ʻO wai nā māhele male-sex i nā ao?
ʻO kēia ka mea hoʻopuka maikaʻi loa Masturbation, Fantasy and Captivity. Hoʻomaka kēlā pou me kā Leonard Shlain MD ʻike ʻana ʻaʻole holoholona e pīpī me ka ikaika a me ka pinepine ʻana o ka ejaculation o nā kāne kāne, a hoʻopau ʻia me ke kākoʻo mōʻaukala no ka manaʻo o kēia ʻano maʻamau o kēia lā. ikaika e lilo i mea hana e pili ana i ko kākou mauʻano nohona o kēia manawa ma mua o ka nohona kanaka maʻamau.
I kēia manawa ua ʻike ʻia pili paha ka ʻōlelo a Shlain i ka WEIRD. I ka makahiki i hala, Ke Kulanui o Cambridge Nā Behavioral a me nā Haumana paʻi i kahi loiloi: “ʻO ka poʻe kaʻiliʻili ma ka honua nei?"Ua kuhikuhi aku nā mea kākau i ka hana pinepine ʻana o ka poʻe ʻepekema i nā kuleana e pili ana i ka lawena kanaka - me ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā laʻana i huki ʻia a aneane loa mai nā kaiāulu Komohana, Hoʻonohonoho ʻIke, ʻIkeʻImi, Rich, a me Kemokalaka (WEIRD). Loaʻa 96% o nā kumuhana i hōʻike ʻia ka hana ma nā puke pai psychological kiʻekiʻe i huki ʻia mai 12% wale nō o ko ka honua heluna kanaka.
No nā kumu kūpono, nā haumāna i ʻimi pinepine ʻia he haumāna o ke kulanui o ke Komohana, i hoʻopiha ʻia i nā ʻano atypical radical i hoʻohālikelike ʻia me ke koena o nā laha. No laila, "ʻAʻole ia he mea kupanaha no ka ʻano ʻē o ko lākou honua psychological." (pp. 79-80)
ʻOiaʻiʻo, kekahi mea hoʻonaʻauao Ua ʻōlelo ʻo wryly i kahi acronym ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi no nā kumuhana haumāna he MYOPICS: Materialist, Young, Self-obsessed, ʻimi ʻoliʻoli, Hoʻokaʻawale ʻia, Consumerist, a me Sedentary. I kona manaʻo, e pili ana i nā mea āpau i hiki i nā haumāna ke hōʻike he "he aha keʻano o nā kānaka ke hoʻopau loaʻia lākou mai nā pilikia maʻamau maʻamau. [Kikoʻī:] ka nihilism piha a me ka ʻole o ka kaohi ke hoʻomaha nā kaohi maʻamau i ka hana a ke kanaka a me ka hoʻoholo ʻana. ”
ʻOiai nā lālā o nā kaiāulu WEIRD i waena o ka poʻe i koho nui ʻole ʻia no ka hoʻolaha ʻana e pili ana i ke kanaka, ua ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo nā mea kākau o ka loiloi, "Pono mākou e liʻiliʻi liʻiliʻi i ka pane ʻana i nā nīnau o ke ʻano kanaka ma ke kumu o ka ʻikepili i huki ʻia mai kēia kikoʻī kikoʻī, a ʻano ʻē. ʻāpana o ke kanaka. "
Me kēia kuanaʻike i loko o ka noʻonoʻo, e noʻonoʻo hou i ka mea a mākou e manaʻo ai ʻike e pili ana i kā mākou hana maʻamau a pinepine pinepine. Ua kuhikuhi ʻo Anthropologists Hewlett lāua ʻo Hewlett,
Hāʻawi ka puke moʻomeheu kanaka kanaka Euro-ʻAmelika i ka manaʻo i ke kāne a me ka wahine ... maʻamau ka masturbation inā ʻaʻole ke kanaka āpau, i kahi ʻāpana, ma muli o ka hilinaʻi ʻana i kekahi mau ʻōnaehana ʻōnaehana a me nā kikoʻī i mālama ʻia i loko o [WEIRD] aupuni mokuʻāina. Ua ʻōlelo ʻia kahi puke aʻo kula kanaka e pili ana i ka moekolohe kanaka, "he hana maʻamau ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ma waena o nā ʻōpio, a ʻo ka hapa nui o ka poʻe e masturbate i kekahi manawa i ko lākou ola."
