Kulepheretsa Yankho la David Ley kwa Philip Zimbardo: "Tiyenera Kudalira Sayansi Yabwino Potsutsana pa Zolaula" (2016)

Yankho la YBOP pa nkhani ya David Ley ya Psychology Today mu blog yake ya “ Tiyenera Kudalira Sayansi Yabwino mu Mkangano wa Zolaula (2016). ” Nkhani ya Ley ndi yankho lake pa nkhani ya Philip Zimbardo ya Psychology Today mu blog yake ya “Kodi Zolaula Ndi Zabwino Kwa Ife Kapena Zoipa Kwa Ife?” (2016).

Ngakhale mutu wa Ley umati tiyenera kudalira "sayansi yabwino," ndi Ley amene amalumikiza pepala limodzi lokha (lomwe kwenikweni limachirikiza lingaliro la chizolowezi cha zolaula). Mosiyana ndi zimenezi, Zimbardo amapereka maumboni 14 (maphunziro 13, nkhani imodzi) ndi ulalo wa buku lake latsopano lakuti " Man, Interrupted: Why Young Men are Struggling & What We Can Do About It" . Zimbardo akanatha kutchula maphunziro ena ambiri, monga momwe mudzaonera.

Zosintha, 2019 : David Ley tsopano akulipidwa ndi kampani yayikulu yogulitsa zolaula ya xHamster kuti akweze mawebusayiti ake ndikutsimikizira ogwiritsa ntchito kuti chizolowezi chogonana ndi chizolowezi chogonana ndi nthano chabe!

David Ley Liwu Lokha Ndilo Mau Okha, ndipo Ikuthandizira Kugonjetsa Kwachiwerewere

Ley akupereka mawu ambiri onyoza, koma palibe mawu aliwonse mu positi ya Ley omwe amatsutsa chilichonse mu positi ya Zimbardo. Ndipotu, nkhani ya Ley ikugwirizana ndi mawu amodzi okha - omwe ndi ndemanga yaposachedwa ya mabuku okhudza machitidwe ogonana okakamiza , olembedwa ndi Shane Kraus, Valerie Voon ndi Marc Potenza. Mosiyana ndi zomwe Ley akunena, "Ndemanga ya Voon" imalimbikitsa kukhalapo kwa chizolowezi chogonana. Chidule cha ndemangayi:

“Pali zinthu zingapo zomwe zimachitika pakati pa CSB [machitidwe okakamiza ogonana] ndi zovuta zogwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Njira zofala zama neurotransmitter zitha kuchititsa CSB ndi vuto la kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo, ndipo kafukufuku waposachedwa wa neuroimaging akuwonetsa kufanana komwe kumakhudzana ndi kulakalaka komanso chidwi. ”

Mwanjira ina, kafukufuku wa ma CSB ali ndi zofanana zambiri ndi matenda osokoneza bongo, ngakhale asayansi osamala akufuna kuwona umboni wina. Awiri mwa olemba ndemanga iyi (Valerie Voon & Marc Potenza) ndi akatswiri a sayansi ya ubongo omwe ali ndi vuto la kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Pamodzi afalitsa maphunziro atatu okhudza "ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula." Awiri mwa maphunzirowa anali ma fMRI (kusanthula ubongo), pomwe amodzi anali a neuropsychological (kusankha mosamala). Ngakhale Voon ndi Potenza amakonda kutetezedwa kwambiri, adati maphunziro awo atatu a ubongo akugwirizana bwino ndi mtundu wa chizolowezi ( 1 , 2 , 3 ). Ley amanyalanyaza zonsezi ndipo akufotokoza gawo losamala la pepalalo, lomwe ndi gawo lachizolowezi la mapepala asayansi ozama. Kenako amatanthauzira kwa ife, ponena kuti zikutanthauza kuti detayo ndi yotsutsana (m'malo mongokhala yocheperako):

"Deta yosakwanira yokhudzana ndi magulu a zizindikiro angapangitse CSB (Kugonana Kwachiwerewere) kapena malo omwe angakhale oyenerera pofotokozera CSB. Zosakwanira zokwanira za deta, zofuna kupewa ndi kuchiza. Ngakhale deta yokhudzana ndi zinthu zogwiritsira ntchito zizindikiro zimasonyeza kufanana pakati pa mankhwala osokoneza bongo ndi CSB, deta ndi yochepa ndi kukula kwake kwazing'ono, zogonana zogonana amuna okhaokha, komanso zojambula. "

Werengani zomwe zili pamwambapa mosamala. Inde, ofufuza akufuna zambiri. (Nthawi zonse amachita.) Komabe, Kraus, Voon ndi Potenza amanena momveka bwino kuti mfundo zomwe zilipo za zizolowezi zoledzera ndi ma CSB ndi zofanana mu ubongo. Mwachidule, zizolowezi zoledzera ndi machitidwe ogonana okakamiza ali ndi mawonekedwe ofanana a ubongo ndi kusintha kwa ubongo. Mwanjira ina, pafupifupi maphunziro onse a ubongo omwe atchulidwa mu ndemanga iyi kuti awonetse kuti ma CSB ndi ofanana kwambiri ndi matenda osokoneza bongo omwe amakhudza ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti okakamiza. Sizodabwitsa ngati ndemanga yosiyana ( Neurobiology of Compulsive Sexual Behavior: Emerging Science. 2016 ) yofalitsidwa mwezi umodzi m'mbuyomu ndi Kraus, Voon ndi Potenza adamaliza kuti:

"Popeza kufanana pakati pa CSB ndi zizolowezi za mankhwala osokoneza bongo, njira zothandizira kuledzera zitha kukhala ndi chiyembekezo kwa CSB, ndikupereka chidziwitso kumayendedwe amtsogolo ofufuzira kuti athe kuwona izi."

Mwa kuyankhula kwina, mkanganowu suli mu ubongo wa anthu omwe ali ndi vuto la zolaula, zomwe n'zomveka bwino, komanso zofanana kwambiri ndi za anthu omwe amagwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo. M'malo mwake, mkanganowu ukuzungulira zomwe "gulu la zizindikiro" limafotokoza bwino machitidwe ogonana okakamiza (CSB). Vuto logwirizana pa gulu la zizindikiro limachokera ku mfundo yakuti ofufuzawo amalephera kusiyanitsa chizolowezi chogonana ndi chizolowezi chogonana ndi zolaula pa intaneti , n'kuziphatikiza pamodzi ngati "CSBs."

Zosintha: Valerie Voon ndi ofufuza ena okhudzana ndi chizolowezi chogonana adagwirizana kuti alembe ndemanga iyi yokhudza kuphatikizidwa kwa matenda a "compulsive sexual behavior disorder" mu ICD-11 yomwe ikubwera: Kodi chizolowezi chogonana mopitirira muyeso ndi vuto loledzera? ( Potenza et al. , 2017) - Mutha kuwona kuchokera ku Excerpts kuti Valerie Voon amathandizira kwathunthu chitsanzo cha chizolowezi choledzera:

Matenda osokoneza bongo (ogwiritsidwa ntchito monga vuto la hypersexual) ankaonedwa kuti alowetsedwa mu DSM-5 koma pamapeto pake sanatulukidwe, ngakhale kuti anali ndi mayeso oyenerera ndi kuyesedwa. Kulekerera kumeneku kwaletsa kuletsa, kufufuza, ndi kuyesa, ndikusiya asing'anga opanda chidziwitso chothetsera vuto la chiwerewere.

Kafufuzidwe kafukufuku wa matenda a kugonana kwa chizolowezi chogonana ndi chilakolako cha kugonana kwachititsa kuti pakhale zotsatira zokhudzana ndi chilakolako chodziwika bwino, zolimbikitsana, komanso ubongo wokhudzana ndi ubongo zomwe zimaphatikizapo zofanana ndi kuledzeretsa. Matenda osokoneza bongo akuyendetsedwa ngati matenda odziletsa ku ICD-11, mogwirizana ndi malingaliro omwe akufuna kukhala nawo, akupitirizabe kuchita nawo kanthu ngakhale kuti zotsatira zake sizingatheke, kukakamizidwa, komanso kuchepetsa kuchepa kumaimira zinthu zazikulu zokhudzana ndi vutoli. Lingaliro limeneli liyenera kukhala loyenera kwa matenda ena a DSM-IV, omwe amatha kutchova njuga. Komabe, zidazi akhala akudziwika kuti ndizovuta kuzilandira, ndipo kusintha kwa DSM-IV kupita ku DSM-5, gulu la Impulse Control Disorders Alibe Pakati Pang'ono Padziko lapansi linasinthidwa, ndipo kutchova njuga kumatchulidwanso kuti ndikutsekemera. Pakalipano, tsamba la ICD-11 lolemba mapepala limatchula mavuto odziteteza, ndipo imaphatikizapo matenda osokoneza bongo, pyromania, kleptomania, ndi matenda osokoneza bongo.

Matenda opatsirana okhudzana ndi kugonana akuwoneka kuti akugwirizana bwino ndi matenda osokoneza bongo omwe akuperekedwa kwa ICD-11, mogwirizana ndi nthawi yochepetsera kugonana yomwe ikufunidwa pofuna kusokoneza vuto la kugonana pa tsamba la ICD-11. Timakhulupirira kuti chiwerengero cha matenda okhudzana ndi kugonana monga matenda ozunguza bongo akugwirizana ndi deta yam'tsogolo ndipo akhoza kuthandiza madokotala, ochita kafukufuku, komanso anthu omwe akuvutika ndi matendawa.

Zotsatira zonse za 50 Zophunzira za Anthu Ogwiritsa Ntchito Zolaula Thandizani Zimbardo's Claim; palibe thandizani Ley's

Pali chifukwa chomwe Ley sanapereke maphunziro aliwonse pomwe Zimbardo anali mu 13. Zoona zake n'zakuti, mu 2016 Zimabardo akanatha kutchula maphunziro ena 30 okhudzana ndi ubongo pa nkhani za CSB. Mwachidule, positi ya Ley sinatchule maphunziro onse 50 okhudzana ndi ubongo pa ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula omwe adasindikizidwa m'zaka zingapo zapitazi ( mndandanda waposachedwa ). Pakadali pano, zotsatira za "kafukufuku wa ubongo" uliwonse (MRI, fMRI, EEG, neuropsychological, neuro-endocrine) zimapereka chithandizo pa lingaliro la chizolowezi chogonana. Kuphatikiza pa kunena za kusintha komweko kwa ubongo monga momwe kumawonedwera mwa anthu omwe ali ndi vuto la kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo, maphunziro angapo adanenanso kuti kugwiritsa ntchito kwambiri zolaula kumagwirizanitsidwa ndi kusagwira ntchito bwino kwa erectile, kuchepa kwa chilakolako chogonana, anorgasmia, kuchedwa kutulutsa umuna, komanso kuchepa kwa mayankho a mitsempha ku zithunzi za zolaula za vanila.

Maphunziro 41 okhudza ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula akugwirizananso ndi "maphunziro a ubongo" opitilira 370 okhudzana ndi chizolowezi cha pa intaneti (PET, MRI, fMRI, EEG) omwe adafalitsidwa m'zaka zingapo zapitazi. Popanda kusiyanitsa, maphunzirowa akunena za kusintha komweko kwa ubongo komwe kumakhudzana ndi chizolowezi monga momwe kumawonedwera mwa anthu omwe ali ndi vuto la kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Kusuta zolaula pa intaneti, malinga ndi akatswiri osiyanasiyana, ndi mtundu wa chizolowezi cha intaneti komanso CSB, monga momwe ndemanga yaposachedwa ya mabuku a neuroscience idanenera : " Neuroscience of Internet Pornography Addiction: A Review and Update (2015) ." Onaninso Sex Addiction as a Disease: Evidence for Assessment, Diagnosis, and Response to Critics (2015) , yomwe imapereka tchati chomwe chimatengera zotsutsa zinazake ndikupereka mawu omwe amatsutsana nazo.

Pomaliza, malingaliro enieni a akatswiri pankhani ya chizolowezi chogonana ndi zolaula: mndandanda uwu uli ndi ndemanga 25 zaposachedwa za mabuku ndi ndemanga zochokera kwa akatswiri ena apamwamba a sayansi ya ubongo padziko lonse lapansi. Zonsezi zimathandizira chitsanzo cha chizolowezi chogonana.

Kuyankha Kudzinenera Kwina mu Blog ya David Ley

DAVIDE LEY: “Dr. Zimbardo akupitiriza kunena za maphunziro ndi zolemba zambiri zomwe zimati zolaula zimakhudza thupi. Mwamwayi, pali vuto la kusokoneza mgwirizano, kuphatikizapo, zomwe ndinaphunzira pazigawo zoyambirira zofukufuku. "

YANKHO: Chiganizo chimodzi ichi chikuwonetsa kusowa kwakukulu kwa chidziwitso cha momwe kafukufuku amagwirira ntchito.

Munthu akagwiritsa ntchito mawu akuti “ palibe chifukwa chomwe chawonetsedwa ” zimapangitsa asayansi omvetsera kukayikira kumvetsetsa kwake sayansi kapena kafukufuku. Ponena za maphunziro a zamaganizo ndi zamankhwala, kafukufuku wochepa amavumbula mwachindunji chifukwa chake . Mwachitsanzo, maphunziro onse okhudza ubale pakati pa khansa ya m'mapapo ndi kusuta fodya ndi ogwirizana - koma chifukwa ndi zotsatira zake zimathetsedwa.

Poganizira zofunikira pa makhalidwe abwino, ofufuza nthawi zambiri amaletsedwa kupanga mapangidwe ofufuza oyesera omwe angatsimikizire kuti zolaula zimayambitsa mavuto ena. Chifukwa chake, ayenera kugwiritsa ntchito mitundu yogwirizana . Pakapita nthawi, pamene maphunziro ofunikira okhudzana ndi ubale asonkhanitsidwa m'dera lililonse lofufuza, pamabwera nthawi yomwe umboni unganenedwe kuti umatsimikizira mfundo inayake, ngakhale kuti panalibe maphunziro oyesera. Mwanjira ina, palibe kafukufuku wokhudzana ndi ubale womwe ungapereke "mfuti yosuta" m'dera lophunzirira, koma umboni wogwirizana wa maphunziro angapo okhudzana ndi ubale umagwiritsidwa ntchito kukhazikitsa umboni. Ponena za kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula, pafupifupi kafukufuku aliyense wofalitsidwa ndi wogwirizana. Kuti "utsimikizire" kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kumayambitsa kusokonekera kwa erectile kapena kusintha kwa ubongo komwe kumakhudzana ndi chizolowezi muyenera kuchita chimodzi mwazinthu ziwiri:

Mukhale ndi magulu akulu awiri a mapasa ofanana omwe amagawidwa pakubereka. Onetsetsani kuti gulu limodzi silikuwonanso zolaula. Onetsetsani kuti munthu aliyense mu gulu lina akuwonerera zofanana ndi zolaula, zomwe zikufanana nthawi yomweyo, komanso nthawi yomweyo. Pitirizani kuyesa kwa zaka 30 kapena apo, potsatira zotsatira za kusiyana.
Chotsani zosinthika zomwe mukufuna kuziyeza. Makamaka, ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula amaima, ndikuyang'ana kusintha kwa miyezi (zaka?) Mtsogolo. Izi ndizo zomwe zikuchitika mwachinsinsi pa intaneti monga anyamata ambirimbiri amasiya kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti pofuna kuchepetsa zovuta zowononga zokhudzana ndi kugonana (zomwe zimachitika chifukwa cha kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula).

Mpaka pano, maphunziro 10 okha ndi omwe achotsa zolaula ndipo awona zotsatira zake. Onse 10 adapeza kusintha kwakukulu. Maphunziro asanu ndi awiri mwa omwe adafufuza anali ndi ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula zomwe zimawapangitsa kukhala ndi vuto lalikulu la kugonana ndipo amapewa zolaula. Maphunziro 7 amenewo akuwonetsa chifukwa chake odwala adachiritsa mavuto aakulu a kugonana pochotsa chosinthika chimodzi: zolaula. Maphunziro 10:

1) Kugulitsa Mphoto Pambuyo Pake Kuti Musangalale Pakalipano: Kugwiritsa Ntchito Zithunzi Zolaula ndi Kuchepetsa Kuchedwa (2015) - Kafukufukuyu adanenanso kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kwambiri kunagwirizana ndi kuthekera kochepa kochedwetsa kukhutitsidwa. Ofufuzawo adafufuza ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula mwezi umodzi pambuyo pake ndipo adapeza kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kupitilizabe kunagwirizana ndi kuthekera kochepa kochedwetsa kukhutitsidwa. Pomaliza, ofufuza adagawa anthu m'magulu awiri: Theka lina anayesa kupewa chakudya chomwe amakonda; theka lina anayesa kupewa zolaula pa intaneti. Anthu omwe anayesa kupewa zolaula adakumana ndi kusintha kwakukulu: adapeza bwino kuthekera kwawo kochedwetsa kukhutitsidwa. Ofufuzawo adati:

"Zomwe akupezazi zikusonyeza kuti zolaula za pa Intaneti ndizopindulitsa zomwe zimapangitsa kuchepetsa kuchotsa mosiyana kusiyana ndi mphoto zina zachilengedwe. Ndikofunika kwambiri kuti tione zolaula ngati zochititsa chidwi zomwe zimapangitsa kuti tipindule, tipitirize kuphunziranso, komanso kuti tizigwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo.

2) Chikondi Chosatha: Kugwiritsa Ntchito Zithunzi Zolaula ndi Kudzipereka Kofooka kwa Mnzanu Wachikondi (2012) - Kafukufukuyu adawonetsa anthu omwe adayesa kupewa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kwa milungu itatu. Poyerekeza magulu awiriwa, omwe adapitiliza kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula adanena kuti anali ndi kudzipereka kochepa kuposa omwe adayesa kupewa.

3) Kuchita maliseche kosazolowereka monga chifukwa cha matenda opatsirana pogonana mwa anyamata (2014) - Chimodzi mwa maphunziro anayi omwe ali m'nkhaniyi chimafotokoza za mwamuna yemwe ali ndi mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana chifukwa cha zolaula (kuchepa kwa chilakolako cha kugonana, fetishes, anorgasmia). Kugonana kumeneku kunafuna kuti apewe zolaula kwa milungu 6 komanso maliseche. Patatha miyezi 8 mwamunayo adanena kuti chilakolako chogonana chawonjezeka, kugonana bwino komanso kugonana bwino, komanso kusangalala ndi "machitidwe abwino ogonana. Zidutswa kuchokera mu pepalali:

"Akafunsidwa za zizoloŵezi za masturbatory, iye anafotokoza kuti m'mbuyomo anali atatha kuchita maliseche mofulumira pamene akuonera zolaula kuyambira ali mwana. Zithunzi zolaula poyamba zinali za zoophilia, ndi ukapolo, ulamuliro, chisoni, ndi masochism, koma pomaliza pake anazoloŵera zidazi ndipo ankafuna zojambula zolaula zambiri, kuphatikizapo kugonana, kugonana, komanso kugonana. Ankagula mafilimu oletsa zolaula pa zochitika zogonana ndi kugwiririra ndikuwonetsa zithunzizi poganiza kuti azigonana ndi amayi. Pang'onopang'ono anataya chilakolako chake ndipo amatha kukhumudwitsa ndi kuchepetsa nthawi yambiri yochita maliseche. "

Mogwirizana ndi magawo a mlungu ndi mlungu ndi wodwalayo, wodwalayo adalangizidwa kuti asapewe chilichonse chokhudza kugonana, kuphatikizapo mavidiyo, nyuzipepala, mabuku, ndi intaneti.

