Porn, Novelty thiab Coolidge Effect (2011)

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Coolidge cov duab teeb

Cov nyhuv Coolidge yog ib qho kev txhim kho thaum ub uas muaj peev xwm ua rau koj cov lus tsis txaus siab tom qab orgasm if muaj cov phooj ywg tshiab thov khov kho. Yog tsis muaj nws, yuav tsis muaj porn porn. Qhov no neurological mechanism perceives txhua erotic tshiab ploj-nrog rau cov uas nyob hauv koj lub vijtsam-raws li lub sijhawm zoo tshaj plaws, thiab jolts rau hauv kev txiav txim nrog lub zog neurochemicals.

Yuav muaj dab tsi tshwm sim thaum koj tso tus txiv neej tus nas rau hauv lub tawb nrog lub cev poj niam txais? Ua ntej, muaj kev sib deev frenzy. Tom qab ntawv, cov txiv neej cov log tsheb zuj zus ntawm tus poj niam tshwj xeeb. Txawm hais tias nws xav tau ntau dua nws tau muaj txaus. Txawm li cas los xij, hloov daim tseem poj niam nrog ib tus tshiab, thiab presto! Cov txiv neej revives thiab gallantly struggles rau fertilize nws. Koj tuaj yeem rov hais dua txoj kev no nrog cov poj niam tshiab kom txog thaum nws yuav luag qaug zog. Zaum paub qhov phenomenon no Txim Coolidge thiab nws tau lawm pom nyob rau hauv pojniam, Ib yam nkaus thiab.

dopamine

Tus nas mus tom qab txhua tus poj niam tshiab vim yog cov dopamine (neurochemical) hauv nws lub hlwb. Tsis muaj dab tsi ntuj los ze rau tso ntau npaum li dopamine ua poj niam txiv neej, vim tias peb cov noob xav ua lawv txoj kev mus rau yav tom ntej saum toj no. Dopamine surges command tus nas mus tawm tsis muaj phooj ywg zoo unfertilized.

Dopamine yog qhov “tau lawm!” neurochemical qab txhua txoj kev mob siab. Yog tsis muaj nws peb yuav tsis thab mus hais plaub, mus nce toj siab, los noj. Thaum dopamine poob, yog li kev txhawb zog. Dopamine tseem yog tus nuv hauv txhua yam kev quav yeeb tshuaj. Ib tus neeg lub hlwb quav hlob zoo dua rau nws, thiab li, paradoxically, ntau xav ua kom tau rau nws.

Rov qab mus rau tus nas. Ua raws li txhua daim luam nrog tib tug poj niam nws qhov khoom plig circuitry squirts tsawg dua thiab tsawg dua dopamine. Xav txog cov saum toj no. Qhov thib tsib lub sij hawm tus nas ua ke nrog cov tib poj niam nws yuav siv nws 17 feeb kom tau tawm. Lub sij hawm Ejaculation nce li dopamine tso tawm txo qis. Tab sis yog hais tias nws yuav hloov mus rau cov poj niam tshiab, nws muaj peev xwm ua nws txoj hauj lwm ceev nrooj txhua tsib zaug. Nws lub hlwb rov kho nws cov virility nrog muaj zog squirts ntawm dopamine teb rau txhua tus khub tshiab. *

Khub tsevneeg

Tsis zoo li cov nas, tib neeg yog khub bondersCov. Peb nyob ntawm txoj xov hlau, ntawm qhov nruab nrab, txhawm rau tsa cov menyuam yaus ua ke - thiab nrhiav kom muaj kev txaus siab nyob hauv peb cov koomhaum (muaj feem). Tab sis Coolidge nyhuv lurks hauv peb, ib yam nkaus thiab, thiab awakens thaum lub luag haujlwm suab nrov nrov txaus. Kuv ib zaug tau sib tham nrog ib tug txiv neej uas loj hlob hauv Los Angeles. Nws lees txim tias "Kuv tawm mus txog ntawm 350 tus neeg nyiam," thiab kuv tau kwv yees tias yuav tsum muaj ib qho tsis ncaj ncees rau kuv vim kuv ib txwm tsis nyiam ua rau lawv nyiam sib deev sai. Qee tus pojniam ntawd zoo nkauj heev. "

Thaum lub sij hawm ntawm peb sib tham nws thib peb tus poj niam tau cia li tso nws mus rau ib tug Fabkis thiab nws tau poob siab. Nws tau poob siab rau nws.