Eia naʻe, e like me nā palapala Hewletts ma kā lākou 2010 like,ʻO nā'ōlohelohe moe kolohe, e like me kā mākou hana kuʻuna maʻamau, he mea maʻamau ia ma nāʻano kuʻuna maʻamau. Ua hōʻeaʻo Hewletts i kēia hopena ma kahi haʻawina ma o ka heluheluʻana i ka moe kolohe o nā lāhui likeʻole oʻAmelika. Ua kāhāhā nui lākou i kaʻikeʻanaʻaʻole iʻike ka Aka a me ka poʻeʻo Ngāndu i ka hana kuʻuna:
Ua ʻakaʻaka lākou i ko mākou hoʻāʻo ʻana e wehewehe a wehewehe i nā hana moekolohe. Ua manaʻo mākou he hilahila a hilahila paha lākou, akā ʻaʻole ia he hiʻohiʻona no ke Aka a mākou i ʻike lōʻihi ai. …
Ua paʻakikī ke ho'ākākaʻana i ka hoʻonāukiukiʻana i ka Aka. Uaʻike lākou he mea kūlanaʻole a'ōleloʻia paha e hiki loa ana ia i kahi mamao aku ma Congo, akā,ʻaʻole lākou iʻike. ʻAʻole i loaʻa kahi hua'ōlelo no laila. Ua noi mākou i nā kāne, e pili ana i ka masturbating ma mua o ko lākou male ʻana a i ʻole i ka wā kapu kapu ma hope o ka partum a hōʻike ʻia ʻaʻole hiki kēia. … [Hoʻonui ʻia ka manaʻo nui]
He mea kākaʻikahi ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ma nā wahi nahele ʻē aʻe. Ua nīnau mākou iā Robert Bailey… e pili ana i kāna mau ʻike i ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e hōʻiliʻili i ka moʻo no nā haʻawina momona o nā kāne ʻo Lese i ka nahele Ituri o ka Lepupalika Kemokalaka o Kongo. Ua hōʻike ʻo ia he paʻakikī loa e wehewehe i nā kāne pehea e selfstimulate e loaʻa ai nā hāpana semen. Ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia me nā ʻōlelo akāka a lōʻihi hoʻi ʻekolu o ʻehā mau semenā i hele mai i ona lā i hui pū ʻia me nā huna wahine. pp. 113-114
I ka nānāʻana i nā kuʻuna moʻomeheu,'ōleloʻo Hewetts e hōʻikeʻia nā hiʻohiʻona āpau o nā pilina kanaka e pili ana i nā pono a me nā mea nui o nā hiʻohiʻona hiʻonaʻoʻAmelika Huipūliʻi (Hawaiian-American) ma mua o nā lāhui. (E nānā i kahi moʻolelo e pili ana i Aka.)
Inā he akahele e makaʻala i ka hoʻolaha ʻana e pili ana i ka hana o ka masturbation ponoʻī, malia paha e ʻoi aku ka makaʻala i ke koi ʻana i ka masturbation i kekahi ikaika o ka stimulate a me nā pinepine ejaculation pinepine. He mea maʻamau paha ia no ka subpopulation o ka WEIRD e masturbate me piʻi pinepine ma lalo o ka mana o ka puke a me ka porn pūnaewele hyperstimulate pūnaewele i kēia lā. Eia naʻe he mea ʻokoʻa ka hana pinepine pinepine ʻana i ka pōʻaiapili nui o ka nohona kanaka.
Mahalo, ma laila is kahi lawelawe WEIRD ho'ākāka 'ana no ka "makemake moekolohe," akā ʻaʻole lohe kekahi. Hoihoi paha? ʻO “7 a ʻoi paha orgasms / hebedoma no ma ka liʻiliʻi 6 mau mahina ma hope o ka makahiki 15.”
He mea pono ke hoʻomaopopo ʻia, me ka nānā ʻole i kahi o WEIRD sexologists e hoʻonoho ai i ka pā no ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa maʻamau, ʻo kāna pinepine pinepine kahi pahuhopu neʻe wikiwiki. ʻO ke kūkākūkā moekolohe ʻo Ian Kerner i koho koke ʻia nei e hōʻeuʻeu ana nā kāne 50 i ka 500 nuiʻoi aʻe ma mua o ko lākou makemakeʻole i ka porn pūnaewele-me ka hopena o ke keʻena moe. ʻO mākou kekahi, lohe i ka nui o nā keiki i hiki i kēia wā ia wale nō kahi kūkulu i ka masturbating i ka porn porn.
