ndi zomwe zimanena m'dzina - ubongo wanu ndi zolaula. Amasungidwa ndi kuyesetsa kwamagulu komwe kumaphatikizaponso amuna omwe achira pazovuta zokhudzana ndi zolaula pa intaneti. Idakhazikitsidwa ndi malemu Gary Wilson, aphunzitsi opuma pantchito, a physiology & pathology (pansipa).
Mutha kulankhulana ndi oyang'anira YBOP apa . Chonde musafunse mafunso okhudza oyang'anira YBOP okhudzana ndi vuto lanu . YBOP sipereka upangiri wachipatala kapena wokhudza kugonana. Onani tsamba lothandizira kuti mupewe zolaula ndi thandizo pamavuto anu okhudzana ndi zolaula.
Zambiri za ife
1) Kodi malo awa ndi achipembedzo?
Woyambitsa tsamba lino anali wosakhulupirira Mulungu komanso wokonda ndale (monga makolo ake ndi agogo ake). Kuti mudziwe zambiri onani kuyankhulana kwa Gary Wilson kwa 2016 kolembedwa ndi Noah B. Church. Onaninso kuyankhulana kwa 2019 komwe Gary & Mark Queppet akukambirana za kuzunzidwa konyoza ndi anthu okana sayansi ya zolaula omwe anayesa kunyoza ndi kunyoza Gary. ( Yambani apa , mphindi 28.)
Gary anamwalira mu 2021: nkhani yofalitsidwa . Ngati mukufuna kusiya ndemanga patsamba lake lokumbukira anthu, pitani ku https://www.garywilson.life/. Muthanso kuonera msonkhano uwu pa intaneti chaka chotsatira.
2) Kodi pali wina amene amapanga ndalama ku YBOP?
- Zochokera ku Buku la Gary Wilson kupita ku zachifundo. Gary Wilson sanalandire malipiro oyankhula. Zopereka zomwe adalandira kuyambira imfa yake zimapitanso ku zachifundo.
- Mukuyang'ana wolankhula pagulu? (amuna omwe adachiritsidwa ndi zolaula)
3) Ndi chiyani zochitika zamakono zowononga zolaula pa Intaneti ndi zolaula?
- Kodi munthu amadziwa bwanji? Mankhwala omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito kwambiri padziko lonse, Mayiko Akumayiko Onse a Matenda (ICD-11), ali ndi matenda atsopano woyenera kuchita zachiwerewere: "Kugonana Kwachiwerewere.” (2018) Kusintha kwa 2022 kumaphatikizapo izi: "Compulsive Sexual Behavior Disorder ikhoza kuwonetsedwa m'makhalidwe osiyanasiyana, kuphatikizapo kugonana ndi ena, kuseweretsa maliseche, kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula, cybersex (kugonana pa intaneti), kugonana kwa pa telefoni, ndi mitundu ina ya kugonana kobwerezabwereza.” (kutsindika kwawonjezera)
- Kukonda zolaula / kugonana? Tsambali lili ndi zambiri maphunziro a neuroscience (MRI, fMRI, EEG, neuropsychological, mahomoni). Amapereka chithandizo chachizoloŵezi choledzeretsa pamene zomwe apeza zikuwonetseratu zomwe zapezedwa m'maphunziro okhudzana ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Onaninso ndemanga iyi ya 2022 yolemba katswiri Frederick Toates: "Chitsanzo cholimbikitsa cha chizolowezi chogonana - Kugwirizana ndi mikangano pa lingalirolo. "
- Malingaliro enieni a akatswiri okhudzana ndi zolaula / kugonana? Mndandanda uwu uli zambiri zolemba zolemba & ndemanga ndi ena mwa akatswiri azamisala apamwamba padziko lonse lapansi. Onse amapereka chithandizo ku chizolowezi choledzera.