Internet porn: lub Coolidge Effect rau ntxaib turbos

Online erotica tuaj yeem nkag mus rau ib tus neeg siv tsis so. Tshiab tshiab "mates" cia dopamine surging. Ib tug yawg tau pom tias qhov txawv yog li cas yog tus nuv:

Kuv khaws ntau porn. Kuv xav tias kuv tau amassing qee qhov zoo ntawm kev lom zem. Tab sis kuv tsis nco qab puas yuav rov qab mus dua. Qhov tsis txaus ntseeg yog lub hnub qub tshiab, cov yeeb yaj kiab tshiab, qhov yeeb yam tshiab.

Tsis yog qhov ceeb, ntau cov kev tshawb fawb siv porn qhia tau hais tias nas thiab tib neeg tsis sib txawv thaum nws los txog qhov tshiab ntawm qhov kev xav ntawm kev sib deev. Piv txwv li, thaum Australian cov neeg tshawb nrhiav tso tawm tib zaj yeeb yaj kiab erotic ntau zaus, sim cov ncauj lus 'cwj mem thiab cov ntawv tshaj tawm ob qho tib si qhia tawm cov kev txo qis hauv kev sib deev. Qhov qub "qub qub qub" tsuas yog tau txais txawv txawv (kwv yees, uas qhia tau txo qis dopamine).

Tom qab 18 saib-raws li cov kev xeem cov ntsiab lus tau nodding tawm-kev soj ntsuam los ua tswvcuab tshiab erotica rau 19th thiab 20th saib. Bingo! Cov ntsiab lus thiab lawv cov penises sprang kom mloog. (Yog, Cov poj niam pom qhov zoo sib xws.)

Txias Qhov Chaw Tsim Nyog Tshiab dopamine

Cov kws tshawb fawb kuj kawm tau hais tias kev siab zoo rau lub pornstar tshiab nce ejaculate ntim thiab phev phev (muab piv nrog masturbating rau tus paub zoo). Tsis tas li, lub sijhawm nws coj mus rau ejaculate poob qis. Hauv ntej, kev sib deev novelty txhais ua ntau phev phev thiab sai ejaculation, ua ib qhov "txuas ntxiv-khub txuas" ntau dua, thiab ntau kim.

Dab neeg deev deev

Lub Coolidge nyhuv kuj tseem ua rau muaj txiaj ntsig zoo dua qub kev sib tw ua haujlwm thaum raug tus neeg nyiam deev tshiab. Dopamine surges rau txhua yam tshiab - tshwj xeeb yog tias nws yog kev sib deev. Kev tshawb nrhiav pom kev cia siab ntawm yam khoom plig thiab yam tshiab ua kom nrov nrov rau ib leeg kom muaj kev txaus siab thiab rov mus txais lub hlwb limbic. Thawj ntu ntawm lub hlwb tsis quav ntsej yog tias koj twb tau sib deev ntau txaus; nws xav tau cov keeb kwm kev tshwm sim. Piv txwv li, Sooty, a txiv neej guinea npua, tsoo mus rau hauv ib lub tawb ntawm nees-nkaum plaub pojniam. Rau hnub tom qab nws raug ntes, nws tau raug ntes. (Kev tshawb nrhiav txog lwm cov nas tsuag qhia tau hais tias tag nrho rov qab los ntawm lub hlwb siv txog xya hnub, thiab tshawb nrhiav txog tib neeg kuj qhia txog tom qab ejaculation cycle ntawm tsawg kawg yog xya hnub.)