He mea maikaʻi paha ke aʻo iā mākou iho e pili ana i ke koena o ka hana masturbation o ka honua? Ke kuhikuhi nei i ka ola o kahi ākea ākea o ka moe kolohe a me ka hilahila ʻole i kekahi. Inā mākou i ʻike iā mākou iho e kūʻē i ke kāʻei kua o ka piha piha o ka hana maʻamau a ke kanaka, e ʻike paha mākou i ke kumu o nā pilikia e kupu mai ana ma ka ʻoi. ʻO ka ʻike ākea paha, e paipai i ka poʻe e hoʻokolohua me nā koho i ʻoi aku ka waiwai iā lākou — me ka noʻonoʻo ʻole he ʻano ʻē.
Ua haʻi aku kekahi lālā o ka hālāwai i kēia mau loulou pili:
- http://www.slate.com/articles/health_and_science/science/2011/10/ahmadinejad_s_assertion_about_gays_in_iran_isn_t_that_crazy_afte.html
- https://web.archive.org/web/20170703053221/http://huntgatherlove.com/content/sexy-sexless-culture
- http://www.guardian.co.uk/society/2005/jun/15/childrensservices.familyandrelationships
- https://pragmasynesi.wordpress.com/2009/04/28/secrets-of-the-phallus-why-is-the-penis-shaped-like-that/
(2020) No ke aha lā mākou i Weird ma ke komohana? He Kumumanaʻo
KA KĀNĀWAI MA KA KĀLAI
ʻO ka poʻe kāne o kaʻAka'Akerika Aka kaʻohana maikaʻi loa ma ka honua nei?
ʻOiai ʻimi nā wahine, nānā nā kāne i nā pēpē - e ʻae pū lākou iā lākou e omo i kā lākou nipples Nīnau ʻo Joanna Moorhead i ke kākāʻōlelo, ʻo Barry Hewlett, no ke aha he ʻano ʻē ka poʻe makua ʻole ke Aka
He nīnau ia i hoʻohui iā Aristotle, ʻo Darwin a me kuʻu makahiki he ʻekolu i ka haʻihaʻi: he aha nā nipples kāne na lākou? I kēia pule, ua pane mai ke aloha Makua Pono me kahi pane, me ka ʻoluʻolu o kekahi noiʻi i loaʻa e pili ana i kahi ʻohana nomadic o nā mea ʻimi holoholona ʻĀpapa. ʻO ka pane, me he mea lā, ʻo kaʻu mea ʻekolu makahiki (a ʻo Darwin, kūpono) i manaʻo ʻia a puni: aia nā nipples kāne ma ke ʻano he kū no ka wā ʻaʻole kokoke kahi makuahine a aia kahi bambino e ʻino nei. pono o kahi mea e omo.
A i kou noʻonoʻoʻana no ke aha, no ke aha iʻole ai? Heʻoiaʻiʻo, he'ōne kāne kāne, akā, no ka mea e pili ana i ka meaʻai, e hāʻawi mai i kahi manaʻo maikaʻi e hoʻonaniʻia ma mua, ma ka'ōlelo, he kānalua.
Pēlā nō ia i ka manaʻo o Professor Barry Hewlett, kahi anthropologist ʻAmelika ʻo ia ke kanaka mua i ʻike i ka hānai kāne ʻana i waena o nā poʻe Aka Pygmy o ʻApelika Waena (ka heluna heluna kanaka ma kahi o 20,000) ma hope o kona hoʻoholo ʻana e noho pū me lākou no ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i ke ala o ke ola pili loa. I ka manawa āna i ʻike ai i ka hānai ʻia o nā pēpē e ko lākou makuakāne, ʻaʻole ia he mea kupaianaha nui loa, akā naʻe, inā paha ua ʻike ʻo ia e hana ana ia i loko o ka lumi hānai waiū ma Mothercare ma Manchester.
No ka mea ma ia manawa ua ʻike ʻo Hewlett, i ka wā e pili ana i ka makua egalitary makua, ua luku nā Aka - i kapa iā lākou iho he poʻe o ka ululāʻau - i kekahi mea ʻē aʻe āna i aʻo ai i nā lima. Wahi a ka ʻike i hoʻomaka ʻo ia e hōʻiliʻili ma mua o ʻelua mau makahiki i hala aku nei, hiki i nā makuakāne Aka ke loaʻa i kā lākou pēpē 47% o ka manawa - ʻoi aku ia ma mua o nā makuakāne i nā hui moʻomeheu ʻē aʻe ma ka honua, no laila ke kumu i hoʻoholo ai ʻo Fathers Direct e dub. ka Aka "nā mākua maikaʻi loa ma ka honua".
