Cov kws pab tswv yim tawm tsam 'plague of pornography', tus kws npliag siab Seema Hingorrany & Yolande Pereira, kws kho mob hlwb, Samir Dalwai (2015)

, TNN | Sep 13, 2015

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Ob lub lis piam dhau los, nyob rau lub teb chaws thawj zaug kev sib tham los tawm tsam "kev mob nkeeg ntawm kev saib duab liab qab," ntau dua 103 tus kws pab tswv yim, cov tub ntxhais hluas, cov pov thawj, nuns thiab kws kho mob los ntawm ntau lub koom txoos thiab cov chaw sab laj tawm tswv yim xav txog tus neeg mob keeb kwm hu ua Mathew zaj dab neeg. "Zoo li ntau tus neeg, Mathew tau saib duab liab qab hauv lub vev xaib txhua lub sijhawm tam sim no thiab tom qab," piav qhia cov ntaub ntawv tshawb fawb ua ntej txiav txim siab mus rau qhov kev vam meej tus accountant mus rau kev quav yeeb quav tshuaj "Ua ntej ntev, ib nrab ntawm Mathew hnub ua haujlwm tau raug coj los xyuas lub vev xaib porn," zaj dab neeg txuas ntxiv mus. “Cov duab kev sib daj sib deev, yaum thiab kev npau suav ua tus tswj nws txoj kev xav… Nws tus khub ntxim nyiam tshaj plaws yog lub laptop.” Hauv kev xaus, cov neeg tuaj koom tau hais kom npaj ib qho kev cuam tshuam rau cov neeg quav, uas tam sim no muaj nuj nqis ntau, tiv cov yeeb yaj kiab nyuaj, khawm hauv kev sib cav sib ceg thiab xav tawm ntawm nws tus poj niam.Lub rooj sib tham, ua haujlwm Snehalaya Family Service Center, uas tau tsim los ntawm Bombay Archdiocese, tabsis ua rau cov neeg ntawm txhua txoj kev ntseeg, yog ib txoj kev soj ntsuam tshawb pom txog 6-lub hlis nyob rau hauv 16 pawg niam txiv, 7 qib siab thiab yim neeg lub chaw haujlwm . Qhov kev tshawb fawb pom tau hais tias tus cwj pwm tsis zoo thiab qhov nce. Txawm tias muaj lub hom phiaj rau tus neeg sawv cev rau kev ntseeg, tus 50% feem pua ​​ntawm cov neeg tuaj sib ntsib ntawd yog cov ntseeg. Thaum lub seminar dhau, 70% ntawm cov tuaj koom ua Christian."Peb qhov chaw nres tsheb yog xoom porn," said Fr Cajetan Menezes, uas ua ib feem ntawm lub rooj cob qhia thiab yog tus thawj coj ntawm Snehalaya. "Txawm hais tias koj saib 20 feeb porn ib lub lim tiam, nws yuav hloov koj cov qauv kev coj cwj pwm thiab lub hlwb," nws hais ntxiv. Tsis tas li ntawd, muaj kev sib txheeb ntawm cov porn thiab kev ua phem rau cov poj niam, hais tias Menezes. "Rau peb, kev saib duab liab qab yog qhov txuas ntxiv ntawm kev quab yuam poj niam txiv neej, thiab poj niam kev lag luam, vim li ntawd peb thiaj li coj txoj hauv kev nyuaj txog qhov teeb meem no." 

Lwm lub nroog cov kws pab tswv yim thiab cov kws kho mob kuj tau pom tus cim siab hauv kev saib porn. “Txhua tus neeg mob thib ob uas taug kev hauv kev muaj lub siab xav ua porn, ”tus kws tshawb fawb txog tus kws kho hlwb tau hais tias Seema Hingorrany. "Nyob rau hauv xyoo tas los, Kuv pom 30% dhia." Kev loj hlob ntawm cov kws kho menyuam yaus, Samir Dalwai, tau pom tus cwj pwm zoo sib xws ntawm cov menyuam yaus. Nws tau hais tias "Ib qhov teeb meem loj ntawm txoj kev kawm tsis raug niaj hnub no yog kev saib duab liab qab," nws hais. Hauv ib qhov piv txwv, xya-xyoo-laus tus menyuam tus cwj pwm thiab teeb meem ntawm kev kawm, suav nrog kev ntaus lwm tus menyuam yaus, tau tshawb nrhiav pornCov. Dalwai hais tias, "Txiv yog saib yeeb yaj kiab porn thiab tsis tau tshem tawm cov chaw ntawm lub browser xav tias tus menyuam tseem me heev,"