Pambuyo pa miyezi ya 8, wodwalayo adanena kuti akupeza bwino ndikumaliza. Anayambitsanso ubale wake ndi mkazi ameneyo, ndipo pang'onopang'ono anapeza chisangalalo chabwino chogonana.

4) Kodi Zithunzi Zolaula pa Intaneti Zimayambitsa Mavuto Ogonana? Ndemanga ndi Malipoti a Zachipatala (2016) - Ndemanga yozama ya mabuku okhudzana ndi mavuto ogonana omwe amabwera chifukwa cha zolaula. Pokhudza madokotala a US Navy, ndemangayi imapereka zambiri zaposachedwa zomwe zikuwonetsa kukwera kwakukulu kwa mavuto ogonana a achinyamata. Ikuwunikiranso maphunziro a mitsempha okhudzana ndi chizolowezi cha zolaula komanso kugonana kudzera pa zolaula pa intaneti. Madokotala amapereka malipoti atatu azachipatala a amuna omwe adayamba kuvutika ndi zolaula. Awiri mwa amuna atatuwa adachiritsa mavuto awo ogonana pochotsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Mwamuna wachitatu sanasinthe kwenikweni chifukwa sanathe kupewa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula.

Zinthu zachikhalidwe zomwe poyamba zinalongosola zovuta za kugonana kwa amuna zimawoneka zosakwanira kuti ziwerengere chifukwa cha kupweteka kwa erectile, kuchedwa kuthamangitsidwa, kuchepetsa kugonana kwachigonjetso, ndi kuchepetsa kukhumudwa pakati pa kugonana pakati pa amuna pansi pa 40. Ndemanga iyi (1) imalingalira deta kuchokera kumadera osiyanasiyana, mwachitsanzo, kuchipatala, matenda (uledzere / urology), maganizo (kugonana), zachikhalidwe; ndipo (2) imapereka malipoti okhudzana ndi zachipatala, onse ndi cholinga chopangira njira yothetsera kafukufuku wamtsogolo. Kusinthika kwa kayendedwe ka ubongo kumafufuzidwa ngati njira yothetsera malingaliro okhudzana ndi zolaula. Kuwongosoledwanso kumeneku kumaphatikizaponso umboni wakuti zolaula za pa Intaneti zimakhala zopanda malire (zopanda malire, zomwe zingatheke kuti zikhale zosavuta kwambiri kupita ku zinthu zoopsa, mavidiyo, ndi zina zotero) zingakhale zamphamvu zokwanira kuti zigonere ku zolaula za pa Intaneti zimagwiritsa ntchito zomwe sizikusinthika mosavuta -wothandizana ndi anthu, kuti kugonana ndi anthu omwe akufuna kuti akhale nawo angakhale osakonzekera monga momwe akuyembekezerekera ndi kuchepa. Mapulogalamu am'chipatala amasonyeza kuti kuwonetsa zithunzi zolaula pa Intaneti nthawi zina kumathandiza kuthetsa zotsatira zoipa, poyesa kufunika kwa kufufuzidwa kwakukulu pogwiritsa ntchito njira zomwe zimayambitsa kuchotsa zolaula zosawerengeka za intaneti.

5) Zizolowezi zodziseweretsa maliseche za amuna ndi zovuta zogonana (2016) – Ndi dokotala wa zamaganizo waku France yemwe ndi purezidenti wa European Federation of Sexology . Ngakhale kuti nkhani yongopeka imasintha pakati pa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti ndi kudziseweretsa maliseche, n'zoonekeratu kuti makamaka akunena za zovuta zogonana zomwe zimayambitsa zolaula (kulephera kugwira ntchito kwa erectile ndi anorgasmia). Pepalali likuzungulira zomwe adakumana nazo ndi amuna 35 omwe adayamba kulephera kugwira ntchito kwa erectile ndi/kapena anorgasmia, komanso njira zake zochiritsira kuti awathandize. Wolembayo akunena kuti odwala ake ambiri ankagwiritsa ntchito zolaula, ndipo ambiri anali ndi chizolowezi choonera zolaula. Nkhani yongopeka imasonyeza kuti zolaula pa intaneti ndiye chifukwa chachikulu cha mavutowa (kumbukirani kuti kudziseweretsa maliseche sikumayambitsa ED yosatha, ndipo sikuperekedwa ngati chifukwa cha ED). Zidule:

Chiyambi: Chosavulaza komanso chothandiza pazochitika zake zonse, kudziletsa maliseche ndi mawonekedwe ake amodzi, omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito masiku ano ndi zolaula, nthawi zambiri amanyalanyaza patsiku lachidziwitso cha kugonana kosayenera komwe kungayambitse.

Zotsatira: Zotsatira zoyambirira za odwalawa, atalandira chithandizo kuti "asaphunzire" zizolowezi zawo zowononga maliseche komanso zomwe amakonda kuchita zolaula, zimalimbikitsa komanso kulonjeza. Kuchepetsa zizindikilo kunapezeka mwa odwala 19 mwa 35. Zovutazo zidasokonekera ndipo odwalawa adatha kusangalala ndi zochitika zogonana.

Kutsiliza: Kugonjetsa maliseche, kawirikawiri limodzi ndi kudalira pa zolaula, kwawoneka kuti kumawathandiza kuthetsa chidwi cha mitundu ina ya erectile kuperewera kapena kusagwirizana kwa banja. Ndikofunika kuonetsetsa kuti kukhalapo kwa zizoloŵezizi kulipo kusiyana ndi kuchitapo kanthu kuti chidziwitso chichotsedwe, kuti chiphatikize njira zowononga zizoloŵezi zowonongeka.

6) Kodi n'kovuta bwanji kuchiza kutaya umuna mochedwa mkati mwa chitsanzo cha kugonana kwa nthawi yochepa? Kuyerekeza kwa kafukufuku wamilandu (2017) - Lipoti la "milandu iwiri yophatikizana" yomwe ikuwonetsa zomwe zimayambitsa ndi mankhwala a kutaya umuna mochedwa (anorgasmia). "Patient B" ikuyimira anyamata angapo omwe adathandizidwa ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo. Chosangalatsa n'chakuti, pepalalo likunena kuti "kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kwa Patient B kwakula kukhala zinthu zovuta", "monga momwe zimakhalira nthawi zambiri". Pepalalo likuti kutaya umuna mochedwa chifukwa cha zolaula sikwachilendo, ndipo kukuchulukirachulukira. Wolembayo akupempha kuti pakhale kafukufuku wowonjezereka pa zotsatira za zolaula zokhudzana ndi kugonana. Kutaya umuna mochedwa kwa Patient B kunachiritsidwa patatha milungu 10 osatulutsa zolaula. Zidule:

Nkhaniyi ndi milandu yambiri yomwe imachotsedwa kuntchito yanga ku National Health Service ku Croydon University Hospital, London. Ndili ndi vutoli (Wodwala B), ndizofunika kuzindikira kuti nkhaniyi ikuonetsa amuna angapo omwe atumizidwa ndi a GP awo ndi matenda omwewo. Wodwala B ndi wa 19 wa zaka zomwe adawonetsa chifukwa sankatha kulowera kudzera podutsa. Pamene anali 13, nthawi zonse ankapeza malo oonera zolaula yekha payekha kupyolera pa intaneti kapena kudzera pazomwe anzake amamutumizira. Iye anayamba kuseweretsa maliseche usiku uliwonse pamene akufufuza foni yake kuti afotokoze fano ... Ngati iye samakhala ndi maliseche sakanatha kugona. Zithunzi zolaula zomwe anali kugwiritsira ntchito zinali zitakula, monga momwe zimakhalira (onani Hudson-Allez, 2010), kukhala zovuta kwambiri (palibe choletsedwa) ...

Tinavomera kuti asagwiritsenso ntchito zolaula kuti achite maliseche. Izi zikutanthauza kusiya foni yake m'chipinda china usiku. Tavomereza kuti adzalora maliseche mosiyana ....

Wodwala B wakwanitsa kukwaniritsa zolaula kudzera mu kulowa mu gawo lachisanu; magawowa amaperekedwa usiku uliwonse ku chipatala cha Croydon University kuti gawo lachisanu lifanane ndi pafupifupi masabata a 10 kuchokera pakufunsana. Iye anali wokondwa ndipo amamasuka kwambiri. M'kutsatira kwa miyezi itatu ndi Odwala B, zinthu zinali zikuyenda bwino.

Wodwala B sikunali yekhayekha mu National Health Service (NHS) ndipo makamaka anyamata ambiri omwe amapeza chithandizo chamaganizo, popanda azimayi awo, amalankhula mozama pa zomwe zimasintha.

7) Kusagonana ndi Munthu Wogonana Pankhani ya Zamaganizo: Kafukufuku wa Nkhani (2014) – Tsatanetsatane wa nkhaniyi ukuwonetsa nkhani ya kusamba m'mimba chifukwa cha zolaula. Mwamunayo anali ndi chilakolako chogonana nthawi zonse asanakwatirane - pomwe ankatha kutulutsa umuna. Ananenanso kuti kugonana sikunamupangitse kukhala kosangalatsa kwambiri kuposa maliseche. Mfundo yofunika kwambiri ndi yakuti "kuphunzitsidwanso" ndi psychotherapy sizinamuthandize kuthetsa kusamba m'mimba. Pamene njira zimenezi zinalephera, akatswiri a zamaganizo adapereka lingaliro loletsa kwathunthu maliseche. Pomaliza pake kuletsa kumeneku kunapangitsa kuti kugonana ndi mwamuna wake ziyende bwino komanso kuti azitulutsa umuna ndi mnzake kwa nthawi yoyamba m'moyo wake. Zidule zingapo:

A ndi mwamuna wamwamuna wa zaka 33 wokwatira wokhala ndi zibwenzi zogonana amuna okhaokha, katswiri wochokera kumudzi wakumidzi komwe amakhala. Sanayambe kugonana asanalowe m'banja. Anayang'ana zolaula ndipo amangochita maliseche nthaŵi zambiri. Chidziwitso chake chokhudza kugonana komanso kugonana chinali chokwanira. Pambuyo paukwati wake, A A adanena kuti libido yake ndi yachibadwa, koma pambuyo pake anachepetsanso chachiwiri ku mavuto ake. Ngakhale kusunthika kwa kayendedwe ka 30-45 maminiti, iye sanathe kukwanitsa kapena kukwaniritsa zolaula pa nthawi yogonana ndi mkazi wake.

Chimene sichinagwire ntchito:

Mankhwala a Mr. A's adagwiritsidwa ntchito; clomipramine ndi bupropion zatha, ndipo sertraline idasungidwa pa mlingo wa 150 mg pa tsiku. Machitidwe opatsirana ndi banjali ankachitika mlungu ndi mlungu kwa miyezi ingapo yoyambirira, yomwe adatsatiridwapo kamodzi kapena kamodzi pamwezi. Malingaliro enieni kuphatikizapo kuganizira zokhudzana ndi kugonana ndikuganiziranso zokhudzana ndi kugonana kusiyana ndi kukasinthidwa kunagwiritsidwa ntchito kuthandizira kuchepetsa nkhawa ndi kuyang'ana. Popeza mavuto adapitilirabe ngakhale izi zitachitika, mankhwala opatsirana pogonana anali kuganiziridwa.

Pambuyo pake adayambitsa kuletsa maliseche (zomwe zikutanthauza kuti apitiliza kuchita maliseche panthawi yomwe ili pamwambapa)

Kuletsedwa kwa mtundu uliwonse wa kugonana kunanenedwa. Zochita zowonjezereka zowoneka bwino (poyamba sizimagonana komanso pambuyo pake) zimayambitsidwa. A A adafotokozera kuti sangathe kukhala ndi chiwerengero chofanana chokakamizika pa nthawi yogonana poyerekezera ndi zomwe adakumana nazo panthawi ya maliseche. Pomwe lamulo loletsa maliseche linalimbikitsidwa, adafotokoza chikhumbo chokhudzana ndi kugonana ndi mnzake.

Pambuyo pa nthawi yosadziŵika bwino, kuletsa maliseche kumalo opambana:

Pakadali pano, A A ndi mkazi wake adaganiza zotsogola ndi Njira Yothandizila Kuberekera (ART) ndikukayendera magawo awiri a kulowetsedwa kwa intrauterine. Pa gawo loti achite, Mr. A adalumpha kwa nthawi yoyamba, kutsatira zomwe adatha kuchita mosangalatsa panthawi yochulukirapo ya banjali.

8) Zobisika mu Manyazi: Zomwe Amuna Ogonana Nawo Ankakumana Nazo Pogwiritsa Ntchito Zolaula Zovuta (2019) - Mafunso a amuna 15 ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Amuna angapo adanenanso kuti anali ndi chizolowezi chogwiritsa ntchito zolaula, kuchuluka kwa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula komanso mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana. Zidutswa zokhudzana ndi zovuta zogonana zomwe zimayambitsa zolaula, kuphatikiza Michael, yemwe adasintha kwambiri ntchito yake yogonana panthawi yogonana pochepetsa kwambiri kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula:

Amuna ena adakambirana zofunafuna thandizo laukadaulo kuti athane ndi vuto lawo lolaula. Kuyesera kotereku pakufuna thandizo sikunapindule kwa amunawa, ndipo nthawi zina kunawonjezera manyazi. Michael, wophunzira ku yunivesite yemwe adagwiritsa ntchito zolaula makamaka ngati njira yothanirana ndi zovuta zophunzirira, anali ndi mavuto ndi vuto lochepa panthawi yogonana ndi azimayi ndipo adafunsira thandizo kuchokera kwa Doctor Wogwiritsa Ntchito General (GP):

Michael: Pamene ndinapita kwa dokotala ndili ndi zaka 19 [. . .], adalamula Viagra ndipo adati [nkhani yanga] ndimangokhala nkhawa. Nthawi zina zimagwira ntchito, ndipo nthawi zina sizimagwira. Kunali kafukufuku waumwini komanso kuwerenga komwe kunandionetsa kuti vutoli linali zolaula [. . .] Ngati ndipita kwa adotolo ndili mwana ndipo akandiuza mapiritsi a buluu, ndiye ndimamva ngati palibe amene akulankhulapo. Ayenera kuti amafunsa za momwe ndimagwiritsira ntchito zolaula, osandipatsa Viagra. (23, Middle-Eastern, Wophunzira)

Chifukwa cha zomwe adakumana nazo, Michael sanabwerere ku GP ija ndikuyamba kafukufuku wawo pa intaneti. Pambuyo pake adapeza nkhani yofotokoza za bambo wina wazaka zake zomwe amafotokoza mtundu wofanana ndi vuto lachiwerewere, zomwe zidamupangitsa kuti ayang'ane zolaula ngati angamupatse mwayi. Atapanga kuyesetsa kuti ayesetse kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula, zovuta zake za kusokonekera kwa erectile zinayamba kuyenda bwino. Ananenanso kuti ngakhale maliseche ake okwanira sanachepetse, ankangoyang'ana zolaula pafupifupi theka la zochitikazi. Mwa kuchepetsa kuchuluka kwa nthawi yomwe amaphatikiza zoseweretsa zolaula, Michael adati adatha kukonza kwambiri ntchito yake ya erectile panthawi yogonana ndi akazi.

9) Zithunzi Zolaula Zimayambitsa Kulephera Kugonana Pakati pa Achinyamata (2019) - Chidule:

Pepala ili likufufuza za vuto la zolaula zomwe zimayambitsa vuto la kugonana (PIED), kutanthauza mavuto a mphamvu zogonana mwa amuna chifukwa chogwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti. Deta yochokera kwa amuna omwe ali ndi vutoli yasonkhanitsidwa. Kuphatikiza njira ya mbiri ya moyo wa anthu (ndi mafunso ofotokozera nkhani pa intaneti osasinthasintha) ndi ma diary a pa intaneti agwiritsidwa ntchito. Detayi yasanthulidwa pogwiritsa ntchito kusanthula kwa chiphunzitso (malinga ndi chiphunzitso cha McLuhan cha atolankhani), kutengera kusanthula koyambira. Kafukufuku wofufuza akuwonetsa kuti pali mgwirizano pakati pa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndi vuto la kugonana lomwe limasonyeza chifukwa chake. Zomwe zapezekazi zikuchokera pa kuyankhulana 11 pamodzi ndi ma diary awiri a makanema ndi ma diary atatu a zolemba. Amunawa ali pakati pa zaka 16 ndi 52; akunena kuti kuyambitsa koyambirira kwa zolaula (nthawi zambiri panthawi yaunyamata) kumatsatiridwa ndi kumwa tsiku ndi tsiku mpaka kufika pamene zinthu zochulukirapo (monga, zinthu zachiwawa) zimafunika kuti munthu akhale ndi chilakolako chogonana. Gawo lofunika kwambiri limafika pamene chilakolako chogonana chimagwirizanitsidwa ndi zolaula zoopsa komanso zothamanga kwambiri, zomwe zimapangitsa kugonana kukhala kosasangalatsa komanso kosasangalatsa. Izi zimapangitsa kuti amuna asamakonde kugonana ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wawo weniweni, ndipo nthawi yomweyo amayamba kuchita zinthu zogonana, zomwe zathandiza kuti amuna ena ayambenso kugonana.

Chiyambi cha zotsatira zotsatira:

Nditawerengera izi, ndazindikira njira zina ndi mitu yobwereza bwereza, ndikutsatira zochitika zonse pazofunsa onse. Izi ndi: Mawu Oyamba. Yoyamba imayambitsidwa ndikuonera zolaula, nthawi zambiri isanathe. Kumanga chizolowezi. Mmodzi amayamba kudya zolaula nthawi zonse. Kukweza. Mmodzi amatembenukira ku mitundu "yamtundu" woonerera zolaula, mwanzeru, kuti mukwaniritse zomwe inu mumakumana ndi zolaula "zowonjezera". Kuzindikira. Mmodzi amawona mavuto omwe amabwera chifukwa cha kugonana. Njira yokonzanso. Wina amayesa kuwongolera kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kapena kuichotseratu kuti akonzenso kugonana. Zambiri pazofunsidwa zimawonetsedwa pamwambapa.