ʻO ka mea hoihoi e pili ana i ka Aka, ʻo ka hana a ke kāne a me ka wahine ke hoʻololi like ʻia. ʻOiai ʻimi nā wahine, noʻonoʻo nā kāne i nā keiki; ʻoiai e kuke nā kāne, hoʻoholo nā wahine i kahi e hoʻonohonoho ai i kahi hoʻomoana aʻe. A ʻo ka ʻaoʻao ʻē: a aia i kēia versa versa, wahi a Hewlett, ke wahaheʻe nei ka manaʻo nui maoli. "Aia he mahele moekolohe o ka hana ma ke kaiāulu Aka - ʻo nā wahine, no ka laʻana, ʻo ia nā mea mālama mua," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. “Akā, a he mea koʻikoʻi kēia, aia kahi pae o ka maʻalahi i ʻike ʻole ʻia i kā mākou kaiāulu. E paheʻe nā makuakāne Aka i nā hana i maʻa mau ʻia e nā makuahine me ka noʻonoʻo ʻole ʻole a me ka ʻole, ʻo ka mea nui, o ka nalo ʻana o ke kūlana - ʻaʻohe stigma e pili ana i nā hana like ʻole. "
ʻO kahi hiʻohiʻona riveting o ke ola Aka ʻaʻole nā wahine e like me ka hiki i kā lākou mau kāne ke ʻimi, akā ʻoi aku ka mākaukau o kekahi manawa ma ke ʻano he poʻe ʻimi holoholona. Ma mua o kēia, ua manaʻo ʻia, ma muli o ka hana a nā wahine ma ke ʻano he mea lawe lima a kahu o ka ʻōpio, ʻo ka hopu holoholona ka mea i mālama ʻia ma ke ʻano he kāne ma ke ao holoʻokoʻa: akā i loko o hoʻokahi noiʻi ua ʻike ʻo Hewlett i kahi wahine i alualu ʻia i loko o ka walu o ka mahina o kona hāpai ʻana a hoʻi mai ma hana me kāna ʻupena a me kāna mau ihe i hoʻokahi mahina wale nō ma hope o ka hānau ʻana. Ua hele pū kekahi mau makuahine e ʻimi holoholona me kā lākou mau keiki hānau hou i kāʻei ʻia i ko lākou mau ʻaoʻao, ʻoiai ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o kā lākou mea pio, ka duiker (kahi ʻano antelope), hiki ke lilo i holoholona weliweli.
Inā like ia me he paradaiso wahine lā, auwē, ʻūlū i ka moʻolelo: Ua ʻike ʻo Hewlett, ʻoiai nā hana a me nā hoʻoholo ʻana e kaʻana like ʻia nā hana, aia kahi pā kīʻaha Aka. ʻO nā hana kiʻekiʻe i ka lāhui e hele mau i nā kāne: ʻo ka kombeti (alakaʻi), ka tuma (ka mea ʻimi holoholona ʻelepani) a ʻo ka nganga (luna kiʻekiʻe) ma ke kaiāulu āna i aʻo ai he kāne āpau. Akā ʻaʻole ia e hōʻemi, wahi a ia, mai kā lākou makana nui ma ke ʻano he kahu mālama i ka ʻohana makua: a ʻaʻole hoʻi, ʻaʻole ia e hōʻemi i ka hopena o ka leka i manaʻo ʻo ia ka poʻe Aka no nā kāne ma ke komohana e hakakā nei e loaʻa ke kaulike ma waena o nā koi o ka hana, hana home, hoʻokō ponoʻī ʻana a me ka hānai ʻana i nā keiki.
