Guyology tus tsim Dr. Melisa Holmes tham txog seb cov menyuam yaus ua li cas rau cov tub ntxhais kawm ntawv qib siab uas muaj erectile kawg thiab xav tau Viagra. Nws tau tham txog ntawm kev sib deev thiab cov hluas hauv May 17, 2017, nyob ntawm Warehouse Theatre, Greenville. SC
Tsis tas li ntawd los ntawm Dr. Holmes: Kev hloov pauv digital yuav yog vim li cas cov tub ntxhais hluas lub cev xeeb tub tau poob….
Cov tshooj tom qab ntawm lub rooj sab laj
Warehouse rooj sab laj tshawb nrhiav kev tiv thaiv tub ceev xwm, hluas, thiab kev tshaj xov xwm
"Muaj ntau ntau tus tub nrog porn liab tias peb pom cov tub ntxhais kawm ntawv kev noj qab nyob zoo hauv cov tsev kawm ntawv qib siab thov Viagra thiab Cialis txhua lim tiam vim lawv muaj erectile kawg. "
Melisa Holmes yog tus sau thiab tus founder ntawm Girlology thiab Guyology.
Yog li ntawd, Dr. Melisa Holmes tau hais ntawm qhov kev sib tham tshwj xeeb rau hnub Wednesday ntawm Warehouse Theatre.
Holmes yog tus tsim ntawm Tub Lis & Yeeb Xyooj, lub teb chaws kev sib deev kev kawm rau cov menyuam yaus thiab cov niam txiv uas tso siab rau cov ntaub ntawv kho mob.
Nyob rau hauv lub ntsiab lus ntawm cov tshuaj noj ED thiab cov txiv neej kawm ntawv qib siab, Holmes hais tias qhov teeb meem nrog cov hluas thiab porn yog cov tub hluas uas siv nws yog qhov ntsuas cov lus teb rau kev sib deev. Nws thiaj li, porn yog qhov tsuas yog lawv tuaj yeem tawmtsam tau ua - qhov no yuav tsum tau siv cov tshuaj ua haujlwm tsis zoo.
Tub tsis muaj ib leeg nyob rau hauv txojkev lawv tus kheej kev sib deev woes. Rau cov menyuam ntxhais, qhov teeb meem yog qhov kev sib deev ntawm kev sib deev.
"Txhua lub website lawv mus qhia rau ib yam dab tsi," Holmes hais tias. "Billboards - tau koj Brazilian nov. Txhua yam yog kev sib daj sib deev, tsis tau peb nyob rau hauv peb lub zej zog los tham txog kev sib deev kom pom tseeb tias peb tsis tsim kom muaj kev sib txuas lus txog kev sib deev. "
Esther Hall yog ib tug niam txiv ntawm tus ntxhais hluas.
Holmes yog ib ntawm plaub ntawm cov hluas hais txog kev sib deev ntawm Warehouse's "Sex Ed: Txoj Kev Kawm thiab Kev Ua Si ntawm Peb Tebchaws" sib tham. Kev sib tham yog qhov kawg ntawm qhov tam sim no lub caij nyoog hais txog cov ncauj lus tsis sib haum.
Rooj sib tham nrog poj niam pw ua ke tau cuam tshuam nrog kev ua yeeb yaj kiab kev tsim tawm tam sim no, “Caij nplooj ntoos hlav txhawb siab, ”Yog ib zaj nkauj uas hais txog cov hluas thiab kev sib deev. Cov kev ua yeeb yam khiav txij lub Tsib Hlis 19 txog rau Lub Rau Hli 20.
Txog Esther Hall, niam txiv ntawm tus ntxhais hluas, qhov kev ntshai tshaj plaws yog tias lub xov tooj ntawm tes ua kom yooj yim nrhiav duab liab qab lossis xa cov duab thiab lus uas tuaj yeem ua rau muaj teeb meem loj rau kev cai lij choj thiab kev sib raug zoo.
Nrog cov xov tooj ntse, cov lus rau cov menyuam yog, "Koj tuaj yeem khiav, tab sis koj tsis tuaj yeem," hais tias Esther Hall, tus kws saib xyuas haujlwm koom txoos Michelin North America. “Koj tau deev ntawm koj hnab tshos txhua lub sijhawm. "
Yog tias cov neeg hluas hauv xov tooj muaj ib cov duab ntawm ib tug neeg pom tus neeg liab qab, ces cov tub ntxhais hluas uas tsis tau raug ntes yuav raug ntes rau tus menyuam kev saib duab liab qab, Hall hais.
Mike Quint yog ib tus kws paub txog kev sib deev thiab tus kws qhia kom tsis txhob muaj kev sib deev.
Cov teeb meem no tsis muaj tshwm sim thaum cov niam txiv ntawm cov hluas hnub no tau loj hlob tuaj, thiab lub zej lub zog tawm hauv cov niam txiv los tuav, Holmes hais tias.
"Peb kev coj noj coj ua yog ib qho oversexualization rau cov tub ntxhais hluas tsis muab lawv cov cuab yeej thiab cov kev txawj ntse los hais rau nws, "Holmes hais.
Cov ntxhais yog maturing thaum yau hnub nyoog dua hauv xyoo dhau los, hais tias Mike Quint, ib tus neeg tawm suab pab tiv thaiv thiab lees paub txog kev nyab xeeb muaj kev phom sij ntawm tus kws tshaj lij ntawm Live Free Inc.
"Thaum peb taug kev hauv plawv nroog peb pom [cov ntxhais kawm ntawv theem nrab] tawm rau hnub Friday, thiab lawv zoo li cov tub ntxhais kawm ntawv qib siab," Quint hais. "Kuv tus poj niam thiab kuv tau tham txog tias thaum peb nyob hauv tsev kawm ntawv theem nrab, qhov ntawd yog qhov koj ua qhov xwm txheej. Tsis tas li ntawd, tag nrho cov ntxhais no tau ntes lawv qhov ua tau txawv txawv. "
Nws cov lus kos tis los ntawm cov neeg tuaj saib ntawm 50 cov niam txiv thiab cov hluas.
Me tshaj tawm xov xwm yuam kev, cov neeg ntawm kev sib deev lossis lwm yam, tuaj yeem ua rau ib tug tub ntxhais hluas txoj kev cuam tshuam txoj haujlwm, kev kawm ua haujlwm, thiab haujlwm, Meier.
Meghan Meier ntawm Pure Romance
Meier yog tus thawj coj loj ntawm Pure Romance, uas muaj kev sib raug zoo, nrog rau cov khoom ua si thiab cov laus ua si. Nws kuj koom tes nrog Pulse Cov Tub Hluas.
"Thaum kuv kawm ntawv qib siab tshiab, kuv tau mus ua haujlwm tom tsev kawm ntawv qib siab, thiab ib yam ntawm kuv tau ntiav ua yog mus txhawm rau kuv cov tub ntxhais kawm," nws hais.
Cov menyuam kawm ntawv twg uas tau xav txog kev xyaum ua haujlwm lossis kev ua haujlwm-kawm haujlwm raug tshawb xyuas los ntawm lawv cov kev tshaj xov xwm social media.
"Yog li, kuv yeej ib txwm paub - kuv tabtom tuav ib lub khob liab solo [hauv duab tso tawm], thiab qhov ntawd zoo li cas?" Meier hais.
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