Kodi pali kulumikizana kosayembekezeka pakati pa zolaula zam'masiku ano ndi potency?
Kupyolera mu chiwonongeko cha tsogolo, webusaiti yanga yakhala pulojekiti kwa anthu ena odabwitsa, kuphatikizapo amuna omwe atha kudziletsa okha ku zolaula. Khama lawo likundiphunzitsa ine kuposa momwe ndinkafunira kudziwa za nkhaniyi. Zaka zingapo zapitazo wina analemba,
Ndikutsimikiza kuti ngati phunziro lapitadi ndi amuna oona mtima, tikhoza kuwona mgwirizano pakati pa kuyang'ana zolaula ndi kuwonongeka kwa erectile. Makampani opanga zolaula amapindula ndi anthu osadziŵika bwino ndipo amapanga mabiliyoni ambiri. Ndiye makampani a zamagetsi amatigulitsa mankhwala okwera mtengo ogwiritsira ntchito kugonana pofuna kuthana ndi zotsatira zake-ndi kupanga mabiliyoni.
Zikupezeka kuti sanali osiyana.
Ndakhala ndikuyang'ana zolaula pa intaneti kuyambira pomwe ndidayamba koleji zaka 13 zapitazo. Pakati pa zaka 24, ndinawona zovuta kuti ndidzutse ndi akazi enieni. Generic Viagra pa intaneti idandilola kukhala ndi zibwenzi zenizeni ndimavuto ochepa mpaka zaka 29. Kenako, zidayamba kukhala zovuta kwambiri kugonana kwenikweni, ngakhale ndi mapiritsi.
Pozindikira vuto langa, ndinayesa kangapo kuti ndileke kusiya zolaula. Kutalika kwanga kumene ndimakhala popanda izo kunali masabata a 3. Panthawiyi, sindinathe kudzuka ndikuganiza za kugonana kwabwino, kotero kukhumudwa kunamangidwa. Kupulumuka kwanga kokha ndiko kubwereranso ku chinthu chokha chomwe chindidzutsa ine: ndikuganizira za fetesi zomwe ndinayamba ndikuwona zolaula. Ndiye izo zinali kubwereranso ku zolaula. Ndikufuna kuchiritsidwa ndi izi.
Pamene liwiro la intaneti lakwera, momwemonso kuseweretsa maliseche kwakhalapo pa makanema. Ndi kosavuta kuwapeza, kochulukirachulukira—ndipo kolimbikitsa kwambiri kuposa Playboys wakale. Tsoka ilo, akatswiri ambiri sakuganiza za " mlingo wa kusonkhezera komwe kumakhudza bwino kayendedwe ka ubongo/kulumikiza mawaya." Akuganizabe za zolaula zonse ngati "chinthu china choposa chithandizo choseweretsa maliseche," motero chosavulaza, kapena chopindulitsa. Popeza makanema a pa intaneti ndi chizolowezi chaposachedwa, ndizotheka kuti malingaliro wamba sanakhale ndi nthawi yokwanira yodziwa zenizeni za zolaula zamasiku ano ndi zoopsa zake.
Kulumikizana kwa zolaula / potency ndizachinyengo modabwitsa. Ambiri amuna potency palibe okhudzidwa ndi zolaula ... mpaka zitatero. Chifukwa chake vutolo limawoneka ngati chinyengo mpaka likamugwira munthu wina — pomwe nthawi zambiri amalakwitsa zolaula monga kuchiza. Zinthu zoopsa kwambiri zimachepetsa ubongo wake. Pa nthawiyi, amuna ambiri amagwiritsa ntchito malingaliro ena kupatulapo zolaula zimagwiritsa ntchito zizindikiro zawo, chifukwa chakuti akudalira kwambiri.
Kawirikawiri akatswiri amaganiza kuti manyazi ndiye chifukwa cha mavuto amenewa, koma kwa amuna ambiri mwina vuto la ubongo chifukwa cha kukhudzidwa kwambiri ndi zinthu zomwe zimayambitsa vutoli ndilo vuto. Sikuti akhala akugwiritsa ntchito zolaula mosangalala kwa zaka zambiri, komanso, ngati manyazi ndi omwe amachititsa, mavutowa angawonekere msanga. Amuna ambiri sakhala ndi mavuto mpaka zaka zambiri zogwiritsa ntchito zolaula mopitirira muyeso zitatha. Kenako pamakhala kuchepa kwina pamene kufunafuna kwawo zinthu zoopsa kwambiri kukukulirakulira. (Manyazi nthawi zonse si ofunikira. Zingapangitse kuti kugonana kukhale kosangalatsa kwambiri , motero kufulumizitsa nthawi yochepetsera chilakolako.)
