Afọ 28 - ED, akụkọ 90.

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Ee, m mere ya.

Adị m 28. Ruo ihe dị ka afọ 3-4, m nwere ED. Ana m ewere ED meds (viagra-dị ka) maka ihe dịka afọ 1,5. Mgbe ụfọdụ, ọ ka mma, oge ụfọdụ ọ ka njọ, mana echere m na achọrọ m ọgwụ ndị a iji wulite. Enyi m nwanyị na-enwekwa obi ọjọọ. O chere na ọ bụ ya kpatara ya na ọ naghị ekpo oke ọkụ na m.

Daysbọchị 90 gara aga, elere m "Brain On Porn" vidiyo TEDx ọ gbanwere ndụ m. Amaara m na porn na ịkụ ọkpọ nwere mmetụta ọjọọ n'ahụ m mana enweghị m ihe mkpali ịgbanwe ya. Vidio ahụ mere ya. Achọrọ m ka mụ na gf nwee mmekọahụ n'enweghị nsogbu ọ bụla.

Izu abụọ mbụ nke mbụ siri ike, mana m jisiri ike mee ya. Emechara m kwụrụ ụgwọ oge (anaghị m echeta oge ole). Ihe dị ka izu 2 gara aga kachasị mma. Anyị na-enwe mmekọahụ dị ukwuu mgbe niile, ọ na-adịkwa m mma oge ọ bụla (echeghị m banyere ụlọ m ọzọ mgbe m na-enwe mmekọahụ).

Ugbu a ka m maara, na achọghị m ịkọ egwu na ịkụ ọkpọ ọzọ. Obi dị m ụtọ na enweghị ya.

N'ime ọnwa 3 a, amalitere m ịgba ọsọ mgbe niile. Akwụsịrị m na-eyigharị ma malite inwe ọrụ nke m ugbu a. Echeghị m na majik noFap nyeere m aka ime ihe ndị a, mana ejiri m n'aka na noFap bidoro ịmalite ndụ m ka mma.

Ọ bụrụ na ị nwere ajụjụ ọ bụla ma ọ bụ chọọ ndụmọdụ ọ bụla - Aga m anwa ịza 🙂

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ANSWERING A FEW QUESTIONS:

  • Great feedback, I’m so glad for you and so impress by what you’ve achieved! If only doctors could be more aware about PMO addiction…

Exactly. I was talking with my doctor about PMO when I was starting my curation (1,5 year ago). He said that I should avoid masturbation, but he didn’t mention anything about porn. I was watching porn and tried not to fap. The was hard as hell 🙂 Now i think that porn is the main problem. Masturbation is onlny an effect of watching porn.

If you get along the reason (porn), effect (mastrubation) will come along.

  • what does flatline mean?

It is the moment where your libido completely disappears. Nothing seems to turn you on, you wont get an erection. It’s scary for most because it feels like it’s just not working anymore. I’m not sure why it happens, but it can happen and it’s something you just have to go through.

  • ok, that sounds really f**king scary….

Right that is quiet scary but I was prepared for that. I read that this happens so I didn’t bother. My gf also new about it so she helped me. Flatline always ends and libido progresively starts to be more nice feeling than it was before 🙂

  • Could you have sex during the flatline?

It’s hard to call it “sex”, because there was no penetration, only attempts to get penis to erection. After longer time I had erection only for short time of orgasm or no orgasm at all (when me and my gf were to tired of trying)

  • nice report, so you’re still taking the ED meds or not? I’ve the same trouble, got ED but didn’t take any meds yet.

I’m still taking meds, but now it’s 1/4 of first dose (now I don’t feel any help from them). My doctor says that you can’t just stop taking meds and it must be gradual progress. Other way you will probably have problems again. And I don’t want to risk anything 🙂

I hope to stop taking meds in January.

My longest streak without having sex with my girlfriend was only about 10 days so I can’t say how it would be in your case. After flatline my only problem was my head, when I was thinking about my erection while we were foreplaying. When I was more relaxed (sometimes after glass of wine) it was much better. So try not to think about it especially some days before 🙂 It will be well.

  • One question, how did you stop thinking about your erection during foreplay/sex?

There were couple of things:

  1. I knew that if not today, we will try again next day or later
  2. Some massage as a foreplay (if gf was massageur I was focusing on nice feeling, if I was massaging i was trying to focus on her body and making her feel great)
  3. Sometimes the glass of wine during romantic evening was helpful
  4. Last but not least – do not hurry 🙂 ever 🙂

If once or twice yo have no erection problems – later it’s much easier. But be prepared for some problems in future and rememeber that you can have worse day (everybody can have). It won’t last forever 🙂

After 90 days I feel that even if I have some erection problems while foreplay, my gf will make him stand and it really happens 🙂