Ntau Paus Internet Porn: Cov nyhuv SADD
Los ntawm Ian Kerner
Ib qho yooj yim nkag tau mus rau hauv internet porn thiab nws ntau yam tshiab ntawm novelty nws muaj tau cuam tshuam nruab nrab cov neeg uas tsis xav nquag muaj teeb meem.
Raws li ib tug txiv neej tus kws kho mob thiab founder ntawm Zoo hauv txaj, Kuv tau pom ib qho ntse nce siab rau cov txiv neej uas raug kev txom nyem los ntawm ib qho mob tshiab uas kuv tau hais txog "Kev Sib Haum Ua Kab Mob," lossis SADD. Thiab lub hauv paus ntawm qhov teeb meem no yog cia li nias tseg - ntau dhau lawm internet porn.
Ib yam li cov neeg nrog ADD tau yooj yim cuam tshuam, cov txiv neej nrog SADD tau dhau los ua rau cov qib siab pom kev zoo thiab kev txhawb zog uas yog los ntawm internet porn hais tias lawv tsis tuaj yeem ua siab rau kev sib deev nrog tus poj niam tiag tiag. Yog li ntawd, cov neeg nrog SADD feem ntau pom tau tias nws nyuaj rau tuav ib erection thaum com, los yog lawv muaj kev ejaculation qeeb thiab tsuas muaj peev xwm nce qis nrog cov kev qhia los yog qhov ncauj ntawm lub qhov ncauj.
Puas nyob hauv txaj?
Cov txiv neej nrog SADD yuav pom lawv tus kheej tau txais kev nyuaj siab los yog tsis siab luv thaum sib deev. Tej zaum lawv yuav yog physiologically aroused thiab erect, tab sis lawv nyob nraum tsis nyob peak hlwb arousal. Cov neeg uas nrog SADD kuj tseem tuaj yeem tsis tus mojo rau kev sib deev tiag tiag vim lawv raug kev txom nyem masturbation. Lawv tsis khiav ntawm lub tank, lub cev lossis lub hlwb.
Ntseeg nws los yog tsis yog, kuv tau pib paub txog SADD ntawm cov lus tsis txaus siab ntawm cov poj niam uas xav tias vim li cas lawv cov menyuam tuaj yeem tsis tuaj yeem ejaculate (thiab tau nquag faking nws) lossis pom tias lawv cov neeg koom tes raug kaw los yog tsis ua haujlwm thaum sib deev. Thaum kuv khawb me ntsis, los yog tham rau cov hais mav lawv tus kheej, kuv pom hais tias cov txiv neej tau masturbating ntau tshaj li ib txwm vim lawv nkag mus rau hauv internet porn yooj yim. Qee lub sij hawm, lawv tau xav txog kev zoo ib yam li qub, tiam sis tsis tau paub tias lawv lub caij ntuj sov rov qab - sij hawm rov qab los ntawm kev ua erections - tau nce thaum lawv laus zuj zus.
Tsis tau kuv lawm, Kuv yog tus kiv cua loj ntawm txoj kev zoo siab. Nws pab ib tug yawg tshuab qee qhov chaw ua haujlwm thiab zoo li 30-thib ob hnub. Tab sis yooj yim nkag tau mus rau hauv internet porn thiab ntau yam tshiab ntawm novelty nws muaj cuam tshuam nruab nrab cov neeg uas tsis xav nquag muaj teeb meem. Vim li no, cov txiv neej no tau rov qab qhib lawv lub hlwb kom muaj kev sib luag ntawm kev pub dawb ntawm cov porn-enabled orgasm. Qhov no txhais tau hais tias lawv tab tom tsim dab tsi yog clinically raug xa mus rau raws li ib qho kev txhim kho miosicotic style: Lawv tau siv lawv tus kheej mus rau ib qho kev mob siab ntawm lub cev stimulation uas tsis yog kwv yees thaum muaj kev sib deev tiag. Lawv tag nrho theem ntawm kev muaj siab rau kev sib deev rau lawv cov khub yog cia, thiab lawv yuav tsum xav li cas thaum lub sijhawm muaj kev sib deev thiaj li muaj peev xwm tswj tau tag nrho cov kev txhim kho.
Xav tias koj raug kev txom nyem los ntawm SADD? Ntawm no yog yuav ua li cas…
Dab tsi yog ib tug txiv leej tub nrog SADD ua?
Ua ntej, muab koj tus kheej a masturbation so. Txuag koj mojo rau koj tus khub. Yog tias koj tib leeg xwb, txo koj lub sij hawm ntev. Thaum twg koj ua masturbate, sim siv koj tsis-tseem ceeb tes. Piv txwv, yog tias koj yog ib tus righty, kov koj tus kheej nrog koj sab laug. Koj yuav tsis muaj peev xwm siv tib theem ntawm kev siv lub cev raws li koj tuaj yeem nrog koj tus kheej tes, yog li koj yuav tsis ua raws li lub cev nias rau qhov kev xav ntawm kev sib.
Qhov ob, nteg tawm porn. Thaum koj xav masturbate, siv koj lub siab los tsim cov duab thiab sim nco qab ib lub sijhawm uas nws deev. Xav txog nws li qhov sib txawv ntawm kev nyeem ntawv thiab saib TV. Siv lub sijhawm no los qhib koj lub keeb kwm txog kev siv erotic thiab koj tus kheej catalog ntawm kev nco qab ntxim hlub.
Nce qhov kev puas siab puas ntsws nov nrog koj tus khub: Tshaj tawm tswv yim thiab sim ua lub luag haujlwm. Ua ntej koj muaj kev sib raug zoo, tau koj tus kheej mus rau ib qho chaw uas koj nyob ntawm qhov chaw siab thiab puas siab puas ntsws arousal. SADD tsis tas yuav tu siab rau koj los yog koj tus khub. Kauj ruam ntawm koj lub computer thiab mus rau koj chav pw, thiab koj tuaj yeem ua rau koj rov qab saib qhov twg nws yog - ntawm koj lub neej tiag tiag.
Ian Kerner, Ph.D, yog tus kws pab tswv yim txog kev sib deev thiab Lub New York Times zoo tshaj plaws-muag sau ntawm ntau phau ntawv rau Harper Collins, nrog rau Nws tuaj ua ntej. Nws yog tus tsim ntawm GoodInBed.com thiab nyuam qhuav pib sau phau ntawv qhia overcoming ntxov ntxov ejaculation.
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