- Zizindikiro za kuledzera ndi kuchuluka kwa zinthu zoopsa kwambiri? Zofufuza za 60 zofukufuku zomwe zikupezeka zikugwirizana ndi kukula kwa zolaula (kulekerera), chizoloŵezi choonera zolaula, komanso ngakhale kusiya (zizindikiro zonse zomwe zimagwirizanitsidwa ndi kuledzera). Siyanitsani tsamba ndi zambiri kuposa Kafukufuku 15 wofotokoza zizindikiro zochotsa zolaula.
- Kulingalira mfundo yosalimbikitsidwa yolankhulidwa yakuti "chilakolako chachikulu cha kugonana" akufotokozera zolaula kapena chizolowezi chogonana: Kafukufuku wopitilira 25 amanamizira kuti zachiwerewere & zolaula "amangokhala ndi chilakolako chofuna kugonana"
Zolaula zolumikizidwa ndi mavuto
- Zolaula ndi zogonana? Mndandandawu uli ndi maphunziro angapo okhudzana ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula / zolaula kumavuto ogonana komanso kutsika kwamphamvu zakugonana.. 7 yoyamba maphunziro mndandanda zovuta, monga otenga nawo mbali adathetsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndikuchiritsa zovuta zogonana. Ndipo komabe, ena sexologists akadali sindikuwoneka kuti ndikuvomereza umboni wa mgwirizano pakati pa mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula.
- Zotsatira za zovuta pazoyanjana? Kufufuza kwa 80 kumalumikiza zolaula kumachepetsa kugonana komanso kukhutira ndi ubale. Monga momwe ife tikudziwira onse Kafukufuku wokhudza amuna adanena za kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula zambiri zogwirizana osauka kugonana kapena kukhutitsidwa ndi ubale. Kafukufuku wina akuwonetsa zochepa zomwe zimakhudzidwa ndi zolaula za amayi zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pa kugonana ndi kugonana kwa amayi, koma ambiri do Nenani zoyipa: Maphunziro a zochitika zokhudzana ndi akazi: Zopweteka pa kukwatira, kukondweretsa kugonana, ndi maubwenzi. Zodabwitsa ndizakuti, tsopano chiwerengero chofanana cha anyamata ndi atsikana akugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti, pali azimayi ambiri omwe amafotokoza mokakamiza kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula.
- Kodi kugwiritsa ntchito zithunzi kumakhudza bwanji maganizo ndi maganizo? Pazofufuza za 90 zomwe zimagwirizanitsa zolaula zimagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi thanzi lakuthupi lamaganizidwe & zotsatira zazidziwitso zosauka.
Zolaula komanso zachiwerewere
- Kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula zomwe zimakhudza zikhulupiliro, malingaliro ndi machitidwe? Maphunziro opitilira 40 amagwirizanitsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndi "makhalidwe osagwirizana" kwa amayi ndi malingaliro ogonana - kapena chidule cha mndandanda wa 2016: Media ndi Sexualization: Boma la Kafukufuku Wofufuza, 1995-2015. Chidule:
Cholinga cha ndemangayi chinali kupanga kafukufuku woyeserera zotsatira za kugonana kwa atolankhani. Cholinga chachikulu chinali pa kafukufuku wofalitsidwa m'magazini owunikiranso a Chingerezi pakati pa 1995 ndi 2015. Mabuku 109 omwe anali ndi maphunziro 135 adawunikidwanso. Zomwe zapezekazi zidapereka umboni wokhazikika wakuti kuwonetsedwa m'ma laboratories komanso kuwonetsedwa tsiku ndi tsiku kwa izi kumalumikizidwa mwachindunji ndi zotsatira zosiyanasiyana, kuphatikizapo kuchuluka kwa kusakhutira kwa thupi, kudziona ngati wopanda pake, kuthandizira kwambiri zikhulupiriro zachigololo komanso zikhulupiriro zotsutsana ndi kugonana, komanso kulekerera kwambiri nkhanza zogonana kwa akazi. Kuphatikiza apo, kuwonetsedwa m'mayesero a izi kumachititsa akazi ndi amuna kukhala ndi malingaliro ochepa pa luso la akazi, makhalidwe abwino, ndi umunthu.