10) Momwe Kudziletsa Kumakhudzira Zokonda (2016) [zotsatira zoyambirira] – Zidule kuchokera munkhaniyi:

Zotsatira za Wave Woyamba - Zotsatira Zazikulu

Kutalika kwa gulu lalitali kwambiri la streak omwe adachitapo kanthu asanalowe nawo muzofukufuku zofanana ndi nthawi zomwe amakonda. Kafukufuku wachiwiri adzayankha funso ngati kudziletsa kwa nthawi yaitali kumapangitsa ophunzira kukhala otha kuchepetsa mphotho, kapena ngati odwala odwala ambiri angathe kuchita mitsinje yayitali.
Kutaya nthawi yaitali nthawi zambiri kumayambitsa chiopsezo chochepa (chomwe chili chabwino). Kafukufuku wachiwiri adzapereka umboni womaliza.
Chikhalidwe chikugwirizana ndi kutalika kwa streaks. Vuto lachiwiri lidzasonyeza ngati kudziletsa kumakhudza umunthu kapena ngati umunthu ukhoza kufotokoza kusiyana kwa kutalika kwa mitsinje.

Zotsatira za Wave Wachiwiri - Zotsatira Zazikulu

Kupewa zolaula ndi kuseweretsa maliseche kumapangitsa kuti muzitha kuchepetsa malipiro
Kuchita nawo nthawi ya kudziletsa kumapangitsa anthu kukhala okonzeka kuchita ngozi
Kudziletsa kumapangitsa anthu kukhala osasamala
Kudziletsa kumapangitsa kuti anthu azichita zinthu monyanyira, mosamala, komanso mosaganizira kwambiri

DAVID LEY: "Kafukufuku wambiri tsopano wasonyeza kuti anthu okonda zolaula amakonda kukhala anthu okhala ndi libido"

YANKHO: Pali chifukwa chomwe Ley sanatchulire. Kafukufuku wotsatira akutsutsa meme iyi yobwerezedwa mobwerezabwereza ya Ley.

Mawu a Ley akuti "chilakolako chapamwamba cha kugonana" akuoneka kuti akuchokera pa positi yake ya blog yokhala ndi mutu wokopa: " Ubongo Wanu pa Zolaula - SIZOLETSERA" . Positi ya blog ya Ley si yokhudza sayansi yomwe ili kumbuyo kwa YBOP. M'malo mwake, ikunena za kafukufuku mmodzi wa EEG, yemwe wolemba wake wamkulu ndi mnzake Nicole Prause : (Steele et al . 2013). Onse awiri Ley ndi Prause adati zomwe zapezeka mu kafukufukuyu zikugwirizana ndi mfundo yakuti chizolowezi chogonana ndi zolaula ndi "chilakolako chachikulu chogonana."

Mosiyana ndi zomwe Ley ndi Prause adanena, Steele et al. adanenanso kuti zolaula zimakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi chilakolako chochepa chogonana ndi mnzanu (koma osati chilakolako chochepa chodziseweretsa maliseche). Mwanjira ina - anthu omwe ali ndi ubongo wambiri komanso zilakolako zolaula amakonda kudziseweretsa maliseche kuposa kugonana ndi munthu weniweni. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti ali ndi chilakolako chachikulu chogonana.

Kuchuluka kwa chidziwitso chokhudza zolaula komanso chilakolako chochepa chogonana ndi okondedwa enieni kukugwirizana ndi kafukufuku wa ubongo wa 2014 Cambridge University wokhudza anthu omwe ali ndi vuto la zolaula. Zomwe zapezeka mu 2013 sizikugwirizana ndi zomwe zanenedwa, kapena zomwe Ley adalemba pa blog yake. Mapepala asanu ndi atatu otsatira omwe adawunikidwa ndi anzawo akuti zomwe Steele et al . adapeza zimathandizadi chitsanzo cha chizolowezi chogonana (mosiyana ndi lingaliro la "chilakolako chachikulu chogonana"): Ndemanga zowunikidwa ndi anzawo za Steele et al. , 2013

Mu 2015, Nicole Prause adasindikiza kafukufuku wachiwiri wa EEG , womwe unapeza mayankho OCHEPA a mitsempha (omwe ali ndi zithunzi zosawoneka) mwa "okonda zolaula" poyerekeza ndi olamulira ( Steele et al ., 2013 analibe anthu olamulira) Uwu ndi umboni wa chilakolako chocheperako mwa okonda zolaula. Zomwe zapezekazi zikugwirizana bwino ndi Kühn & Gallinat (2014) , omwe adapeza kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula zambiri kumagwirizana ndi kutseguka kochepa kwa ubongo poyankha zithunzi za zolaula za vanila. Mwanjira ina, "okonda zolaula" anali opanda chidwi ndipo - m'malo mokhala ndi chilakolako chachikulu chogonana - amafunikira kulimbikitsidwa kwakukulu kuposa omwe sali osokoneza bongo kuti ayatsidwe. Mwachidule, zotsatira za kafukufuku wachiwiri wa EEG wa Prause zikuwonetsa kuti CHOCHEPA kugonana - osati chilakolako chachikulu chogonana. Mapepala asanu ndi anayi owunikidwa ndi anzawo onse amavomereza kuti Prause et al ., 2015 adapezadi kuchotsedwa/kukhala mwa ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula pafupipafupi: Ndemanga zowunikidwa ndi anzawo za Prause et al ., 2015

Ndipotu, Prause adanena mu positi yaposachedwa ya Quora kuti sakukhulupiriranso kuti "okonda kugonana" ali ndi chilakolako chogonana chambiri:

"Ndidali wokonda kutanthauzira zakugonana, koma kafukufukuyu wa LPP yemwe tangomusindikiza ndikundichititsa kuti ndizikhala omasuka kuchita zachiwerewere."

Popeza Pembedzero lawonekera, kodi Ley akuthandizira kuti "zolaula / chiwerewere = mkulu libido"? M'munsimu muli maphunziro angapo omwe adayesedwa, ndikunama, David Ley "mkulu libido = kugonana / zolaula" amadzinenera kwathunthu:

1) “ Kodi chilakolako chachikulu cha kugonana ndi mbali ya chilakolako cha amuna? Zotsatira kuchokera ku kafukufuku wa pa intaneti.” (2015 ) – Ofufuza adapeza kuti palibe kugwirizana pakati pa amuna omwe ali ndi chilakolako cha kugonana ndi amuna omwe ali ndi “chilakolako chachikulu cha kugonana”. Chidule cha pepalali:

"Zotsatira za kafukufukuyu zikusonyeza kuti amuna amakhala ndi chilakolako chofuna kugonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha."

2) “ Kugonana Kwambiri ndi Chilakolako Chachikulu Chogonana: Kufufuza Kapangidwe ka Vuto la Kugonana” (2015) – Kafukufukuyu adapeza kusiyana pang'ono pakati pa chilakolako chachikulu chogonana ndi kugonana kwambiri. Chidule cha pepalali:

"Phunziro lathu limathandizira kusiyanasiyana kwa chiwerewere komanso chilakolako chachikulu cha kugonana / zochitika."

3) " Mitsempha Yogwirizana ndi Kugonana kwa Anthu Omwe Ali ndi Khalidwe Logonana Lokakamiza komanso Lopanda" (2014) - Kafukufuku wa fMRI ku Cambridge University poyerekeza anthu omwe ali ndi zizolowezi zolaula ndi anthu olamulira bwino. Kafukufukuyu adapeza kuti anthu omwe ali ndi zizolowezi zolaula anali ndi chilakolako chochepa chogonana komanso anali ndi vuto lalikulu lopeza erection, koma anali ndi cue-reactivity yayikulu ku zolaula (zofanana ndi Steele et al . pamwambapa). Zolemba kuchokera papepalali:

"Pa mtundu wosinthidwa wa Arizona Sexual Experiences Scale [43] , anthu a CSB poyerekeza ndi odzipereka athanzi anali ndi vuto lalikulu ndi chilakolako chogonana ndipo anakumana ndi mavuto ambiri okhudzana ndi kugonana m'maubwenzi apamtima koma osati pazinthu zogonana (Table S3 mu File S1 )."

Anthu omwe ali mu CSB adanena kuti chifukwa chogwiritsa ntchito kwambiri zinthu zolaula….. adachepetsa chilakolako cha kugonana kapena ntchito ya erectile makamaka muubwenzi wakuthupi ndi akazi (ngakhale kuti sizikugwirizana ndi zinthu zolaula)…

4) “Makhalidwe a Odwala Malinga ndi Mtundu wa Kutumiza kwa Hypersexual: Kuwunikanso Tchati Chochuluka cha Milandu 115 Yotsatizana ya Amuna” (2015) – Kafukufuku wokhudza amuna omwe ali ndi vuto la hypersexual. 27 adatchulidwa kuti ndi “odziteteza ku maliseche,” zomwe zikutanthauza kuti adadziseweretsa maliseche ola limodzi kapena angapo patsiku kapena maola opitilira 7 pa sabata. 71% ya ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula mopitirira muyeso adanena kuti ali ndi mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana, ndipo 33% adanenanso kuti adachedwa kutulutsa umuna.

5) " Kulephera Kugonana, Kusasangalala, ndi Kugonana Kwambiri Pakati pa Amuna Okwatirana Ochokera Kumayiko Awiri ku Ulaya" (2015) - Kafukufukuyu adawonetsa mgwirizano wamphamvu pakati pa kulephera kugonana bwino ndi miyeso ya kugonana kwambiri. Chidule:

"Kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kumalumikizidwa kwambiri ndi kutengera kusungulumwa kwakugonana komanso mavuto ena okhudza kugwira ntchito kwa erectile."

6) “ Achinyamata ndi zolaula za pa intaneti: nthawi yatsopano yogonana (2015) ” – Kafukufuku waku Italyyu adasanthula zotsatira za zolaula za pa intaneti pa omaliza sukulu ya sekondale, zomwe zidalembedwa ndi pulofesa wa urology Carlo Foresta , purezidenti wa Italian Society of Reproductive Pathophysiology. Chosangalatsa kwambiri ndichakuti 16% ya omwe amaonera zolaula kangapo pa sabata amanena kuti chilakolako chogonana ndi chochepa kwambiri poyerekeza ndi 0% mwa omwe sagula (ndi 6% kwa omwe amadya zochepa pa sabata). Kuchokera mu kafukufukuyu:

"21.9% imatanthauzira kuti ndi chizolowezi, 10% imati imachepetsa chidwi chogonana kwa omwe atha kukhala ndi zibwenzi zenizeni, ndipo otsala, 9.1% imanenanso mtundu wa vuto. Kuphatikiza apo, 19% yaogwiritsa zolaula yonse imanena zachiwerewere, pomwe chiwonjezerochi chinakwera kufika pa 25.1% mwa ogula wamba. ”

7) " Kapangidwe ka Ubongo ndi Kulumikizana Kogwira Ntchito Kogwirizana ndi Kugwiritsa Ntchito Zithunzi Zolaula: Ubongo pa Zolaula" (2014) - Kafukufuku wa Max Planck yemwe adapeza kusintha kwakukulu kwa ubongo kokhudzana ndi chizolowezi komwe kumagwirizana ndi kuchuluka kwa zolaula zomwe zimadyedwa. Inapezanso kuti zolaula zambiri zikamadya kwambiri, ntchito yocheperako ya circuit yolandira mphotho chifukwa chowonera mwachidule (masekondi .530) zolaula za vanila. Mu nkhani ya 2014, wolemba wamkulu Simone Kühn adati :

“Timalingalira kuti maphunziro omwe ali ndi zolaula kwambiri amafunikira kukulitsidwa kuti alandire mphotho yomweyo. Izi zitha kutanthauza kuti kuonerera zolaula nthawi zambiri kumapangitsa kuti mulandire mphoto. Zingafanane ndi malingaliro akuti mabungwe awo olipira amafunikira kukulitsidwa. ”

Kufotokozera kwaukadaulo kwa kafukufukuyu kuchokera ku ndemanga ya mabuku a Kuhn & Gallinat - Neurobiological Basis of Hypersexuality (2016).

"Maola ochulukirapo omwe adanenapo kuti amawonera zolaula, zimachepetsa kuyankha kwa BOLD kumanzere kumanzere poyankha zithunzi zachiwerewere. Kuphatikiza apo, tidapeza kuti maola ochulukirapo akuwonera zolaula zimalumikizidwa ndi voliyumu yaying'ono yamtundu wa striatum, makamaka munthawi yoyenera yolowera mu ventral putamen. Timalingalira kuti kuchepa kwa kuchuluka kwa ubongo kumatha kuwonetsa zotsatira za kulolerana pambuyo povutitsidwa ndi chilakolako chogonana. ”

8) “ Kuchita zinthu zosazolowereka monga chifukwa chodziwira ndi kuchiza vuto la kugonana mwa anyamata” (2014) – Chimodzi mwa zitsanzo zinayi zomwe zili mu pepalali chimafotokoza za mwamuna yemwe ali ndi mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana chifukwa cha zolaula (kuchepa kwa chilakolako cha kugonana, fetishes, anorgasmia). Kugonana kumeneku kunafuna kuti apewe zolaula ndi maliseche kwa milungu 6. Patatha miyezi 8 mwamunayo adanena kuti chilakolako chogonana chawonjezeka, kugonana bwino komanso kugonana bwino, komanso kusangalala ndi “machitidwe abwino ogonana.”

9) " Kugwiritsa ntchito zithunzi zolaula: ndani amene amazigwiritsa ntchito komanso momwe zimagwirizanirana ndi zotsatira zingapo" (2012) - Ngakhale kuti si kafukufuku wokhudza "ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha", inanena kuti 1) kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula nthawi zonse kumagwirizana ndi zigoli zochepa pakukhutira ndi kugonana, ndi 2) kuti panalibe kusiyana pakati pa chilakolako chogonana pakati pa ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndi osagwiritsa ntchito.

10) Chilakolako Chogonana, osati Kugonana Kwambiri, Chimakhudzana ndi Mayankho a Mitsempha Yokhudzana ndi Zithunzi Zogonana (2013) - Kafukufuku wa EEG uyu adalengezedwa m'manyuzipepala ngati umboni wotsutsa kukhalapo kwa chizolowezi chogonana ndi zolaula. Sizili choncho . Steele et al . 2013 kwenikweni amalimbikitsa kukhalapo kwa chizolowezi chogonana ndi zolaula komanso kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula molakwika. Kodi zingatheke bwanji? Kafukufukuyu adanenanso kuti ma EEG ambiri amawerengedwa (poyerekeza ndi zithunzi zosalowerera) pamene anthu adawonetsedwa mwachidule zithunzi zolaula. Kafukufuku nthawi zonse amasonyeza kuti P300 yokwera imachitika pamene anthu omwe ali ndi vutoli amawonetsedwa zizindikiro (monga zithunzi) zokhudzana ndi chizolowezi chawo.

Mogwirizana ndi kafukufuku wa ubongo wa ku Cambridge University , kafukufuku wa EEG uyu adanenanso kuti zolaula zimakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi chilakolako chochepa chogonana ndi anthu okwatirana. Kunena kwina - anthu omwe ali ndi ubongo wokonda kwambiri zolaula amakonda kudziseweretsa maliseche m'malo mogonana ndi munthu weniweni. Chodabwitsa n'chakuti, wolankhulira kafukufukuyu Nicole Prause adati ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula anali ndi "chilakolako chachikulu," koma zotsatira za kafukufukuyu zikunena zosiyana kwambiri (chilakolako cha anthu ogonana ndi anthu okwatirana chinali kuchepa poyerekeza ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula).

Zonsezi pamodzi zomwe Steele et al. adapeza zikusonyeza kuti ubongo umagwira ntchito kwambiri ku zizindikiro (zithunzi zolaula), koma palibe kusintha kwakukulu ku mphotho zachilengedwe (kugonana ndi munthu). Kuzindikira ndi kuletsa kukhudzidwa ndi zinthu, zomwe ndi zizindikiro za chizolowezi. Mapepala 8 owunikidwa ndi anzawo akufotokoza zoona: Ndemanga zowunikidwa ndi anzawo za Steele et al. , 2013 Onaninso ndemanga yayikulu iyi ya YBOP.

11) Kusintha kwa Zomwe Zingatheke Posachedwa Pogwiritsa Ntchito Zithunzi Zogonana mu Ogwiritsa Ntchito Mavuto ndi Zowongolera Zosagwirizana ndi "Zolaula Zolaula" (2015) -Kafukufuku wachiwiri wa EEG wochokera ku gulu la Nicole Prause . Kafukufukuyu anayerekeza maphunziro a 2013 ochokera kwa Steele et al ., 2013 ndi gulu lenileni lolamulira (koma linali ndi zolakwika zomwezo zomwe zatchulidwa pamwambapa). Zotsatira zake: Poyerekeza ndi zowongolera "anthu omwe akukumana ndi mavuto owongolera kuonera kwawo zolaula" anali ndi mayankho ochepa muubongo akamaonera zithunzi za vanilla porn kwa sekondi imodzi. Wolemba wamkulu akuti zotsatirazi " zikutsutsa chizolowezi cha zolaula ." Ndi wasayansi wovomerezeka uti amene anganene kuti kafukufuku wawo wokhawo wosadziwika wathetsa gawo lodziwika bwino la kafukufuku?

Zoonadi, zomwe zapezeka mu Prause et al. 2015 zikugwirizana bwino ndi Kühn & Gallina t (2014) , zomwe zapeza kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula zambiri kumagwirizana ndi kuchepa kwa mphamvu ya ubongo poyankha zithunzi za zolaula za vanilla. Zomwe zapezeka mu Prause et al . zikugwirizananso ndi Banca et al. 2015 zomwe zili pa nambala 13 pamndandandawu. Kuphatikiza apo, kafukufuku wina wa EEG adapeza kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kwambiri mwa akazi kumagwirizana ndi kuchepa kwa mphamvu ya ubongo ku zolaula. Kuwerenga kochepa kwa EEG kumatanthauza kuti anthu sakuyang'ana kwambiri zithunzizo. Mwachidule, ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula nthawi zambiri analibe chidwi ndi zithunzi zosasinthika za zolaula za vanilla. Anali otopa (ozoloŵera kapena osowa chidwi). Onani ndemanga yayikulu ya YBOP iyi . Mapepala 9 owunikidwa ndi anzawo amavomereza kuti kafukufukuyu adapezadi kuti kufooka/chizolowezi mwa ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula nthawi zambiri (zogwirizana ndi chizolowezi): Ndemanga zowunikidwa ndi anzawo za Prause et al ., 2015

Pemphero linalengeza kuti malemba ake a EEG anayesedwa "cue-reactivity" (kulimbikitsa), m'malo mozoloŵera. Ngakhale kuti Prause anali wolondola iye amanyalanyaza mosamalitsa phokoso lachinyengo mu "malingaliro" ake: Ngakhale Prause et al. 2015 adapeza zochepa zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pochita zolaula, 25 maphunziro ena a ubongo wanena kuti: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21 , 22, 23, 24, 25. Sayansi sizimapita ndi phunziro lokhalo lokhalitsa lokhalokha lokhazikika chifukwa cha zolakwika zazikulu; sayansi ikupita ndi kusokonezeka kwa umboni (kupatula iwe zimayendetsedwa).

12) Kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula mwachisawawa mwa anthu okwatirana achi Norway (2009) - Kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kunagwirizana ndi zovuta zambiri zogonana mwa mwamuna komanso kudziona molakwika mwa mkazi. Okwatirana omwe sanagwiritse ntchito zolaula analibe zovuta zogonana. Zidutswa zingapo kuchokera mu kafukufukuyu:

Mwamuna ndi mkazi mmodzi yekha amene amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula, tapeza mavuto ambiri okhudzana ndi kuukitsidwa (amuna) ndi olakwika (odziimira okha).

Mabanja omwe sanagwiritse ntchito zolaula ... atha kuonedwa kuti ndi achikhalidwe poyerekeza ndi malingaliro azakugonana. Nthawi yomweyo, samawoneka kuti alibe zovuta zilizonse.

13) Kuseweretsa maliseche ndi zolaula zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pakati pa amuna okwatirana omwe ali ndi chilakolako chocheperako cha kugonana: Kodi kuseweretsa maliseche ndi ntchito zingati? (2015) - Kuseweretsa maliseche kunali kogwirizana ndi kuchepa kwa chilakolako chogonana komanso ubale wochepa.

“Mwa amuna omwe amadziseweretsa maliseche pafupipafupi, 70% amaonera zolaula kamodzi pa sabata. Kafukufuku wambiri adawonetsa kuti kunyong'onyeka kwa zolaula, kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pafupipafupi, komanso kukondana kwambiri kumawonjezera mwayi woti anthu azigonana nthawi zambiri pakati pa amuna omwe ali ndi chilakolako chogonana. "

"Mwa amuna [okhala ndi chilakolako chogonana] omwe amawonera zolaula kamodzi pa sabata [mu 2011], 26.1% adanena kuti amalephera kuonera zolaula. Kuphatikiza apo, amuna 26.7% adanena kuti kuonera zolaula kumakhudza chiwerewere ndipo 21.1% akuti adayesayesa kusiya zolaula. ”

14) Moyo Wogonana wa Amuna ndi Kuonera Zolaula Mobwerezabwereza. Nkhani Yatsopano? (2015) - Zidule:

Akatswiri a zamaganizo amaganizo ayenera kuganizira zotsatira za zolaula zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pazochitika za kugonana amuna, amuna ogonana ndi zikhalidwe zina zokhudzana ndi kugonana. M'kupita kwa nthawi zolaula zimawoneka kuti zimayambitsa zolaula, makamaka kuti munthu sangakwanitse kufika pachibwenzi ndi mnzake. Wina yemwe amathera nthawi zambiri kugonana kwake maliseche pamene akuwonera zolaula amachititsa ubongo wake kubwereza zachiwerewere zachilengedwe kuti posakhalitsa ayenera kuwonetseratu zolaula kuti akwaniritse.

Zizindikiro zosiyana siyana za zolaula, monga kufunika kokhala ndi mnzanu pakuwonerera zolaula, kuvutika kofikira, kufunika kwa zithunzi zolaula kuti zithetse mavuto. Zizolowezi zimenezi zokhudzana ndi kugonana zingapitirire kwa miyezi kapena zaka ndipo zingakhale zomaganizo ndi thupi zogwirizana ndi kuwonongeka kwa erectile, ngakhale kuti sikutayika kwa thupi. Chifukwa cha chisokonezo ichi, chomwe chimapangitsa manyazi, manyazi ndi kukana, anthu ambiri amakana kukumana ndi katswiri

Zithunzi zolaula zimapereka njira yophweka kwambiri kuti tipeze chisangalalo popanda kunena zina mwazinthu zomwe zakhudzana ndi kugonana kwa anthu pambiri ya anthu. Ubongo umapanga njira yina yothetsera kugonana yomwe siiphatikizapo "munthu weniweni" kuchokera ku equation. Kuwonjezera apo, kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula kwa nthawi yaitali kumapangitsa amuna kukhala ovuta kwambiri kupeza mwayi wokhala ndi abwenzi awo.

15) Kumvetsetsa Umunthu ndi Njira Zochitira Zinthu Zokhudza Kugonana Kwambiri mwa Amuna Omwe Amagonana ndi Amuna (2016)

Komanso, sitinapeze mayanjano pakati pa CSBI Control ndi BIS BAS. Izi zikhoza kusonyeza kuti kusowa kwa chiwerewere kumakhudzana ndi chisangalalo chogonana komanso njira zoletsera komanso osati njira zowonetsera khalidwe komanso njira zowononga. Izi zikuwoneka kuti zikuthandizira kuganiza kuti kugonana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi ndikutayirira ngati kugonana kwa Kafka. Komanso, sizikuwoneka kuti kugonana kwachiwerewere ndi chiwonetsero cha kugonana kwakukulu, koma kuti kumaphatikizapo chisangalalo chokwanira komanso kusowa koletsa kulepheretsa, poyerekeza ndi kulepheretsedwa chifukwa cha zotsatira zowonongeka.

16) Kodi Mukugonana Kwambiri, Mukufuna Kugonana Mopitirira Muyeso, Kapena Mukufuna Kugonana Kwambiri? Kufufuza Magulu Atatu Osiyana a Amuna Ogonana Ndi Amuna Kapena Akazi Okhaokha Komanso Akazi Okhaokha Komanso Mbiri Yawo Yokhudza Chiwopsezo Chogonana Chokhudzana ndi HIV (2016) - Ngati chilakolako chachikulu chogonana ndi chizolowezi chogonana zinali zofanana, pakanakhala gulu limodzi lokha la anthu pa anthu onse. Kafukufukuyu, monga omwe ali pamwambapa, adawonetsa magulu angapo osiyana, koma magulu onse adanenanso za kuchuluka kofanana kwa zochita zogonana.

Kafukufuku watsopano akuchirikiza lingaliro lakuti kukakamiza kugonana (SC) ndi matenda opatsirana pogonana (HD) pakati pa amuna ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha (GBM) zitha kuganiziridwa ngati magulu atatu— Osati SC kapena HD ; SC yokha , ndi SC ndi HD —zomwe zimasonyeza kuopsa kwa SC/HD continuum yonse.

Pafupifupi theka (48.9%) la anthu ochita zachiwerewere kwambiri awa adagawidwa m'magulu awiri: SC kapena HD , 30% ngati SC Yokha , ndi 21.1% ngati SC ndi HD . Ngakhale sitinapeze kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa magulu atatuwa pa chiwerengero cha amuna omwe adanenedwa kuti ndi okondedwa, zochita zogonana m'makoswe, kapena zochita zogonana m'makoswe.

17) Zotsatira za kugwiritsa ntchito zinthu zogonana pa ubale wachikondi (2016) - Monga momwe zilili ndi maphunziro ena ambiri, ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula okha amanena kuti ubale wawo ndi woipa komanso kukhutira ndi kugonana. Pogwiritsa ntchito Pornography Consumption Effect Scale (PCES), kafukufukuyu adapeza kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kwambiri kunali kogwirizana ndi ntchito yogonana yoipa, mavuto ambiri okhudzana ndi kugonana, komanso "moyo wogonana woipa kwambiri". Chidule chofotokoza mgwirizano pakati pa mafunso a "Zotsatira Zoipa" a PCES pa "Moyo Wogonana" ndi kuchuluka kwa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula:

Panalibe kusiyana kwakukulu kwa Mchitidwe Wosasokonezeka Wopanda PCES pafupipafupi zogwiritsa ntchito zolaula; Komabe, panali kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa kugonana kwa abambo ndi abambo komwe High Frequency Porn Users inalongosola mavuto aakulu kuposa Ogwiritsira ntchito Frequency Porn.

18) Zizolowezi zodziseweretsa maliseche za amuna ndi mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana (2016) – Ndi dokotala wa zamaganizo wa ku France yemwe ndi purezidenti wa European Federation of Sexology . Ngakhale kuti mfundo yongoganizira imasintha pakati pa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti ndi kudziseweretsa maliseche, n'zoonekeratu kuti makamaka akunena za mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana omwe amabwera chifukwa cha zolaula (kulephera kugwira ntchito kwa erectile ndi anorgasmia). Pepalali likuzungulira zomwe adakumana nazo ndi amuna 35 omwe adayamba kulephera kugwira ntchito kwa erectile ndi/kapena anorgasmia, komanso njira zake zochiritsira kuti awathandize. Wolembayo akunena kuti odwala ake ambiri ankagwiritsa ntchito zolaula, ndipo ambiri anali ndi chizolowezi choonera zolaula. Mfundo yongoganizira imasonyeza kuti zolaula pa intaneti ndiye chifukwa chachikulu cha mavutowa (kumbukirani kuti kudziseweretsa maliseche sikumayambitsa ED yosatha, ndipo sikuperekedwa ngati chifukwa cha ED). Zidule:

Chiyambi: Kudziseweretsa maliseche mopanda vuto komanso kothandiza monga momwe amachitira nthawi zonse, kudziseweretsa maliseche mopitirira muyeso komanso kodziwika bwino, komwe masiku ano kumagwirizana ndi chizolowezi choonera zolaula , nthawi zambiri kumanyalanyazidwa poyesa matenda okhudzana ndi vuto la kugonana lomwe lingayambitse.

Zotsatira: Zotsatira zoyambirira za odwalawa, atalandira chithandizo kuti "asaphunzire" zizolowezi zawo zowononga maliseche komanso zomwe amakonda kuchita zolaula, zimalimbikitsa komanso kulonjeza. Kuchepetsa zizindikilo kunapezeka mwa odwala 19 mwa 35. Zovutazo zidasokonekera ndipo odwalawa adatha kusangalala ndi zochitika zogonana.

Kutsiliza: Kugonjetsa maliseche, kawirikawiri limodzi ndi kudalira pa zolaula, kwawoneka kuti kumawathandiza kuthetsa chidwi cha mitundu ina ya erectile kuperewera kapena kusagwirizana kwa banja. Ndikofunika kuonetsetsa kuti kukhalapo kwa zizoloŵezizi kulipo kusiyana ndi kuchitapo kanthu kuti chidziwitso chichotsedwe, kuti chiphatikize njira zowononga zizoloŵezi zowonongeka.

19) Chitsanzo Cholamulira Zinthu Ziwiri – Udindo wa Kuletsa Kugonana ndi Chisangalalo Pachikondwerero ndi Khalidwe Logonana (2007) – Chopezekanso chatsopano komanso chokhutiritsa kwambiri. Mu kafukufuku wogwiritsa ntchito zolaula za pakompyuta, 50% ya anyamatawa sanathe kudzuka kapena kuchita chigololo ndi zolaula (zaka zapakati zinali 29). Ofufuza odabwa adapeza kuti vuto la kugonana kwa amunawa linali,

" zokhudzana ndi kuchuluka kwa anthu omwe amaonera komanso kugwiritsa ntchito zinthu zogonana molakwika. "

Amuna omwe anali ndi vuto la kugonana anali atakhala nthawi yayitali m'mabala ndi m'mabafa komwe zolaula zinali " ponseponse ," komanso " kusewera nthawi zonse ". Ofufuzawo anati:

"Kukambirana ndi mituyi kunalimbikitsa lingaliro lathu kuti mwa ena mwa iwo kutengeka kwambiri ndi zolaula kumawoneka kuti kwapangitsa kuti azikhala ndi chidwi chochepa ndi" vanilla sex "erotica ndikuwonjezera kufunikira kwachilendo komanso kusiyanasiyana, nthawi zina kuphatikiza kufunikira kofunika kwambiri mitundu inayake ya zinthu zosangalatsa kuti munthu adzuke. ”

20) Zochita zogonana pa intaneti: Kafukufuku wofufuza za njira zovuta komanso zopanda vuto zogwiritsira ntchito mwa chitsanzo cha amuna (2016) - Kafukufuku waku Belgium wochokera ku yunivesite yotsogola yofufuza adapeza kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti molakwika kumalumikizidwa ndi kuchepa kwa ntchito yogonana komanso kuchepa kwa kukhutira kwathunthu. Komabe ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula movutikira adakumana ndi zilakolako zazikulu. Kafukufukuyu akuwoneka kuti akunena za kukwera, chifukwa 49% ya amunawo adawona zolaula zomwe " sizinali zosangalatsa kwa iwo kale kapena zomwe amaona kuti ndi zonyansa ." (Onani maphunziro omwe akunena za chizolowezi/kusiya kuonera zolaula komanso kukwera kwa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula) Zidule:

"Kafukufukuyu ndi woyamba kufufuza mwachindunji maubwenzi apakati pazovuta zakugonana komanso kutengapo gawo kwamavuto mu OSA. Zotsatira zikuwonetsa kuti chilakolako chokwera pogonana, kuchepetsa kukhutira kwakugonana, komanso kuchepa kwa erectile kumalumikizidwa ndi ma OSA ovuta (zogonana pa intaneti). Zotsatirazi zitha kulumikizidwa ndi zomwe zamaphunziro am'mbuyomu zomwe zimafotokoza za kukwezedwa kwakukulu pokhudzana ndi zizolowezi zakugonana (Bancroft & Vukadinovic, 2004; Laier et al., 2013; Muise et al., 2013). "

Kuwonjezera pamenepo, potsiriza timakhala ndi phunziro lomwe limapempha ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula za kutheka kwa kukula kwa mitundu yambiri yolaula. Tangoganizirani zomwe zapeza?

"Anthu makumi asanu ndi anayi mphambu asanu ndi anayi pa zana amatchula nthawi zina kufunafuna zachiwerewere kapena kutenga nawo mbali mu OSA zomwe sizinali zosangalatsa kwa iwo kale kapena kuti zimawoneka ngati zonyansa, ndipo 61.7% adanena kuti nthawi zina ma OSA anali kuchita manyazi kapena kudzimva ngati olakwa."

Zindikirani - Iyi ndi kafukufuku woyamba kufufuza mwachindunji ubale pakati pa zovuta zogonana ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula zovuta. Maphunziro ena awiri omwe amati adafufuza ubale pakati pa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndi magwiridwe antchito a erectile adaphatikiza deta kuchokera ku maphunziro akale poyesa kulephera kutsutsa ED yoyambitsidwa ndi zolaula. Onse awiri adatsutsidwa m'mabuku owunikidwa ndi anzawo: pepala 1 silinali kafukufuku weniweni, ndipo latsutsidwa kwathunthu ; pepala 2 kwenikweni lidapeza ubale womwe umathandizira ED yoyambitsidwa ndi zolaula. Kuphatikiza apo, pepala 2 linali "kulankhulana kwakanthawi kochepa" komwe sikunanene zambiri zofunika.

21) Kusintha kwa Chilakolako cha Kugonana ndi Kulumikizana kwa Mitsempha mwa Anthu Omwe Ali ndi Khalidwe Logonana Lokakamiza (2016) - "Makhalidwe Ogonana Okakamiza" (CSB) amatanthauza kuti amunawa anali okonda zolaula, chifukwa anthu omwe anali ndi CSB anali kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pafupifupi maola 20 pa sabata. Anthu omwe anali ndi CSB anali ndi mphindi 29 pa sabata. Chochititsa chidwi n'chakuti, anthu atatu mwa anthu 20 a CSB adatchula kwa omwe adawafunsa mafunso kuti anali ndi "vuto la orgasmic-erection disorder," pomwe palibe aliyense wa anthu omwe anali ndi CSB amene adanena za mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana.

22) Kafukufuku akuwona kulumikizana pakati pa zolaula ndi vuto la kugonana (2017) - Zomwe zapezeka mu kafukufuku yemwe akubwera yemwe adaperekedwa pamsonkhano wapachaka wa American Urological Association. Zidule zingapo:

Amuna achichepere omwe amakonda zolaula kuposa zochitika zenizeni zakugonana atha kudzipeza atagwera mumsampha, osakhoza kuchita zachiwerewere ndi anthu ena mwayi ukapezeka, lipoti latsopano lipoti. Amuna omwe amakonda kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula amakhala ndi vuto la erectile ndipo sangakhale okhutira ndi zogonana, malinga ndi kafukufuku yemwe waperekedwa Lachisanu pamsonkhano wapachaka wa American Urological Association, ku Boston.

23) “Ndikuganiza kuti zakhala ndi vuto lalikulu m'njira zambiri koma nthawi yomweyo sindingathe kusiya kuzigwiritsa ntchito”: Kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula molakwika pakati pa achinyamata aku Australia (2017) – Kafukufuku wa pa intaneti wa anthu aku Australia, azaka zapakati pa 15-29. Anthu omwe adaonerapo zolaula (n=856) adafunsidwa funso lotseguka: 'Kodi zolaula zakhudza bwanji moyo wanu?'.

Pakati pa ophunzira omwe adayankha funso lotseguka (n = 718), kugwiritsidwa ntchito kovuta kunali kudzidziwika ndi omvera a 88. Amuna omwe adanena za zolaula zomwe zimayambitsa zolaula zinawonetsa zotsatira mu magawo atatu: pa ntchito yogonana, kukwatira komanso maubwenzi. Mayankho aphatikizapo "Ndikuganiza kuti zakhala zolakwika m'njira zambiri koma nthawi yomweyo sindingathe kuzigwiritsa ntchito" (Male, Aged 18-19).

24) Kufufuza Ubale Pakati pa Kusokonezeka kwa Zolaula Panthawi ya Kuchedwa ndi Kugwiritsa Ntchito Zinthu Zolaula, Makhalidwe Ogonana Pa Intaneti, ndi Mavuto Ogonana mwa Achinyamata (2009) - Kafukufukuyu adafufuza mgwirizano pakati pa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pakali pano (zinthu zolaula - SEM) ndi mavuto ogonana, ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula panthawi ya "nthawi yochedwa" (zaka 6-12) ndi mavuto ogonana. Avereji ya zaka za ophunzira anali 22. Ngakhale kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pakali pano kumagwirizana ndi mavuto ogonana, kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula panthawi yochedwa (zaka 6-12) kunali ndi mgwirizano wamphamvu kwambiri ndi mavuto ogonana. Zidutswa zingapo:

Zomwe anapeza zimapangitsa kuti kusokonezeka kwa chizoloŵezi chosokoneza bongo kudzera m'maganizo opatsirana pogonana (SEM) ndi / kapena kuchitiridwa nkhanza za kugonana kwa ana kungagwirizane ndi makhalidwe akuluakulu okhudzana ndi kugonana pa intaneti.

Kuwonjezera pamenepo, zotsatira zasonyeza kuti kutsegula kwa SEM ndikutanthauza kuti anthu ambiri akugonana.

