porn i hana ʻole a make i nā wahine ola maoli. Maʻemaʻe au no 46 mau lā, a i kēia manawa ua kū kekahi mea kupaianaha. I kēia lā, ua ʻike au i kekahi wahine uʻi e ʻaʻahu ana i nā kapa, a hoihoi wau iā ia. E noʻonoʻo i kēlā. Me he mea lā ua hoʻomaka wau e hou hou.
Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi pilikia me Anime a i ʻole Hentai, mai haʻalele i ka manaʻolana. E noho ʻo PornFree, a aʻo kou lolo e ʻike i ka nani o ka wahine maoli ke nānā aku.
Porn porno a iʻole ka pili wale i ka wahine?
No laila, he hou wau i ka kolamu a manaʻo wau ke ʻeha nei wau i ka aneane o nā ʻōuli o kahi ED i hoʻokomo ʻia i ka porn e wehewehe ʻia nei ma kāubrainonporn.com. He mau makahiki 19 wau a aneane hiki iaʻu ke paʻakikī ma o ka pale. ʻAʻole wau i moe kolohe a nānā wau i ka porn mai koʻu wā 12 a 13 paha. Kēia ʻApelila / e hoʻomaka paha wau i nā pilikia me EDs, a e like me kaʻu i ʻōlelo ai ma kahi o ka pale e kūkulu mau ai wau i nā manawa āpau.
Eia nō naʻe, ma mua o kaʻu hoʻomaka ʻana i kaʻu mau pilikia ED, hiki iaʻu ke aloha i nā kaikamahine a i ʻole ʻono maikaʻi iā lākou. ʻAʻole ia i hele i kahi ʻē, akā hiki iaʻu ke loaʻa nā manaʻo no lākou. Ua hoʻokaʻawale mau wau i loko o koʻu lolo ma waena o ke aloha a me ka moekolohe, a ke noʻonoʻo nei wau inā paha e huli wau i ka asexual a i ʻole ke kāne male (ʻoiai ʻaʻole wau i ʻike i ka moe kolohe) a i ʻole kekahi kumu kino e like me ka nele o testosterone a mea ʻē aʻe.
I koʻu lohe e pili ana i ka "pālahalaha" nui koʻu ʻoluʻolu, no ka mea ʻo ia nō koʻu ʻano i kēia manawa (ʻaʻole wau i nānā i ka porn i hoʻokahi pule wale nō a manaʻo wau e make ana wau i ka moekolohe), ʻaʻole naʻe wau e maopopo. Ke ʻimi nei au i kekahi i loaʻa nā ʻike like.
Ke hele nei au i ka hoʻohenehene a iʻole kekahi mea?
Aloha hoa. He kāne aloha wau a ʻike ia mai ka wā o 5 mau makahiki. Manaʻo wau ʻaʻole ʻoe e "hoʻohuli i ke kāne" ma 19. Ma hea ʻoe ma ka pālau Kinsey ʻo kou pilikia i kēia manawa ʻo PIED a me ka porn. No laila, aia ʻoe ma kahi kūpono – aloha. He ʻoihana ʻino ʻo Porn a no kekahi o mākou i ka hala ʻana o ka manawa pono mākou e ʻimi i nā mea hou aʻe e ʻike i ka haʻalele. Ua komo paha ʻoe i loko o ka porn pīpeku - Ua ʻaʻa wau i ka porn pololei no kekahi manawa. Akā ʻaʻole ia ma kahi hea mākou e makemake ai – e hana wale i ka hardmode hou a hoʻi hou a hoʻi hou ʻoe i kou wahi. Kani paha he hihia koʻikoʻi kou no laila e hele ma ia 100%. Ua hoʻomaka mua ʻoe e aʻo i nā mea āpau i hiki a hoʻomanawanui. Laki maikaʻi. E aʻo ma kāubrainonporn.com
ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu inā he asexual wale wau a inā he porn kolohe kaʻu
Manaʻo wau he moe kolohe wau, a ʻaʻole makemake wau e lilo, no ka mea ʻoiai ke kāne a kaikamahine paha e hoʻomaka wau e launa, e haʻalele lākou iaʻu no ka makemake ʻole i ka moekolohe. Ma muli o ka lā i piʻi aʻe ai kaʻu pīpī, ua hoʻomaka wau i ka masturbating i ka porn. ʻO porn pū kekahi. ʻAʻole hoʻokahi manawa aʻu i hāʻawi ai i kahi manawa kūpono e noʻonoʻo e pili ana iaʻu i kēia kūlana. ʻAʻole wau i manaʻo makemake wau, ʻoiaʻiʻo. ʻOiai hoʻi i kēlā manawa, E ʻōlelo i 4 mau mahina ma hope o kaʻu hoʻomaka ʻana i kaʻu binging o ka porn no hoʻokahi hola a ʻoi paha i ka manawa e ʻimi ai i ka moekolohe, manaʻo wau ua hoʻopuni ʻia wau.
