I’m a 26 year-old guy who started his porn-spree a bit later. Started watching erotic images at age 16, which was actually more hentai at the time. Started streaming videos of real sex at age 18. Why am I certain I have PIED?
ຈົນຮອດອາຍຸ 18 ປີ ແລະຈົບມັດທະຍົມປາຍ, ຂ້ອຍຮຽນເກັ່ງ, ຈົບຊັ້ນປະຖົມ, ມີໝູ່ຫຼາຍ ແລະ ມີແຟນ. ຂ້າພະເຈົ້າໄດ້ແຍກອອກກັບແຟນຂອງຂ້າພະເຈົ້າເນື່ອງຈາກວ່າຂ້າພະເຈົ້າຕ້ອງການສໍາຫຼວດແລະພວກເຮົາບໍ່ໄດ້ຮ້າຍແຮງ. ຂ້າພະເຈົ້າໄດ້ເບິ່ງສຸດທິສໍາລັບການດົນໃຈແລະຈິນຕະນາການ. ພົບ porn (ຄວາມຜິດພາດທີ່ຮ້າຍແຮງທີ່ສຸດຂອງຊີວິດຂອງຂ້ອຍ) ຫຼັງຈາກເລີ່ມຕົ້ນ porn, ສິ່ງເຫຼົ່ານີ້ຊ້າແຕ່ແນ່ນອນເກີດຂຶ້ນ:
- ຂ້ອຍມີພະລັງງານຫນ້ອຍລົງເພື່ອເຮັດຫຍັງ. ວຽກງ່າຍກາຍເປັນພາລະທີ່ຫຍຸ້ງຍາກ
- ແຮງຈູງໃຈຢູ່ໃນໂຮງຮຽນເສຍຊີວິດ. ຊັ້ນຮຽນຫຼຸດລົງ, ບາງມື້ຂ້ອຍບໍ່ສາມາດເບື່ອທີ່ຈະສະແດງ, ເຖິງແມ່ນລົ້ມເຫລວບາງວິຊາໃນມະຫາວິທະຍາໄລຂອງຂ້ອຍ
- ບໍ່ມີແຮງຈູງໃຈທີ່ຈະຕິດຕໍ່ກັບຫມູ່ເພື່ອນແລະບໍ່ມີພະລັງງານທີ່ຈະອອກໄປເມື່ອພວກເຂົາຖາມຂ້ອຍ. ມັນເປັນການດຶງດູດຫຼາຍກ່ວານັ່ງຢູ່ເຮືອນຢູ່ທາງຫນ້າຂອງຄອມພິວເຕີ.
- ຄວາມກັງວົນ, ຄວາມກັງວົນ, ຄວາມກົດດັນແລະການຂາດການນອນຈາກຂ້າງເທິງ
-ຄວາມກັງວົນຂອງຂ້າພະເຈົ້າໄດ້ມາເຖິງຈຸດທີ່ຂ້າພະເຈົ້າບໍ່ສາມາດມີການສົນທະນາທີ່ມີສ່ວນຮ່ວມປົກກະຕິກັບຄົນອື່ນ. ຂ້າພະເຈົ້າເຄີຍມີຄວາມສຸກແລະ outrovert, ໃນປັດຈຸບັນຂ້າພະເຈົ້າເກືອບສາມາດບອກຊື່ຂອງຂ້າພະເຈົ້າໂດຍບໍ່ມີການ stumbled ໃນຄໍາສັບຕ່າງໆ
- ປະເພດ Porn ກ້າວໄປສູ່ຮູບແບບທີ່ຮຸນແຮງຫຼາຍຂຶ້ນ. scenes ການຮ່ວມເພດອ່ອນໆປົກກະຕິພຽງແຕ່ບໍ່ໄດ້ຕັດມັນສໍາລັບຂ້າພະເຈົ້າໃນທີ່ສຸດ.
