Qhov tsab xov xwm no tau tshwm sim rau hauv “NewYork” cov ntawv xov xwm. "
Txawm, thiab tej zaum tshwj xeeb tshaj yog, thaum nws tus hluas nkauj ua yeeb yam zoo li cov poj niam nws tsis tuaj yeem saib xyuas online.
Kuv tau ntsib tus poj niam ntawm Broadway yeeb yam, tab sis hmo ntuj zoo tshaj qhov ua yeeb yam, kuv xav hais tias, tuaj ntawm kuv, rov qab los ntawm nws chav tsev East Village, tom qab peb tau sib deev txog 25 feeb, nrog Neil Young wailing zaj nkauj "Tuaj Sij Hawm" ntawm lub laptop ntawm nws lub txaj bedside. Lub hnab looj qau-qhuav hlawv dej khov rau kuv, tab sis kuv twb tau nres ob zaug los tso rau ib qho tshiab, thiab kuv paub, raws li kuv tau mob siab siv, kom ib lub hnab yas dua tsis tsim nyog qhov txawv. Tau kuv cia li muab, tej zaum yuav tau ua si tawm txoj kev uas feem ntau tau ua, nrog ntxoov chim siab thiab tsis zoo los ntawm ib feem ntawm tus poj niam thiab mumbled apologies thiab awkward txaj muag ntawm kuv. Tab sis hmo ntawd, tus neeg tsis muaj peev xwm ua tsis tau-tawm tsis tau, Kuv nrhiav tau kuv tus kheej ya ib txoj hauv kev tshiab: Kuv tau ua yuam kev.
Vim li cas kuv, tus txiv neej noj qab nyob zoo hauv nws lub thirties, yuav tsum tau cuav ib tug orgasm? Nws yog mystifying. Kuv tsis nyob rau antidepressants, uas kuv xav hnov yuav txo tau tus mob. Kuv tau txais ib ce ntau ntau. Nws tsis zoo li tus poj niam uas kuv tau nrog, los yog lub hnab looj qe uas peb siv, los yog seb kuv puas tau poob ib khob ntawm whiskey los yog kaum, los sis yog tias peb mloog Neil Young lossis Al Green, thaum kuv kawm los ntawm kev sim thiab yuam kev (feem ntau yuam kev). Tshaj li ntawm lub hlis, kuv tau khaws cov neeg tawm tsam tawm ntawm kab ntawv thiab maj mam tshem txhua tus. Tsuas yog, tej zaum, feem ntau pom tseeb.
"Pornography? Nws yog ib txoj kev tshiab hauv kev simaptic. "Qhov no yog qhov uas John Mayer tau hais hauv kev sib tham nrog Playboy. "Koj sawv ntxov sawv ntxov, qhib ib nplooj thumbnail, thiab nws ua rau Pandora lub thawv cov duab," nws hais ntxiv. "Tej zaum muaj hnub thaum kuv pom 300 chaw mos thaum ua ntej kuv tawm ntawm txaj."
Porn's allure thiab ubiquity tsis yog cov xwm txheej titillating. Cov lus nug uas tseem tshuav, txawm li cas los, yog li cas qhov tsunami ntawm porn yog cuam tshuam rau libido ntawm American txiv neej los yog ntau qia, mine. Ua ntej kuv tuaj yeem muaj kev tshaj tawm hauv Sanjay Gupta lub blog los ntawm Ian Kerner, tus kws pab tswv yim txog kev sib deev, nws tau sau hais tias nws pom muaj cov neeg sawv hauv nws cov kev txhawj xeeb txog kev ncua sij hawm ejaculation. Kerner tau siv ntau qhov teeb meem mus rau "kev loj hlob sai ntawm Internet porn" uas ua rau "tshaj-kev zoo siab," ib yam dab tsi kuv paub zoo heev. Tom qab ntawd kuv tau nyeem txog University of Kansas cov kev tshawb nrhiav pom tias 25 feem pua ntawm cov tub ntxhais kawm qib siab tau hais tias lawv yuav tsis tau orgasms, uas, kuv lees, yog qhov zoo siab uas tau hnov. Tab sis nws tsis yog txog thaum kuv xam phaj ntau ntau tus txiv neej uas muaj cov duab liab qab sib txawv (thiab ob peb tug poj niam qhib siab heev) tias muaj tej yam tsis zoo uas tshwm sim. Porn tsis yog tsuas yog ua rau cov txiv neej lub cev thiab lub siab nyiam ntawm kev sib daj sib deev ntawm theem siab txog kev sib daj sib deev, tab sis nws tseem muaj kev npaj txhij txog kev tshwm sim-uas yog rau cov poj niam.