Sooty lub noob tau zoo siab txawm tias; nws rog tau 42 tus me nyuam npua. Cov sijhawm zoo li no tau muaj tsawg kawg rau cov txivneej ntawm txhua hom, tab sis Coolidge Effect qhov kev pov hwm uas yuav tsum muaj sijhawm, cov txiv neej yuav tsis quav ntsej lawv cov kev txwv ntuj thiab mus ntawm nws txog thaum lawv poob.

Lub sijhawm rov qab

Obviously, caug xav tau sij hawm rov qab muaj zog dua thiab kev tawm dag zog tom qab overriding lawv kev sib deev kev sib deev mechanisms nrog dopamine / novelty. Tab sis dab tsi tshwm sim rau cov neeg siv Internet porn niaj hnub no? Muaj pes tsawg tus neeg hla lawv txoj kev ua yeeb yam sib deev-tsis tas muab lawv tus kheej rau lub sijhawm ntev kom rov zoo dua? Yeej ib txwm muaj lwm qhov kom los ua txij nkawm "xav tau" kom muaj chaw. Tellingly, thaum cov txiv neej nrog porn-ntxias kev ntxim nyiam erectile kawg txiav luam yeeb siv porn lawv muaj ib qho tsis yooj yim “ncaj qha. ” Thaum lawv nqa lawv ko taw tawm ntawm cov pa roj, lawv cov libido yuav pw tsaug zog ntev li ntawm lub limtiam - ntev ntawm Sooty lub sijhawm rov ua haujlwm.

Kev khwv noj khwv tau ua rau cov phooj ywg zoo nkauj dua

Dopamine tsis yog tso tawm nyob rau hauv teb rau novelty xwb. Thaum muaj qee yam tseem ceeb tshaj qhov xav tau lub hlwb nqi hluav taws xob Circuitry tso tawm dopamine thiab hluav taws kub zoo li vwm. Internet porn ib txwm muaj qee yam tsis tau xav txog, ib yam dab tsi kinkier.

Nyob rau hauv sib piv, nrog txiv neej pw nrog koj tus sweetheart yog tsis ib txwm zoo dua tuaj. Tsis yog nws muab kev txom ntau yam. Nws muaj lwm yam ntau dua soothing kev ntshawCov. Tu siab, qhov pib ntawm koj lub hlwb xav tias ntau yam ntawm dopamine sib npaug tus nqi ntawm kev ua haujlwm txawm tias nws tsis ua.

hlub menyuam roj hmab thiab Coolidge nyhuvCov kab hauv qab: Ntau cov khoom cua stimulation yuav ua rau koj tus txij nkawm zoo li mob khaub thuas oatmeal. Raws li ib tug 2007 txoj kev tshawb no, mere raug rau ntau cov dluab ntawm cov poj niam uas tau ntxim nyiam ua rau ib tug txiv neej mus rau devalue nws tus khub real-life. Nws tus nqi qis tsis yog ntawm kev nyiam, tab sis kuj rau kev sov siab thiab kev txawj ntse. Tsis tas li ntawd, tom qab kev saib duab liab qab, kev kawm hauv ib 1988 txoj kev tshawb no tshaj tawm tsis txaus siab nrog lawv tus khub nyob sib ze - suav nrog tus khub muaj kev hlub, tsos, xav paub txog kev sib deev, thiab kev ua tau zoo.

Txawm tias ob peb xyoo dhau los, kev sib deev nrog sov, tus khub tau txais feem ntau muab ntau dua dopamine ntau dua li masturbating (dua) rau ib tus neeg ua si nplaum. Tom qab txhua tus, thaum Lub Xya Hli Ntuj tau ua tiav "tsim tawm," koj tau txais tsawg dua ntawm dopamine ntaus los ntawm nws txoj kab airbrushed. Koj yuav tsum tau tos Miss August. Tom qab ntawd tuaj cov neeg laus hauv khw muag khoom. Tab sis pes tsawg zaus koj tuaj yeem tawm mus rau tib qho yeeb yaj kiab ua ntej nws txog lub sijhawm mus nqa ib qho tshiab? (Them nyiaj liab qab… ua li cas yeeg.)