- ບໍ່ໄດ້ພົບຫຼາຍກວ່າຫນຶ່ງຄົນໂດຍຜ່ານເວັບໄຊທ໌ນີ້ໃນທີ່ສຸດ. ຫຼາຍໆໂປຣໄຟລ໌, ຖ້າບໍ່ແມ່ນສ່ວນໃຫຍ່, ແມ່ນການປອມແປງທີ່ເຮັດເພື່ອຊັກຈູງເຈົ້າໃຫ້ຈ່າຍເງິນ, ເຊິ່ງຂ້ອຍບໍ່ເຄີຍເຮັດເລີຍ.
- ທຸກສິ່ງທຸກຢ່າງທີ່ແຕກຕ່າງກັນເຮັດໃຫ້ຂ້າພະເຈົ້າຕົກໃຈທີ່ແທ້ຈິງແລະຢ້ານກົວຂອງອະນາຄົດທີ່ຈະມາເຖິງ. ຂ້ອຍບໍ່ຮູ້ວ່າຈະເຮັດຫຍັງ ແລະຮູ້ສຶກວ່າຂ້ອຍໝົດເວລາ. Porn ແລະ masturbation ເປັນ ພຽງ ແຕ່ ການ ຮັບ ປະ ກັນ ຂອງ ຄວາມ ສຸກ ແລະ ຄວາມ ຮູ້ ສຶກ ທີ່ ດີ ທີ່ ຂ້າ ພະ ເຈົ້າ ສາ ມາດ ອີງ ໃສ່. ໃນທີ່ສຸດຂ້າພະເຈົ້າໄດ້ນໍາໃຊ້ມັນແມ່ນແຕ່ໃນເວລາທີ່ຂ້າພະເຈົ້າພຽງແຕ່ເບື່ອ (ທີ່ໃຊ້ເວລາຂ້າພະເຈົ້າສາມາດໃຊ້ເວລາໃນການແກ້ໄຂສິ່ງທັງຫມົດເຫຼົ່ານີ້).
ຂ້າ ພະ ເຈົ້າ ອາດ ຈະ ບອກ ເປັນ ອາຍ ແກ ັ ສ ອື່ນໆ, ແຕ່ ສໍາ ລັບ ໃນ ປັດ ຈຸ ບັນ ຂ້າ ພະ ເຈົ້າ ຈະ ບອກ ລາຍ ການ ສຸດ ທ້າຍ ແລະ ສໍາ ຄັນ ທີ່ ສຸດ;
- ເມື່ອຂ້ອຍອອກໄປຫຼິ້ນກັບຄົນ, ໂດຍສະເພາະສາວໆ, ຄວາມສົນໃຈໃນການສົນທະນາ ແລະ ກ້າວໄປສູ່ສິ່ງທີ່ຫຼາຍກວ່ານັ້ນແມ່ນໝົດໄປ.
-ຄວາມສໍາພັນຈໍານວນຫນ້ອຍທີ່ຂ້າພະເຈົ້າພະຍາຍາມໄດ້ສິ້ນສຸດລົງກ່ອນທີ່ພວກເຂົາເຈົ້າຈະເລີ່ມຕົ້ນ. ຂ້າພະເຈົ້າບໍ່ມີຄວາມດຶງດູດຜູ້ຍິງ (ເຖິງແມ່ນວ່ານາງແມ່ນຂ້ອນຂ້າງສວຍງາມ), ຂ້າພະເຈົ້າບໍ່ປອດໄພແລະບໍ່ມີຄວາມຫມັ້ນໃຈໃນທັງຫມົດ. ສອງ ສາມ ເທື່ອ ທີ່ ຂ້າ ພະ ເຈົ້າ ໄດ້ ຮ່ວມ ເພດ ບໍ່ ມີ ຫຍັງ ຢູ່ ລຸ່ມ ນີ້. ຕາຍ.
ຂ້າພະເຈົ້າໄດ້ຮ່ວມກັນກັບເດັກຍິງໃຫມ່ໃນເດືອນກຸມພາ (ອັນນີ້ແມ່ນ latina ແລະການສູບຢາທີ່ຮ້ອນ, ຂ້າພະເຈົ້າ kid ທ່ານບໍ່ໄດ້!). ຄວາມຕັ້ງໃຈແລະຄວາມອົດທົນຂອງນາງເຮັດໃຫ້ການຮ່ວມເພດຂອງພວກເຮົາເຮັດວຽກເປັນສ່ວນໃຫຍ່, ບວກກັບນາງມີຄວາມເຂົ້າໃຈຫຼາຍແລະບໍ່ສົນໃຈຂ້າພະເຈົ້າໃຊ້ປາກເພື່ອເຮັດໃຫ້ orgasm ຂອງນາງ.