Nkhanza zogonana ndi zolaula
- Nanga bwanji za chiwerewere ndi kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula? Kufufuza kwina: Meta-Kuonongeka kwa Kuonera Zolaula Ntchito ndi Zoona Zochitika Zachiwerewere mu Zophunzira Zambiri za Anthu (2015). Chidule:
Kafukufuku 22 wochokera kumayiko 7 osiyanasiyana adawunikidwa. Kudya mopitirira muyeso kunagwirizanitsidwa ndi nkhanza zogonana ku United States ndi padziko lonse lapansi, pakati pa amuna ndi akazi, komanso m'maphunziro osiyanasiyana komanso a nthawi yayitali. Mayanjano anali olimba kwambiri pa nkhanza zolankhulidwa kuposa zogonana, ngakhale zonse ziwiri zinali zofunika. Kachitidwe ka zotsatira kakusonyeza kuti zachiwawa zitha kukhala chinthu chowonjezera.
- "Koma kodi zolaula sizigwiritsa ntchito chiwerengero chogwirira kugwiriridwa?" Ayi, zaka zambiri zapitazo chiwerengero cha kugwiririra chawonjezeka: "Kuchuluka kwa chiwongoladzanja kumawonjezeka, choncho samanyalanyaza zofalitsa zowonongeka. ” Onani izi tsamba la Kafukufuku wa 100 wolumikiza zolaula amagwiritsa ntchito mwankhanza, kukakamiza & chiwawa komanso chitsutso chambiri chofotokozedwa mobwerezabwereza kuti kuchuluka kwa zolaula kwatsitsa mitengo yachiwawa.
Zolaula ndi unyamata
- Bwanji za kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula ndi achinyamata? Onani mndandanda wa pa maphunziro a achinyamata a 280, kapena ndemanga izi zamabuku zolaula ndi achinyamata: ndemanga # 1, ndemanga2, ndemanga # 3, ndemanga # 4, ndemanga # 5, ndemanga # 6, ndemanga # 7, ndemanga # 8, ndemanga # 9, ndemanga # 10, ndemanga # 11, ndemanga # 12, ndemanga # 13, ndemanga # 14, ndemanga # 15, kuwunika # 16, kuwunika # 17, ndi zina. Kuchokera kumapeto kwa kuunikaku kwa kafukufukuyu mu 2012 - Zotsatira za Zithunzi Zolaula pa Intaneti pa Achinyamata: Kupenda kafukufuku:
Kuwonjezeka kwa mwayi wopeza intaneti kwa achinyamata kwapanga mwayi wosayerekezeka wophunzitsa za kugonana, kuphunzira, ndi kukula. Mosiyana ndi zimenezi, chiopsezo cha kuwonongeka chomwe chikuwonekera m'mabukuwa chapangitsa ofufuza kufufuza za achinyamata omwe amaonera zolaula pa intaneti pofuna kufotokozera maubwenzi amenewa. Pamodzi, maphunzirowa akusonyeza kuti achinyamata omwe amaonera zolaula akhoza kukhala ndi zikhulupiriro ndi malingaliro osayenera okhudza kugonana. Pakati pa zomwe zapezeka, kuchuluka kwa malingaliro ogonana olekerera, kuganizira kwambiri za kugonana, komanso kuyesa koyambirira kwa kugonana kwagwirizanitsidwa ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pafupipafupi…. Komabe, zomwe zapezeka nthawi zonse zapezeka zikugwirizanitsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kwa achinyamata zomwe zikuwonetsa zachiwawa ndi kuchuluka kwa khalidwe lankhanza la kugonana.