Cov tua tsiaj uas tsis muaj hnub xaus

Niaj hnub no hauv Internet porn, hauv kev sib piv, muaj foob pob hluav taws tsis kawg ntawm kev nias ntawm nas. Koj tuaj yeem yos hav zoov (lwm qhov kev tso tawm dopamine) rau cov xuab moos, thiab paub ntau dua tshiab nrog cov khub sib deev txhua kaum feeb dua li koj cov neeg yos hav zoov-gatherer cov pog yawg hauv lub neej. Dopamine ntaus tom qab dopamine ntaus tuaj yeem ua rau qaug tshuaj yeeb tshuaj zoo li hauv lub xeev. (Cocaine, piv txwv li, tshuav nws qhov nyiaj ntau tshaj rau dopamine nthuav dav hauv lub hlwb.) Nws muaj zog txaus los cuam tshuam koj lub hlwb li kev sib deev sib deev tom qab orgasm.

Kuv tau masturbating rau cov duab liab qab zoo li qub txij thaum kuv yog ib tug tub hluas. Kuv yeej tsis tau muaj ib qho teeb meem nrog ED txog ib ncig ntawm 6 xyoo dhau los. Qhov teeb meem pib nrog nkag mus dawb streaming Internet porn. Raws li kev txuas ceev ntxiv, yog li muaj qhov yooj yim txaus saib ntau li ntau kuv thiaj lis tau. Kuv twb tau rov qab ua rau kuv lub paj hlwb tau txais kev txhawj xeeb los ntawm masturbating rau porn. Kuv nyob hauv ib txoj kev sib raug zoo nrog tus poj niam zoo nkauj rau lub 4 lub xyoos dhau los thiab tau pom tias qis qis qis hauv kuv libido thiab nce hauv ED.

Parmless porn?

Koj feem ntau tau hnov ​​tias, "Porn tau nyob mus ib txhis, yog li nws yuav tsum muaj kev phom sij." Tsis tau qhov kev thov no tsis muaj nuj nqis ib zaug tshiab qhov kev cuam tshuam muaj zog ntawm lub hlwb tau to taub. Niaj hnub no 24/7 Internet Internet nrog rau ntau yam txwv tsis pub koj tsuas yog tso koj txoj kev sib daj sib deev xwb. Nws tso cai rau koj mus kom deb dhau qhov kev ntshaw-saib tsam nrog kev tsis zoo. Rau qee cov, kev thab plaub rau Internet porn yuav ua ntau dua kev sib deev dua poj niam:

Tsuas yog "rubbing off," peb ntev masturbators feem ntau koom rau hauv kev xyaum peb hu "edging“: Nqa peb tus kheej mus rau lub brink ntawm orgasm pheej hais dua, tsis muaj ejaculation. Peb txhawb nqa qib siab kawg ntawm kev sib deev arousal cia rau cov sijhawm. Kuv yog ib tug koom rau hauv ob peb masturbation-teem Internet pawg, thiab moderator ntawm ib tug.

Peb coob tus mus kom deb li deb tso tseg tus khub-poj niam, txawm tias thaum tus khub tseem tshuav thiab txaus siab. Peb kuj tau siv lub sij hawm "kev ntxub kev nyuab siab" rau qhov tshwm sim uas muaj peev xwm ua kom nws mus rau hauv Internet porn, tab sis tsis yog rau tus khub.

Leej twg yog! Ib qho evolutionary mechanism xam kom pom cov me nyuam loj tuaj thiab lawv cov caj ces lawv tuaj yeem tsav cov neeg siv porn deb los ntawm cov phooj ywg tiag tiag? Tau, vim hais tias lub mechanism sau rau dopamine. Koj lub hlwb xav tias yog tias ib yam dab tsi ua rau koj kub heev, nws yuav tsum muaj kev ncaj ncees-rau-vaj noob txiv tshiab (txawm tias tseem ceeb txaus ntshai rau, rov qab rau hnub ntawd).

Yog lub Txias Txias Txias Ua Rau "tus txiv neej tuag taus?"