ຊອກຫາວິທີທີ່ຈະເຮັດໃຫ້ມັນດີຂຶ້ນສໍາລັບພວກເຮົາທັງສອງ, ຂ້າພະເຈົ້າໄດ້ພົບເຫັນເວັບໄຊທ໌ນີ້ແລະໄດ້ຮັບຄວາມຫວັງອັນໃຫຍ່ຫຼວງ. ເລີ່ມ reboot ຂອງຂ້ອຍທັນທີໃນຕົ້ນເດືອນກໍລະກົດ (gf ຂອງຂ້ອຍໄດ້ໄປພັກຜ່ອນກັບຄອບຄົວຂອງນາງ).
LINK - No PMO for at least 90 days! 26 days in so far and counting
By BlackStar87
HIS REBOOT STORY
A new man on a new mission
Hey friends!
So I’ve been away from this site for quite some time now. I said I’d make it my mission to take control of my life and fix everything that I damaged with my porn addiction. The results are following:
-Getting great grades in school, keeping up with my progress and bound to finish my thesis this year.
-About to enter a new education-related job with good pay.
-Renewed lust for traveling abroad
-In great physical shape, go to the gym regularly and exercise often.
And last but not least the two most important changes that have persisted since the official end of my last reboot:
-Interest in porn is completely gone
-My erection is firm like steel and my libido is skyhigh
I started my 90-day reboot in July 2013. I have not masturbated or orgasmed to porn since. In fact I’ve pretty much abandoned masturbation orgasms as well, because they always lead to the temptation of edging (and edging outside of sex without a woman to get excited to is a VERY BAD IDEA).
I’m 225 days in now, with a goal of reaching a full year without PMO.
My success has come from reading other success stories and the right kind of motivational articles, and my own effort.
The one I’d like to share today which really got me thinking is this one. Looking back on it now I couldn’t agree more with it:
*****************’WARNING! MAY CONTAIN SOME VERBAL TRIGGERS*********************
http://www.girlschase.com/content/break-your-porn-addiction-and-sleep-real-girls-instead
The brain’s reward circuits change, and the brain learns to associate watching other people have sex on a computer screen with sexual fulfillment, and ceases looking to real live women out in the real world for this
This is so VERY true! And once I read this back in my reboot, not only did I have an “Aha” moment, but in the interest of proof I even peeked into the old locked doors of porn to see how true this rang. And the best way to test this was to switch from a “voyeur” to a “performer”.
So I checked out some POV (point-of view) porn, more amateur and less “acted”, and guess what? NO EXCITEMENT WHATSOEVER!
It’s simple; The brain has become so used to watching other people have sex from an unnatural angle (angle of the voyeur) that once you’re in the act yourself looking down on your woman, you get no fulfillment. This isn’t what the brain wants and is used to.
Does that mean that the very hopelessly addicted should now switch to POV porn as a little guilty pleasure? NO! Porn is an act and completely unrealistic depiction of sex regardless of how you watch it! As the article states, there’s a very high chance you’ll see girls around you that are far more attractive, both facially and in body, than what porngirls are.
What you need to do is picture a porn in your head like this article suggests, but with the women around you. Learn to see them as women who want to have sex with you and then see yourself in the act satisfying them.
Take it from me, I had years of all porn-no real girls, and once I started seeing real girls again and discovered my ED I never thought I’d be able to get it back up. Now I can look straight at my dick, consciously think “hopefully it will stay hard” and nothing will happen to my erection. Why? Because looking at my girl, feeling her skin and soaking in the bodily sensations turn me on to such a degree now, that it’s near IMPOSSIBLE for me to lose my erection that easily.
The path is divided and as the article brutally states, you’re either
1) Watching others have sex
or
2) Having sex yourself
We can all choose, but for those of you who choose the last and are struggling to get there now; Don’t lose hope. It will happen, and it will hit you as a complete surprise.
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