Tau ntau xyoo, cov tes-txawj sau ntawv ceeb toom ntawm porn phaum mob uas yuav rhuav tshem lub teb chaws kev ncaj ncees liam. Tab sis yog tias porn online los kis tau tus kab mob, nws yog ib qho uas tsis tshua zoo li Ebola thiab ntau tshaj li tus mob midwinter. Qhov pib tshwm sim rau cov menyuam yaus uas nquag pom lawv tus kheej muaj npe rau lawv cov kev cai lij choj uas nyiam tshaj plaws yog ib qho kev ntshaw lawv tus kheej. Jonas *, ib xyoo 34 ad exec, hais rau kuv tias, "Kuv tau mus SpankWire lossis X Videos-koj tuaj yeem tsoo cov khoom sculptures nrog kuv tus dick. Kuv coj ib tug hluas nkauj los tsev ntawm lub bar, tab sis, kuv mam li mus rau ib pliag thaum nws tseem nqes rau kuv, tab sis thaum kuv muab hnab looj tes thiab peb pib mus ntawm nws, nws zoo li Challenger pob tawg-tag nrho cov chij yog nyob rau ntawm ib nrab hnub. "
Ces muaj Stefan, tus composer 43 xyoo, leej twg tsis muaj teeb meem tau aroused thaum nws tau deev nrog nws tus poj niam. "Yuav kom tuaj, tab sis, kuv tau mus ua si rau kev ua si scenes hauv kuv lub taub hau uas kuv tau pom thaum saib porn. Ib yam dab tsi ploj muaj. Kuv tsis nrog kuv tus poj niam; Kuv nyob hauv kuv lub taub hau. "
Raws li John Mayer hais Playboy, "Yuav ua li cas koj yuav tau tas li synthesizing orgasm raws li dozens txhaj tshuaj? Koj tab tom nrhiav ib daim duab tawm ntawm 100 koj cog lus tias koj yuav yog qhov koj ua tiav, thiab koj tseem tsis tag ... Qhov no tsis cuam tshuam dab tsi ntawm kev sib raug zoo nrog lwm tus neeg? Nws tau txais. "Feem ntau ntawm cov txiv neej kuv xam phaj tuaj nrog kev sib raug zoo ntawm kev dhia ceev nrooj los ntawm cov duab liab qab rau cov duab liab qab (uas piav txog qhov nce thiab muaj suab npe ntawm" cumshot "rooj thiab lwm yam ceev nrooj muab tso ua ke). Kerner mus kom deb li deb rau lub sij hawm "kev sib tham tsis muaj kev sib deev." Muaj ntau tus neeg, hloov cov porn pawj fais fab thiab kev sib txig sib luag ntawm kev sib deev ntawm kev sib deev zoo xws li tawm hauv ib nrab ntawm Imax 3-D movie los tshawb xyuas cov ntawv paj nruag.
