I started sucking dick and receiving anal sex from men and Ladyboys after 12 years of watching Porn, could never kiss them or cuddle or be in relationships, I just fanticised me being treated like a whore or slut.
I mentioned it to a sexual health nurse and she set me up with a appointment to chat with this guy, kind of like a therapy session, he told me Human bisexuality isn’t 50/50, you can be 80% straight and 20% bi etc.. and he didn’t think porn was the reason I was having sex with men.
I was only having sex with men 2 or 3 times a year, nothing crazy but I felt regretful and unhappy afterwards, not to mention got 2 Stds from it.
I’m 15 days porn free and I have no interest in dick anymore, I still love girls of course but men I have lost a lot of interest in. For me I believe porn changed my sexuality.
[Azịza]
When I relapse after a while, I seek out normal stuff, 18-22 yo women. When I’ve been using regularly, it goes weird places. I sometimes find myself looking at things that i know I’m not actually attracted to. It’s the novelty of something different that makes it work. Pay attention to the things you look at and you’ll eventually notice them cycle.
Just keep clearly in your mind what you are. The rabbit hole will mess with your mind the longer you stay in it. You know what you’re attracted to.
Part of what makes you wander to other kinks and things is that you’ve been flooding your mind with your usual stuff and need a break….
[Azịza]
Yes [porn can fuck up your sexuality]. There’s no other way around this fact. Being the generation where pornography was for many of us our first and often only sexual experience, it’s wrapped it’s cruel, destructive grip around our ability to be free lovers of our own accord.
N'oge a, m na-emechi afọ 2 nke enweghị ihe ọ bụla na-akpali agụụ mmekọahụ. Ekpebiri m ịlaghachi n'inwe mmekọahụ, na-eche na oge agafeela. Nsonaazụ nke ọgwụ ọjọọ a na-egosi ihu jọrọ njọ ugbu a. Enweghị m ike 'ịgbanwuo', enweghị m ike ịkwado ụlọ, na, ana m ata ahụhụ site na mgbochi. Ọ bụ ule na-enweghị atụ ma na-akụda mmụọ mana enwere m obi ike na ihe niile ga-adị mma site na ịga n'ihu n'ọgụ ahụ.
I had less performance issues with porn (mild ED). However what I am experiencing is flatlining, complete loss of libido. I know it’s terrifying man, it’s a torment, however this won’t stop me from defeating it.
It just shows how much of our sexuality is built upon the images we have consumed. I was addicted to porn for more than 10 years, from around age 12 – 24. A few years in between it wasn’t problematic but it came in waves.
Benefits? I would ask what you are seeking to gain from being porn free? For me it was to break away from a destructive, addictive, shell of a person that had no control over any facet of their life. Now, I am fully on top of everything, happiest I’ve ever been, life generally is great. All of this happened because I quit porn and found inner strength.
I didn’t stop in order to get sexual benefits. I stopped in order to stop sexually objectifying women. To become a better human, someone that truly treats women as equals, not as mere objects of pornographically constructed sexual fantasy.
So really, the benefits are unparalleled, however there’s just one missing piece that I am working on. Keep at it man.
[A reply to him]
Damn, stay strong man, you will recover, I’ve been watching for 11 years, when the addiction was the strongest I had erectile disfunction even when I was watching hardcore porn. I had a 50 days no fap streak and my erection got better. Try taking Ashwaghanda KSM 66 ,that will improve your libido and regukate your testosterone levels. Also cold showers could help.
[A reply to OP]
Porn nwere ike imebi mmekọahụ gị ma mee ka ị chee na ị nọ n'ime ihe ị na-abụghị, nke ahụ bụ ezigbo ederede ederede oke oriri.
Ee, nhichapụ na mgbake ga-enyere uche gị aka ịgwọ ma hụ kinks ndị ahụ ị na-enweghị n'ezie maka ihe ha bụ.
[A reply to OP]
Ahụla m ndị mmadụ ebe a na weebụsaịtị ndị ọzọ nwere mmasị n'ebe ụmụ nwoke nọ, sadism / masochism na ihe ndị ọzọ naanị n'ihi na ha gwụsịrị mmasị ha na "nkịtị" p * rn (ọ dịghị porn nkịtị). Ozugbo ha pụrụ nwa oge, ha chọpụtara na ihe malitere ịdịrị ha mma.
Na-atụ anya ka echiche ahụ dịgide, n'ihi na nke ahụ na-eme onye ọ bụla kwụsịrị, ma laghachikwa n'iji ya.
[A reply to OP]
Ee, ọ na-agakarị na nkịtị. Kfọdụ kinks m nwetara na porn ka agbanwetụrụ m, mana ọ nweghị ihe ọ bụla. Enwere m mmekọrịta chiri anya ugbu a. Enwere m ole na ole kinks, mana ejiri m n'aka na m nwere ndị ahụ tupu m malite ile egwu egwu.
[A reply to OP]
I’m a little over a month into my reboot, and my porn fetishes are honestly gone. I sometimes crave the porn, but I really can’t bring myself to actually look at it, I just miss the high I used to get from masturbating to hardcore content. It isn’t even sexual, I honestly have two totally different sets of feelings when I’m intimate with a girl, and when I’m jerking off. Both intense, but the latter just makes me feel numb. Point being, it had pretty much no overlap with my innate sexuality, and abstaining from porn use really made me not even care much about that stuff anymore.
[A reply to OP]
Ọ na-agbanwe kpamkpam. Amaara m na mgbe m dị omimi n'ime ọgwụ mgbochi PMO m, achọre m ụfọdụ n'ime ezumike dị egwu ị nwere ike iche: Mgbasa ara / ịnyịnya ibu, Hentai. Ugbu a enweghị m ike iche n'echiche ịgakwu ha - hel na ha tụgharịrị m.
Jikọ - Porn nwere ike imebi mmekọahụ gị? Ọ na-alaghachi na nkịtị site na ịhapụ ya?
2020 research reporting that some child porn users got there via escalation due to habituation and compulsive use:
Tivzọ ndị na-akpali akpali na-ebute mmalite na mmezi nke ikiri ihe nkiri ụmụaka ụmụaka na Internetntanetị (2020)
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