Tinaganiza kuti kuwonetsetsa kuti SEM ikuwonetsetsa kuti munthu angagwiritse ntchito SEM. Kufufuza kumeneku kunawathandiza kuganiza kwathu, ndipo kunawonetsa kuti kutsegula kwa SEM nthawi yodziwika ndikutanthauza kuti SEM wamkulu akugwiritsa ntchito. Izi zinkanena kuti anthu omwe adzidziwitso ku SEM nthawi yamapeto, akhoza kupitirizabe khalidweli kuti akhale akuluakulu. Kufufuza kumeneku kunawonetsanso kuti kutsegula kwa SEM ndikumveka kwakukulu kwa makhalidwe akuluakulu okhudzana ndi kugonana pa intaneti.

Mwachidule, umboni ukuwonjezeka wakuti zolaula za pa intaneti zimachotsa chilakolako cha kugonana, zomwe zimapangitsa ogwiritsa ntchito kusalabadira zosangalatsa. Angakhumbire zolaula, koma izi ndi umboni wowonjezereka wa kusintha kwa ubongo komwe kumakhudzana ndi chizolowezi chodziwika kuti " sensitization " (hyper-reactivity to addicted-related cues). Zilakolako sizingaganizidwe kuti ndi umboni wa chilakolako chachikulu cha kugonana.

DAVIDE LEY: “Zikutheka kuti izi zimagwirizanitsa ndi zizindikiro zamaganizo, zomwe maphunzirowa akupeza. M'mawu ena, zizindikiro za ubongozi ndizo chifukwa, osati zotsatira. "

YANKHO: Popanda umboni uliwonse kapena chitsanzo chimodzi, Ley akunena kuti kusintha kwa ubongo kunapeza kuti maphunziro 50 a chizolowezi ayenera kuti analipo asanayambe kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Zoona zake n'zakuti, kusintha kwakukulu kwa ubongo komwe kunanenedwa ndi maphunzirowa kungachitike kokha chifukwa chogwiritsa ntchito nthawi yayitali:

Kusintha: Kugwiritsa ntchito kwakanthawi kumabweretsa kulumikizana kwamitsempha komwe kumapangitsa kuti madera ozungulira mphotho ayambe kulira chifukwa chazomwe zimachitika kapena malingaliro. Kukumbukira uku kwa Pavlovian ndi komwe kumapangitsa kuti anthu azilakalaka kwambiri zomwe zimapangitsa kuti chizolowezicho chikhale chodetsa nkhawa kwambiri kuposa zinthu zina m'moyo wawo. (Kafukufuku wopereka chidziwitso pakulimbikitsa kwa ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25.)
Kusintha: Kugwiritsidwa ntchito kosagwiritsidwa ntchito nthawi zonse kumachititsa kuti munthu akhale osaganizira zosangalatsa, zomwe kawirikawiri zimawonetsa kuti ndizofunikira kukulitsa kwambiri ndikukwanitsa kukwaniritsa mgwirizano womwewo. Izi zimatchulidwanso kulolerana ndipo zimachitika ndi kugwiritsa ntchito kwambiri. (Kafukufuku wofotokozera zakusokonekera kwa oonera zolaula: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8.)

N'zoonekeratu kuti Ley sangathe kutchula "makhalidwe a mitsempha" awa. Zoona zake: Njira zomwe zimayambitsa chizolowezi cha chizolowezi chakhala chikuphunziridwa kwa zaka pafupifupi 60. Kusintha kwa ubongo komwe kumachitika chifukwa cha chizolowezi cha chizolowezi kwafotokozedwa bwino mpaka kufika pa maselo, mapuloteni, ndi ma epigenetic . Kusintha kwa ubongo kumeneku kwakhala kukugwirizana mobwerezabwereza ndi machitidwe omwe amadziwika kuti "chizolowezi cha chizolowezi." Makhalidwe ofanana ndi chizolowezi amatha kuyambitsidwa mwa nyama pongowonjezera puloteni imodzi mkati mwa malo operekera mphotho (Deltafosb). Mwachidule, zambiri zimadziwika za biology ya chizolowezi - kuposa matenda ena aliwonse amisala - ngakhale Dr. Ley sakudziwika.

Kusintha kwakukulu kwa ubongo kunayi kumakhudzana ndi zizolowezi za mankhwala osokoneza bongo komanso khalidwe, monga momwe zafotokozedwera mu pepalali lomwe lafalitsidwa chaka chino mu The New England Journal of Medicine : “ Neurobiologic Advances from the Brain Disease Model of Addiction (2016) ”. Ndemanga yofunika kwambiri iyi yochitidwa ndi Director of the National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism (NIAAA) George F. Koob , ndi director of the National Institute on Drug Abuse (NIDA) Nora D. Volkow , sikuti imangofotokoza kusintha kwa ubongo komwe kumachitika chifukwa cha zizolowezi, komanso imanenanso m'ndime yake yoyamba kuti chizolowezi chogonana chilipo:

"Timaganiza kuti sayansi ya ubongo ikupitirizabe kuthandizira chitsanzo cha matenda a ubongo a chizolowezi. Kafukufuku wa sayansi ya ubongo m'derali samangopereka mwayi watsopano wopewera ndi kuchiza zizolowezi zoledzeretsa ndi zizolowezi zokhudzana ndi khalidwe (monga chakudya, kugonana , ndi kutchova juga)…."

Mwachidule, komanso mozama kwambiri, kusintha kwakukulu kwa ubongo ndi: 1) Kuzindikira , 2) Kuchepetsa chidwi , 3) Kusaganizira bwino / Ma circuits osagwira ntchito bwino 4) Ma circuits osagwira ntchito bwino . Kusintha konse kwa ubongo kumeneku kwapezeka pakati pa maphunziro 44 a neuroscience pa ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula:

Kafukufuku wolimbikitsa kulimbikitsa (kukonda-kuyambiranso & kulakalaka) mwa ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula / ogonana: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25.
Zofukufuku zomwe zimafotokoza kufunika kwa chilakolako kapena chizoloŵezi (zomwe zimapangitsa kulekerera) anthu ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula / olowerera kugonana: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8.
Zofukufuku zomwe zimapereka ntchito yosauka kwambiri (zosasamala) kapena ntchito yowonongeka kwa anthu ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula / olowerera kugonana: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17.
Zofukufuku zomwe zimasonyeza kuti munthu ali ndi vuto losokoneza bongo anthu ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula / kugonana: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5.

Zimandisangalatsa kuti Dr. Ley akuwoneka kuti nthawi zonse amati palibe chithandizo chasayansi chazolowera zolaula, komabe sikuti maphunziro a 50 amangopereka chithandizo chazakugonana / zolaula, akatswiri odziwika kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi nawonso. Phokoso laling'ono lomwe wamanga, pomwe zolaula sizingakhalepo, sizikugwirizana kwenikweni ndi sayansi.

DAVIDE LEY: “Grubbs adapezanso kuti posachedwa "chilakolako chogonana" ndi lingaliro la iatrogenic, lomwe limapangitsa kuvulaza ndi kukhumudwa, powuza munthu kudana ndi kuopa zawo zogonana"

YANKHO: Palibe chomwe chingapitirire kutali ndi chowonadi. Nayi kusanthula kwakukulu kwa kafukufuku wa Grubbs - Kutsutsa kwa "Kuzolowera Kuonera Zolaula pa Intaneti ndi Mavuto a Maganizo: Kufufuza Ubale Nthawi Imodzi ndi Nthawi Imene" (2015).

Zomwe Ley ndi Grubbs amaphunzira zimadalira malo awiri abodza:

Grubbs's porn addiction test (CPUI) imayesa "kuzindikira zolaula" m'malo moledzera. Izo siziri. Zomera Et al. adatchulanso Grubbs omwe adadzipangira okha zolaula monga "kuyerekezera zolaula". Komabe, iyi Mafunso a Cyber Pornography Use Inventory (CPUI) alidi ofanana ndi mankhwala ena ambiri komanso machitidwe osokoneza mafunso. Monga mayeso ena osokoneza bongo, CPUI imawunika machitidwe ndi zizindikiritso zomwe zimafala pakakhala zosokoneza bongo, monga: kulephera kuwongolera kugwiritsa ntchito; kukakamizidwa kugwiritsa ntchito, kulakalaka kugwiritsa ntchito, zoyipa zamaganizidwe, chikhalidwe ndi malingaliro; ndi kutanganidwa ndi kugwiritsa ntchito. M'malo mwake, funso limodzi lokha mwa mafunso ake asanu ndi anayiwo limangonena za "chizolowezi chomwa bongo" Komabe timauzidwa kuti mphambu zonse za munthu pamafunso onse a 1 ndizofanana ndi "chizolowezi chodziwika bwino" m'malo momangokhala osokoneza bongo. Zosocheretsa kwambiri, zanzeru, komanso zopanda maziko asayansi.
Mafuta amenewo anapeza kusiyana kochepa pakati pa ma CPUI ndi maola ochuluka owonetsera zolaula. Mosiyana ndi zomwe Ley adanena, Grubbs adapeza kulumikizana kwamphamvu pakati pa maola ogwiritsa ntchito ndi CPUI! Kuchokera p. 6 ya kafukufuku:

"Kuphatikiza apo, zithunzi zolaula zomwe anthu amagwiritsa ntchito tsiku lililonse m'maola angapo zinali zogwirizana kwambiri komanso zabwino ndi kupsinjika maganizo, nkhawa, ndi mkwiyo, komanso chizolowezi chodziona kuti ndi chizolowezi ."

Siyani atolankhani! Chidule ichi chikutsutsa mwachindunji mitu yonse ya nkhani, yomwe imanena kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula SIZINAKHALE ndi kuvutika maganizo kapena "chizolowezi chodziwika." Apanso, nthawi iliyonse mukawona mawu akuti "chizolowezi chodziwika" kwenikweni amatanthauza chiwerengero chonse cha anthu omwe ali mu CPUI (chomwe ndi mayeso okhudzana ndi chizolowezi chogonana). Dziwani izi: Kafukufuku wa Grubbs SANAYANG'ANIRE "chizolowezi chodziwika." Pali zambiri zambiri mu ndemanga iyi zomwe zimatsutsa zomwe zanenedwa m'nkhani wamba komanso zomwe zanenedwa mkati mwa maphunziro a Grubbs: Kodi Joshua Grubbs akukoka ubweya m'maso mwathu ndi kafukufuku wake wa "chizolowezi chodziwika cha chiwerewere"? (2016).

Zosintha: Joshua Grubbs adasindikiza kafukufuku woyesa mfundo yoti anthu achipembedzo amakhulupirira kuti ali ndi chizolowezi choonera zolaula (ngakhale kuti maphunziro a Grubbs sanayesepo "kukhulupirira kuti ali ndi chizolowezi choonera zolaula"). Pokhala ndi kukayikira kwakukulu pa zomwe adaganiza, komanso kukayikira zonena zopanda maziko kuti chida chake cha CPUI-9 chingathe kusiyanitsa "chizolowezi choonera zolaula" ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula molakwika, Dr. Grubbs adachita bwino monga wasayansi. Adalembetsa kafukufuku pasadakhale kuti ayesere malingaliro ake mwachindunji. Kulembetsa pasadakhale ndi njira yabwino yasayansi yomwe imaletsa ofufuza kusintha malingaliro atasonkhanitsa deta.

Zotsatirazo zinali zotsutsana ndi ziganizo zake zakale ndi meme ("chiwerewere ndizochititsa manyazi") zomwe makina osindikizira adathandizira kufalitsa.

Dr. Grubbs adayesetsa kutsimikizira kuti chipembedzo chinali chizindikiro chachikulu cha "kukhulupirira kuti ndinu wokonda zolaula." Iye ndi gulu lake la ofufuza adafufuza zitsanzo zitatu zazikulu komanso zosiyanasiyana (mwamuna, mkazi, ndi zina zotero): Kodi Ndani Ali ndi Chizolowezi cha Zolaula? Kufufuza Udindo wa Kugwiritsa Ntchito Zolaula, Chipembedzo, ndi Kusalingana kwa Makhalidwe Abwino . (Analemba zotsatira zake pa intaneti, ngakhale kuti pepala la gulu lake silinasindikizidwe mwalamulo).

Komabe, nthawi ino, sanadalire chida chake cha CPUI-9 . (CPUI-9 ili ndi mafunso atatu oti "ndikumva chisoni ndi manyazi/kuvutika maganizo" omwe sapezeka kawirikawiri mu zida zoledzera - ndipo amasokoneza zotsatira zake, zomwe zimapangitsa ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula zachipembedzo kupeza mwayi wopeza ogwiritsa ntchito ambiri komanso omwe si achipembedzo kuti apeze mwayi wopeza ...

Potsutsana mwachindunji ndi zomwe adanena kale, Dr. Grubbs ndi gulu lake lofufuza adapeza kuti kukhulupirira kuti uli ndi chizolowezi choonera zolaula kumagwirizana kwambiri ndi maola olaula a tsiku ndi tsiku , osati ndi chipembedzo . Monga taonera pamwambapa, maphunziro ena a Grubbs adapezanso kuti maola olaula anali chizindikiro champhamvu cha "chizolowezi chodziwika" kuposa chipembedzo. Kuchokera mu chidule cha kafukufuku watsopano:

Mosiyana ndi mabuku omwe asanakhalepo akusonyeza kuti khalidwe lachikhalidwe ndi chipembedzo ndizozidziwika bwino kwambiri zogwiritsira ntchito mankhwalawa (kugwiritsa ntchito CPUI-9], zotsatira za zitsanzo zonse zitatu zikuwonetsa kuti amuna ndi abambo omwe amatsatira zolaula ndizofunika kwambiri zolaula.

Malingana ndi zotsatira zawo, Dr. Grubbs ndi olemba anzake akulangiza kuti,

"Ogwira ntchito zamaganizidwe azakugonana ayenera kutengera nkhawa za makasitomala omwe amawazindikira kuti ndi omwe amakonda kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula."

DAVIDE LEY: “Panalibe pepala limodzi lowonedwa ndi anzawo lofalitsidwa lomwe likuwonetsa umboni uliwonse woti ED yokhudzana ndi kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula ndichinthu chodabwitsa."

YANKHO: Zabodza ndithu. Ndipo si vuto la kugonana lokha. Kafukufuku wambiri wapeza ubale pakati pa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula mwa anyamata ndi ED, anorgamsia, chilakolako chochepa chogonana, kuchedwa kutulutsa umuna ndi kutsika kwa ubongo ku zithunzi zogonana. Kuphatikiza apo, tsamba lino lili ndi nkhani ndi makanema ochokera kwa akatswiri oposa 100 (aphunzitsi a urology, akatswiri a urology, akatswiri a maganizo, akatswiri a zamaganizo, akatswiri a zachiwerewere, akatswiri a zachiwerewere, akatswiri a MD) omwe amavomereza ndipo apambana pochiza ED yoyambitsidwa ndi zolaula komanso kutaya chilakolako chogonana komwe kumabwera chifukwa cha zolaula.

Zofukufuku zomwe zimanena zimagwirizanitsa pakati pa kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula / kugonana ndi ED, anorgamsia, chilakolako chogonana, kuchepetsa kuthamangitsidwa, komanso kuchepa kwa ubongo ku zithunzi zogonana.

Kuwonjezera pa maphunziro omwe ali pansipa, tsamba lino lili ndi nkhani ndi makanema olembedwa ndi akatswiri oposa 130 (aphunzitsi a urology, akatswiri a urology, akatswiri a maganizo, akatswiri a zamaganizo, akatswiri a zachiwerewere, akatswiri a zachiwerewere, MDs) omwe amavomereza ndipo apambana pochiza ED yoyambitsidwa ndi zolaula komanso kutaya chilakolako chogonana komwe kunachitika chifukwa cha zolaula. Maphunziro 7 oyamba akuwonetsa chifukwa chake ophunzirawo adachotsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndikuchiritsa zovuta zogonana:

1) Kodi Zithunzi Zolaula pa Intaneti Zimayambitsa Mavuto Ogonana? Ndemanga ndi Malipoti a Zachipatala (2016) - Ndemanga yozama ya mabuku okhudzana ndi mavuto ogonana omwe amabwera chifukwa cha zolaula. Pokhudzana ndi madokotala 7 a US Navy, ndemangayi imapereka zambiri zaposachedwa zomwe zikuwonetsa kuwonjezeka kwakukulu kwa mavuto ogonana a achinyamata. Ikuwunikiranso maphunziro a mitsempha okhudzana ndi chizolowezi cha zolaula komanso kugonana kudzera pa zolaula pa intaneti. Madokotala amapereka malipoti atatu azachipatala a amuna omwe adayamba kuvutika ndi zolaula. Awiri mwa amuna atatuwa adachiritsa mavuto awo ogonana pochotsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Mwamuna wachitatu sanasinthe kwenikweni chifukwa sanathe kupewa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Chidule:

Zinthu zakale zomwe zinkafotokoza mavuto a kugonana kwa amuna sizikukwanira kufotokoza kuchuluka kwa kusokonekera kwa kugonana, kuchedwa kutulutsa umuna, kuchepa kwa kukhutira ndi kugonana, komanso kuchepa kwa chilakolako chogonana panthawi yogonana ndi amuna osakwana zaka 40. Ndemanga iyi (1) ikuyang'ana deta kuchokera kumadera osiyanasiyana, mwachitsanzo, zachipatala, zamoyo (chizolowezi/urology), zamaganizo (zogonana), zachikhalidwe; ndi (2) ikupereka malipoti angapo azachipatala, onse ndi cholinga chopereka njira yoti atsatire kafukufuku wamtsogolo wa izi. Kusintha kwa dongosolo lolimbikitsa ubongo kumafufuzidwa ngati chifukwa chomwe chimayambitsa zovuta zokhudzana ndi kugonana zokhudzana ndi zolaula. Ndemanga iyi ikuyang'ananso umboni wakuti mawonekedwe apadera a zolaula pa intaneti (zachilendo zopanda malire, kuthekera kokulirapo mosavuta kukhala zinthu zoopsa kwambiri, mawonekedwe a kanema, ndi zina zotero) zitha kukhala zamphamvu zokwanira kupangitsa chilakolako chogonana kukhala mbali za kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti zomwe sizimasintha mosavuta kukhala okondedwa enieni, kotero kuti kugonana ndi okondedwa omwe mukufuna sikungawoneke ngati kukwaniritsa ziyembekezo ndi kuchepa kwa chilakolako chogonana. Malipoti azachipatala akuwonetsa kuti kuthetsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti nthawi zina ndikokwanira kusintha zotsatira zoyipa, kugogomezera kufunika kofufuza kwambiri pogwiritsa ntchito njira zomwe anthu amachotsa kusintha kwa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti.

