Gary Wilson tsa lo lus nug nrog nws phau ntawv Koj lub paj hlwb ntawm Porn txog cov teeb meem ntawm porn hauv internet hnub nyoog. Tus xib fwb yav tas los uas yog tus xib fwb qhia kev tshawb fawb thiab nws muab tag nrho cov txiaj ntsim ntawm nws phau ntawv YBOP mus rau kev siab hlub. Nrog lub koom haum Utah tsim kom muaj kev cai lij choj uas yuav tso cai rau cov tib neeg kom foob qhov kev lag luam loj rau kev puas tsuaj zoo xws li luam yeeb. Cov pov thawj pom tseeb tias porn muaj peev xwm muaj teeb meem loj heev.
Yuav ua li cas inspired koj mus tshawb nrhiav kev liab qab?
Ntawd yog khib nqe lus nug (luag). Kuv yog ib qho kev ua kom lub cev, lub hlwb, tus kws qhia kev kho mob thiab nws tau pib txog li kaum rau xyoo dhau los thaum kuv tau ntsib kuv tus poj niam. Nws muaj lub vev xaib thiab nws yog hais txog kev sib raug zoo. Kuv pib tshawb xyuas ntxiv mus rau lub neurobiology ntawm kev hlub thiab kev ua kom sib deev thiab kev sib deev thiab peb muab ntau xyoo cov lus ntawm nws lub vev xaib uas muaj cov ntsiab lus zoo li kev sib deev, ejaculation, orgasam, dopamine quav vim kev quav yeeb tshuaj ua rau cov kev paub txog kev hlub thiab ua kom sib haum ntawm. Yog li txog 2006 cov txiv neej no tau pib tshwm sim ntawm nws lub rooj sab laj thiab lub rooj sib tham no tsis muaj dab tsi ua rau porn lossis quav thiab kuv tus poj niam zoo li “koj ua dab tsi ntawm no” thiab lawv tau pib tshaj tawm “hey kuv dick tsis ua haujlwm koj puas xav tias yuav muaj qee yam ua nrog porn. " Ob peb xyoos tom qab ntawd nws yog lub vev xaib porn. Txog xyoo 2011 Kuv tau ua ib qhov chaw cais, tau ua Tedx Tham. Nws yog ib qho ntawm cov khoom uas kuv xav tau tsis muaj dab tsi tab sis nws yog qhov sib txawv loj ntawm kev tshawb fawb thiab tib neeg tau ntsib nrog cov kev tsis zoo ntawm kev siv porn. Peb pom coob leej neeg raug kev txom nyem thiab xav muab cov ntaub ntawv rau lawv.
Dab tsi yog qee qhov tsis zoo ntawm kev siv porn?
Kuv xav tias nws sab zoo nkauj. Saib ntawm koj tus Dads Playboy uas kuv tau ua rau me ntsis teebmeem, tiam sis saib cov neeg tiag tiag muaj kev sib deev thiab muaj peev xwm mus nyem qhov yees duab rau video thiab nws cov hardcore tam sim no thiab ua li ntawd rau xyoo ua ntej koj thawj kev hnia los yog kev sib deev sib ntsib rau qhov sib txawv hauv tib neeg keeb kwm no tsis tau soj ntsuam nrog saib duab liab qab. Yog tias koj xav txog cov teebmeem koj tuaj yeem sau tag nrho cov kev sib raug zoo xws li kev coj tus cwj pwm, kev ua tsis ncaj, kev noj qab nyob zoo, kev tsis zoo, kev tsis zoo siab, Cov khoom uas kuv saib yog feem ntau ntawm cov txiv neej thiab cov teebmeem ntawm lawv cov haujlwm ua haujlwm.
Koj yuav ua li cas paub yog tias koj tsis quav ntsej?
Zoo li txhua yam kev tiv thaiv koj sim nres. Yog tias koj pom cov tsos mob tawm los yog koj pib muaj kev ntshaw ob leeg ntawm cov no muaj cov cim qhia tias koj muaj kev tiv thaiv. Nyob rau hauv xovxwm koj tsis pom cov tsos mob tshem tawm nrog kev txiav yeeb tus cwj pwm kev nyiam xws li kev twv txiaj los yog overeating los yog internet siv tab sis muaj. Peb tau teev cov tsos mob tawm heev rau cov txiv neej uas sim txiav tawm porn. Ib tus cwj pwm zoo tshaj plaws yog cov txiv neej tau ua tiav kev ploj zuj zus los yog muaj siab rau kev sib deev, muaj chaw mos muaj peev xwm hnov mob los yog loog. Thiab qhov no tuaj yeem mus rau ntau xyoo, tshwj xeeb yog cov tub ntxhais hluas.
Koj twb tau hais txog cov txiv neej uas muaj kev tiv thiav porn. Cov poj niam yuav ua phem rau porn?
Peb pom zoo saib cov poj niam hais tias lawv muaj kev lim hiam. Peb pom cov poj niam hais tias nws messed muaj kev sib deev, peb pom cov poj niam pom lawv tsuas yog tau tawm mus rau hardcore rape porn vim hais tias lawv tau escalated nws tshwm sim nyob rau hauv cov poj niam tab sis cov tub ntxhais hluas cov txiv neej yuav luag siv porn. Yog li ntawd, cov najnpawb xov xwm rau cov txiv neej yuav muaj ntau dua, tiam sis kev thaij porn rau poj niam yog nce siab.
Dab tsi yog tom ntej rau Gary Wilson?
Kuv txoj hauj lwm ua ntej kev tsim ntawm YBOP tau qhia kev mob lub cev, mob lub cev thiab pathology. Hauv kuv lub siab kuv tabtom retired thiab tam sim no devote sij hawm txhua yam nrog YBOP thiab qhov kev kawm no. Ntev npaum li cas kuv tseem kawm ntxiv txog qhov no kuv tsis paub.
by Ryan Glover - Lub Ib Hlis 26, 2017
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