Yog tias koj tsis nkag siab txog Coolidge Effect cov zais lub hlwb lub hlwb, uas yaum kom koj mus rau tsuj roj thaum koj tseem muaj ntau dua, nws yog ib qho nyuaj rau kev sib txuas ntawm qhov kev ua yeeb yam insatiable nrog qhov tseeb tias koj lub hlwb muaj. loj hlob tsis zoo vim dopamine tshaj. Tom qab tag nrho, nws muaj peev xwm xav tias koj libido yog insatiable. Qhov teeb meem no yog qhov txawv txav vim hais tias lub zog aphrodisiac ntawm ntau porn ntawm thawj xav tias zoo li teb rau kev sib deev kev ua neej zoo.

Qhov tseeb tiag, txawm li cas los xij, yog tias kev tsis txaus siab rau qhov kev sib deev hauv lub hlwb yuav ua rau koj lub siab kub siab nrhiav ntau dua. Ib qho pov thawj tias koj qhov ntsuas lub ntsuas sov ua kom tsis muaj zog yuav ua rau koj xav tau porn pauv hauv Internet kom tau txais kev noj qab haus huv los yog tawm mus. (Yog, rov qab rau hauv ib hnub, cov menyuam yaus yooj yim masturbated rau climax nrog tsis muaj porn.)

Lwm yam cim yuav ua rau muaj kev nyob tsis tswm, txob taus thiab tsis txaus siab, muaj siab rau kinkier kev sib deev, nrhiav koj tus khub tsis tshua nyiam los yog yuam deev dua li hauv Is Taws Nem, lossis xav tau cov khoom siv heev. Cov kws tshaj lij hu tej yam teebmeem ntawd “kam rau ua. ” Lawv tuaj yeem qhia kev quav yeeb quav tshuaj thaum ua haujlwm hauv lub hlwb.

Philip Zimbardo

Piv txwv, saib qhov no tsib feeb TED tham 'The Demise of Guys?' los ntawm tus kws kho paj hlwb nrov npe Philip Zimbardo thaum nws piav qhia txog "kev quav yeeb quav cawv" yog cuam tshuam dab tsi rau ntau tiam neeg. Nws hais tias ib tus neeg siv porn rov qab:

Kuv tus kheej raug kev txom nyem los ntawm ntau qhov nws tham hauv hauv daim vis dis aus no. Txij li siv ceev xwmphem porn lub depersonalization tau dwindled. Kuv rhuav tshem cov lus tso dag thiab hais lus nrov yam tsis xav txog qhov kuv hais los yog txhawj xeeb txog lwm tus yuav xav li cas. Kuv txoj kev sib raug zoo nrog kuv tus hluas nkauj tau dhau los ua tus kheej ntau dua li qee lub phab ntsa uas kuv tau tso tam sim no tau ntog mus. Yees duab zoo heev.

Feem ntau ntawm cov teeb meem pib nrog qhov txaus ntshai, tshiab-uas tau tsav lub Coolidge Effect - xwm tus nplawm rau kev pov hwm tias koj ua koj lub luag haujlwm yog tias cov khub yog nyob ib puag ncig, txawm tias koj twb tau sib deev txaus. Koj cov noob tsis saib xyuas dab tsi yuav txo tau koj cov kev ntxhov siab, tiv thaiv koj kev noj qab haus huv, lossis txhawb koj kev sib raug zoo. Lawv cia li yaum kom koj mus lob kev xaiv uas tso dopamine tshaj plaws. Thaum e-hottie beckons, koj lub hlwb xav tias koj txoj kev lag luam kis mus rau kev lag luam. Qhov ntawd yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws - tsis hais yuav tsum muaj kev puas tsuaj ua ke los koj.

* Cov ntaub ntawv nyob hauv thawj daim duab saum toj no tau raug muab los ntawm kev tshawb fawb ntawm cov txiv neej, tsis yog nas-ces tus rams yuav tsum tau kos duab. Txawm li cas los, tib cov nyhuv kuj tau raug pom hauv cov nas.