Chizolowezi chodzidzimutsa ndi lingaliro lomwe limatanthawuza kufunafuna zachilendo kuti mukwaniritse kapena kukhalabe ndi chidwi.
Mosiyana ndi mowa kapena mankhwala osokoneza bongo, momwe munthu amafunira mowa kapena mankhwala omwewo, munthu amene amasonyeza khalidwe lachiwerewere ndi zokopa, monga masewera a pakompyuta kapena zolaula, amafuna zinthu zomwe zimasintha nthawi zonse.
Mwachidule, zili ngati kunena, "Ndipatseni mofanana koma mosiyana."
Pakapita nthawi, zinthu zomwe zimawonetsa zolaula zikayamba kuyang'ana sizidzasintha mofanana. Ichi ndi chifukwa chakuti zolaula zakale sizimapanga mpata womwewo.
Ngati fano kapena zochitika sizikuchitiranso munthu, ndiye kuti adzayang'ana zatsopano ndi zosiyana ndi zomwe zilipo, zovuta kwambiri kapena zosaoneka kuti athe kugonana.
Sameness posachedwa kazolowereka; Kusiyanitsa kumapangitsa chidwi, ngakhale kutanthauza kuti zolaula zimasangalatsa zomwe sizikugwirizana ndi kugonana kwa munthu.
Makampani opanga zolaula amatulutsa mitundu ingapo yopanda malire kudzera pa intaneti, kotero kuti ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula amatha kukonza. Ponena za zolaula, ubongo umafuna kusintha, zachilendo, chisangalalo komanso kukondoweza nthawi zonse, popeza zolaula ndimakina opanga dopamine.
Dopamine ndi matenda a ubongo omwe amagwirizana ndi kuchitidwa kwa dongosolo la mphotho ya ubongo. Kukhalapo kwake kumathandizira kuyamba kukhala ndi chisangalalo ndi zosangalatsa.
Zosokonekera ndi zochitika zina zomwe zimagwirizanitsidwa ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo kapena ndondomeko yake, monga njuga kapena mankhwala osokoneza bongo, amatha kukhala ndi chikhalidwe chokwanira komanso kuwonjezera mankhwala osokoneza bongo.
Pamene mukukweza kwambiri, ndipamwamba kwambiri mlingo wanu wa dopamine. Kupitirira wanu dopamine, mumakonda kwambiri chinachake.
Ngakhale kuti zotsatira za chizoloŵezi chokakamiza pamakhalidwe ndi mayendedwe amthupi zimasiyanasiyana kuchokera kwa munthu payekha, ndi bwino kuyang'ana zomwe zingakhale zochitika m'thupi, m'maganizo ndi m'maganizo chifukwa chowonera zolaula zambiri chifukwa anthu ochepa amalingalira momwe zimakhudzira ubongo wawo ndi kuthekera kwawo kudzutsidwa pa nthawi yoonera zolaula komanso muzochitika zenizeni zogonana.
Zowonongeka komanso zopanda nzeru zokhudzana ndi chizoloŵezi chokakamiza zimakhudza kwambiri mbali iliyonse ya moyo wa munthu yomwe ili ndi analog, yolimbitsa thupi kapena yothandizira kukonzekera, kuchepetsa kukondwa kapena kukhazikitsa zolinga zamtsogolo (monga chibwenzi, sukulu, ntchito).
Anthu omwe ndalankhula nawo omwe amasonyeza zizindikiro zowonongeka amakhala ndi nkhawa kwambiri m'magulu a anthu, samakhala ndi zifukwa zochepa zothetsera zolinga zawo, kudzimva osadziletsa ndikukambirana za kudzipha.
Zizindikiro zina zingaphatikizepo kupweteka kwa erectile, nkhawa, kugwira ntchito, ubongo ndi maganizo. Kufufuza kwaposachedwapa kuchokera ku Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC)
Omwe amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula nthawi zambiri amatha kunena zakukhumudwa komanso kukhala ndi thanzi lakuthupi kuposa omwe sanatsegule ... Chifukwa chake ndichakuti zolaula zimatha kudzipatula ...
Anyamata akuyambanso kulankhula za momwe zolaula zilili inakhudzidwa payekha iwo.
Pamaso pa intaneti yothamanga kwambiri, anthu amaonera zolaula mosiyana. Kusuta mofulumira sikukanakhala kotheka monga lero.
Choyamba, anali zithunzi zazing'ono ku National Geographic, ndiye zikuwombera m'magawo a Playboy kapena Penthouse, kapena kupita ku masewero makamaka kwa mafilimu akuluakulu.
