- Dr Harry Fisch yog tus paub txog kev sib deev thiab tus kws kho mob TV
- Nws phau ntawv, Tus Tshiab liab qab, qhia tias vim li cas poj niam txiv neej muaj kev txom nyem
- Ib qhov laj thawj loj yog siv sij hawm ntau saib porn
- Hais tias kev quav yeeb quav tshuaj yog qhov teeb meem tshwm sim ntau dua
Tam sim no porn yog nyob rau hauv kev tua firing ntawm tus kws kho mob tshwj xeeb thiab TV tus cwj pwm Dr Harry Fisch, uas nyob rau hauv nws cov phau ntawv kawg, Tus Tshiab liab qab, leg ntaubntawv saib ntau heev yog ua txiv neej pw raug kev txom nyem.
Hauv no tus extract Extract, nws qhia tau hais tias yog vim li cas porn yog kev sib deev sib npaug ntawm cov khoom noj ceev thiab piav qhia seb yuav ua li cas yog tias koj tus khub nyiam nws ntau me ntsis.
'Saib porn thiab masturbating yog qhov sib deev sib npaug ntawm cov khoom noj ceev. Nws muaj kev txaus siab tam sim ntawd, thiab nws zoo ib zaug hauv ib pliag thaum koj tab tom mob siab rau qee cov Fabkis kib lossis nachos smothered hauv cov txiv kab ntxwv ntawd dag txiv kab ntxwv goop, tab sis rau kev noj haus? Tsis nco qab txog nws.
Zoo li ntau lwm yam uas tsis zoo rau peb tseem tuaj yeem paub tseeb tias zoo rau lub sijhawm tam sim no, kev saib duab liab qab yuav pib ua kev phem, ib zaug ib zaug xwb.
Tab sis rau ntau tus txiv neej, nws yuav ua tau yooj yim kuj tau yooj yim kom tau ntxais cov vortex ntawm qhov tseeb tiv thaiv porn uas yuav ua rau nws txoj kev noj qab haus huv, ob qho tag nrho lub cev thiab kev xav, tsis paub txawm tias nws.
Tias yog vim li cas porn yees yog tus naj npawb ib qhov teeb meem uas kev sib deev therapists kam nrog.
Cov kws tshaj lij tsis tau paub txog cov ntsiab lus ntawm kev siv porn nyob hauv lub teb chaws no, tiam sis ntawm no yog qhov kuv tsis tau hnov txog ib tus ntawm lawv tham txog: Rau feem ntau ntawm cov txiv neej uas saib ntau porn, nws tsim teeb meem txog kev sib deev.
Tau, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws uas yuav tsum tau tsim kho thiab ua siab dawb rau cov txiv neej (lossis poj niam) kev sib deev muaj peev xwm ua kom lawv cov libido ploj tag nrho thiab kev ua tau zoo.
Yog li vim li cas thiaj tsis muaj leej twg hais txog qhov tshwm sim ntawm Kev Ua Haujlwm Sib Tw – ESP-nam ntawm porn? Lawv tau sib tham txog vim li cas txiv leej tub saib nws – thiab tsis ua li cas rau nws tus qau thaum nws saib.
Kuv tuaj yeem qhia rau ntau npaum li cas porn ib tug txiv neej saib thaum nws pib tham ncaj qha rau kuv txog kev sib deev kawg nws muaj.
Thaum ib tug txiv neej saib xyuas porn thiab tau tawm ntawm nws, los yog saib porn nrog nws ob txhais tes rau nws tus kheej ces nws tau masturbate tib lub sij hawm (uas yog dab tsi feem ntau tshwm sim), stimulation kev xav nws tau txais los ntawm virtual ntiaj teb ua rau nws ntau nyuaj rau nws kom tau aroused, nyob rau aroused, thiab yuav kaj siab lug aroused los ntawm tus real, nyob nrog poj niam nyob hauv nws lub neej.
Tsis zoo: Ntau porn tseem muaj ib tug tsis ntxim rau cov txiv neej arousal raws li Dr Fisch
PUAS YOG TUS NEEG NYOB RAU IB TUG PORN ADDICT? MUAB COV QUIZ THIAB NRHIAV TAWM:
Txhua qhov kev sib txawv nyias txawv nyias, tiam sis muaj qee cov cwj pwm coj uas xav kom muaj kev tiv thaiv kev quav yeeb quav tshuaj. Yog tias koj teb tau rau ib qho ntawm cov no, nws yuav yog lub sijhawm rau lub plawv-rau-siab.
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Hauv lwm cov ntsiab lus, nws lub cev porn-masturbation nquag ua rau kev sib deev nrog nrog tus khub. Yog hais tias nws tsuas yog muaj ib qho orgasm thaum saib porn, thiab yog hais tias nws tau accustomed nrog orgasms tsuas yog ib txoj kev lossis thaum saib ib yam, nws muaj teeb meem thiab yog li koj.
Muaj ib lub ntsej muag: Ib txhia porn quavntsej lawv xav sib deev ntawm lawv cov lus, kom ua tau raws li txhua yam xav tau yog "kev tshoov siab" los ntawm lawv tau saib.
Lub porn thiab nws masturbating yog muaj cov nyhuv txawv ntawm nws kev ua tau zoo thaum muaj kev sib deev-nws yog hu ua retarded ejaculation.
Nws qhov kawg 'ntev dhau' yog qhov txawv ntawm qhov uas feem ntau ntawm cov txiv neej tau pom thaum lawv saib porn ntau - lawv tsis tuaj yeem nyob rau txhua lub sijhawm.
