Cov miv nyuas miv nyuas pum kev nraaj tuaj pev nrau ntau, hab nwg qhov kev xyuam xim muaj kev cuam tshuam yog muaj kev puam tsuaj - kws suav dlawg txhim khu kev sis hlub.
Teenage cov tub hluas raws li cov hluas thaum 16 tab tom muaj cov tsos mob ntawm erectile kawg vim ntau tshaj saib saib xyuas kev ua phem thiab hardcore pornography, ib tug kws tshaj tawm tau qhia.
Thiab txoj kev npaj txhij rau porn rau txhua txhua txhua lub sijhawm ntawm txhua lub sijhawm yog hnub qhia txaus ntshai txog kev sib deev zoo li cas.
Tus kws kho kev puas siab ntsws thiab sau ntawv Collett Smith sau tau phau ntawv tshiab Lawv yuav ua tau zoo, qhia txog kev sib tham cov niam txiv yuav tsum muaj nrog lawv cov me nyuam.
Ib qho ntawm cov ncauj lus tseem ceeb tshaj plaws rau tackle yog undoubtedly porn, uas Ms Smart hais tias yog ib qho ntawm no tiam tshiab cov teeb meem loj tshaj plaws rau navigate.
"Porn muaj feem cuam tshuam txog lawv kev sib raug zoo, kev sib daj sib dee thiab kev sib raug zoo ua ntej lawv feem ntau tau txawm lawv hnia thawj zaug los yog tuav ib tug neeg txhais tes," Ms Smart hais.
Cov duab liab qab tsis yog tshiab, tab sis nws muaj qhov tsis zoo los ntawm phau ntawv xov xwm thaum khoob thiab VHS daim kab xev ceev, dawb thiab ib txwm nyob. Thiab cov ntsiab lus nws tus kheej tau hloov, nws hais tias.
"Qhov teeb meem yog qhov ntau npaum li cas raug tsim txom hauv porn. Kuv tsuas yog nyeem ib daim ntawv tshawb fawb tshiab txog ntau npaum li cas kev nruj kev tsiv yog nyob rau hauv cov tub ntxhais hluas porn porn npe - yeeb yaj duab uas siv cov lam ua si hluas. Nws yog ntau tshaj li cov laus porn.
"Teens yog kawm tau tias nws tau ntxim nyiam los ua kev tsausmuag. Nws yog qhov teeb meem loj heev rau tiam neeg no. "
Ms Smart tau piav txog kev ua yeeb yam hauv cov duab liab qab uas yog "qia dub", uas ua rau cov tub ntxhais hluas xav pom.
"Tsis muaj qhov mob siab, tsis tshua muaj kev sib deev sib nyiam, tsis muaj kev siab zoo los yog nug, los yog saib xyuas lwm tus neeg. Nws yog hais txog qhov koj xav tau thiab ua kom tiav. "
Cov kws tshawb fawb thiab cov kws txawj tau sau tseg cov me nyuam yaus saib liab qab, xws li hauv thawj hnub nyoog kawm ntawv.
Tus neeg lub siab nyiam, nrog rau ntau qhov kev kub ntxhov ntawm nws, yog blamed rau ib txoj kev tawm qauv qub, nws hais.
Ntau tus txiv neej thiab cov ntxhais qhia txog kev sib daj sib deev hauv qhov sib txawv ntawm kev sib deev, nrog ob qho tib si saib nws li "dab tsi tshwm sim" thiab qhov xwm txheej.
"Lawv xav tias nws yuav mob heev tab sis qhov ntawd tsuas yog qhov lees txais - nws zoo li, phem heev, qhov no tsuas yog yam peb yuav tsum ua," Ms Smart hais.
Qhov tseeb tiag, cov kws kho mob pom tau tias muaj coob tus ntxhais hluas nrog "qhov muag kua muag", nws hais tias.
"Nws yog tiag shocking," Ms Smart said. "Nws tsis muaj kev siab dawb los yog ua siab zoo hauv nws."
Ntau tshaj li ntawm porn tseem ua rau cov ntawv sau tau nce ntxiv hauv cov tub ntxhais kawm nyob rau hauv ob peb xyoo kawg ntawm high school uas muaj kev puas siab puas ntsws.
Ms Smart hais tias nws yog ib qhov teebmeem thiab ib qho kev qhia ntawm kev kawm, tiam sis tsev kawm ntawv tus kws pab nws ua haujlwm nrog lawv hais tias lawv pom nws "ntau dua".
"Siv sij hawm ntau lub sij hawm masturbating rau porn yuav ua rau ntau thiab ntau cov duab los yog hardcore cov ntsiab lus uas yuav tsum tau txais tib theem li cas thaum lawv tau ua," Ms Smart said.
"Ntau thiab ntau tus tub hluas nyob rau hauv xyoo 11 los yog 12 tab tom los nrog (cov tsos mob ntawm) teeb meem erectile kawg. Ib txhia ntawm cov tub no yeej tsis tau muaj ib tug hluas nkauj thaum lawv sim ua kom sib luag, lawv tsis yog aroused. Qhov no yog qhov tiag tiag. "
Qhov xwm zoo yog qhov kev tshawb fawb pom tias cov tub ntxhais hluas qhib kev hais lus rau niam thiab txiv txog cov ntsiab lus no thiab xav tuaj nrog lawv sib tham nrog lawv dua li ib tug phooj ywg, nws hais tias.
"Rau cov menyuam yaus thiab cov hluas, yog tias koj tsis tau sib tham ua ntej, pib tam sim no. Nws yuav ua tau txawv txawv thiab ob leeg yuav khoov ntawm lub rooj zaum. Nws yuav hnov zoo li qhov kev sib tham phem tshaj plaws uas koj tau muaj. Tab sis qhov ntawd zoo. Tsis txhob tso.
"Koj tsis tas yuav dhia mus rau hauv kev sib tham txog porn yuav pib nrog. Tham txog kev hlub thiab kev hlub thiab kev sib tawg. Xa mus rau yeeb yaj kiab los yog qhia tias lawv saib nraum thiab nug lawv txog nws.
"Siv lawv hom kev sib txuas lus kom maj mam pib soj ntsuam nrog qee qhov kev sib cav xws li kev sib deev thiab porn."
Collett Ntsej muag phau ntawv tshiab Lawv mam li Yuav yog OK nyob rau tam sim no
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