"Kuv siv rau kev sib tw ntawm tsev neeg kom sib deev nrog kuv tus poj niam," Perry, ib tug kws lij choj 41 xyoo. "Tam sim no kuv tawm mus ua hauj lwm ib nrab xuab moos thaum ntxov ces kuv tuaj yeem tau txais hauv tsev ua ntej nws ua thiab ua rau porn." Thaum peb tab tom sib tham, Perry hais tias nws tseem nyiam nws tus poj niam ntawm kaum ob xyoos. Tseem, nws hais tias, nws tsis tuaj yeem ntsuas txog cov porn hnub qub nws pom hauv Internet. "Tsis xav tau, tab sis lawv yau, kub, thiab wilder hauv lub hnab los dua kuv tus poj niam," nws hais. "Kuv thiab nws, peb tseem ua nws 'thiab txhua yam, tab sis tsis txhob niaj hnub, nws' s tej zaum ib zaug ib lub lim tiam. Nws zoo li kuv tau txais 'lwm tus poj niam' ... thiab lwm tus poj niam yog porn. "
Ron, 27, ib tus menyuam kawm ntawv txog kev sib tw, tau ntsib nws tus hluas nkauj thaum nkawd ob leeg muaj kev xeeb txhij. Nws mus kawm ntawv hauv lwm lub nroog, thiab Ron hais li ntawd rau ob peb xyoo dhau los, nws tau muaj "hnub" nrog nws nyiam porn star, uas nws zoo siab rau txhua hnub thiab txawm tias nag tshauv thiab shaves rau, tab sis npaj rau ib nyob-kev txiav txim siab. "Hnub Monds yog rau Gia Jordan," nws hais. "Sijhawm hnub Tuesday rau Sasha Grey." Hnub Wednesdays nws muaj kev tswj hwm-ib lub sij hawm kawm Portuguese. "Kuv ib txwm tos ntsoov rau Thursdays feem ntau-Kasey Kox," nws hais. "Tom qab ntawd, thaum hnub so, kuv tau nrog kuv tus hluas nkauj." Thaum nws rov los txog nws lub tsev hnub Sunday, Ron piav ntxiv, nws quaj nrhiav cov neeg sib tw los siv sijhawm nyob rau hnub Wednesday thaum nws tau sib zog ntxiv tom qab nws hoob kawm lus. "Kuv tsis nyiam ntseeg tias porn yog hloov dab tsi kuv muaj nrog kuv tus hluas nkauj," nws hais tias, "tiam sis kuv yeej ib txwm nyiam poj niam txiv neej, thiab kuv yeej ib txwm muaj ntau ntawm nws, vim li ntawd kuv yeej tau nres thiab xav txog nws thaum nws nug kuv vim tsis ntev los no vim li cas nws thiaj li yuav tsum yog ib qho pib. Thiab nws yog txoj cai; Kuv twv kuv tau raug fading ntawm nws. Nws zoo li txhua lub sij hawm nrog cov porn hnub qub tau subduing tej lub cev muaj siab rau kuv tus hluas nkauj. Thiab, nyob rau hauv ib co txoj kev weird, kuv lub siab xav tau rau nws, thiab. "
Nws puas tau tias porn no ua rau cov txiv neej mus ntes tawm ntawm lawv cov neeg koom nrog ntau txoj hauv kev: Txawm hais tias porn tshawb fawb los ntawm kev sib cav tswv yim thiab kev sib tw (nrog pawg ntseeg pawg txeeb ntawm txhua txoj kev kawm los ua pov thawj tias porn thiab masturbation tsis yog lawm), cov kws tshawb fawb xav tias dopamine-oxytocin combo tso tawm hauv lub paj hlwb thaum lub sij hawm orgasm, "Biochemical hlub potion," raws li tus cwj pwm kws kho mob Andrea Kuszewski hu nws. Nws yog vim li cas tom qab nrog txiv neej pw nrog ib tug neeg, tej zaum koj yuav inclined ntau dua rau txoj kev siab ntsws. Tab sis koj tsis tas yuav tsum tau muaj kev sib deev thiaj li tau cov neurotransmitters firing. Thaum koj saib porn, "koj nyob nraum tsev nrog nws," Kuszewski hais. "Thiab cov chemicals ua rau koj xav kom rov qab los ntawm qhov kev xav ntawd." Uas tso cai rau cov txiv neej tsis tas mus tawm ntawm porn tab sis kom muaj peev xwm tsim ib daim duab neurological rau nws. Lawv tuaj yeem, hauv qhov tseeb, hnub porn.
