Thaum nws los txog rau yos txawv thiab yauv sib deev, kev sib deev ntawm lub cev tsis zoo ntawm lub hnab looj thiab tau taug kev ntawm kev poob nthav. Tab sis nws muaj peev xwm ua kom muaj qhov tsis zoo, qhov tseeb, vim tias feem ntau muaj qee qhov kev xav zoo nkauj uas los nrog lub cev SNAFUs hauv txaj. Yuav kom paub meej: Kuv hais txog thaum koj nyob nrog tus txiv neej uas tawm tsam nrog kev kho erectile kawg los yog lub cev tsis ntxov ua ntej. (Muaj ntau lwm txoj kev uas peb lub cev tuaj yeem ua tsis tau zoo hauv txaj - thiab peb cov poj niam ntsib peb tus kheej txoj kev sib tw- tab sis ntawm no, peb tab tom tsom mus rau tus txiv neej.)
Erectile kawg-lossis lub cev tsis tuaj yeem los yog kom lub zog erection - cuam tshuam rau ntau lab tus txiv neej hauv Asmeskas, nrog cov naj npawb nce nrog lub hnub nyoog. Tab sis qhov ntawd tsis txhais tias ib txhiab xyoo tus txiv neej tsis paub nws: Raws li University of Wisconsin Madison Cov Tsev Kawm Ntawv Kho Mob thiab Kev Noj Qab Haus Huv, hais mentsis los sis nruab nrab ED cuam tshuam rau 10 feem pua ntawm cov txiv neej nyob rau kaum xyoo ntawm lub neej - lub ntsiab lus 20 feem pua ntawm cov txiv neej hauv lawv cov 20s, 30 feem pua ntawm cov txiv neej hauv 30s, thiab ntxiv rau, txawm hais tias peb yuav xav tias muaj qhov txo qis ntawm qee kis. Ntev cauj, ntawm qhov tod tes, yog thaum tus txiv leej tub tsis tuaj yeem nres nws tus kheej los ntawm ejaculating sai sai tom qab nkag. Qee qhov chaw kwv yees tias 20 rau 30 feem pua ntawm cov txiv neej yuav tawm tsam nrog PE ntawm qee kis lossis lwm qhov (tus mob tuaj yeem mus thiab mus).
Qhov ntawd yog txhua qhov hais tias pes tsawg tus poj niam uas tau pw nrog ib tug txiv leej tub tau nrog ib qhov ntawm cov kev tsis zoo no kuj tseem muaj ntau heev. (Yog tias peb tsuas yog kuv cov phooj ywg xwb, qhov ntawd yeej muaj tseeb.) Thiab tsis muaj teeb meem koj yuav cuam tshuam qhov teeb meem, yuav ua li cas siab ntev, lossis tsis txaj muag-y thiab liam-y, nws tseem yog qhov ntawd: Muaj teeb meem. Koj paub nws thiab nws paub nws, tab sis lo lus nug ntawm yuav ua li cas kho nws nyob.
Hauv qab no, tsib lus qhia ntse los ntawm cov kws kho mob poj niam hais txog qhov pib.
Tsis Txhob Tu Siab Rau Koj.
Txawm hais tias nws yuav yog kev ntxias mus rau qhov ua tsis zoo rau cov feeb ua tej yam tsis ncaj ncees lawm - tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum nws tau ED - sim tsis txhob ua kom pom tseeb rau koj tus kheej, hais tias sexologist Emily Morse, Ph.D., tswv ntawm Sib deev nrog EmilyCov. Nws hais tias, "Qhov no tsis txhais tau tias nws tsis yog nyiam kev sib deev rau koj," nws hais. "Tus txiv neej tso rau hauv Tshuag ntau rau hauv lawv kev ua haujlwm zoo vim yog kev coj noj coj ua ntawm lub tswv yim ntawm kev ua niam txiv. Tab sis tib txoj kev uas ntub koj tsis yog ib txwm cuam tshuam li cas muab-rau koj yog, dab tsi tshwm sim hauv qab txoj siv rau nws tsis yog ib qho kev cuam tshuam meej tseeb ntawm qhov nws xav ua phem rau koj. " Nqus ib ce kom tob tob, ntsiag to tawm cov suab sab hauv, thiab tawm tsam nws los nug nws vim li cas koj tsis kub txaus kom tau nws nyuaj. Ntseeg: Txhua yam tsis zoo uas koj hnov hauv koj lub taub hau, nws tau qhia nws tus kheej cov khoom uas yog kaum zaus tsis zoo.
Khaws Lub Convo Casual.