"ʻO ke kuhi e pili ana i ke Aka," wahi a Hewlett, "ʻo ka hana nui a nā mākua kāne he hoʻokahi wale nō ʻano o kā lākou hoʻokokoke ʻana i ke ola, a ʻo ia ke ʻano e like me nā mea āpau e hiki ai iā mākou ke aʻo mai. Hoʻokahi mea koʻikoʻi i ka hānai ʻana o ka ʻōpio ka mea nui i hoʻokau ʻia ma ka pili kino: ma kahi o ʻekolu mau mahina, pili pinepine ka pēpē i kekahi o kona mau mākua a i ʻole me kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe. ʻAʻohe mea e like me kahi moe moe ma kahi hoʻomoana Aka no ka mea ʻaʻole i lohe mua ʻia no ka haʻalele ʻana o nā kāne ʻelua i kā lākou pēpē e moe ʻole ana - mālama ʻia nā pēpē i nā manawa āpau. ʻAʻohe paha nā makuakāne Aka i ke kū i lalo i kā lākou mea like o ka hale inu me kahi keiki i pili i ko lākou umauma (a i ʻole ko lākou nipple); ʻo ka tita Aka, ka waina pāma, ʻoluʻolu pinepine ʻia e kahi hui kāne me kā lākou pēpē i ko lākou mau lima.
He mamao loa ia mai ke komohana a, wahi a Hewlett, ʻo ka mea mua a nā makuakāne e noʻonoʻo ai no ka nele o ka manawa a me ka pili kino ʻana a lākou me kā lākou mau keiki ʻōpio. "Aia kahi manaʻo nui i loko o kā mākou kaiāulu ʻaʻole hiki i nā makuakāne ke noho a puni a pono ʻoe e hāʻawi i ka manawa nui me kāu keiki akā hiki iā ʻoe ke kau i kēlā kuleana ma o ka loaʻa ʻana o ka manawa maikaʻi me lākou ma kahi o," wahi āna. “Akā ma hope o ka noho ʻana me ka Aka, ua hoʻomaka wau e kānalua i ka naʻauao o ia laina. Me he mea lā iaʻu ʻo ka mea a nā makuakāne e pono ai he manawa ʻoi aku ka nui me kā lākou poʻe keiki, a pono lākou e hoʻopaʻa iā lākou ma mua o kā lākou hana i kēia manawa. Nui nā hāʻawi maikaʻi i hiki i nā makuakāne ke hana i ka hāpai ʻana i kā lākou keiki, akā ʻaʻole pono mākou e hoʻowahāwahā i ka nui o ka hoʻopā a me nā pelekikena. ”
ʻO kēia kekahi o nā haʻawina nui a ka Aka i lawe mai ai i ko Hewlett ʻike ponoʻī no ka makua, ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia: he makuakāne ʻo ia no ʻehiku mau keiki, ma waena o 13 a 22 mau makahiki, a ua hoʻololi ʻo ia i kona ola a me kāna ʻoihana no laila hiki iā ia ke puni i ka wā e ulu ana i luna. ʻLelo ʻo ia ua lilo kāna mau aʻo ʻana i ka Aka iā ia i mea e paulele ai a kaʻana like ai i kahi makuakāne (ʻelua mau ʻano i loaʻa i ka Aka.
ʻO kekahi haʻawina a ka Aka iā mākou - a no mākou āpau kēia, nā makuahine a me nā makuakāne - e pili ana i ka waiwai o nā keiki, a me ka laki o kā mākou loaʻa iā lākou i ko mākou ola. Inā maikaʻi iki paha ia, ʻo ia ke kumu e pono ai mākou e hoʻolohe: ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, wahi a Hewlett, ua hele hewa mākou i ka manaʻo he kaumaha ka mākou keiki ma mua o ka hoʻomaikaʻi a ʻo ia kahi mea a ka Aka i hana ʻole ai. “I ke Aka, ʻo kāu mau keiki ka waiwai nui o kou ola. ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻomaopopo ʻia ka manaʻo o ke keiki ma ke ʻano he ukana ma laila ... ʻo nā keiki ka ikaika, ka ikaika ola o ke kaiāulu. ” ʻO kahi ʻōlelo mai kahi ʻohana ʻē aʻe āna i aʻo ai, ʻo ka Fulani, hōʻuluʻulu i ka manaʻo: ʻōlelo lākou ua laki ʻoe inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi mea e hoʻomāinoino iā ʻoe.