2) Zizolowezi zodziseweretsa maliseche za amuna ndi mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana (2016) – Ndi dokotala wa zamaganizo wa ku France yemwe ndi purezidenti wa European Federation of Sexology . Ngakhale kuti nkhaniyi ikusintha pakati pa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti ndi kudziseweretsa maliseche, n'zoonekeratu kuti makamaka akunena za mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana omwe amabwera chifukwa cha zolaula (kulephera kugwira ntchito kwa erectile ndi anorgasmia). Pepalali likuzungulira zomwe adakumana nazo ndi amuna 35 omwe adayamba kulephera kugwira ntchito kwa erectile ndi/kapena anorgasmia, komanso njira zake zochiritsira kuti awathandize. Wolembayo akunena kuti odwala ake ambiri ankagwiritsa ntchito zolaula, ndipo ambiri anali ndi chizolowezi choonera zolaula. Nkhaniyi ikusonyeza kuti zolaula pa intaneti ndiye chifukwa chachikulu cha mavutowa (kumbukirani kuti kudziseweretsa maliseche sikumayambitsa ED yosatha, ndipo sikuperekedwa ngati chifukwa cha ED). Amuna 19 mwa 35 adawona kusintha kwakukulu pakuchita zogonana. Amuna enawo adasiya chithandizo kapena akuyeserabe kuchira. Zidule:

Chiyambi: Chopanda vuto komanso chothandiza monga momwe amachitira nthawi zonse, m asturbation mu mawonekedwe ake ochulukirapo komanso odziwika bwino, omwe nthawi zambiri amagwirizanitsidwa ndi chizolowezi cholaula, nthawi zambiri amanyalanyazidwa mu mayeso azachipatala a zovuta zogonana zomwe zingayambitse.

Zotsatira: Zotsatira zoyambirira za odwalawa, atalandira chithandizo kuti "asiye" zizolowezi zawo zodziseweretsa maliseche komanso chizolowezi chawo chowonera zolaula, ndizolimbikitsa komanso zopatsa chiyembekezo. Kuchepa kwa zizindikiro kunapezeka mwa odwala 19 mwa 35. Mavuto amisala anachepa ndipo odwalawa anasangalala ndi zochita zogonana zokhutiritsa.

Kutsiliza: Kudziseweretsa maliseche mopitirira muyeso, komwe nthawi zambiri kumayenderana ndi kudalira zolaula za pa intaneti, kwawonedwa kuti kumayambitsa mitundu ina ya kulephera kugwira ntchito kwa erectile kapena kutsekeka kwa m'mimba mwa mkazi kapena mwamuna. Ndikofunikira kuzindikira mwadongosolo kupezeka kwa zizolowezi izi m'malo mochita kafukufuku pochotsa, kuti muphatikizepo njira zochotsera zizolowezi pothana ndi mavutowa.

3) Kuchita maliseche kosazolowereka monga chifukwa cha matenda opatsirana pogonana mwa anyamata (2014) - Chimodzi mwa maphunziro anayi omwe ali mu pepalali chimafotokoza za mwamuna yemwe ali ndi mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana chifukwa cha zolaula (kuchepa kwa chilakolako cha kugonana, fetishes, anorgasmia). Kugonana kumeneku kunafuna kuti apewe zolaula kwa milungu 6 komanso kudziseweretsa maliseche. Patatha miyezi 8 mwamunayo adanenanso kuti chilakolako chogonana chawonjezeka, kugonana bwino komanso kugona mokwanira, komanso kusangalala ndi "machitidwe abwino ogonana. Iyi ndi nkhani yoyamba yowunikidwa ndi anzawo yokhudza kuchira ku zovuta zogonana chifukwa cha zolaula. Zidutswa kuchokera mu pepalali:

"Akafunsidwa za zizoloŵezi za masturbatory, iye anafotokoza kuti m'mbuyomo anali atatha kuchita maliseche mofulumira pamene akuonera zolaula kuyambira ali mwana. Zithunzi zolaula poyamba zinali za zoophilia, ndi ukapolo, ulamuliro, chisoni, ndi masochism, koma pomaliza pake anazoloŵera zidazi ndipo ankafuna zojambula zolaula zambiri, kuphatikizapo kugonana, kugonana, komanso kugonana. Ankagula mafilimu oletsa zolaula pa zochitika zogonana ndi kugwiririra ndikuwonetsa zithunzizi poganiza kuti azigonana ndi amayi. Pang'onopang'ono anataya chilakolako chake ndipo amatha kukhumudwitsa ndi kuchepetsa nthawi yambiri yochita maliseche. "

Mogwirizana ndi misonkhano ya mlungu ndi mlungu ndi katswiri wokhudza kugonana, wodwalayo analangizidwa kuti apewe kuwonetsedwa ndi zinthu zogonana, kuphatikizapo mavidiyo, manyuzipepala, mabuku, ndi zolaula pa intaneti.

Patatha miyezi 8, wodwalayo adanena kuti adakwanitsa kufika pachimake komanso kutulutsa umuna . Anakonzanso ubale wake ndi mkaziyo, ndipo pang'onopang'ono adakwanitsa kusangalala ndi machitidwe abwino ogonana.

4) Kodi n'kovuta bwanji kuchiza kutaya umuna mochedwa mkati mwa chitsanzo cha kugonana kwa nthawi yochepa? Kuyerekeza kwa kafukufuku wamilandu (2017) - Lipoti la "milandu iwiri yophatikizana" yomwe ikuwonetsa zomwe zimayambitsa ndi mankhwala a kutaya umuna mochedwa (anorgasmia). "Patient B" ikuyimira anyamata angapo omwe adathandizidwa ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo. Chosangalatsa n'chakuti, pepalalo likunena kuti "kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kwa Patient B kwakula kukhala zinthu zovuta", "monga momwe zimakhalira nthawi zambiri". Pepalalo likuti kutaya umuna mochedwa chifukwa cha zolaula sikwachilendo, ndipo kukuchulukirachulukira. Wolembayo akupempha kuti pakhale kafukufuku wowonjezereka pa zotsatira za zolaula zokhudzana ndi kugonana. Kutaya umuna mochedwa kwa Patient B kunachiritsidwa patatha milungu 10 osatulutsa zolaula. Zidule:

Milanduyi ndi yophatikizana yomwe yatengedwa kuchokera kuntchito yanga mkati mwa National Health Service ku Croydon University Hospital, London . Ndi mlandu womaliza ( Wodwala B ), ndikofunikira kudziwa kuti zomwe zafotokozedwazo zikuwonetsa anyamata angapo achichepere omwe adatumizidwa ndi madokotala awo omwe ali ndi matenda ofanana. Wodwala B ndi wazaka 19 yemwe adapezeka chifukwa sanathe kutulutsa umuna kudzera mu kulowa mkati. Ali ndi zaka 13, nthawi zonse ankalowa m'malo ochezera zolaula payekha kudzera pa intaneti kapena kudzera pa maulalo omwe anzake adamutumizira. Ankayamba kuseweretsa maliseche usiku uliwonse akufufuza chithunzi pafoni yake…Ngati sanaseweretse maliseche sankatha kugona. Zithunzi zolaula zomwe ankagwiritsa ntchito zinali zitakula, monga momwe zimakhalira nthawi zambiri (onani Hudson-Allez, 2010), kukhala zinthu zovuta (palibe choletsedwa)…

Wodwala B anawonetsedwa ku zolaula pogwiritsa ntchito zolaula za m'zaka za 12 ndipo zolaula zomwe anali kugwiritsira ntchito zinali zitakula kupita ku ukapolo ndi kulamulidwa ndi zaka za 15.

Tinavomera kuti asagwiritsenso ntchito zolaula kuti achite maliseche. Izi zikutanthauza kusiya foni yake m'chipinda china usiku. Tavomereza kuti adzalora maliseche mosiyana ....

Wodwala B anakwanitsa kufika pachimake pofika gawo lachisanu; magawowa amaperekedwa milungu iwiri iliyonse ku Croydon University Hospital kotero gawo lachisanu likufanana ndi masabata pafupifupi 10 kuchokera pamene anafunsidwa mafunso. Anali wokondwa komanso womasuka kwambiri. Pa miyezi itatu yotsatira ndi Wodwala B, zinthu zinali kuyendabe bwino.

Wodwala B si wodwala yekhayo amene amapezeka mu National Health Service (NHS) ndipo kwenikweni anyamata ambiri omwe amalandira chithandizo cha kugonana ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo, popanda okondedwa awo, amalankhula okha za kusintha komwe kukuchitika.

Chifukwa chake nkhaniyi ikuchirikiza kafukufuku wakale womwe wagwirizanitsa njira yodziseweretsa maliseche ndi vuto la kugonana komanso zolaula ndi njira yodziseweretsa maliseche. Nkhaniyi ikumaliza ndi kunena kuti kupambana kwa akatswiri odziwa za kugonana pogwira ntchito ndi DE sikulembedwa kawirikawiri m'mabuku a maphunziro, zomwe zapangitsa kuti lingaliro la DE ngati vuto lovuta kuchiza likhalebe losatsutsika. Nkhaniyi ikufuna kufufuza za kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula komanso momwe zimakhudzira kudziseweretsa maliseche komanso kuletsa maliseche.

5) Kusagonana ndi Munthu Wogonana Pankhani ya Zamaganizo: Kafukufuku wa Nkhani (2014) – Tsatanetsatane wa nkhaniyi ukuwonetsa nkhani ya kusamba m'mimba chifukwa cha zolaula. Mwamunayo anali ndi chilakolako chogonana nthawi zonse asanakwatirane - pomwe ankatha kutulutsa umuna. Ananenanso kuti kugonana sikunamupangitse kukhala kosangalatsa kwambiri kuposa maliseche. Mfundo yofunika kwambiri ndi yakuti "kuphunzitsidwanso" ndi psychotherapy sizinamuthandize kuthetsa kusamba m'mimba. Pamene njira zimenezi zinalephera, akatswiri a zamaganizo adapereka lingaliro loletsa kwathunthu maliseche. Pomaliza pake kuletsa kumeneku kunapangitsa kuti kugonana ndi mwamuna wake ziyende bwino komanso kuti azitulutsa umuna ndi mnzake kwa nthawi yoyamba m'moyo wake. Zidule zingapo:

A ndi mwamuna wazaka 33 wokwatira amene amakonda kugonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, katswiri wochokera kumudzi wokhala ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu komanso zachuma. Sanagonepo ndi anthu ogonana asanakwatirane. Ankaonera zolaula komanso ankadziseweretsa maliseche pafupipafupi. Chidziwitso chake chokhudza kugonana ndi kugonana chinali chokwanira. Pambuyo pa ukwati wawo, a A adafotokoza kuti chilakolako chawo cha kugonana poyamba chinali chachibadwa, koma pambuyo pake chinachepa chifukwa cha mavuto ake okhudzana ndi umuna. Ngakhale kuti ankamukakamiza kwa mphindi 30-45, sanathepo kutulutsa umuna kapena kufika pachimake panthawi yogonana ndi mkazi wake.

Chimene sichinagwire ntchito:

Mankhwala a Mr. A's adagwiritsidwa ntchito; clomipramine ndi bupropion zatha, ndipo sertraline idasungidwa pa mlingo wa 150 mg pa tsiku. Machitidwe opatsirana ndi banjali ankachitika mlungu ndi mlungu kwa miyezi ingapo yoyambirira, yomwe adatsatiridwapo kamodzi kapena kamodzi pamwezi. Malingaliro enieni kuphatikizapo kuganizira zokhudzana ndi kugonana ndikuganiziranso zokhudzana ndi kugonana kusiyana ndi kukasinthidwa kunagwiritsidwa ntchito kuthandizira kuchepetsa nkhawa ndi kuyang'ana. Popeza mavuto adapitilirabe ngakhale izi zitachitika, mankhwala opatsirana pogonana anali kuganiziridwa.

Pambuyo pake adayambitsa kuletsa maliseche (zomwe zikutanthauza kuti apitiliza kuchita maliseche panthawi yomwe ili pamwambapa)

Ananena kuti pakhale kuletsa mtundu uliwonse wa chiwerewere. Maseŵero olimbitsa thupi olimbikitsa chidwi (poyamba sanali okhudza maliseche ndipo pambuyo pake anali okhudza maliseche) anayamba. A A anafotokoza kuti sankatha kusangalala ndi chilakolako chofananacho panthawi yogonana poyerekeza ndi zomwe anakumana nazo panthawi yogonana. Atangomaliza kuletsa maliseche, ananena kuti anali ndi chilakolako chofuna kugonana ndi wokondedwa wake.

Pambuyo pa nthawi yosadziŵika bwino, kuletsa maliseche kumalo opambana:

Pakadali pano, a A ndi akazi awo adaganiza zopitiliza ndi njira zothandizira kubereka (ART) ndipo adapatsidwa njira ziwiri zoberekera. Pa nthawi yochita masewera olimbitsa thupi, a A adatulutsa umuna koyamba, ndipo pambuyo pake adatulutsa umuna mokwanira nthawi zambiri akamagonana.

6) Zithunzi Zolaula Zimayambitsa Kulephera Kugonana Pakati pa Achinyamata (2019) - Chidule:

Pepala ili likufufuza za vuto la zolaula zomwe zimayambitsa vuto la kugonana (PIED), kutanthauza mavuto a mphamvu zogonana mwa amuna chifukwa chogwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti. Deta yochokera kwa amuna omwe ali ndi vutoli yasonkhanitsidwa. Kuphatikiza njira ya mbiri ya moyo wa anthu (ndi mafunso ofotokozera nkhani pa intaneti osasinthasintha) ndi ma diary a pa intaneti agwiritsidwa ntchito. Detayi yasanthulidwa pogwiritsa ntchito kusanthula kwa chiphunzitso (malinga ndi chiphunzitso cha McLuhan cha atolankhani), kutengera kusanthula koyambira. Kafukufuku wofufuza akuwonetsa kuti pali mgwirizano pakati pa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndi vuto la kugonana lomwe limasonyeza chifukwa chake. Zomwe zapezekazi zikuchokera pa kuyankhulana 11 pamodzi ndi ma diary awiri a makanema ndi ma diary atatu a zolemba. Amunawa ali pakati pa zaka 16 ndi 52; akunena kuti kuyambitsa koyambirira kwa zolaula (nthawi zambiri panthawi yaunyamata) kumatsatiridwa ndi kumwa tsiku ndi tsiku mpaka kufika pamene zinthu zochulukirapo (monga, zinthu zachiwawa) zimafunika kuti munthu akhale ndi chilakolako chogonana. Gawo lofunika kwambiri limafika pamene chilakolako chogonana chimagwirizanitsidwa ndi zolaula zoopsa komanso zothamanga kwambiri, zomwe zimapangitsa kugonana kukhala kosasangalatsa komanso kosasangalatsa. Izi zimapangitsa kuti amuna asamakonde kugonana ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wawo weniweni, ndipo nthawi yomweyo amayamba kuchita zinthu zogonana, zomwe zathandiza kuti amuna ena ayambenso kugonana.

Chiyambi cha zotsatira zotsatira:

Nditamaliza kufufuza deta, ndaona njira zina ndi mitu yobwerezabwereza, kutsatira nkhani yotsatizana m'mafunso onse. Izi ndi izi: Chiyambi . Munthu amayamba kuonera zolaula, nthawi zambiri asanakwanitse msinkhu. Kumanga chizolowezi . Munthu amayamba kuonera zolaula nthawi zonse. Kuwonjezeka . Munthu amatembenukira ku mitundu yambiri ya zolaula, malinga ndi zomwe zili mkati, kuti akwaniritse zotsatira zomwezo zomwe zidapezeka kale kudzera mu mitundu yochepa kwambiri ya zolaula. Kuzindikira. Munthu amaona mavuto okhudzana ndi mphamvu zogonana omwe amakhulupirira kuti amayamba chifukwa cha kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Njira "yoyambiranso". Munthu amayesa kulamulira kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kapena kuzichotsa kwathunthu kuti apezenso mphamvu zogonana. Deta yochokera ku mafunsowa yaperekedwa kutengera zomwe zili pamwambapa.

7) Zobisika mu Manyazi: Zomwe Amuna Ogonana Nawo Akumana Nazo Pogwiritsa Ntchito Zolaula Zovuta (2019) - Mafunso a amuna 15 ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Amuna angapo adanenanso za chizolowezi cha zolaula, kuchuluka kwa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula, ndi mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana. Zidutswa zokhudzana ndi zovuta zogonana zomwe zimayambitsa zolaula, kuphatikiza Michael - yemwe amasintha kwambiri ntchito yake yogonana panthawi yogonana pochepetsa kwambiri kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula:

Amuna ena ankalankhula zofunafuna thandizo la akatswiri kuti athetse vuto lawo logwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Kuyesa kotereku kufunafuna thandizo sikunathandize amunawo, ndipo nthawi zina kunawonjezera manyazi. Michael, wophunzira wa ku yunivesite yemwe ankagwiritsa ntchito zolaula makamaka ngati njira yothetsera nkhawa zokhudzana ndi kafukufuku, anali ndi vuto la kusagwira ntchito bwino kwa maliseche akamagonana ndi akazi ndipo anapempha thandizo kwa Dokotala wake Wamkulu (GP):

Michael: Pamene ndinapita kwa dokotala ndili ndi zaka 19 [. . .], adandipatsa mankhwala a Viagra ndipo anati [vuto langa] linali nkhawa yokhudza momwe ndimagwirira ntchito. Nthawi zina zinkagwira ntchito, ndipo nthawi zina sizinkagwira ntchito. Kafukufuku wanga ndi kuwerenga kwake kunandisonyeza kuti vuto linali zolaula [. . .] Ngati ndipita kwa dokotala ndili mwana ndipo adandipatsa mapiritsi abuluu, ndimamva ngati palibe amene akulankhula za izi. Ayenera kufunsa za momwe ndimagwiritsira ntchito zolaula, osati kundipatsa Viagra. (23, Middle-Eastern, Wophunzira)

Chifukwa cha zomwe adakumana nazo, Michael sanabwererenso kwa dokotala uja ndipo anayamba kufufuza payekha pa intaneti. Pomaliza pake adapeza nkhani yokhudza mwamuna wazaka ngati zake yemwe akufotokoza za vuto lofanana ndi limeneli, zomwe zidamupangitsa kuganizira za zolaula ngati zomwe zingamuthandize. Atayesetsa kuchepetsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula, mavuto ake okhudzana ndi vuto la kugonana anayamba kuchepa. Ananenanso kuti ngakhale kuti nthawi zonse zomwe ankachita maliseche sizinachepe, ankangoonera zolaula pafupifupi theka la nthawi zimenezo. Mwa kuchepetsa nthawi zomwe ankagwiritsa ntchito maliseche ndi zolaula, Michael adati adatha kusintha kwambiri mphamvu zake zogonana akamagonana ndi akazi.