Kenaka, inali mulu wa matepi a VHS, wotsatiridwa ndi DVD yotentha yosankhidwa. Tsopano, mukhoza kukhala ndi mawindo ochuluka monga momwe mumafunira pa kompyuta yanu ndipo zonse zomwe muyenera kuchita ndizolemba pakati pawo - kapena mungagwiritse ntchito zida monga Pornhub PornIQ, zomwe zimapanga mndandanda wazomwe mumakonda.
Ambiri amakumbukira chifaniziro choyamba chogonana kapena filimu yomwe adawona - imachoka kumaganizo osatha. Ngati ndinu wachinyamata, munthu wosadziŵa zambiri za kugonana yemwe amakula akuwonera zolaula (kapena kwenikweni, munthu aliyense amene amaonera zovuta zambiri) ndipo mumangodula zokhazokha, ganizirani momwe zidzakhudzire zomwe mukukumana nazo.
Ngati mwaphunzitsa ubongo wanu ndi thupi lanu kuti lidzutse ndi zithunzi zosautsa, mwachiwonekere, zibwenzi zogonana zenizeni sizingakupangitseni ngati simungayang'ane zolaula. Mutha kupeza munthu wina wokongola, koma iye sangakulimbikitseni mwakuthupi kapena m'maganizo.
Ngati ndinu mnyamata, mutha kukhala ndi vuto lopeza kapena kusunga erection. Ngakhale mutaukitsidwa poyamba (chifukwa cha atsopano), miyezi ingapo mukhale pachibwenzi, mungapeze kuti sakukutembenuzani.
Dopamine, monga tanenera pamwambapa, ndichonso maziko olimbikitsa kukwaniritsa zilakolako zanu, komanso pankhani ya kugonana, ndizofunikira pa chilakolako cha kugonana ndi zosankha. Kusintha sikudzachitika ngati palibe dopamine yokwanira yosonyeza madera ozungulira.
Dopamine skyrockets ndi zachilendo, kotero ndi ogonana nawo atsopano kapena kugonana, mudzapeza kuwonjezeka kwa dopamine. Ngati dopamine yanu ikuyamba kuchepa - ndiko kuti, kukweza kwanu kumayamba kuchepa - mumangodzinso pazinthu zina kuti mudziwe nokha.
Ndi zolaula pa intaneti, nthawizonse mumakhala chinachake chatsopano, chosangalatsa kapena chodabwitsa. Penyani zolaula zokwanira komanso mphoto yanu yoyendetsera mphoto idzawotchera chifukwa dongosolo lanu la dopamine lawotcha ndipo motere, silingamvere.
Panthawiyi, mumadalira zolaula chifukwa mukusowa zolimbikitsana kuti muzuke ndikukonzekera.
Pambuyo pake, njira zolaula mu ubongo wanu zidzakhala zolimba kotero kuti simudzakhalanso osamala ndi zochitika zachizolowezi, monga kugonana ndi munthu weniweni.
Viagra kapena Cialis silingathe kuthandizira mavutowa ngakhale mutakhala ndi zaka zingati, chifukwa zimangotengera mitsempha ya magazi kuti igwirizane, osati kulenga.
Ubongo umayenera kuwukitsidwa poyamba; popanda kuwukweza, palibe chimene chingakhoze kuchitika. Ndipo ndizo zomwe zolaula zimachitika patapita nthawi - zimapha kuyankha. Ngati mukuganiza kuti mungakhale ndi zithunzi zolaula, yesani maulendowa kwa AnuBrainOnPorn Pano ndi Pano.
Kugonjetsa chiwerewere kungakhale kosavuta, koma osati kosavuta. Anthu ambiri apeza bwino ndi Yambani pulogalamu pa YourBrainOnPorn ndi chithandizo pa Palibe gulu la Fap pa Reddit.
Anthu ena apeza kuti intaneti imayesayesa kwambiri ndipo yapambana ndi mapulogalamu a 12. Ngati muonera zolaula, dzifunseni kuti zinthu zambiri zomwe zimakukopa zimakhudzidwa ndi zolaula.
Fotokozerani ubale wanu ndi zolaula kuti mutha kupeŵa kuchepa kwake. Ngati mukufuna kudzutsidwa pokhala ndi anthu, zolaula zingakhale mbali ya moyo wanu wosangalatsa, osati chinthu chonsecho.
nkhani yoyamba ndi Nikita Coulombe
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