Akā hoʻi i kēlā hānai hānai kāne: Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Jack O'Sullivan o Makua Kuhina ua kono ʻia ʻo ia ma ka hōʻike kūkākūkā ma hope o ke kūkā kamaʻilio ʻana ma ka Pōʻakahi ma hope o ka hōʻike e hele ana i ka lehulehu, a kū i mua o kahi hui o ka weliweli, ka pīhoihoi a me ke kākoʻo. "Ua kelepona kekahi mau makuakāne e ʻōlelo lākou e ʻae lākou i kā lākou keiki e omo i kā lākou nipples - pinepine ka manawa i ka wā e moe ana ka pēpē ma ko lākou umauma i kahi moe," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. Akā hoʻowahāwahā kekahi poʻe: ʻo nā huaʻōlelo "hoʻomāinoino keiki" i piʻi aʻe ma mua o hoʻokahi manawa, kahi e kuhikuhi ai i nā ʻokoʻa moʻomeheu hoihoi ke manaʻo ʻoe, i ka poʻe Aka, ʻo ka hapa nui o ke ala a mākou e hānai ai i kā mākou keiki e helu ʻia he keiki hoʻomāinoino iā lākou (pēpē. waiho ʻia e hiamoe hoʻokahi i kahi lumi ʻokoʻa mai ko lākou mau mākua, no ka laʻana).
No ʻO'Sullivan, he mea kaumaha ka neg negatie i ka hōʻike Aka i kuhikuhi i ka awkwardness mau e pili ana i ka pilina ma waena o nā makuakāne a me kā lākou pēpē: ʻoiai he lehulehu loa ka pilina makuahine a me nā keiki, a ke hoʻoleʻaleʻa ʻia nei ka pilina o ka makuakāne a me ke keiki. a hopohopo, ʻoiai ka hoʻonui ʻia o nā hōʻike e hōʻike ana, ke loaʻa ka manawa kūpono, hiki i nā makuakāne ke pane i kā lākou pēpē ma ke ʻano he makuahine i ka heluhelu ʻana i kā lākou hōʻailona a kamaʻilio pū me lākou. I kahi pōkole, wahi a ʻO'Sullivan, makaʻu nā kāne i ka pilina me nā pēpē a me nā keiki liʻiliʻi - a ʻo ka nānā hou ʻana paha i kēlā makaʻu, e pili ana i ka ʻike Aka, he hana pono a hoʻokuʻu hoʻi i ke kāne.
· ʻO Barry Hewlett ka mea kākau o Hunter-gatherer Childhoods (Aldine Transaction).
E ʻike pū -
- Nānā: He mea hoʻoulu i ke kumuhana pinepine i kahi mea hanana?
- mai ka Ka Hale Moʻolelo o ka Lākiu Hana - Hoʻopiliʻia ka masturbation me ka hoʻoponopono āpau a me ka hoʻoponoponoʻana o ka Prostate: Kupanaha ma Quinsey (2012)
- Hoʻoponopono i nā mea hōʻailona o ka Masturbation Adult - E noʻonoʻo hou i kēia mau kaʻao mele kaulana ʻelima e pili ana i ka moekolohe
KA MANAʻO: ʻAʻole'ōleloʻo YBOP i ka hanaʻinoʻana iāʻoe. ʻO ka hana waleʻana i ka heluʻana he nui wale nā lawelawe olakino i kapaʻia koi ia e pili ana me ka hoʻoholo a me ka hoʻonāukiuki paha, pili i ka pilina pili me kekahi kanaka'ē aʻe,ʻaʻole i ka pākiki / masturbation. Ma keʻano hou aku,'ōleloʻia nā hoʻoponoponoʻana ma waena o kekahi mau mea ola olakino a me ka orgasm (inā heʻoiaʻiʻo) paha nā hoʻoponopono wale nō i loaʻa mai i nā kānaka olakino e komo maoli i ka moekolohe a me ka masturbation. ʻAʻole lākou he kumu. Nā haʻawina kūpono:
Nā Huakaʻi Ola Ola Loa o nā Hana Hana (2010) uaʻikeʻia he pilina pili ka pili pili i nā hopena maikaʻi, akāʻo ka masturbationʻaʻole. I kekahi mauʻano, piliʻole ka pilina pili i nā pono pilikino -ʻo ia hoʻi,ʻoi aku ka masturbation e pili ana me nā hōʻailona ola kino. ʻO ka hopena o ka loiloi:
"Ma muli o nāʻano hana likeʻole, nā hōʻailona, a me nā ana,ʻikeʻia nā hopena o ka noiʻi no ka hōʻikeʻana i kēlā hana moekolohe (Penile-Vaginal Intercourse a me ka pane hoʻoholo a me ka hopena) e pili ana, a ma kekahi mau kumu, me ka maikaʻi o ka hoʻonaʻauao 'ana a me ke kino. "
"ʻO kekahi mau hanaʻokoʻa (e like me ka pilikia o Penile-Vaginal Intercourse, e like me ka condom a me ka hoʻokaʻawaleʻana i nā maʻi penile-vaginal)ʻaʻole iʻole, aiʻole ma kekahi mau mea (e like me ka masturbation a me ka anal koʻikoʻi) i pili pū me kaʻoihana hoʻonaʻauao a me kaʻoihana maikaʻi . "
"Ke olakino, ka hoʻonaʻauao kāne, ka hoʻouluʻana i ka wahine, a me ka noiʻi kāne e hoʻokaʻaʻike i nā kiko'ī o nā pono olakino ma kahi hui kūpono o Penile-Vaginal Intercourse.
