Txuas mus rau tshooj: Kev tiv thaiv kev saib duab liab qab ua rau cov tub ntxhais Asmeskas tau txhawj, piv rau cov neeg coca
Molly Hendrickson, Tej zaum 23, 2017
DENVER - Porn quav yog qhov tshwm sim sai sai tshaj plaws kev quav yeeb tshuaj hauv peb lub tebchaws, thiab ib qho kev zais siab tshaj plaws.
"Qhov no tsis ploj, nws zoo li mob qog noj ntshav hauv lub hlwb, tab sis nws mob qog nqaij hlav hauv txoj kev xav," hais rau cov neeg liab qab uas rov qab hu ua Joe, vim nws tsis xav qhia nws tus kheej rau pej xeem. "Koj xav tau cov khoom tsaus dua, cov khoom tawv, khoom siv sib ntaus sib tua ntau zaus."
Rau cov quav no, cov noob tau cog thaum nws muaj 6 xyooth qib thiab saib yeeb yaj kiab R-rated. Sij hawm dhau los, nws txoj kev tiv thaiv qeeb qeeb.
“Kuv paub tias nyob rau hauv peb lub neej, nws tsis to taub yuav ua li cas thiaj tsis zoo. Nws rhuav tshem lub siab, nws rhuav tshem lub peev xwm ua haujlwm, koj tsis tuaj yeem saib poj niam tib yam, "Joe hais.
Cov duab liab qab feem ntau piv rau cov tawg-cocaine. Tsis muaj leej twg paub tias zoo dua li lees paub kev tiv thaiv kev sib deev, Chris Simon.
Simon hais tias "Yog vim li cas kuv muaj lub chaw kho no yog pab cov neeg uas muaj kev paub dhau los."
Simon tau tsim lub Denver Kev Tshawb Fawb Chaw Kho Mob hauv xyoo 2014 tom qab sib ntaus nws tus kheej kev saib duab liab qab. Nws tau hais tias cov niam txiv feem ntau tsis paub txog cov neeg siv loj tshaj yog cov menyuam yaus hnub nyoog 12 thiab 17 nrog lawv thawj zaug muaj hnub nyoog ze ntawm 8-xyoo.
Simon tau hais tias "Kev saib duab liab qab yog qhov tseeb tshaj plaws rau cov menyuam yaus ua rau lawv nyiam thaum lawv tseem muaj hnub nyoog vim tias lawv paub tias yog thaum lawv tuaj yeem siv tau.
Ntawd yog qhov twg nws pib, lub hlwb. Saib xyuas internet porn dej nyab koj lub hlwb nrog dopamine thiab opioids, tshuaj uas ua rau koj zoo; thiab koj tuaj yeem khaws nws kom siab rau lub caij nyoog ntev, nrog nyem ntawm nas.
Joe tau hais tias "Nws tau ua rau qaug cawv, nws zoo li txhua yam kuv mob, txhua yam kev ntxub kuv tus kheej, txhua yam tsis sib xws, tau ploj mus thaum kuv saib duab liab qab, nws zoo li nws ntxuav tag," Joe tau piav.
Joe tau hais tias qhov kev xav zoo li ib txwm nyob ib ntus thiab yeej ib txwm taug nrog txoj kev txaj muag thiab txaj muag.
Joe tau hais tias "Kev txaj muag yog qhov ua rau cov neeg quav ntxiv thiab muaj zog ntxiv thaum lub sijhawm txuas ntxiv vim tias koj tsis xav kom leej twg paub," Joe hais.
Simon hais tias "Dua li kev txhim kho kev paub daws teebmeem tau zoo, lawv kawm paub txog kev saib duab liab qab thiab cov kev nyuaj siab ntawd yuav ploj mus, lawv yuav tawm mus."
Rau Joe, qhov tsis tseeb ntawd ntawm kev ywj pheej ntawm nws qhov kev nyuaj siab, thaum kawg muab nws khi mus rau nws txoj kev quav tshuaj. Koj pom, saib porn dhau sijhawm, ua rau koj lub hlwb tsim daim neuropathways tshiab. Koj yim saib nws ntau zog ces cov hauv paus hauv ntsis ntawd yuav dhau los. Qhov dej nyab ntawm dopamine hauv koj lub hlwb, tshaj koj cov neeg tau txais kev pab thiab thaum kawg koj xav tau cov khoom nyuaj thiab ntau ntxiv kom tau txais qhov qub siab.
Simon hais tias, "Qhov no yog tib qho kev muaj yeeb dawb los ntawm yeeb dawb muaj thaum lawv tham txog kev caum thawj qhov siab."