Thiab ua neeg nyob sab hauv-lub-kaum-porn evolves rau hauv high-def wonderland, peb txhawj tias seb peb tab tom saib kev sib deev los yog tau nrog txiv neej pw, nrog kev pab ntawm oxytocin, loosen. Muaj ntau tus txiv neej kuv xam phaj ntawm tus nqi uas lawv tau txais los ntawm menyuam lawv nyiam porn actresses. Tiam sis lawv kuj muaj lub siab los piav txog txoj kev saib xyuas cov porn txhais tau hais tias nws yog ib txoj kev sib deev tiag tiag uas lawv tau koom ua-ua rau lawv txoj kev xav hauv kev lag luam nyob rau hauv cov dej porn txhua qhov ntau. "Kuv nyiam thaum Kasey [Kox] hnav ris tsho thiab maj mam los ntawm kuv lub txaj, los yog kuv tab tom ua nws tom qab," hais tias Ron, tus tub ntxhais kawm ntawv. "Kuv tau txais ib lub ntsej muag ntawm Kasey thiab kuv thiaj li qhib rau. Kuv tau mob taub hau. "
Txhua yam uas tsimnyog tau nthuav lus nug: Yuav ua li cas qee zaus muaj qee zaus, qee zaum khib nyiab, feem ntau ntawm cov kev sib daj sib deev rau cov neeg koom tes ntawm qhov tau txais kev pab xaus? Sadie, 29, ib tug tswv cuab ntawm tus tswv tsev nyob hauv Boston, quotes cov yeeb yam artist Nicole Blackman ua rau nws tus taw tes: "'Tsis muaj yeeb koob hauv kev sim ua kom muaj kev hlub rau cov txiv neej uas paub xwb yuav ua li cas fuck-txiv neej tom qab txiv neej tom qab txiv neej tom qab txiv neej tsa nyob porn. ' Muaj ntau zaus nyob rau yav dhau los, "Sadie tseem," thaum kuv yuav nrog ib tug neeg thiab xav, Tswv Yexus fucking Christ, dab tsi yog qhov zoo li tus porn ruam ruam koj tau saib? Puas yog koj nyuam qhuav nyav kuv daub? Dumbass! "
"Muaj ib qho tsis paub qhov txawv ntawm qhov porn kev muaj tiag thiab kev muaj tiag," Monika, 27. "Ib tug txiv leej tub pheej qw rau kuv, 'Caij tsheb ciav hlau, caij cov qaib dib!' Kuv tabtom luag nyav dhau los peb tau nres. "
Vim tias qhov kev xav ntawm kev muaj tiag thiab kev xav tau, qee tus poj niam tau txaus siab ua si los ntawm kev cai tshiab kom tau lawv cov txiv nyiam: Lawv txhob txwm tho cov duab liab qab hnub qub. Sadie, tus tswv real-estate, hais tias, "Ntau ntawm cov txiv leej tub tau tuaj tos PSE [qhov" Porn-Star Kev Txawj "] ua ib yam khoom tshaj plaws-txaws waxed bald, nkag mus rau txhua qhov-thiab ntau ntawm cov poj niam yog ntau tshaj zoo siab muab. Ib txhia yuav txaus siab rau nws, tab sis feem ntau nws yog kev txaj muag. Kuv xav tias muaj kev ntshai tias yog lawv tsis tuaj yeem ua li ntawd, lawv tus hluas nraug yuav tawm hauv online. "
Monty, 31, tus actor los ntawm poj niam, leej twg ntawm shooting scenes siv txog ib teev ib hnub masturbating porn online, hais tias nws pom tus ua haujlwm. "Kuv tau nrog ib tug ntxhais uas zoo nkaus li nyob hauv kev sib tw nrog kev sib ceg," nws hais. "Nws muaj qhov kev xav hauv Soviet Union nws tau sim tawm mus ua-tawm fuck."