Ua aloha wau i kahi kaikamahine, akā ua ʻike wau i ka porn gay i ka wā e nani ana. A ʻoiai wau he boromantic, ua hoʻopilikia ʻia iaʻu ʻaʻole i kūlike. I kēia manawa ma hope o kekahi mau makahiki o ka binging porn no ka mea maikaʻi ia iaʻu, ʻaʻole wau i ʻike i koʻu ʻano e pili ana i ka poʻe maoli. ʻAʻohe oʻu aloha SINCE i kēlā kaikamahine i kēlā manawa, a ʻaʻole wau i ʻike a hoʻomaopopo ʻole i kekahi mea ke ʻike maka ʻia kaʻu mau hoa ma luna o kahi kaikamahine. I nā manawa maʻamau loa e hoihoi wau i kahi mea aʻu e ʻike ai, he kāne mau, akā ʻaʻole ia i kākoʻo ʻia. No ke aha hoʻi wau e makaʻu nei e nānā i nā malihini kolohe e like me kēlā. Akā ʻike wau i kaʻu nele i kahi kalaiwa e moe kolohe me nā poʻe maoli weliweli, no ka mea, he drive paha kaʻu e nānā ai i ka porn inā ʻaʻole wau e hana ia i kēlā me kēia mau lā.
Hoʻopilikia paha wau? ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu inā wale nō kēia no aʻa a no ka mea ua make wau. E ʻoluʻolu mai ʻae iaʻu e ace, e ka honua. He aha kaʻu e hana ai i kēia? Piʻi wale kaʻu pīpī i ka porn! ʻAʻohe mea maoli e wili! ʻAʻohe aʻu crushes i ka poʻe maoli, akā ʻike wau hiki iaʻu ke hiki. Pehea wau e ʻike ai i kēia? Pono wau e haʻalele i ka hoʻonāukiuki ʻana iaʻu iho me nā mea āpau a mau loa aku? A ʻo ka mea nui loa, he aʻa a maʻi wale paha wau me ka porn? Makemake au e maʻamau a makemake i ka moekolohe me nā kānaka maoli e like me nā mea ʻē aʻe!
Ua like me aʻu ka hanana like. I ka loaʻa ʻana o kaʻu ʻike ED mua a haki me kaʻu ipo wahine mua, ua hoʻomaka wau e noʻonoʻo he kāne a moekolohe paha wau. Hoʻomaopopo wau, ʻaʻohe oʻu manaʻo i ka mea hewa iaʻu, ua hopohopo wau, ke uē nei wau i hoʻokahi manawa no kēia. ʻIke wale wau i ka ʻole, kahi mea maʻamau ʻole.
A laila, i koʻu nānā 'ana i ka' ike e pili ana i koʻu pilikia, ua aʻo au e pili ana i ka hoʻomana porn a me NoFap. ʻAʻohe aʻu manawa'ē aʻe, no laila, ua kū wau i ka nānāʻana i ka porn a me ka pākīkī. A laila, no ka loaʻaʻana o ka hornier, ua hoʻolālā wau i ka HOCD, kahi hopohopo i ka loaʻaʻana o kahi pilina'ē aʻe. Ua makau nui wau i hiki ai iaʻu ke lilo i kane mare; ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke kamaʻilio me nā kānaka'ē aʻe, e nānā iā lākou i nā maka. He mea weliweli loa ia, no laila ua nānā pinepine au i ka porn e nānā inā loaʻa iaʻu nā wāhine aʻaʻole paha. He hopena pauʻole ia no ka HOCD, a laila ua aʻo wau ināʻaʻoleʻoe e haʻalele i ka makaʻu, e nalowale.
No laila like wau, ʻaʻohe oʻu nānā, inā ʻume wau i nā kāne, no laila, ʻaʻole wau e hana i kekahi mea pili iā lākou. No laila ua nānā wale wau i koʻu makaʻu, a laila uhaʻi wau i ke kaapuni.