Simon hais tias ua ntej menyuam yaus pib saib porn online, qhov tshwm sim tsis zoo. Ntau cov kev tshawb fawb qhia cov neeg siv porn tawm tsam kom muaj kev sib raug zoo, tsis txaus siab rau lawv cov neeg koom tes, muaj libido tsawg thiab feem ntau nyiam porn tshaj kev sib deev nrog ib tus neeg. Cov kws txawj nyiam Ximoos, tab tom pom qhov tshwm sim tshiab; porn tsim tau kev coj ua erectile kawg, lossis PIED thiab nws tau nthuav dav rau txiv neej hauv lawv 20 xyoo.
“Cov tshuaj noj rau ED tsis ua haujlwm zoo vim tias nws tsis yog hais txog kev siv lub cev. Lub cev ua haujlwm tau zoo, nws yog hais txog qhov kev xav zoo, "Simon hais. "Kev muaj tiag xwb tsis tau piv."
Kev saib duab liab qab tsis yog cuam tshuam rau cov txiv neej. Simon hais tias ntau tus poj niam tab tom saib porn thiab nws pom qhov nce loj ntxiv ntawm cov poj niam xav tau kev kho mob rau kev tiv thaiv kev ua yeeb yaj kiab hauv online.
Muaj kev cia siab. Tus kws kho mob zoo li Ximoos tau hais tias thawj kauj ruam yog txiav kev porn tawm rau nws, ib yam dab tsi uas paub hauv lub ntiaj teb kev rov zoo li "rov qhib dua tshiab." Qhov no tso cai rau koj lub paj hlwb ua cov ntawv tshiab, muaj kev noj qab haus huv ntau dua neuropathways. Nws tuaj yeem siv nyob txhua qhov chaw ntawm 3 lub hlis txog 3 xyoos nyob ntawm ntau npaum li cas tus neeg tau saib kev saib duab liab qab hauv internet.
“Nov yog lub zog tiag tiag ntawm kev saib duab liab qab. Cov neuropathways, tsim tau zoo heev thiab tsim sau, nws siv ntau lub hlis txawm tias yuav rov tsim ntau dua, yog li ntawd cov tsis yog thawj qhov tseem ceeb, ”Simon hais.
Simon kuj tseem pom zoo kom tshem tawm ib qho kev pom kev zoo uas yuav ua rau rov huam mob dua, xws li Facebook, Instagram thiab kev sib tam xws li Tinder thiab Bumble. Simon hais tias koj tus kws saib xyuas mob yog ib tus kws qhia paub txog kev sib daj sib deev thiab pom zoo pab pawg kho mob zoo li kev quav yeeb tshuaj tsis qhia npe.
Simon hais tias cov niam txiv yuav tsum pib tham nrog lawv cov menyuam yaus uas muaj hnub nyoog txog kev sib deev thiab kev sib raug zoo thaum pib txog hnub nyoog 6. Cov niam txiv yuav tsum tham nrog cov menyuam loj dua txog dab tsi thiab tsis tsim nyog saib online thiab saib rau kev tso niam txiv kev tswj software. ntawm lawv cov menyuam cov khoom siv hluav taws xob.
Joe tau hais tias kev quav yeeb quav tshuaj tsis yog ib yam uas ntau tus tuaj yeem ntaus lawv tus kheej yam tsis muaj kev pab.
“Peb tsis nkag siab txog kev cuam tshuam ntawm kev porn ntawm lub hlwb. Kuv paub tias nws zoo li cas tab sis kuv tsis paub tias nws tob npaum li cas, Kuv tsis nkag siab qhov keeb kwm vim li cas nws thiaj li muaj yees, Kuv tsis nkag siab qhov ntawd. Tus kws kho mob yuav tsum muaj kev qaug tshuaj. Ib pawg 12-kauj ruam, ib pab txhawb nqa yuav tsum muaj cov phooj ywg uas nkag siab koj. Cov no yog cov cuab yeej uas yuav tsum muaj nyob rau hauv qhov chaw rau nws ua haujlwm. "
Joe tau tam sim no rov zoo thiab huv si los ntawm cov duab liab qab hauv internet tau 7 lub hlis. Nws hais tias kev yaum mus saib porn yog tseem muaj, tab sis nws tau kawm tshiab, kev noj qab haus huv ntau ntxiv los daws nws kev nyuaj siab.
“Kuv tau nce mus rau hauv pawg 12-theem thiab kuv tsis ntog. Nws yog qhov zoo li ntawd. Nws tau cawm kuv txoj sia, ”Joe tau hais.
Yog tias koj lossis ib tus neeg uas koj hlub raug ntaus nrog kev quav yeeb quav tshuaj, ntawm no yog qee qhov kev pab cuam kom tau txais kev pab:
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