Dzina langa ndi Brian ndipo ndinali wokonda zolaula kuyambira ndili ndi zaka 14 mpaka 27. Ndizo zaka 13 ndikuonera zolaula zambiri. Chifukwa cha chizolowezi changa cholaula, nthawi zosiyanasiyana pamoyo wanga ndinakumana ndi zolaula zomwe zidapangitsa ED komanso nkhawa zakugonana.
Ndili ndi zaka zapakati pa makumi awiri, ED yanga inali gawo lalikulu pamavuto aubwenzi wanga wa nthawi yayitali. Bwenzi langa limapita kunja kwa miyezi ingapo ntchito yake, ndipo ndimatha kuonera maola olaula tsiku lililonse, ndikutsegula tabu khumi kapena kuposerapo ndikufunafuna china chatsopano chomwe chingandisiye. Pobwerera, ndinali ndi vuto lopeza ndewu kwa miyezi yambiri ndikagonana - ndimakhala ndi bwenzi lenileni lomwe ndidamupeza wokongola kwenikweni.
Titatha kulekana, ndinali ndi zibwenzi zochepa zochepa zomwe sindimakhala omasuka chifukwa chokhudzana ndi kugonana. Mumtima mwanga, ndimadziwa kuti mwina ndichifukwa chake maubwenzi ambiri adalephera - ngakhale ndimakonda kuzimaliza.
Zikumveka zowonekeratu kuti zolaula zanga ndizomwe zimayambitsa vuto langa la ED, koma kumbukirani kuti izi zinali 7 kapena 8 zaka zapitazo, asanadziwe zambiri zamtunduwu. (cholembedwa cham'mbali: chifukwa cha Gary ntchito yake yopangitsa kuti anthu adziwe zambiri!) Ndinapitanso kukaonana ndi omwe amagonana (omwe adanenanso kuti ine ndi bwenzi langa titha kuyesera kuonera zolaula limodzi kuti 'tizisangalatse') komanso wotsutsa, koma Sindinayambe nditawerenga za ED zomwe zinandipangitsa kuti ndizindikire chomwe chimayambitsa vuto langa.
Nthawi Yoyambiranso
Zomwe ndinayambiranso zolaula sizinachite bwino tsiku limodzi. Chinali chimodzi mwazinthu zovuta kwambiri - ngati sichoncho, zovuta kwambiri zomwe ndachita. Ndi momwe ndimasilira. Koma nditayesetsa pang'ono kusiya kuzizira, ndidakumana ndi malingaliro ndi malingaliro omwe amathandiza (kusiya chizolowezi, kukhala ndi mnzake woyankha mlandu, kufotokoza ...) ndipo pamapeto pake ndinatha kusiya zolaula.
Zinali pafupifupi miyezi 4 kuyambiranso (pambuyo poti ndabwezanso) kuti nditha kunena kuti "ndachiritsidwa" kwathunthu kwa ED yanga.
Ngati mukuwerenga tsamba ili, mukudziwa chani muyenera kuchita. Ndiwosavuta, koma sikophweka.
Ndikulingalira kuti pali anyamata ambiri kunja uko akuyesera kukonzanso zaka za 'edging' ndi kuchuluka kwamitundu monga ndinali nayo. Mutha kuigonjetsa. Chofunikira ndikuvomereza kuti zitenga nthawi ndikudzipereka kwathunthu pantchitoyi.
Tsopano patha zaka pafupifupi 3 kuyambira pomwe ndinawonera zolaula, ndipo moyo wanga ndi wabwino koposa. Ndili ndi nthawi yochulukirapo yocheza ndi anthu omwe ndimawakonda; kwambiri kuganizira ndi wofunitsitsa; ndipo, zowona, moyo wanga wogonana ndi wabwino koposa momwe udalili kale. Ma pix samangofanana ndi azimayi enieni.
Ndidafuna kugawana zida ndi njira zomwe zidandithandizira kuti ndikwaniritse bwino kuyambiranso, motero ndidayamba tsamba, lomwe ndimalemba zosiya kusiya zolaula, kuthana ndi PIED, komanso nkhawa zokhudzana ndi kugonana: www.rebootblueprint.com
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Mutha kuzipeza pamwamba pazinthu zatsamba langa laulere:
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Zabwino zonse kuyambiranso ndipo ndibwerera posachedwa!
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