Hi onye obula,
I thought in order to hold myself accountable I’d chip in my situation here and hopefully some of you guys will get some insight from my experiences.
Adị m afọ 29 ma na-eji porn site na afọ 14/15. Abụ m otu n'ime ndị mbụ m matara na ọ na-etinye na ịntanetị na ọbụlagodi mgbe anyị malitere n'oge ahụ, ọ bụ ihe dị oke egwu. Enyi m nwere otu o sirila mee ka anyị tinye uche anyị n'ihe nzuzu site na IRC n'oge ahụ ọ dị obere, ọ bụ ihe na-agbaze na amaghị m mmebi m bidoro ime…
Site n'ebe ahụ, anaghị m akwụsị ma echere m na m ga-eleghachi anya na m ga-abanye n'ime nwa ebu n'afọ, ma eleghị anya dị ka nwata dị ka 15.
Dị ka ọ ga-esi mee ya, a mụrụ m na nwatakịrị nwa amụrụ m nke mere ka m nwee ike inwe mmekọahụ. Okwu ahụike bụ Phimosis bụ nke bụ isi na-adị oke nkpa ịbịa azụ. Enwere m ọnọdụ dịgasị iche iche site na afọ 16 dị ebe m ga-atụfu ike iji nweta ya mgbe m na-enweghị ike ịbanye n'ime ya n'ihi mgbu.
Amaghị m ihe ọjọọ kama o were m ruo mgbe 20 ga-achọpụta ya wee mesịa bụrụ ibi úgwù iji dozie nsogbu ahụ.
Ya mere enwere afọ 20 n'enweghi ike inwe mmekọahụ mana ya na 5 afọ siri ike nke ịntanetị.
N'ime oge 20s m enwela ụmụ nwanyị dị iche iche, ụfọdụ ogologo oge ma nwee mmekọahụ karịa ihe karịrị oke m nke ụmụ nwanyị mana ọ fọrọ nke nta ka ọ bụrụ na ọ bụla enwebeghị mmetụta ọ bụla na amụ m ruo mgbe ejaculation na mgbe m bịara, ọ bụtụghị nnukwu mmetụta ahụ . O doro anya na ọ bụghị dị ike dị ka igbo onwe ya agụụ mmekọahụ na Porn !!
M tinyere nke ahụ maka ndị mmekọ mụ na ha nọ, anaghị m abanye n'ime ya ma ọ bụ na ọ bụghị naanị m na-enwe mmekọahụ. LOL…
Mgbe ahụ, ka m bịarutere 25 na ị pornụ egwu ahụ nọgidere na-ewe iwe na porn ghọrọ ihe na-esiwanye ike. Emechara m malite ịgba mgba maka ịlụ ọgụ na mmekọrịta mmekọahụ na mgbe obere oge, enweghị m ike ibili ya mgbe m na-ele porn. Mgbe enwere m obi nkoropụ achọtara m Brain gị na porn, nke ahụ bụ afọ gara aga.
Since then, I’ve been struggling along the reboot road with 1 major porn relapse (December) and often relapsing to MO without P.
There have been times where I’ve made great progress and got to the point where I was having spontaneous erections and then MO’d and went into doing MO frequently leading to an eventual flat line…
I’ve probably gone around 2/3 months at the most without M.
I do also take MDMA occasionally when out clubbing which can lead into a heavy party session which sometimes has resulted in me going back to MO afterwards. I find MDMA + party session leaves my brain absolutely twisted and I suspect this is the reason I’ve struggled to fully reboot.
So, after relapsing to MO twice at the start of this week after a heavy weekend of partying I decided it’s time to make myself accountable and start this thing again. This time, NO MDMA, NO MO and of course NO PORN.
I’ve not used porn of any kind since the start of the year and at the moment, I’m on quite a good run, having only MO’d twice in the past couple of months.
I will keep this thread updated as I progress, so let’s see how it goes 🙂
BỤRỤ KWESỊRỊ – 9 Months No Porn but…
by 22
The Cold Hard Truth… 2 years rebooting / 1.5 years no porn
July 25, 2013,
Hello niile,
It’s been a while since I’ve been posting here and basically I’ve just been trying to get on with my life.
Before I found out about porn addiction I was in a bad way, I couldn’t get it up for sex or masturbation. The only time I would have an erection was for porn videos and even that had become weak as can be.
I tried rebooting for the longest time and managed to achieve a run of 90+ days with no O and as you can see below, it’s been a long time since I’ve looked at and masturbated to porn.
The results? I’m not back to 100% but I’m in a much better place than I’ve been in years.
I now save myself for sex and perform well when I go for it. My desire for sex has increased greatly. This is because I said goodbye to porn.
I avoid masturbation where possible, although I occasionally lapse (I’m almost certain that it’s not possible to completely give it up forever)
My overall thinking now is that removing porn and reducing M to a minimum while re-introducing sex is the simple strategy that anyone needs to reclaim their libido and sex life.
I believe that my 90+ day abstinence from O was not needed. I believe that if I had simply cut out porn, reduced M to a bare minimum and introduced sex (and all that goes with it) I could have been in a better position more than a year ago, instead of constantly going on these long breaks from O followed by heavy periods of M…
This was not healthy and I saw a lot of people fall into the same trap around here…
I have good sexual response now to natural things like talking about sex with a girl, flirting and thinking about girls.
Before I gave up porn I had nothing, no response to anything other than porn and even that was a weak response.
So if you feel like you’re on one of these long reboots that doesn’t seem to be going anywhere, like you’re running on a hamster wheel, then I suggest you try what’s worked for me.
It may seem obvious but people are so hell bent on getting to 90 days or whatever that they don’t even try other options.
Honestly, remove porn, avoid masturbation and get out there and meet some girls.
If you say you can’t meet girls and have no chance of being with a girl, I call bullshit.
Go out and mingle with friends, go on dating websites, hike across Europe. DO WHATEVER IT TAKES.
Nke a bụ ihe ị na-eme:
Give up porn forever, give up O until you start to feel horny then go meet some women. It’s really simple.
The more you do this, the stronger your response becomes.
I wanted to make this post because I felt all was lost, my constant reboots weren’t working. Now I can have sex, meet women, I’m more confident than ever and at the age of 30 I’m having more female attention than I’ve ever had in my life – could be a coincidence or could be directly related to all of this.
I would also like to add that while I’m happy with my results, I’m hungry for more and want to boost my libido further to the point of being like a horny 18 year old. This is my own personal preference.
So, from here I’m going to start aggressively testing vitamins, supplements and a whole manner of other things to see just what works and what doesn’t work for boosting the libido to new heights.
I’ll share that information here and also look to mastermind with some people here to find out whats been working and what’s not been working.
Good luck and I hope this has been a useful insight.
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