Phillip, monga Michael, anapempha thandizo pa vuto lina la kugonana lokhudzana ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Pankhani yake, vuto linali kuchepa kwa chilakolako chogonana . Atalankhula ndi dokotala wake za vuto lake komanso kugwirizana kwake ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula, dokotalayo akuti analibe chochita ndipo m'malo mwake adamutumiza kwa katswiri wodziwa za kubereka wamwamuna:

Phillip: Ndinapita kwa dokotala wa ana ndipo ananditumiza kwa dokotala yemwe sindinkakhulupirira kuti anali wothandiza kwambiri. Sanandipatse yankho ndipo sanali kunditenga mozama. Ndinamulipira jakisoni wa testosterone kwa milungu isanu ndi umodzi, ndipo inali $100 jakisoni, ndipo sizinathandize chilichonse . Imeneyo inali njira yawo yothetsera vuto langa logonana. Sindikuganiza kuti kukambirana kapena momwe zinthu zinalili zinali zokwanira. (29, Asian, Student)

Wofunsira: [Pofotokozera mfundo yomwe mudatchulayo, kodi izi ndi zomwe zakuchitikirani] zomwe zidakuletsani kufunafuna thandizo pambuyo pake?

Phillip: Yup.

Ma GPs ndi akatswiri omwe anafunsidwa ndi omwe adatenga nawo mbali akuwoneka kuti amangopereka mayankho a biomedical, njira yomwe yatsutsidwa m'mabuku (Tiefer, 1996). Chifukwa chake, chithandizo ndi chithandizo chomwe amunawa adatha kulandira kuchokera kwa a GP awo sichimangowonedwa kuti ndi chokwanira, komanso chinawapangitsa kuti asapeze thandizo la akatswiri. Ngakhale mayankho a biomedical akuwoneka kuti ndi yankho lotchuka kwambiri kwa madotolo (Potts, Grace, Gavey, & Vares, 2004), njira yodziwikiratu yokhudzana ndi kasitomala ikufunika, popeza zomwe anthu akuwunikira mwina ndizam'maganizo ndipo mwina zimapangidwa ndi zolaula gwiritsani.

Pomaliza, amuna adanenanso za momwe zolaula zakhudzira kugonana kwawo, zomwe zangofufuzidwa kumene m'mabuku. Mwachitsanzo, Park ndi anzake (2016) adapeza kuti kuonera zolaula pa intaneti kungagwirizane ndi kulephera kugonana, kuchepa kwa chikhutiro cha kugonana, komanso kuchepa kwa chilakolako chogonana . Ophunzira nawo mu kafukufuku wathu adanenanso za kulephera kugonana kofanana, komwe adanenanso kuti kumachitika chifukwa cha kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula . Daniel adaganizira za maubwenzi ake akale omwe sankatha kukhala ndi chilakolako chogonana. Adagwirizanitsa kulephera kugonana kwake ndi matupi a atsikana ake osayerekezeka ndi zomwe adakopeka nazo akamaonera zolaula:

A Daniel: Atsikana anzanga apitawa, ndidasiya kuwapeza atakhala kuti sizingachitike ndi munthu yemwe samawona zolaula. Ndinali ndawonapo matupi achikazi ambiri amaliseche, kuti ndimadziwa zinthu zomwe ndimakonda ndipo mumayamba kupanga mawonekedwe omveka bwino pazomwe mukufuna mwa mkazi, ndipo azimayi enieni sizili choncho. Ndipo atsikana anzanga analibe matupi angwiro ndipo ndikuganiza kuti zili bwino, koma ndikuganiza kuti zidapezeka kuti zatheka. Ndipo izi zidayambitsa mavuto mu maubale. Pali nthawi zina zomwe sindimatha kuchita zachiwerewere chifukwa sindinadzuke. (27, Pasifika, Wophunzira)

Maphunziro otsalawa adatchulidwa ndi tsiku lofalitsidwa:

8) Chitsanzo Cholamulira Zinthu Ziwiri – Udindo wa Kuletsa Kugonana ndi Chisangalalo Pachikondwerero ndi Khalidwe Logonana (2007) – Chopezekanso chatsopano komanso chokhutiritsa kwambiri. Mu kafukufuku wogwiritsa ntchito zolaula za pakompyuta, 50% ya anyamatawa sanathe kudzuka kapena kuchita chigololo ndi zolaula (zaka zapakati zinali 29). Ofufuza odabwa adapeza kuti vuto la kugonana kwa amunawa linali,

" zokhudzana ndi kuchuluka kwa anthu omwe amaonera komanso kugwiritsa ntchito zinthu zogonana molakwika. "

Amuna omwe anali ndi vuto la kugonana anali atakhala nthawi yayitali m'mabala ndi m'mabafa komwe zolaula zinali " ponseponse ," komanso " kusewera nthawi zonse ". Ofufuzawo anati:

"Kukambirana ndi anthuwa kunalimbitsa lingaliro lathu lakuti m'magawo ena, kuonera kwambiri zolaula kumawoneka kuti kwapangitsa kuti anthu asamayankhe kwambiri zolaula za "vanilla sex" komanso kuti pakhale kufunikira kwa zinthu zatsopano komanso zosiyana, nthawi zina kuphatikizapo kufunikira kwa mitundu yeniyeni ya zolimbikitsa kuti munthu ayambe kusangalala ."

9) Kukumana ndi zolaula pa intaneti (2008) - Pepala lonse, lokhala ndi milandu inayi yachipatala, lolembedwa ndi dokotala wa matenda amisala yemwe adazindikira za zotsatirapo zoyipa za zolaula pa intaneti pa odwala ake ena aamuna. Chidule chomwe chili pansipa chikufotokoza za mwamuna wazaka 31 yemwe adayamba kuchita zolaula kwambiri ndipo adayamba kukonda zolaula komanso mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana. Ili ndi limodzi mwa mapepala oyamba omwe adawunikidwa ndi anzawo omwe akuwonetsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula zomwe zimayambitsa kulekerera, kukwera, komanso zovuta zogonana:

Mwamuna wazaka 31 yemwe amagwira ntchito yofufuza zamaganizo chifukwa cha mavuto osiyanasiyana okhudza nkhawa ananena kuti anali kukumana ndi vuto lofuna kugonana ndi wokondedwa wake wapano. Atakambirana zambiri za mkaziyo, ubale wawo, mikangano yobisika kapena zomwe zili mkati mwake (popanda kupeza chifukwa chomveka bwino cha madandaulo ake), anapereka tsatanetsatane wakuti anali kudalira maloto enaake kuti akhudzidwe. Atakhumudwa pang'ono, anafotokoza "chiwonetsero" cha chiwerewere chokhudza amuna ndi akazi angapo chomwe adapeza patsamba la zolaula pa intaneti chomwe chidamukopa chidwi chake ndipo chinakhala chimodzi mwa zomwe amakonda kwambiri. Pa nthawi zingapo, adafotokoza za kugwiritsa ntchito kwake zolaula pa intaneti, ntchito yomwe adachitapo pang'ono kuyambira ali ndi zaka zapakati pa 20. Zambiri zokhudzana ndi kugwiritsa ntchito kwake ndi zotsatira zake pakapita nthawi zina zimaphatikizapo kufotokozera momveka bwino kwa kudalira kwambiri kuonera kenako kukumbukira zithunzi zolaula kuti akhudzidwe. Adafotokozanso za kukula kwa "kulekerera" zotsatira zodzutsa za zinthu zilizonse pakapita nthawi, zomwe zidatsatiridwa ndi kusaka zinthu zatsopano zomwe akanatha kukwaniritsa zomwe akufuna kale, zomwe amafuna pakugonana.

Pamene tinkawunikanso momwe ankagwiritsira ntchito zolaula, zinaonekeratu kuti mavuto omwe anali nawo ndi chibwenzi chake chamakono anali ofanana ndi momwe ankagwiritsira ntchito zolaula, pomwe "kulekerera" kwake zotsatira zake zolimbikitsa zinthu zina kunachitika kaya anali ndi chibwenzi panthawiyo kapena anali kungogwiritsa ntchito zolaula podziseweretsa maliseche. Nkhawa yake yokhudza kugonana inamupangitsa kuti azidalira kwambiri kuonera zolaula. Posadziwa kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kumeneku kwakhala kovuta, anaganiza kuti chilakolako chake chogonana ndi chibwenzi chake chinali chosayenera kwa iye, ndipo sanali pachibwenzi choposa miyezi iwiri m'zaka zoposa zisanu ndi ziwiri, kusinthana chibwenzi chimodzi ndi china monga momwe angasinthire mawebusayiti.

Ananenanso kuti tsopano akhoza kudzutsidwa ndi zolaula zomwe poyamba sanafune kugwiritsira ntchito. Mwachitsanzo, adati zaka zisanu zapitazo sanali ndi chidwi chowona zithunzi za kugonana koma tsopano anapeza zinthu zoterezi. Mofananamo, zinthu zomwe adalongosola monga "edgier," zomwe adatanthawuza kuti "zachiwawa kapena zolimbikitsana," ndizo zina zomwe zinkamupangitsa kugonana naye, pomwe zinthu zomwezo zinalibe chidwi ndipo zinkakhala zovuta. Ndi zina mwa nkhani zatsopanozi, iye adadzidetsa nkhaŵa komanso wosasangalatsa ngakhale momwe akadadzuka.

10) Kufufuza Ubale Pakati pa Kusokonezeka kwa Zolaula Panthawi ya Kuchedwa ndi Kugwiritsa Ntchito Zinthu Zolaula, Makhalidwe Ogonana Pa Intaneti, ndi Mavuto Ogonana mwa Achinyamata (2009) - Kafukufukuyu adafufuza mgwirizano pakati pa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pakali pano (zinthu zolaula - SEM) ndi mavuto ogonana, ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula panthawi ya "nthawi yochedwa" (zaka 6-12) ndi mavuto ogonana. Avereji ya zaka za ophunzira anali 22. Ngakhale kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pakali pano kumagwirizana ndi mavuto ogonana, kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula panthawi yochedwa (zaka 6-12) kunali ndi mgwirizano wamphamvu kwambiri ndi mavuto ogonana. Zidutswa zingapo:

Zomwe zapezeka zikusonyeza kuti kusokoneza chilakolako cha kugonana kudzera mu zinthu zogonana (SEM) ndi/kapena nkhanza zogonana ndi ana kungagwirizane ndi machitidwe ogonana a akuluakulu pa intaneti.

Kuphatikiza apo, zotsatira zawonetsa kuti kuwonetsedwa kwa SEM latency kunali chizindikiro chachikulu cha zovuta zogonana za akuluakulu.

Tinaganiza kuti kuwonetsedwa ku SEM yochedwa kunganeneretu kuti akuluakulu akugwiritsa ntchito SEM. Zomwe zapezeka mu kafukufukuyu zinathandizira lingaliro lathu, ndipo zinawonetsa kuti kuwonetsedwa ku SEM yochedwa kunali chizindikiro chofunikira kwambiri cha kugwiritsa ntchito SEM kwa akuluakulu. Izi zikusonyeza kuti anthu omwe adakumana ndi SEM panthawi yochedwa, akhoza kupitiriza ndi khalidweli mpaka atakula . Zomwe zapezeka mu kafukufukuyu zinawonetsanso kuti kuwonetsedwa ku SEM yochedwa kunali chizindikiro chachikulu cha machitidwe ogonana a akuluakulu pa intaneti.

11) Kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula mwachisawawa mwa anthu okwatirana achi Norway (2009) - Kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kunagwirizana ndi zovuta zambiri zogonana mwa mwamuna komanso kudziona molakwika mwa mkazi. Okwatirana omwe sanagwiritse ntchito zolaula analibe zovuta zogonana. Zidutswa zingapo kuchokera mu kafukufukuyu:

Mwa maanja omwe mnzawo m'modzi yekha ndiye adagwiritsa ntchito zolaula, tapeza mavuto ambiri okhudzana ndi kudziona ngati wokonda kugonana (mwamuna) komanso woipa (wachikazi).

M'mabanja omwe mnzawo wina ankagwiritsa ntchito zolaula, panali chilakolako chogonana. Nthawi yomweyo , maanjawa ankaoneka kuti ali ndi mavuto ambiri.

Okwatirana omwe sanagwiritse ntchito zolaula ... angaonedwe ngati achikhalidwe kwambiri poyerekeza ndi chiphunzitso cha zolemba zogonana. Nthawi yomweyo, sankaoneka kuti ali ndi vuto lililonse.

Mabanja omwe onse awiri adanenapo za zolaula amagwiritsa ntchito gulu la "positive climate" ndi " positive point" pa ntchito ya "Dysfunctions".

12) Kudalira zolaula pa intaneti: mawu okhumudwitsa m'gulu la anthu odzithandiza pa intaneti ku Italy (2009) - Kafukufukuyu akufotokoza za kusanthula kwa nkhani ya mauthenga zikwi ziwiri olembedwa ndi mamembala 302 a gulu lodzithandiza la ku Italy la anthu odalira pa intaneti (noallapornodipendenza). Linapeza mauthenga 400 chaka chilichonse (2003–2007). Zidutswa zokhudzana ndi zovuta zogonana zomwe zimayambitsa zolaula:

Kwa ambiri mikhalidwe yawo ndi yokumbutsa kukhululukidwa komwe kumalamulidwa ndi magawo atsopano a kulolerana. Ambiri aiwo amafunafuna zithunzi zowoneka bwino, zodabwitsa komanso zachiwawa, kugona nyama kuphatikizidwa….

Mamembala ambiri amadandaula za kuwonjezeka kwa kusabereka komanso kusowa kwa umuna , zomwe zimawapangitsa kukhala ngati “munthu wakufa akuyenda ” (“vivalavita” #5014). Chitsanzo chotsatirachi chikuwonetsa momwe amaonera zinthu (“sul” #4411).

Ambiri mwa omwe adatenga nawo mbali adati nthawi zambiri amakhala maola ambiri akuyang'ana ndikusonkhanitsa zithunzi ndi makanema akugwira mbolo yawo yolunjika m'manja mwawo, osatha kutulutsa umuna, akuyembekezera chithunzi chomaliza komanso choopsa kuti atulutse kupsinjika. Kwa ambiri kutulutsa umuna komaliza kumathetsa kuzunza kwawo (supplizio) ("incercadiliberta" #5026)…

Mavuto m'maubwenzi a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi ofala kwambiri. Anthu amadandaula kuti ali ndi vuto la kukhwima, kusowa kugonana ndi akazi kapena amuna awo, kusowa chidwi chogonana, kumva ngati munthu amene wadya chakudya chotentha komanso chokometsera, ndipo motero sangathe kudya chakudya wamba. Nthawi zambiri, monga momwe okwatirana omwe ali ndi anthu odalira pa intaneti amanenera, pali zizindikiro za vuto la kugonana kwa amuna lomwe limachititsa kuti munthu asatuluke umuna panthawi yogonana . Kuzindikira kumeneku kwa kufooka kwa chilakolako muubwenzi wogonana kwafotokozedwa bwino mu ndime yotsatirayi ("vivaleiene" #6019):

Mlungu watha ndinali ndi ubale wapamtima ndi chibwenzi changa; Palibe choipa konse, ngakhale kuti nditatha kupsompsona koyamba sindinamverepo kanthu. Sitinatsirize kugwirana chifukwa sindinkafuna.

Ambiri mwa ophunzirawo adakondwera kwambiri ndi "kugonana pa mzere" kapena "kukhudzana ndi telematic" m'malo momakhudza thupi, komanso kuwonetsa zolaula m'maganizo mwawo, panthawi yogona komanso kugonana.

Monga momwe zanenedwera, kunena kuti pali vuto lenileni la kugonana kumabwerezedwanso ndi maumboni ambiri ochokera kwa akazi okwatirana . Komanso mitundu ya mgwirizano ndi kuipitsidwa imawonekera m'nkhani izi. Nazi zina mwa ndemanga zodabwitsa kwambiri za akazi okwatirana awa…

Mauthenga ambiri otumizidwa ku gulu lodzithandiza la ku Italy amasonyeza kuti anthu omwe akutenga nawo mbali ali ndi matenda, malinga ndi chitsanzo cha luso (m'moyo weniweni), kusintha kwa malingaliro, kulolerana, zizindikiro zosiya kuchita zinthu zina komanso mikangano pakati pa anthu , chitsanzo chodziwitsa matenda chomwe chinapangidwa ndi Griffiths (2004).

13) Chilakolako Chogonana, osati Kugonana Kwambiri, Chimakhudzana ndi Mayankho a Mitsempha Yokhudzana ndi Zithunzi Zogonana (2013) - Kafukufuku wa EEG uyu adalengezedwa m'manyuzipepala ngati umboni wotsutsa kukhalapo kwa chizolowezi chogonana ndi zolaula. Sizili choncho . Steele et al . 2013 kwenikweni amalimbikitsa kukhalapo kwa chizolowezi chogonana ndi zolaula komanso kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula molakwika. Kodi zingatheke bwanji? Kafukufukuyu adanenanso kuti ma EEG ambiri (poyerekeza ndi zithunzi zosalowerera) pamene anthu adawonetsedwa mwachidule pazithunzi zolaula. Kafukufuku nthawi zonse amasonyeza kuti P300 yokwera imachitika pamene anthu omwe ali ndi vutoli amawonetsedwa ndi zizindikiro (monga zithunzi) zokhudzana ndi chizolowezi chawo.

Mogwirizana ndi kafukufuku wa ubongo wa ku Cambridge University , kafukufuku wa EEG uyu adanenanso kuti zolaula zimakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi chilakolako chochepa chogonana ndi anthu okwatirana . Kunena kwina - anthu omwe ali ndi ubongo wokonda kwambiri zolaula amakonda kudziseweretsa maliseche m'malo mogonana ndi munthu weniweni. Chodabwitsa n'chakuti, wolankhulira kafukufukuyu Nicole Prause adati ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula anali ndi "chilakolako chachikulu," koma zotsatira za kafukufukuyu zikunena zosiyana kwambiri (chilakolako cha anthu ogonana ndi anthu okwatirana chinali kuchepa poyerekeza ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula).

Zonsezi pamodzi zomwe Steele et al. adapeza zikuwonetsa kuti ubongo umagwira ntchito kwambiri pazinthu (zithunzi zolaula), koma kuchitira zinthu zochepa ku mphotho zachilengedwe (kugonana ndi munthu). Kuzindikira ndi kuletsa kukhudzidwa ndi zinthu, zomwe ndi zizindikiro za chizolowezi. Mapepala asanu ndi atatu owunikidwa ndi anzawo akufotokoza zoona: Onaninso izi ndemanga yayikulu ya YBOP.

14) Kapangidwe ka Ubongo ndi Kulumikizana Kogwira Ntchito Kogwirizana ndi Zithunzi Zolaula Kugwiritsa Ntchito: Ubongo pa Zolaula (2014) - Kafukufuku wa Max Planck yemwe adapeza kusintha kwakukulu kwa ubongo kokhudzana ndi chizolowezi komwe kumagwirizana ndi kuchuluka kwa zolaula zomwe zimadyedwa. Inapezanso kuti zolaula zambiri zikamadya kwambiri, ntchito yocheperako ya circuit yolandira mphotho chifukwa chowonera mwachidule (masekondi .530) zolaula za vanila. Mu nkhani ya 2014, wolemba wamkulu Simone Kühn adati :

" Tikuganiza kuti anthu omwe amaonera zolaula zambiri amafunika kulimbikitsidwa kwambiri kuti alandire mphotho yofanana. Izi zikutanthauza kuti kuonera zolaula nthawi zonse kumawononga dongosolo lanu la mphotho. Zimenezo zikugwirizana bwino ndi lingaliro lakuti machitidwe awo a mphotho amafunika kulimbikitsidwa kwambiri ."