Ib qho xwm txheej tsis zoo tshaj plaws uas yog Hingorrany tau kho dua yog tus tub ntxhais kawm ua haujlwm engineering, uas tau saib porn nyob rau 14 teev nyob rau ib hnub. "Nws tau ua tsis tiav nws cov ntawv xeem, ua rau nws tus kheej raug mob ntawm nws tus kheej heev heev thiab raug kev nyuaj siab thiab kev xav tsis meej," Ntau tus kws tshaj lij, hais tias tsis yog txhua tus neeg quav. Qhov tseeb, sexologist Prakash Kothari tsis pom qhov muaj kev puas tsuaj hauv kev siv porn ua lub ntsej muag yog tias nws nyob rau hauv kev sim. Nws hais tias qee tus neeg yuav raug rho tawm los ntawm kev ua haujlwm ntau. “Nws zoo li gulab jamun. Yog hais tias koj muaj nws txhua hnub, kev lom zem ploj. "

Tus naj npawb ntawm cov poj niam saib porn yog tseem nyob rau qhov nce. Hingorrany tau hais tias rau txhua 10 tus txiv neej quav, nws muaj peb tus poj niam neeg mob. Hauv ib kis tau hais nyob rau hauv kev kawm, kev saib yeeb yaj kiab porn tau raug kuaj yuam kev tias yog kev nyuaj siab tom qab kho mob tas mus txog thaum tus neeg mob huv. Lwm qhov kev cuam tshuam ntawm kev siv porn ntau dhau tuaj yeem ua rau tsis tuaj yeem lossis mob erectile kawg. Tus kws kho tsev neeg Yolande Pereira, uas tau ua ib feem ntawm lub rooj cob qhia, tau hais tias, "Cuaj caum feem pua ​​ntawm cov txiv neej thiab poj niam, uas tuaj rau peb nrog kev kho mob erectile kawg lossis qis libido, tom qab mus saib sexologist thiab urologists tsis muaj kev txhim kho, muaj keeb kwm ntev los saib cov duab liab qab. ”

Hingorrany kwv yees tias tsib tawm ntawm 10 porn addicts raug kev txom nyem los ntawm libido tsis vim lawv txoj kev ua neej tsis zoo, overexposure rau cov dluab deev thiab muaj kev ntxhov siab tsis ntseegCov. Hingorrany rov qab hais tias "Kuv muaj ib tug tub uas tuaj thiab hais rau kuv tias nws tau saib porn ntau dhau thiab thaum nws mus ua yeeb yam nrog ib tug ntxhais, nws tsis tuaj yeem ua thiab ntshai," Kuv tau piav qhia tias nws tau tso tseg nws tus kheej dhau los ntawm kev saib ntau dhau ntawm nws. "

Qee tus uas tuaj koom rau lub rooj cob qhia xws li kws kho mob hlwb thiab kws pab tswv yim Nilufer Mistry, uas ua haujlwm ntawm Massena Tsev Kho Mob, yog cov kws tshaj lij thiab tau mus koom ua ke ntxiv rau lawv cov kev txawj ntse. Thaum nug nws yog tias nws pom zoo nrog kev coj tus cwj pwm tsis zoo txog porn, nws hais tias, "Kuv ntseeg tias txhua yam hauv kev txwv yog qhov tsis muaj mob, tab sis porn yog qhov muaj txiaj ntsig heev."

Lwm tus yog pawg ntseeg txoj kev vam vam kev cia siab rau lub rooj sib tham yuav muab rau lawv cov cuab yeej los kho cov duab liab qab.

Noreen Machado los ntawm St Theresa pawg ntseeg hauv Bandra, uas yog tus tuav haujlwm ntawm tsev neeg, vam tias nws yuav pab nws cov niam txiv uas lawv cov menyuam tab tom muaj teeb meem nrog cov teeb meem no.

Nyob rau hauv lub neej yav tom ntej, Snehalaya cia siab tias yuav pib ib pab pawg neeg txhawb nqa rau cov neeg tsis tuaj yeem, ib zaug ntxiv kev nyab xeeb thiab kev ceev ntiag tug nyob rau hauv qhov chaw. Lawv tabtom ua tib zoo saib vim hais tias nyob sab nraud xws li tej pawg neeg no tau paub tias yuav nyiam cov neeg phem thiab cov neeg ua haujlwm, uas koom nrog cov neeg raug tsim txom thiab lawv cov txij nkawm.