"Nws zoo nkaus li muab tshuaj rau tus me nyuam. Nws hloov kuv lub neej tas mus li. "
Rau cov 26-xyoo-laus-laus James Wong, cov duab liab qab hauv internet pib ua rau lub siab tsis muaj qab hau - thiab thaum kawg tau coj kev ywj pheej.
Nws qhia nws zaj dab neeg nrog TVNZ Txoj Kev Npam Pab Txhawb Hnub Sunday, los piav txog qhov teeb meem uas porn muaj nyob rau ntawm Kiwi cov hluas.
Mr Wong tau qhia rau porn thaum muaj hnub nyoog cuaj. Nyob rau hauv nws cov hluas, nws siv los ua compulsive thiab ntau.
"Kuv tau saib 40 cov yeeb yaj duab txawv hauv ib qho zaum," nws hais. "Nws tuaj yeem mus rau ntev, nws tsis yog ib qho tseem ceeb. Nws yog ib qhov ntxiab uas ua rau koj dai rau. "
Koj Wong siv porn kom dim txoj kev ntxhov siab thiab tsis pom tus kheej, tiam sis nws coj ib tug ntau dua tus xov tooj hu rau nws lub cev thiab nws lub siab.
Nws tsim erectile kawg, thiab muaj kev xav "kev sib sib zog nqus kev txaj muag", vim yog txoj kev quab yuam ntawm nws txoj kev quav.
"Kuv tsis tau muaj kev sib raug zoo tiag tiag, vim kuv tabtom txhim kho qhov kev sib raug zoo nrog cov porn no," nws hais rau hnub Sunday.
Koj Wong tsis yog ib leeg. Cov kws kho mob muaj kev txhawj xeeb txog kev mob siab heev - thiab txawm tias muaj yees - cov yeeb yaj kiab ntawm porn online.
Los Angeles-based pw ua tus kws kho mob Dr Robert Weiss qhia hnub Sunday tias txawm tias txhua tus neeg siv porn yuav tsis quav tshuaj, qee cov yuav.
"Yog tias koj muaj 15 xyoo, yog tias koj tsis tau pom dua ib tus neeg liab qab, thiab koj saib cov kev ua si, kev sib deev txawv los yog kev sib deev txawv dua qub thiab rov qab mus rau lawv - nws yuav ua li cas rau koj lub neej kev pw ua ke thiab nws mus ua ib qho teeb meem, "said Dr Weiss.
Ntau ntawm hnub no lub porn online yog nraaj thiab tsausmuag. New Zealand lub censor chief, David Shanks, yog txhawj xeeb tias nws yog muab cov tub ntxhais hluas sib cav txog qhov kev sib deev tiag tiag - tsis muaj kev qhia ntawm kev tso cai los yog kev siv tiv thaiv.
"Porn hauv internet tsis yog hais txog kev tsim kev hlub," said Mr Shanks. "Nws muaj qhov chaw uas cia siab rau kev ua saib tsis taus, ua tsis ncaj ncees, los yog txhawb kev sib deev thiab kev ua phem."
"Nws yog qhov kawg tshaj plaws uas koj xav kom cov tub ntxhais hluas siv ua thawj qhov kev kawm txog kev sib deev."
Tus Censor's Office tsis ntev los no tau ua ib qho kev tshawb fawb txog 2,000 Kiwi cov hluas, kom nkag siab tias lawv siv porn, thiab qhov tshwm sim nws muaj rau lawv.
Tsoom Fwv yuav siv cov ntsiab lus ntawm qhov kev soj ntsuam no - muab tso tawm rau lub Kaum Ob Hlis - kom saib seb puas yog porn.
Tus Minister rau Cov Menyuam, Tracey Martin, hais rau hnub Sunday tias nws tau piav qhia los ntawm cov neeg ua haujlwm txog qhov porn no muaj kev cuam tshuam cov tub ntxhais hluas txoj kev coj tus cwj pwm.
"Peb tab tom muaj ntau tus ntxhais hluas pom ntawm cov kev pabcuam kev noj qab haus huv nrog lub cev tsis zoo ntawm kev sib daj sib deev zoo nkauj - dua, nqaij, qhov teeb meem zoo li ntawd," said Mrs Martin.
"Tus naj npawb ntawm [porn] duab tso zis daig thaum muaj poj niam txiv neej - thiab qhov tshwm sim rau peb cov ntxhais hluas."
Tus Minister yog lub siab xav tiv thaiv cov tub ntxhais hluas los ntawm kev raug porn ua ntej lawv tau tsim ib qho kev nkag siab txog kev noj qab haus huv, kev sib daj sib deev zoo li cas.
"Qee cov tib neeg yuav pom qhov no thaum kuv sim ntes lawv cov cai," said Ms Martin. "Tab sis ob sab ntawm lub koob yees duab, muaj ntau cov tub ntxhais hluas ntawm kev sib ceg ntawm no."
Nrog kev pab los ntawm kev sib deev kws kho mob, James Wong ua haujlwm dhau los ntawm nws qhov kev tiv thaiv.
"Nws yog qhov nyuaj tshaj plaws uas kuv twb tau ua, vim kuv tabtom sim hloov tej yam uas kuv tau ua tag nrho kuv lub neej," nws hais rau hnub Sunday. "Tab sis muaj ib txoj kev tawm."
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