Nkhani yabwino ndi yakuti vuto la kugonana lomwe limabwera chifukwa chogwiritsa ntchito zolaula mopitirira muyeso limawoneka kuti lingasinthe. Chowawa ndi chakuti wodwalayo ayenera kusiya kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula mopitirira muyeso—kudzimana komwe kumakhala kovuta modabwitsa.
Izi ndi zomwe amuna adagawana:
Pambuyo pa zaka zambiri ndikuchita zolaula, ndinali ndi vuto la kugonana. Zinali zikuipiraipira kwa zaka zingapo. Ndinkafunika mitundu yambiri ya zolaula, koma sizinathandize. Ndinali ndi nkhawa kwambiri, koma nkhawayo inandipangitsa kuti ndizikonda kwambiri zolaula. N'zovuta kukhulupirira, poganizira momwe zinthu zinalili. Mwina ndinkagwiritsa ntchito zithunzi za zolaula zamtundu uliwonse ndi mavidiyo kupatulapo chimodzi: zolaula za ana. Chomwe chimandiopsa ndichakuti, kodi ndikanathanso kuchita zimenezo tsiku lina?
Pamene ndikupita kopanda zolaula, maliseche, malingaliro ndi zovuta, zimavuta kwambiri osati tenga erection. SEKANI. Palibe mavuto a E ED kapena ejaculations ofooka ngati ndinali ndi miyezi ingapo yapitayo. Thupi langa lachiritsidwa. Choncho, ngati mutasiya zolaula ndi maliseche, chilakolako chanu chogonana chidzakwera. Icho chidzapita mwa njira yabwino. Kupereka izi kwa kanthawi kochepa chabe kwakhala chinthu chachikulu pochiritsa kuwonongeka kumene ndinadzichitira ndekha. Tsopano vuto ndi kupeza wokondedwa, kapena nthawi yotsutsa maliseche yomwe ikugwira ntchito.
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Pambuyo pa masiku 90 osatha zolaula / maliseche, ndinazindikira kuti ndinali womvera kwambiri kuposa kale; Sindinkafuna china chilichonse chondipangitsa kuti ndizichita mantha. Komanso kutulutsa kwa umuna kudasiya. Tsopano popeza ndabwereranso ku maliseche, ndazindikira kuti ndakhala wokonda kwambiri azimayi (ndipo ndakhala ndikugona nawo) nthawi yomwe ndimayesa pafupipafupi maliseche.
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Ndikudya zolaula ndikumenya, ndinali ndi nkhawa yayikulu pakugonana kwenikweni. Izo zatha. Ndilibe vuto. Ndizosangalatsa kudzutsidwa ndi tinthu tating'onoting'ono: bulawuzi yowululira, kutumbuka kosalakwa, diresi yachilimwe, kapena tsitsi loyenda lokongola, zonunkhira komanso zonunkhira, m'malo mojambula "Cum Gurgling sluts".
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Ndine wokondwa kuti nkhani yolaula-ED ikudziwika bwino. Zithandiza kupewa mavuto ambiri. Ndawerenga zinthu zokhudza anthu omwe amatha kuonera zolaula nthawi zina ndikuchitabe ndi zina zofunika. Komabe, ngati atapita nthawi yayitali popanda kugonana ndi anzawo, ndikuwonera zolaula zambiri maliseche, ndiye kuti amakumana ndi zovuta-zovuta zomwe analibe kale.
Malinga ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo Norman Doidge , munthu wogwiritsa ntchito zolaula kwambiri sasiyana ndi wina aliyense.
osokoneza bongo omwe sangathenso kukwera pazithunzi zomwe zidamuyatsa kale. Ndipo chowopsa ndichakuti kulolerana kumeneku kudzapitilira muubwenzi, monga momwe zimakhalira ndi odwala omwe ndimawawona, zomwe zimabweretsa mavuto azovuta komanso zatsopano, nthawi zina zosavomerezeka. Ojambula zolaula akadzitama kuti akukankhira envelopu poyambitsa mitu yatsopano, yovuta, zomwe samanena ndikuti ayenera, chifukwa makasitomala awo akupanga kulolerana ndi zomwe zili. Masamba akumapeto kwa magazini owopsa a amuna ndi malo azolaula a pa intaneti ali ndi zotsatsa zamankhwala amtundu wa Viagra-mankhwala opangidwira amuna achikulire omwe ali ndi mavuto a erectile okhudzana ndi ukalamba komanso otseka mitsempha yamagazi mbolo. Masiku ano anyamata omwe amaonera zolaula amawopa kwambiri kutaya mphamvu, kapena "kuwonongeka kwa erectile" monga momwe amatchulidwira. Mawu osocheretsa amatanthauza kuti amunawa ali ndi vuto kumaliseche kwawo, koma vuto lili m'mutu mwawo. … Sizimachitika kawirikawiri kuti pakhoza kukhala ubale pakati pa zolaula zomwe akudya komanso kusowa kwawo mphamvu.