E nānā pū i kēia hoʻoponopono hou o ka masturbation a me nā hewa kino: Hoʻopiliʻia ka masturbation me ka hoʻoponopono āpau a me ka hoʻoponoponoʻana o ka Prostate: Kupanaha ma Quinsey (2012)
He paʻakikī ke hoʻolaulea i ka ʻike i ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ka naʻau me nā mea i loaʻa i nā kāne ʻelua e pili ana ka pinepine o ka pinepine i ka pinepine me nā ʻōuli depressive (Cyranowski et al., 2004; Frohlich & Meston, 2002; Hust & Edwards, 1976), emi ka hauʻoli (Das , 2007), a me kekahi mau hōʻailona ʻē aʻe o ke olakino olakino olakino a me ka noʻonoʻo, e pili pū ana me nā ʻano hopohopo hopohopo (Costa & Brody, 2011), nā ʻano hana pale psychological ʻole, ʻoi aku ka nui o ke kaomi o ke koko i ke koʻikoʻi, a me ka hōʻoluʻolu ʻole me ke olakino noʻonoʻo a me ke ola maʻamau. no ka loiloi, e nānā iā Brody, 2010). He paʻakikī like ia e ʻike ai i ka ulu ʻana o ka pīhoihoi i ka moekolohe, ke pili pinepine ʻia ka pinepine pinepine me ka hana moekolohe ma nā kāne (Brody & Costa, 2009; Das, Parish, & Laumann, 2009; Gerressu, Mercer, Graham, Wellings, & Johnson, 2008; Lau, Wang, Cheng, & Yang, 2005; Nutter & Condron, 1985) a me nā wahine (Brody & Costa, 2009; Das et al., 2009; Gerressu et al., 2008; Lau, Cheng, Wang, & Yang, 2006; Shaeer, Shaeer, & Shaeer, 2012; Weiss & Brody, 2009). Pili pū ka pinepine ʻoi aku ka nui o ka masturbation me nā pilina a me ke aloha liʻiliʻi no nā hoa (Brody, 2010; Brody & Costa, 2009). Ma ka hoʻohālikelike, pili pili mau ʻo PVI i ke olakino ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi (Brody, 2010; Brody & Costa, 2009; Brody & Weiss, 2011; Costa & Brody, 2011, 2012), ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka moekolohe (Brody & Costa, 2009; Brody & Weiss, 2011; Nutter & Condron, 1983, 1985; Weiss & Brody, 2009), a me ke ʻano pilina maikaʻi ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi (Brody, 2010; Brody & Costa, 2009; Brody & Weiss, 2011).