Ua ke nrog kev zam tham txog koj tus kheej, tsis txhob nqa cua ntawm kev tsaus ntuj, doom, lossis super-seriousness rau kev sib tham thaum koj tham nrog tus txiv leej tub txog nws. Nws yuav cia li ua rau nws tawm ntau tshaj qhov nws twb muaj lawm. Morse hais tias "Tsis muaj kev sib tham hauv chav pw." “Sim ua nws noj tshais lwm hnub. Lwm cov lus qhia yog ua nws thaum koj nyob hauv lub tsheb lossis taug kev tus dev - nws yog lub ncauj lus rhiab, yog li muab qhov kev xaiv rau lawv tsis yog ntsia lub qhov muag tuaj yeem yog kev kho siab thiab ua kom cov lus sib tham tsis zoo. "Koj lub suab thiab vibe tseem ceeb tshaj qhov koj hais tiag, tab sis koj cov lus yuav tsum yog ib yam dab tsi ntawm cov kab ntawm, “Dab tsi tshwm sim nag hmo tsis muaj teeb meem loj! Kuv tau hnov ntau tus txiv neej ntog nrog qhov no, yog li tej zaum nws tsim nyog coj kws kho mob mus kuaj nws. "
Ua Kev Cai Lub Cev Raug Mob.
Hauv cov txiv neej hluas, txawv yog qhov teeb meem muaj mob hlwb, hais tias tus kws kho poj niam Laurie Watson, LMFT, tus tswv tsev paj taub FOREPLAY: Xov Xwm Sib Tham Txog Kev Sib DeevCov. “Nov yog qhia txog yuav ua li cas los txiav txim siab tias nws muaj sia: Yog tias nws muaj kev kho mob thaum sawv ntxov; yog tias nws tuaj yeem tau txais erection tab sis tsis tuaj yeem khaws nws; thiab nws tuaj yeem tau txais erection los ntawm nws tus kheej thiab tawm tswv yim tsis muaj teeb meem thaum nws lub neej masturbating, qhov teeb meem tsis yog lub cev. " Hloov chaw, tej zaum muaj ib yam dab tsi mus ntawm kev xav lossis kev xav uas nws yuav xav tau saib. Ua raws li nws loj thiab nqis peev koj yog nws thiab kev sib raug zoo, qhov ntawd yog qee yam uas koj tuaj yeem pab nws nrog.
Chaw Txoj Kev uas nws tus kheej Psyching tawm.
Muaj qee yam hauv lub neej lossis kev xav hauv lub hlwb uas koj tuaj yeem pab nws nyob. Piv txwv li, nws puas haus cawv ua ntej koj sib deev? Uas tuaj yeem tua ib tus kaus mom. Puas yog nws tau overdoing nws nyob porn? Morse hais tias "Porn pheej nce qhov hnyav ntawm lub zog, txhais tau tias tus txiv neej xav tau kev txhawb nqa ntau dua vim tias nws tau siv dhau los," "Qhia nws-zoo - tias yog nws rov mus so lossis mus so, nws yuav pab tau koj lub neej kev ua plees ua yi." Tsis tas li, yog tias koj tab tom sib ntaus hauv lwm qhov chaw ntawm lub neej, nws tuaj yeem ua rau nchuav hauv txaj, hais tias Watson. Nws hais tias "Yog nws npau taws rau koj, nws tuaj yeem ua tsis tau zoo rau kev ua haujlwm". "Qee tus txiv neej uas dag tau teeb meem nyuaj vim tias lawv xav tias lawv ua txhaum thiab lawv tus cwj pwm sib cav txog kev pw nrog ob tug poj niam ib zaug." nws tuaj yeem txaus siab rau koj lwm txoj kev. Thaum nws tshem nws lub siab mus, nws yuav pom tias nws muaj peev xwm muab nws rho tawm lossis tswj tau kom sai.
Nqa Koj Cov Ntxhais Los Ntawm Nws.
Yog tias koj tsis tuaj yeem nyob hauv tsev dab tsi uas ua rau PE lossis ED, thiab nws tus kws kho mob hais tias nws tsis yog lub cev, koj tuaj yeem txiav txim siab mus ntsib tus kws kho mob pw ua ke, hais tias Watson. Hav, uas yog dab tsi kws txawj yog rau! Tab sis thaum kawg, nws yog tib tug uas tau txais kev pab. Nws hais tias "Tus txiv neej ntshai mus ntsib cov kws kho kev sib deev vim lawv ntshai tias lawv yuav raug qhia hais tias lawv tsis muaj peev xwm txaus," "Tab sis yog tias nws ncua sijhawm nrhiav kev pab ntev, nws yuav qhia tau tias nws tsis yog tus khub sib deev uas yuav txaus siab rau kev loj hlob thiab hloov sijhawm."
Yog tias nws tau raug quav yeeb txog qhov xwm txheej thiab nws lub cev ego dhau los ua haujlwm ua ke thiab nrhiav kev daws teeb meem, xyuam xim rau qhov uas qhia koj txog nws. Puas yog nws yog tus koj xav pw nrog, tso ib leeg ua si? Watson hais tias, "Yog tias muaj cov qauv ntawm kev ncua, kev zam txim siab lossis npau taws thaum hais txog cov ncauj lus no, xav ob zaug txog kev nyob nrog kev sib raug zoo," Watson hais. "Nws tsis yog lus nug txog kev sib deev tsis sib haum, tab sis kev sib txuam nrog tus neeg uas tsis yog neeg kawm, yuav tsis qhib, thiab tsis kam hloov."
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