Nayi nkhani yomwe amuna ambiri sadziwa. Nthawi yosasangalatsa kapena kulira kwambiri masiku ochira pambuyo pochita zinthu zolimbitsa thupi kwambiri imaoneka ngati chifukwa chabwino chodzipangira mankhwala ndi zolaula zina. Koma kuchita zimenezi kumawonjezera vutoli. Ngati wina afika pachimake ubongo wake usanabwererenso bwino, mwina angafune zinthu zolimbikitsa kwambiri. Chifukwa chiyani? Mbali yakale ya ubongo wake imakhalabe yosagwira ntchito kwakanthawi. Ichi ndichifukwa chake kugonana/zolaula nthawi zonse “sikumuchitira iye.”
Zowonjezera zowonjezera zowonjezera zimadzutsa, koma zowonjezereka zimawonongera ma dopamine mu gawo lalikulu la ubongo wake. Pamene ziphuphu zake ndi zokhumba zowonjezera zowonjezera zimayamba kulamulira moyo wake, wogwiritsa ntchito akhoza kuiwala zomwe zikufanana. Kawirikawiri amakumana ndi zosagwirizana kudandaula ndi nkhawa-Omwe sangagwirizane ndi kusintha kwa ubongo wake komwe kumadza chifukwa chogwiritsa ntchito zolaula kwambiri. Ndipo chifukwa vutoli likukula mu Kulumikizana kwa ubongo, Kukonzekera kwakanthawi kwa Viagra sikulepheretsa kuwonongeka. (Imangoyankha mayendedwe amwazi mpaka kumayendedwe.)
Monga alendo anga adadziwira, yankho likuwoneka kuti ndikusiya kuseweretsa maliseche. M'malo mwake, kutchuliratu kuseweretsa maliseche kwakanthawi kokwanira miyezi iwiri kumathamangitsa "kusokonekera" kwa mgwirizano womwe ulipo pakati pa kukondweretsedwa komanso kovuta kwambiri. Izi zimapereka kuyambiranso, kuyankhula zogonana (ngakhale ubongo ungakhalebe wokhudzidwa kwambiri ndi zolaula zokhudzana ndi zolaula mpaka kalekale).
Njira yayitali komanso yopweteka iyi, "yobwezeretsa" ingakhale yoopsa. Amuna ena amaopa kuti chilakolako chawo cha kugonana chidzatha kotheratu. Izi sizili choncho. Pamene ubongo ukubwerera kuti ukhale bwino, umakhala womvera komanso woyankha bwino, osati wochepa. Komabe, poyamba, ena amakhala ndi nthawi yotuwa, yomwe palibe chomwe chimawapangitsa kuti azisangalala chifukwa ubongo wawo umakhala wopanda mphamvu.
Pamene ubongo umalepheretsedwera kusonkhana ndi mabungwe omwe amapezako zolaula, potsirizira pake amayang'ana pozungulira zinthu zina zosangalatsa. Ikufotokozanso zomwe zinasinthika kuti zipeze: kuyankhulana momasuka, okwatirana enieni, nthawi mu chilengedwe, masewera olimbitsa thupi, kukwaniritsa, ndi zina zotero. Ndipotu amuna ambiri amapindula kwambiri ndi masewera olimbitsa thupi. Zimapanga chithunzi chodzikonda komanso zimachepetsanso nkhawa komanso kupanikizika pamene ubongo ukubwerera ku homeostasis.
Mwachiwonekere, zinthu zambiri zingathe kugwira ntchito pochita mantha. Komabe pamene anthu amaphunzira kulamulira kugonana kwawo kwa enieni omwe angathe kugwirizana nawo pogwiritsa ntchito kusintha kwa khalidwe lawo, amatha kuyankha molimba mtima nkhani zina zomwe zimapangitsa kuti pakhale nkhawa.
[Onaninso: “ Momwe Ndinachiritsira Kulephera Kugonana Kokhudzana ndi Zolaula ”]
Kuti mudziwe zambiri zokhudza thanzi la kugonana, onani Gary's Erectile Dysfunction and Porn slide show.