Eia kekahi,ʻo ka mea piliʻole i ka maʻi no ka maʻi prostate e pili ana me ka nui o nā mea e hoʻopilikiaʻia (me kaʻole o nā hōʻailona o ka moekolohe) (Giles et al., 2003) [E hoʻomaopopo i nā hōʻike hakakā, eia naʻe: “Hiki ke hoʻohuiʻia ka maʻi diastate i nā hormones wahine:ʻO nā kāne iʻoi aku ke kolohe i ko lākou mau 20s a me 30s hiki iā lākou ke piʻi i kaʻoi aku o ka nui o ka maʻi no ka maʻi prostate, hōʻikeʻia nā noiʻi.. "], ʻo ia ke alapine ʻo PVI e pili pono ana me ka hoʻemi ʻia o ka makaʻu, akā ʻo ka pinepine pinepine o ka masturbation e pili pinepine me ka hoʻonui ʻana i ka makaʻu (no ka loiloi e pili ana i ke kumuhana, e ʻike iā Brody, 2010). Ma kēia mea, hoihoi e hoʻomaopopo i ka pili pū ʻana o ka masturbation me nā pilikia ʻē aʻe o ka prostate (ʻoi aku ka kiʻekiʻe o nā antigen kikoʻī a me nā prostate pehu a palupalu paha) a, hoʻohālikelike ʻia me ka ejaculate i loaʻa mai iā PVI, ʻo ka ejaculate i loaʻa mai i ka masturbation nā māka o ka hana prostatic ʻilihune a me ka hoʻopau liʻiliʻi ʻana i nā huahana ʻōpala (Brody, 2010). ʻO ka moe kolohe wale nō e pili mau ana i ka olakino maikaʻi a me ke olakino maikaʻi ʻo ia ʻo PVI. Ma ka hoʻohālikelike, pili pinepine ka masturbation me nā ʻikepili o ke olakino maikaʻi ʻole (Brody, 2010; Brody & Costa, 2009; Brody & Weiss, 2011; Costa & Brody, 2011, 2012). Nui a hewahewa paha nā ʻano hana psychological, a he hopena paha ia o ke koho kūlohelohe e makemake nei i nā kaʻina olakino ma ke kumu a me / a i ʻole ka hopena o ka hoʻoikaika e ʻimi, a me ka hiki ke loaʻa a leʻaleʻa, PVI. I ka hoʻohālikelike ʻana, ʻo ke koho ʻana i nā ʻano hana psychobiological e uku nei i ka hoʻonāukiuki ʻana i ka masturbate ma muli o ke kumu kūʻai o ke olakino koʻikoʻi e kū ana inā pale ʻia ia mai ka PVI ma o ka lilo ʻana i mea pili ʻole no ke olakino (Brody, 2010). ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi, hōʻike ka masturbation i kekahi hemahema o nā ʻano hana o ka hoʻokamakama kolohe a me ka pilina pili, akā maʻamau paha ia, a inā ʻaʻole maʻamau pinepine ʻia me ke komo ʻana i ka PVI. Ma kēia mea, pono e hoʻomaopopo ʻia e pili ana ka pinepine o ka pinepine masturbation me ka ʻoluʻolu ʻole me nā ʻano o ke ola kūʻokoʻa o ke alapine PVI (Brody & Costa, 2009) a me he mea lā e hōʻemi ana i kekahi mau pono o PVI (Brody, 2010).
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"No laila, pehea ka hauʻoli o nā mea pane i hana hou i ka hana hou ʻana ke hoʻohālikelike ʻia me ka poʻe ʻaʻole? Hōʻike ka helu 5 i waena o kēlā mau mea pane e hōʻike ana he "hauʻoli loa" me ko lākou ola i kēia mau lā, 68 pākēneka o nā wahine a me 84 pākēneka o nā kāne i ʻōlelo ua hana hoʻomakee lākou i loko o ka pule i hala. ʻO ka hui haʻahaʻa me ka hauʻoli ʻole e ʻike ʻia i waena o nā kāne, ʻaʻole naʻe nā wahine. ʻAʻole hōʻike kā mākou kiko i ka hōʻoluʻolu o ka masturbation i ka poʻe. Maliʻa ia, akā ʻaʻole ʻae ʻia ke ʻano ʻāpana o ka ʻikepili iā mākou e loiloi i kēia. Eia nō naʻe, he pololei empirically e ʻōlelo i nā kāne e koi nei he hauʻoli lākou i kahi manawa kūpono ʻole e hōʻike i ka masturbating ma mua o nā kāne hauʻoli ʻole. "
"Pili pū ka mastastation me ka hōʻike ʻana i nā manaʻo no ka lawa ʻole a makaʻu paha i ka pilina a me nā pilikia i ka hoʻokele kūleʻa ʻana i ka pilina kanaka. ʻO nā masturbators o ka pule i hala a me ka pule i hala aku nei e hōʻike i nā helu pālākiō pilina ʻoi aku ka nui ma mua o nā mea pane i hōʻike ʻole i ka masturbating i ka lā i hala a i ʻole ka pule i hala. Hōʻike nā masturbators o ka pule i hala a me ka pule i hala i nā helu pālua hopohopo pili pilina ma mua o ka poʻe pane i hōʻike ʻole i ka masturbating i ka lā i hala a i ʻole ka pule i hala.
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