Gary Wilson anafunsa funsoli ndi bukhu lake Ubongo Wanu pa Zithunzi za zotsatira za zolaula pa nthawi ya intaneti. Mphunzitsi waphunzitsi wa zaumulungu yemwe adapunthwa pa kafukufukuyu ndipo amapereka phindu lonse la bukhu lake YBOP kwa chikondi. Ndi bungwe la Utah likuyesa kupititsa malamulo omwe angalole kuti anthu apereke chinyengo ku malonda akuluakulu kuti awononge mofanana ndi mafodya a fodya. Umboni uli woonekeratu kuti zolaula zingakhale ndi zotsatira zoopsa kwambiri.
Chani inakulimbikitsani kuti mufufuze zolaula?
Limenelo ndi funso losamvetseka (kuseka). Ndinali anatomy, physiology, mphunzitsi wamatenda ndipo zidayamba pafupifupi zaka khumi ndi zisanu ndi chimodzi zapitazo pomwe ndidakumana ndi mkazi wanga. Iye anali ndi webusaitiyi ndipo inali yokhudza maubwenzi. Ndinayamba kufufuza zambiri mu neurobiology yachikondi ndi kulumikizana komanso kugonana ndipo pazaka zambiri tidalemba zolemba zingapo patsamba lake zomwe zinali ndi mawu monga kugonana, kutulutsa umuna, orgasam, chizolowezi cha dopamine chifukwa chizolowezi chimagwiritsa ntchito njira zachikondi komanso kulumikizana. Chifukwa cha 2006 amuna awa adayamba kuwonekera pa bwalo lawo ndipo tsambali silinakhudzana ndi zolaula kapena zosokoneza bongo ndipo mkazi wanga anali ngati "ukutani kuno" ndipo adayamba kutumiza "Hei Dick wanga sakugwira ntchito mukuganiza zolaula. ” Zaka zingapo pambuyo pake inali tsamba lowonera zolaula. Mwa 2011 ndinali nditapanga tsamba lina, ndinachita Tedx Talk. Ichi chinali chimodzi mwazinthu zomwe sindinkafuna kuchita nazo koma chinali kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa sayansi ndi zomwe anthu amakumana nazo ndi zovuta zoyipa zakugwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Tidawona anthu ambiri akuvutika ndipo timafuna kuwauza zambiri.
Zina mwa zotsatira zolakwika za kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula ndi zotani?
Ndikuganiza zokongola kwambiri. Kuyang'ana abambo anu Playboy omwe ndakhala nawo ali ndi zotsatira zochepa koma kuwona anthu enieni amakhala ndi kugonana kwenikweni ndipo amatha kutsegula mavidiyo kuvidiyo ndi onse ovuta panopa ndikuchita zimenezi kwa zaka zambiri musanapsompsone kapena kugonana kwapadera kwa munthu mbiri sizinali zofanana ndi kuyang'ana pa zithunzi zamaliseche. Ngati mukuganizira za zotsatira mungathe kulemba mgwirizano uliwonse monga maganizo a chiwerewere, nkhanza, kufooka kwa thupi, matenda osokonezeka maganizo, ubale wosauka, kukondana, ngakhale kusagwira bwino kusukulu. Zinthu zomwe ndimayang'anitsitsa zimakhala za amuna komanso zotsatira za kugonana kwawo.
Kodi mumadziwa bwanji ngati mumakonda zolaula?
Mofanana ndi chizoloŵezi chilichonse chomwe mumayimitsa. Mukawona zizindikiro zowonongeka kapena mutayamba kukhala ndi zikhumbo zonsezi ndi zizindikiro zomwe mumakhala nazo. M'makina osindikizira simukuwona zizindikiro zowonongeka zokhudzana ndi kusiya zizoloŵezi zokhudzana ndi khalidwe monga kutchova njuga kapena kudya mopitirira muyeso kapena intaneti koma pali. Tilembera zizindikiro zazikulu zochotsera amuna omwe amayesa kusiya zolaula. Chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zochititsa chidwi kwambiri za kuchoka ndi amuna omwe amatha kutayika kwathunthu kwa libido kapena chilakolako cha kugonana, pomwe mbolo ikhoza kumva kuti imakhala yozizira kapena yopanda kanthu. Ndipo izi zikhoza kupitirira kwa zaka, makamaka kwa anyamata.
Mwayankhula za amuna omwe ali ndi chizoloŵezi cholaula. Kodi akazi angayambe kuchita zachiwerewere?
Tikuwona akazi akumanena kuti ali ndi chizolowezi choonera zolaula. Timaona akazi akunena kuti akugonana, pomwe tikuona akazi akuwona kuti angangopita ku zovuta zolaula chifukwa adachulukitsidwa ndi amayi koma anyamata amatha kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Choncho chiŵerengero cha amuna chidzakhala chapamwamba koma chizoloŵezi chogonana kwa amayi chikukwera.
Chotsatira cha Gary Wilson ndi chiyani?
Ntchito yanga isanayambe kulengedwa YBOP anali kuphunzitsa anatomy, physiology ndi matenda. Mwachidule ine ndikutha pantchito ndipo panopa ndimapatula nthawi zonse zogwirizana nazo YBOP ndi nkhaniyi. Ndipitirizabe kufufuza nkhani iyi sindikudziwa.
by Ryan Glover - Januware 26, 2017
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