ʻOi mua mau 2 mau makahiki i hālāwai ai au me kekahi kaikamahine, ua aloha, ua hana nui mākou, ua hoʻolālāʻia i nā manawa a pau, loaʻa ka libido nui a me nā hana ikaika a mau loa. Ma mua o kēlā, ua haʻalele wau i ka porn a me ka hoʻolāʻau i nā mahina.
No laila ua huli he kāne heterosexual maʻamau wau.
Minamina ua hoʻi hou wau i nā mahina 3 i hala iho nei, akā ʻike wau e maikaʻi wau ma hope. E haʻalele i ka porn mau loa.
ʻLelo aku wau iā ʻoe i ka mea like, e uhaʻi wale i ke kaapuni, mai fap no e like me 3 mau mahina a mai nānā pono i ka porn. Mai manaʻoʻiʻo i kou manaʻo; inā makaʻu ʻoe i ka asexual, ʻaʻole paha ʻoe. Ua maikaʻi nā asexuals maoli me kā lākou moekolohe.
Pytwd
Hmmm…. ʻOiai ʻaʻole wau i ʻike i ka manaʻo asexual i ke kekelē like aʻu i ʻike iki ai i kēlā mau lā, akā pili loa wau i ka huikau ma waena o nā kaikamahine a me nā kāne. ʻO wau nō ka ala like i hoʻomaka i ka moemoeā a me ka porn, noʻu nei wale wau i nā kaikamahine i ke ola maoli, akā, a i ke ʻano o ke kino huli kou poʻo e ʻumeʻume nui wau i nā wahine i kēlā me kēia lā. Ua ʻike maoli wau i ka porn shemale ma hope a ua ʻike wau he mea maikaʻi iki ia ma waena o nā kaikamahine a me nā mea ʻimi a loaʻa nā kaikamahine i ke ola maoli.
Me ka huli nui ʻia e nā kaikamahine ts i ka manawa mua aʻu i hoʻopili ai i kahi mea hiki ʻole iaʻu ke ala aʻe, he mea ʻē akā ʻaʻole naʻe hana ʻia. Pono wau e koho, akā ma hope ua ʻoluʻolu wau a hoʻomaka nā mea e hana. Ma mua o ia manawa ʻaʻohe oʻu ʻano moemoeā kūlohelohe i kiʻi iaʻu, ʻo nā mea āpau aʻu i ʻike ai ka porn aʻu e nānā nei ... .a laila ma hope o koʻu hoʻomaka ʻana i ka moekolohe i ke ola a laila ua hiki iaʻu ke moemoeā e pili ana i nā kuʻina wahine kahiko a ʻike paha i nā wahine i lehulehu a ma hope e moemoeā e pili ana iā lākou.
Manaʻo wau he mea nui ka ʻike, inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i pili i ka moekolohe maoli he mea maikaʻi ia e noho ma hea ʻoe ... akā manaʻo wau e hele i ka porn aia kahi manawa kūpono i kāu male ʻole. Ua manaʻo wau i ka manawa he kāne ʻole ʻaʻole wau makemake i ka porn.
huahelu
Ua loaʻa iaʻu kekahi pilikia like. ʻAʻole au i heluhelu i nā pane a pau, akā e haʻi wau iāʻoe e pili ana i koʻu mauʻike.
ʻEkolu a ʻekolu a me ka hapa makahiki i hala aku nei, ua aʻo wau e pili ana i nā pilikia i loaʻa mai ka nānā ʻana (ʻoi loa) porn. I kēlā manawa, loaʻa iaʻu nā pilikia HOCD, e like me ka wehewehe ʻana a ke koa0306. Ua hopohopo nui wau e pili ana i kaʻu moekolohe, no ka mea ʻaʻole wau i maopopo he aha kaʻu wahine. ʻAʻohe aʻu mea i kūʻē i ka moekolohe, akā ke aʻo nei e ʻae he wahine paha wau ma hope o nā makahiki o ka pololei a me ka noʻonoʻo (ʻike) he pololei wau, makaʻu loa wau i ka makaʻu ʻole.
Eia naʻe, ua hana wau i ka haʻalele ʻana i ka porn mai ia manawa a ua loaʻa hou ka pōmaikaʻi me ka manawa. Ua pornfree wau no nā manawa he nui ma kahi o hoʻokahi haneli mau lā a e like me kāu e ʻike ai, ke kokoke nei wau i ka māka helu ʻekolu.