Thaum nws hnov zoo li nws yog ib qho zoo tshaj plaws, nws ntev dhau lawm yuav ua rau nws muaj kev txhawj xeeb thaum nws tas nws sai dhau lawm: muaj kev mob siab, dhuav, los yog noj mov, xav paub thaum twg nws yuav mus ua haujlwm. Tsis hais tias qhov kev sib txhuam tsis tu ncua yeej ua tau mob tom qab ib ntus.
Dab tsi yog qhov kev ua tsis zoo rau kuv yog tias ntau tus neeg uas kuv tham tau tsis tau paub tias muaj ib qho downside rau saib duab liab qab.
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Tsis yog thaum xub thawj. Kuv yog thawj tus neeg qhia koj tias me ntsis porn yuav muaj kev lom zem heev-thiab hais tias ib tug txiv neej uas nyiam mus saib ib zaug nyob rau hauv ib lub sij hawm tsis tas yuav verging rau porn yees.
Tiam sis tib neeg muaj peev xwm pib tsim kom muaj kev tiv thaiv rau nws yam tsis paub txawm tias nws yog ib qho yooj yim tus cwj pwm tsis txaus siab rau.
Tus txiv neej tuaj yeem qhia nws tus kheej nws yeej tsis ua rau ib tus twg lossis 'coj tsis ncaj'. Nws yuav tau pib saib raws li txoj hauv kev los ua txuj lom rau nws lub neej kev sib deev lossis vim nws lom zem - tab sis saib tus cwj pwm tuaj yeem nce nrawm dua, ib feem vim tias nws yooj yim los cub porn 24/7.
Nws yeej ib txwm pom ib yam dab tsi los saib thaum nws nyob hauv txoj kev xav, txawm nws nyob qhov twg los yog lub sijhawm twg, yog li cas.
Puas muaj leej twg tau txais kev tiv thaiv kev sib deev? Nws tsis yooj yim tab sis nws yog phaaj tseem ceeb. Koj tus khub sim cov kauj ruam ua ntej:
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• Ua kom muaj kev kub ntxhov-tag nrho cov poj niam txiv neej thiab kev zoo siab, tsis yog porn. Thaum ib tug txiv neej tsis ejaculate rau ob peb hnub, nws yuav ua ntau dua sensitive (thiab ntau hornier!), Thiab nws yuav ntau dua yuav climax nyob rau hauv ib qho kev sij hawm ntawm lub sij hawm.
• Sim teem caij rau ib yam dab tsi thaum lub sij hawm nws feem ntau saib cov porn. Yog hais tias koj tuaj yeem nqa tau luv luv, zoo (tsis txhob tig rau hauv TV, raws li muaj ntau porn muaj nyob rau hauv chav tsev so chav tsev yog tias qhov twg koj nyob nraum nyob). Los yog kom nws ua haujlwm ntxiv nyob ib ncig ntawm lub tsev (xws li lub tsev qiv nyiaj ntev dhau los, tha xim, lossis ua vaj ua teb, piv txwv-ib yam dab tsi uas yog lub cev thiab ua rau nws tsis ua raws li lub tshuab hluav taws xob nyob ib puag ncig).
• Sim ua kom koj lub foreplay mus ua si ntau dua. Nug nws seb nws nyiam ua dab tsi thaum nws saib cov porn, thiab hloov nws ob txhais tes nrog koj li. Thaum koj kov nws qhov twg nws nyiam nws kov nws tus kheej, nws mam li rov qab kawm tau li cas thiaj tau tib lub siab xav thaum nws nyob nrog koj. Ua li no ua ke-tsis khib rau nws thiab rov qab mus ua liab qab-thiab kuv cog lus tias koj yuav tsis siv sij hawm peb caug feeb rau orgasm dua.
• Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas neb ob leeg sib tham txog tias koj hlub ib leeg npaum li cas, thiab ntau npaum li cas koj thiaj li muaj kev sib raug zoo ntawm koj txoj kev sib deev kom koj rov tuaj yeem ua tib zoo saib rau koj tus txij nkawm uas koj nyiam thawj zaug. Ua li txoj kev koj tau ua thaum koj pib thawj zaug-Kuv tabtom twv porn tsis yog ib feem ntawm qhov lo lus. Li no, koj lub siab xav ua ib txwm ua kom koj ob leeg muaj peev xwm txaus siab rau txoj kev zoo ntawm kev pw ua ke, thiab tawm ntawm kev sib daj sib deev rau cov neeg hlau.
• Yog tias qhov no tsis ua haujlwm vim hais tias koj tus khub muaj kev quav yeeb quav tshuaj thiab / los yog tsis txaus siab los tham txog qhov teeb meem nrog koj, koj yuav tsum tau nrog tus kws pab tswv yim. Saib tus poj niam kws kho mob txog kev tiv thaiv kev sib daj sib deev thiab kev sib deev tsis zoo. Npaj rau tus nplua nuj kom muaj sij hawm nyuaj. Yog tias kev quav yeeb quav tshuaj yog qhov yooj yim, nws yuav tsis muaj kev quav yeeb quav tshuaj.
Ib yam li cov neeg haus luam yeeb yuav tsum tau nrhiav ib yam dab tsi ua nrog lawv cov tes thaum lawv txiav luam yeeb kas fes, zom hniav, los sis noj mov (uas yog vim cov neeg haus luam yeeb feem ntau nyhav nyhav), yog li koj yuav tsum nrhiav kom zoo dua. Luckily, koj twb muaj ib tug dag ntxiv rau koj txhua hmo.
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