"Cov poj niam tab tom tig mus hu," hais Evan, thiab 31. "Kuv yog ib tug pleaser. Kuv tau tawm ntawm ib tug poj niam txoj kev xav. Tab sis kuv pom tias cov poj niam tau txais ntau lub suab ntau tam sim no. Yog tias kuv tabtom ua ib yam dab tsi uas kuv tsis paub, los yog cov poj niam pib ua siab zoo li cas hauv porn. Honestly, nws yog hom weird. Kuv tsis paub tseeb tias kuv nyiam nws. "
Tony, 48, Xibfwb hauv Xees Phos, tus kws tsim tawm hauv Xees Phos, uas tau sib cais los ntawm nws tus poj niam ob peb xyoos dhau los tom qab nees nkaum xyoo kev sib yuav, hais txog kev xav. "Kuv yeej ib txwm xav tias nws kub heev thaum cov poj niam nyob hauv cov duab liab qab hais tias tsis huv khoom," nws hais. "Feem ntau, lawv tsuas yog narrating tus shit uas yog tshwm sim, muab qhov kev ua si-los-ua si: 'Koj fucking kuv! Koj tus dick hauv kuv lub nroog Yeiuxalees! Kuv tabtom nqes koj lub tshis tamsim tamsim! ' Rau txawm yog vim li cas, qhov no yog dab tsi rau nws. Tab sis tsis ntev los no ib tug poj niam kuv tau nrog pib hais tag nrho cov khoom ntawd, thiab nws yog vim kuv nyiam xwb. Nws seemed me ntsis ceev. "
Thiab yog li ib lub paj thas tawm. Txiv neej, oversaturated los ntawm liab qab, nyiag kev tshaib kev nqhis rau ntau yam porn muaj. Cov poj niam, pom tias lawv poob rau hauv lawv cov neeg koom tes, sim ua kom pom cov duab zoo nkauj uas cov txiv neej saib ntawm lawv lub computer cov ntxaij vab tshaus. Tus txiv neej, yog li ntawd, tau txais tiag tiag freaked tawm. Lawv tsis xav kom lawv cov poj niam tiag tiag thiab lawv cov poj niam zoo nkauj nyob hauv tib lub cev. Los yog, zoo li Ron simog: "Nco ntsoov Ghostbusters? Yuav ua li cas nyob rau hauv kev hlub Bill Murray nrog Dana, lub Sigourney Weaver ua cim? Nws xav tias nws muaj hmoo txawm tias nws tau pom zoo tias nws pom zoo rau ib hnub nrog nws, tab sis tom qab ntawd thaum nws pom ntawm nws lub qhov rooj, nws muaj dab los ntawm cov dab sib txawv, ntab plaub feet saum nws lub txaj, nws thov nws mus fuck nws lub hlwb. Thiab nws yog tag nrho rattled los ntawm nws thiab tsis tau tawm ntawm muaj yoo txaus. Zoo, uas yog nws zoo li thaum koj tus hluas nkauj dheev pib ua piv txwv li poj niam porn. Koj zoo li, 'Me nyuam, koj yuav mus qhov twg? Kuv tsuas xav kom kuv tus hluas nkauj rov qab. ' "
Zoo li txhua tus neeg tshawb nrhiav, kuv txiav txim siab los tshawb xyuas ib qho kev tshawb xav. Kuv tau hnov txog ib yam dab tsi uas hu ua National Day of Unplugging, kev txhawb nqa los ntawm New York-based Jewish pab pawg Reboot, uas txhawb kom tib neeg mus so haujlwm ib hnub ua ke los ntawm lawv cov haujlwm. Tab sis kuv tau xaiv los muab kuv tus kheej tso rau hauv: raws li tsis kam mus saib ntawm lub vev xaib ntawm cov websites tawd me uas kuv nquag ua ntej yuav mus pw. Tam sim no, kuv yeej tsis xav kom porn porn, los yog xav tias nws tsis muaj qhov chaw nyob rau hauv txiv neej lub neej, txawm lawv nyob lawv ib leeg lossis hauv qhov chaw ua hauj lwm. Thiab kuv yuav hais tias qee tus niam txiv tseem pom tias nws yog ib yam dab tsi ntawm kev rov qab los. Tab sis paub tseeb tias txoj kev sib raug zoo rau nws yuav tsuas yog txhim kho nws txoj kev sib raug zoo tiag tiag-tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tias koj tuaj yeem pheej nrhiav tau koj tus kheej hauv chav pw, ntsia ntsoov rau hauv qhov muag ntawm ib tus khub siab heev tsis meej pem. Li ntawd, kuv tau ua ib co kev hloov.
Kuv mus tsis muaj porn rau ib hnub. Tom qab ntawd kuv sim nws rau ob. Ces peb. Hnub plaub, kuv tau muaj kev sib deev nrog poj niam. Thiab tsis muaj dab tsi yog faked, tab sis kuv tsuas yog hais lus rau kuv tus kheej.
Kuj pom "Yuav ua li cas kuv rov qab los ntawm Porn hais txog Erectile kawg"
;