Zolemba zimasonyezanso ubale wina pakati pa achinyamata omwe amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Atsikana akuti amadziona kuti ndi otsika poyerekeza ndi azimayi omwe amawaona pazolaula, pomwe anyamata amawopa kuti mwina sangakhale ovutitsidwa kapena otha kuchita ngati abambo pazosezi. Achinyamata amanenanso kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kunachepa pamene kudzidalira kwawo komanso chitukuko cha anthu zikuchulukirachulukira. Kuphatikiza apo, kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti achinyamata omwe amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula, makamaka omwe amapezeka pa intaneti, ali ndi magawo ocheperako ogwirizanitsidwa ndi anzawo, amawonjezeka pamavuto azikhalidwe, machitidwe apamwamba onyenga, kuchuluka kwa zisonyezo zokhumudwitsa, ndikuchepetsa mgwirizano wogwirizana ndi omwe akuwasamalira.
Kafukufuku wowonetsa
- Kodi maphunziro onse si ogwirizana? Ayi. Pa kafukufuku wa 90 akuwonetsa kugwiritsa ntchito intaneti & kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kumabweretsa zotsatira zoyipa & zizindikiritso, ndikusintha kwa ubongo. Onaninso Paul Wright, PhD Aitanitsa Njira Zofufuzira za Akatswiri Ofufuza (2021), yomwe imakambirana za kufunika kwa kafukufuku wochuluka wautali wokhudzana ndi zolaula ndi zotsatira zake pakuganizira zomwe zimayambitsa.
Kubowoleza anyamatawa
- Kuti mumvetse bwino mfundo iliyonse yomwe mungayankhe komanso chidwi chofufuza chitumbuwa, onani mfundo yaikuluyi: Debunking "N'chifukwa Chiyani Timakayikirabe za Kuonera Zolaula?? ", Ndi Marty Klein, Taylor Kohut, ndi Nicole Prause (2018).
- Momwe mungazindikire nkhani zotsutsana: Iwo amatchula Prause et al., 2015 (kunena zabodza kuti imayambitsa zolaula), pamene asiya maphunziro oposa a 50 opatsirana pogwiritsa ntchito zolaula.
4) Kodi Gary Wilson amalembedwa m'mabuku owonedwa ndi anzawo?
- Mu 2016 Gary Wilson anasindikiza mapepala awiri owonetsedwa ndi anzawo:
5) Kodi pali maphunziro alionse amene amachititsa kuti zolaula zisawonongeke?
- Ayi. Ngakhale amati mukukhoza kuwona m'nkhani, palibe. Msonkhano uwu wa 2018 Gary Wilson akuwonetsa choonadi cha maphunziro a 5 okayikitsa komanso osocheretsa, kuphatikizapo maphunziro awiri olakwika a EEG (Steele et al., 2013 ndi Prause et al., 2015): Kafukufuku Wosaka: Zoona Kapena Zopeka?
- Monga tafotokozera pamwambapa, buku lazachipatala la World Health Organisation, Mayiko Akumayiko Onse a Matenda (ICD-11), tsopano ali ndi matenda woyenera kuchita zolaula kapena kuledzera: "Kugonana Kwachiwerewere.” Mtsutso watha, ngakhale zigawenga za APA DSM-5 zikupitilizabe kukhala ngati sanazindikire gawo latsopano mu ICD-11.
6) Kodi madokotala ndi othandizira amazindikira ndikusamalira zolaula-zochititsa kugonana kolakwika?
- Inde. Tsamba lino muli zolemba ndi zoyankhulana ndi akatswiri ena a 150 (urology profesa, urologists, psychiatrists, psychologists, sexologists, MDs) omwe amavomereza ndipo achita bwino kuthana ndi zolaula zomwe zidapangitsa ED komanso zolaula zomwe zidapangitsa kutaya chilakolako chogonana.
Mu mafunso a sayansi, ulamuliro wa chikwi siwothandiza
kulingalira kodzichepetsa kwa munthu mmodzi. ~Galileo