I kēia manawa, ua eo wau i ka hapa nui o kaʻu mau insecurities e pili ana inā he homosexual paha wau. ʻO kaʻu hopena ʻaʻole wau he homosexual, akā ʻaʻole maopopo iaʻu inā pololei a ʻaʻohe asexual wau.
ʻO ka hoihoi o kaʻu wahine i ka wahine. No ka hapa nui o koʻu mau lā nānā porn, ʻaʻole wau i makemake e nānā i nā kāne i loko o lākou no ka mea makemake wau e nānā i nā wahine. ʻO koʻu hoihoi i nā wahine maoli i hele a i ʻole i loko o kaʻu mau lā nānā porn, no ka mea paha ua nānā wau i ka porn a masturbated i kēlā me kēia lā.
Eia nō naʻe, mai ka hana ʻana i koʻu hoʻōla hou ʻana, aia kekahi mau manawa i kiʻekiʻe ai koʻu hoihoi i nā wahine a me ka wahine, kahi i loaʻa iaʻu ka manaʻo ua ikaika wau i ka moekolohe i nā wahine. Akā aia kekahi mau manawa i ʻike wau i ka asexual a manaʻo ʻole ʻole e pili ana i ka moekolohe a i ʻole asexual wau. ʻAʻole nō wau i maopopo piha, akā ʻōlelo koʻu mau manaʻo i kēia manawa he pololei a moekolohe wau.
I ke aʻo ʻana i ka moekolohe, ua ʻike wau aia ʻaneʻane he kakini o nā lepili e kūpono i ka sprectrum asexual. Aia he asexuals, hina-moe kolohe, demi-moekolohe, a moekolohe. Aia kekahi poʻe a-aloha, demi-pilialoha, homo-pilialoha, aloha pālua a me ka aloha hetero. A laila nānā ʻole wau i ka poʻe i ʻike i ka ʻike kāne a me nā mea āpau, no ka mea ʻaʻole wau i ʻike i nā mea āpau e pili ana i kēlā wahi o ka moekolohe a me ka ʻike kāne.
E kala mai no kēia moʻolelo lōʻihi, akā ʻo ka mea e iho ai ʻo ia ka mea aʻe. ʻAʻole hiki iā mākou ke haʻi iā ʻoe i kāu moekolohe. ʻO ka mea hiki ke aʻo e pili ana iā ʻoe wale nō. Akā hiki i nā moʻolelo e like me aʻu a me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe ke kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo i kāu hana a me nā kaʻina noʻonoʻo, i ʻike ai ʻoe i ka pane pololei iā ʻoe iho.
Malia paha he asexual ʻoe, bisexual, homosexual a heterosexual paha. Maliʻa paha he moe kolohe ʻoe, akā ʻāhinahina ʻoe a i ʻole demi-moekolohe (nānā i luna inā ʻaʻole ʻoe ʻike he aha ia). A malia paha ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake i ka moekolohe, akā like me ka hoʻokalakupua. Malia paha ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake i ka moekolohe, akā makemake ʻoe i kahi pilina aloha (me kekahi wahine a kāne paha).
Eia naʻe, haʻalele i ka porn a ka palenaʻana i kāu masturbation ka mea maikaʻi loa e hiki ai iāʻoe ke hana i ka hōʻeha i kou lolo a e aʻo hou e pili ana i kāu moekolohe maoli. Hiki paha i kekahi manawa ma mua o ka loaʻaʻana o nā pane, akā e ho'āʻo e hōʻoia i kou kūlana a hoʻonui iāʻoe mai kēia wahi aku.
Hiki ke nani ke ola e like me kou ʻae ʻana. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe i ka moekolohe, i kahi hoa (a i ʻole ke kālā he nui no ka mea e waiwai ai) e loaʻa kahi ola maikaʻi. Pono ʻoe e hana i nā mea āu e leʻaleʻa ai.
ʻOi aku ka nui:
E mālama i nā tausani o ka hōʻoiaʻana i nā manaʻo pilikino e aʻo ai i nā mea e hana hoʻihoʻi mai kaʻikeʻana i nā moekolohe hōʻeuʻeu porn: Hoʻopiʻi hou i ka 1 mau huahelu, Hoʻopiʻi hou i ka 2 mau huahelu a Hoʻopili hou i kaʻaoʻao 3 palapala. Eia kekahi, he 'ewalu mauʻaoʻao i loko o nā moʻolelo lōʻihi e wehewehe ana ke ola mai nā hana kīwī wahine: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8.
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