Kufotokozera kwaukadaulo kwa kafukufukuyu kuchokera ku ndemanga ya mabuku a Kuhn & Gallinat - Neurobiological Basis of Hypersexuality (2016).

"Maola ambiri omwe ophunzira adanena kuti akudya zolaula, kuyankha kolimba mtima mu putamen yakumanzere kumachepetsanso chifukwa cha zithunzi zogonana. Komanso, tapeza kuti maola ambiri omwe amathera akuonera zolaula amagwirizanitsidwa ndi kuchuluka kwa imvi mu striatum, makamaka mu caudate yoyenera yomwe imafika mu ventral putamen. Tikuganiza kuti kuchepa kwa voliyumu ya ubongo kungawonetse zotsatira za kulolerana pambuyo posiya kukhudzidwa ndi zogonana ."

15) Ma Neural Correlates a Sexual Cue Reactivity mwa Anthu Omwe Ali ndi ndi Opanda Makhalidwe Ogonana Okakamiza (2014) - Kafukufuku wa fMRI uyu wopangidwa ndi Cambridge University adapeza kukhudzidwa kwa anthu omwe ali ndi zizolowezi zolaula zomwe zimawonetsa kukhudzidwa kwa anthu omwe ali ndi zizolowezi zolaula. Unapezanso kuti anthu omwe ali ndi zizolowezi zolaula amafanana ndi njira yovomerezeka yoledzera yofuna "zambiri", koma osakonda "zambiri". Ofufuzawo adanenanso kuti 60% ya anthu (azaka zapakati: 25) anali ndi vuto lopeza chilakolako chogonana / kukondana ndi anzawo enieni chifukwa chogwiritsa ntchito zolaula , koma amatha kupeza chilakolako chogonana ndi zolaula. Kuchokera mu kafukufukuyu ("CSB" ndi machitidwe ogonana okakamiza):

"Omwe adafunsidwa za CSB adanenanso kuti chifukwa chogwiritsa ntchito kwambiri zinthu zolaula ... [iwo] adachepetsa chilakolako cha kugonana kapena ntchito yogonana makamaka muubwenzi wakuthupi ndi akazi (ngakhale kuti sizikugwirizana ndi zinthu zolaula )"

"Poyerekeza ndi odzipereka athanzi, anthu omwe ali ndi CSB anali ndi chilakolako chachikulu chogonana kapena kufuna zizindikiro zoonekeratu ndipo anali ndi ziwonetsero zambiri zokonda zizindikiro zogonana, motero kusonyeza kusiyana pakati pa kufuna ndi kukonda. Anthu omwe ali ndi CSB analinso ndi zovuta zambiri zokhudzana ndi chilakolako chogonana komanso zovuta zogonana muubwenzi wapamtima koma osati ndi zinthu zogonana zomwe zikusonyeza kuti ziwonetsero zowonjezeka za chilakolako zinali zenizeni pa zizindikiro zoonekeratu osati chilakolako chogonana chowonjezeka."

16) Kusintha kwa Zomwe Zili ndi Mphamvu Zabwino Posachedwa Pogwiritsa Ntchito Zithunzi Zogonana mu Ogwiritsa Ntchito Mavuto ndi Zowongolera Zosagwirizana ndi "Zolaula Zolaula" (2015) - Kafukufuku wachiwiri wa EEG wochokera ku gulu la Nicole Prause . Kafukufukuyu anayerekeza maphunziro a 2013 ochokera kwa Steele et al ., 2013 ndi gulu lenileni lolamulira (koma linali ndi zolakwika zomwezo zomwe zatchulidwa pamwambapa). Zotsatira zake: Poyerekeza ndi zowongolera "anthu omwe akukumana ndi mavuto owongolera kuonera kwawo zolaula" anali ndi mayankho ochepa muubongo akamawona zithunzi za vanilla porn n kwa sekondi imodzi. Wolemba wamkulu akuti zotsatirazi " zikutsutsa chizolowezi cha zolaula ." Ndi wasayansi wovomerezeka uti amene anganene kuti kafukufuku wawo wokhawo wosadziwika bwino wathetsa gawo lodziwika bwino la kafukufuku?

Zoonadi, zomwe zapezeka mu Prause et al. 2015 zikugwirizana bwino ndi Kühn & Gallina t (2014) , zomwe zapeza kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula zambiri kumagwirizana ndi kuchepa kwa mphamvu ya ubongo poyankha zithunzi za zolaula za vanilla. Prause et al . zomwe zapezeka zikugwirizananso ndi Banca et al. 2015. Komanso, kafukufuku wina wa EEG adapeza kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kwambiri mwa akazi kumagwirizana ndi kuchepa kwa mphamvu ya ubongo ku zolaula. Kuwerenga kochepa kwa EEG kumatanthauza kuti anthu sakuyang'ana kwambiri zithunzizo. Mwachidule, ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula nthawi zambiri analibe chidwi ndi zithunzi zosasinthika za zolaula za vanilla. Anali otopa (ozoloŵera kapena osowa chidwi). Onani ndemanga yayikulu ya YBOP iyi . Mapepala asanu ndi anayi omwe adawunikidwa ndi anzawo amavomereza kuti kafukufukuyu adapezadi kuti kufooka / chizolowezi mwa ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula nthawi zambiri (zogwirizana ndi chizolowezi): Ndemanga zowunikidwa ndi anzawo za Prause et al ., 2015

17) Achinyamata ndi zolaula pa intaneti: nthawi yatsopano yogonana (2015) - Kafukufuku waku Italy uyu adasanthula zotsatira za zolaula pa intaneti kwa omaliza sukulu ya sekondale, wolembedwa ndi pulofesa wa urology Carlo Foresta , purezidenti wa Italian Society of Reproductive Pathophysiology. Chosangalatsa kwambiri ndichakuti 16% ya omwe amaonera zolaula kangapo pa sabata amanena kuti chilakolako chogonana ndi chochepa kwambiri poyerekeza ndi 0% mwa omwe sagula (ndi 6% kwa omwe amadya zochepa pa sabata). Kuchokera mu kafukufukuyu:

"21.9% amafotokoza izi ngati chizolowezi, 10% amafotokoza kuti zimachepetsa chilakolako chogonana ndi anthu omwe angakhale nawo pa moyo weniweni , ndipo ena onse, 9.1% amafotokoza kuti ali ndi vuto la chizolowezi. Kuphatikiza apo, 19% ya ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula amanena kuti ali ndi vuto logonana losazolowereka, pomwe chiwerengerocho chinakwera kufika pa 25.1% pakati pa ogula wamba."

18) Makhalidwe a Odwala Malinga ndi Mtundu wa Kutumiza kwa Hypersexual: Kuwunikanso Tchati Chochuluka cha Milandu 115 Yotsatizana ya Amuna (2015) - Kafukufuku wokhudza amuna (azaka zapakati pa 41.5) omwe ali ndi matenda a hypersexual, monga paraphilias, kuseweretsa maliseche kosatha kapena chigololo. Amuna 27 adatchulidwa kuti ndi "odziteteza podziseweretsa maliseche," zomwe zikutanthauza kuti adaseweretsa maliseche (nthawi zambiri ndikugwiritsa ntchito zolaula) ola limodzi kapena angapo patsiku, kapena maola opitilira 7 pa sabata. 71% ya amuna omwe adaseweretsa maliseche nthawi zonse adanena kuti ali ndi mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana, ndipo 33% adanenanso kuti adachedwa kutulutsa umuna (zomwe zimayambitsa ED yoyambitsidwa ndi zolaula).

Kodi amuna otsala 38% ali ndi vuto lotani lokhudza kugonana? Kafukufukuyu sakunena, ndipo olembawo anyalanyaza zopempha zambiri mobwerezabwereza. Zosankha ziwiri zazikulu za vuto la kugonana kwa amuna ndi vuto la kugonana komanso kuchepa kwa chilakolako chogonana. Tiyenera kudziwa kuti amunawo sanafunsidwe za momwe amagwirira ntchito popanda zolaula. Izi, ngati zochita zawo zonse zogonana zikuphatikiza kuseweretsa maliseche, osati kugonana ndi mnzawo, sangazindikire kuti anali ndi vuto la kugonana chifukwa cha zolaula. (Pazifukwa zomwe iye yekha amadziwa, Prause akunena kuti pepalali likutsutsa kukhalapo kwa vuto la kugonana chifukwa cha zolaula.)

19) Moyo Wogonana wa Amuna ndi Kuonera Zolaula Mobwerezabwereza. Nkhani Yatsopano? (2015) - Zidule:

Akatswiri a zamaganizo amaganizo ayenera kuganizira zotsatira za zolaula zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pazochitika za kugonana amuna, amuna ogonana ndi zikhalidwe zina zokhudzana ndi kugonana. M'kupita kwa nthawi zolaula zimawoneka kuti zimayambitsa zolaula, makamaka kuti munthu sangakwanitse kufika pachibwenzi ndi mnzake. Wina yemwe amathera nthawi zambiri kugonana kwake podziteteza pakhomo pamene akuwonera zolaula amachititsa ubongo wake kubwereza zachiwerewere (Doidge, 2007) kotero kuti posachedwa adzafunikira zokopa zowona kuti akwaniritse.

Zizindikiro zosiyana siyana za zolaula, monga kufunika kokhala ndi mnzanu pakuwonerera zolaula, kuvutika kofikira, kufunika kwa zithunzi zolaula kuti zithetse mavuto. Zizolowezi zimenezi zokhudzana ndi kugonana zingapitirire kwa miyezi kapena zaka ndipo zingakhale zomaganizo ndi thupi zogwirizana ndi kuwonongeka kwa erectile, ngakhale kuti sikutayika kwa thupi. Chifukwa cha chisokonezo ichi, chomwe chimapangitsa manyazi, manyazi ndi kukana, anthu ambiri amakana kukumana ndi katswiri

Zithunzi zolaula zimapereka njira yophweka kwambiri kuti tipeze chisangalalo popanda kunena zina mwazinthu zomwe zakhudzana ndi kugonana kwa anthu pambiri ya anthu. Ubongo umapanga njira yina yothetsera kugonana yomwe siiphatikizapo "munthu weniweni" kuchokera ku equation. Kuwonjezera apo, kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula kwa nthawi yaitali kumapangitsa amuna kukhala ovuta kwambiri kupeza mwayi wokhala ndi abwenzi awo.

20) Kuseweretsa maliseche ndi zolaula zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pakati pa amuna okwatirana omwe ali ndi chilakolako chocheperako cha kugonana: Kodi kuseweretsa maliseche ndi ntchito zingati? (2015) - Kuseweretsa maliseche kunali kogwirizana ndi kuchepa kwa chilakolako chogonana komanso ubale wopanda ubwenzi.

Pakati pa amuna omwe ankadziseweretsa maliseche pafupipafupi, 70% ankagwiritsa ntchito zolaula kamodzi pa sabata. Kafukufuku wochitidwa ndi anthu ambiri anasonyeza kuti kutopa ndi kugonana, kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pafupipafupi, komanso kusakondana kwambiri ndi amuna ena kunawonjezera mwayi woti amuna omwe ali ndi chilakolako chogonana azidziseweretsa maliseche pafupipafupi anali ndi chilakolako chochepa chogonana.

Pakati pa amuna [omwe ali ndi chilakolako chochepa chogonana] omwe ankagwiritsa ntchito zolaula kamodzi pa sabata [mu 2011], 26.1% adanena kuti sanathe kuwongolera kugwiritsa ntchito kwawo zolaula . Kuphatikiza apo, 26.7% ya amuna adanenanso kuti kugwiritsa ntchito kwawo zolaula kunakhudza kwambiri kugonana kwawo ndi okondedwa awo ndipo 21.1% adati anayesa kusiya kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula.

21) Kulephera Kugonana, Kusasangalala, ndi Kugonana Kwambiri Pakati pa Amuna Okwatirana Ochokera Kumayiko Awiri ku Ulaya (2015) - Kafukufukuyu adawonetsa mgwirizano wamphamvu pakati pa kulephera kugonana bwino ndi miyeso ya kugonana kwambiri. Kafukufukuyu sanatchule deta yokhudzana ndi kugonana pakati pa kugwiritsidwa ntchito kwa kugonana ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula, koma adawona mgwirizano wofunikira. Chidule:

Pakati pa amuna aku Croatia ndi aku Germany, kugonana mopitirira muyeso kunkagwirizana kwambiri ndi kusakhala ndi chilakolako chogonana komanso mavuto ambiri okhudzana ndi ntchito yogonana.

22) Kuwunika Pa intaneti kwa Makhalidwe a Munthu, Maganizo, ndi Kugonana Ogwirizana ndi Khalidwe Lodzidziwitsa Lokha la Hypersexual (2015) - Kafukufuku adafotokoza mutu wofanana womwe umapezeka m'maphunziro ena angapo omwe atchulidwa pano: Anthu omwe ali ndi zizolowezi zolaula/zogonana amanena kuti amakonda kwambiri kugonana (zilakolako zokhudzana ndi chizolowezi chawo) komanso kusagwira bwino ntchito zogonana (kuopa kukumana ndi vuto la erectile dysfunction).

Khalidwe logonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha "likuyimira kulephera kudziletsa pakugonana. Kuti mufufuze za machitidwe ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, zitsanzo zapadziko lonse lapansi za 510 zomwe zimadziwika kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, komanso amuna kapena akazi okhaokha adamaliza kulemba batri law mafunso osadziwika pa intaneti.

Motero, detayo inasonyeza kuti khalidwe la hypersexual ndilofala kwambiri kwa amuna, ndipo omwe amanena kuti ndi aang'ono , amakhala ndi chilakolako chogonana mosavuta, amakhala odziletsa kwambiri chifukwa cha chiopsezo cha kulephera kuchita bwino , amakhala odziletsa kwambiri chifukwa cha chiopsezo cha zotsatira za kuchita bwino, komanso amakhala opupuluma, oda nkhawa, komanso ovutika maganizo.

23) Zochita zogonana pa intaneti: Kafukufuku wofufuza za njira zovuta komanso zopanda vuto zogwiritsira ntchito mwa chitsanzo cha amuna (2016) - Kafukufuku waku Belgium wochokera ku yunivesite yotsogola yofufuza adapeza kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti molakwika kumalumikizidwa ndi kuchepa kwa ntchito yogonana komanso kuchepa kwa kukhutira kwathunthu. Komabe ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula movutikira adakumana ndi zilakolako zazikulu. Kafukufukuyu akuwoneka kuti akunena za kukwera, chifukwa 49% ya amunawo adawona zolaula zomwe " sizinali zosangalatsa kwa iwo kale kapena zomwe amaona kuti ndi zonyansa ." (Onani maphunziro omwe akunena za chizolowezi/kusiya kuonera zolaula komanso kukwera kwa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula) Zidule:

" Kafukufukuyu ndiye woyamba kufufuza mwachindunji ubale womwe ulipo pakati pa zovuta zogonana ndi kutenga nawo mbali pamavuto a OSA . Zotsatira zake zikuwonetsa kuti chilakolako chachikulu chogonana, kukhutitsidwa kocheperako kwa kugonana, komanso kuchepa kwa ntchito yogonana zinali zogwirizana ndi ma OSA ovuta (zochita zogonana pa intaneti). Zotsatirazi zitha kulumikizidwa ndi zomwe zaphunziridwa kale zomwe zimafotokoza kuchuluka kwa kudzuka komwe kumagwirizana ndi zizindikiro za chizolowezi chogonana (Bancroft & Vukadinovic, 2004; Laier et al., 2013; Muise et al., 2013)."

Kuwonjezera pamenepo, potsiriza timakhala ndi phunziro lomwe limapempha ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula za kutheka kwa kukula kwa mitundu yambiri yolaula. Tangoganizirani zomwe zapeza?

“ Makumi anayi mphambu asanu ndi anayi pa zana aliwonse adanena kuti nthawi zina amafufuza zinthu zogonana kapena kuchita nawo ma OSA omwe sanali osangalatsa kwa iwo kale kapena omwe amawaona ngati onyansa, ndipo 61.7% adanenanso kuti nthawi zina ma OSA anali okhudzana ndi manyazi kapena kudzimva kuti ndi olakwa.”

Zindikirani - Iyi ndi kafukufuku woyamba kufufuza mwachindunji ubale pakati pa zovuta zogonana ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula zovuta. Maphunziro ena awiri omwe amati adafufuza ubale pakati pa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndi magwiridwe antchito a erectile adaphatikiza deta kuchokera ku maphunziro akale poyesa kulephera kutsutsa ED yoyambitsidwa ndi zolaula. Onse awiri adatsutsidwa m'mabuku owunikidwa ndi anzawo: pepala #1 silinali kafukufuku weniweni, ndipo latsutsidwa kwathunthu ; pepala #2 kwenikweni lapeza mgwirizano womwe umathandizira zovuta zogonana zomwe zimayambitsa zolaula. Kuphatikiza apo, pepala lachiwiri linali "kulankhulana kwakanthawi" komwe sikunanene zambiri zofunika zomwe olembawo adanena pamsonkhano wa sexology.

24) Zotsatira za kugwiritsa ntchito zinthu zogonana pa ubale wachikondi (2016) - Monga momwe zilili ndi maphunziro ena ambiri, ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula okha amanena kuti ubale wawo ndi wosauka komanso kukhutira ndi kugonana. Chidule:

Makamaka, maanja, komwe palibe amene adagwiritsa ntchito, adanenanso kuti anali okhutira kwambiri ndi ubale wawo kuposa maanja omwe anali ndi ogwiritsa ntchito payekhapayekha. Izi zikugwirizana ndi kafukufuku wakale ( Cooper et al., 1999 ; Manning, 2006 ), zomwe zikusonyeza kuti kugwiritsa ntchito SEM kokha kumabweretsa zotsatirapo zoyipa.

Pogwiritsa ntchito njira ya Pornography Consumption Effect Scale (PCES), kafukufukuyu adapeza kuti kugwiritsa ntchito kwambiri zolaula kunali kogwirizana ndi ntchito yogonana yoipa, mavuto ambiri okhudzana ndi kugonana, komanso "moyo wogonana woipa kwambiri". Chidule chofotokoza mgwirizano pakati pa mafunso a "Zotsatira Zoyipa" a PCES pa "Moyo Wogonana" ndi kuchuluka kwa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula:

Panalibe kusiyana kwakukulu kwa Negative Effect Dimension PCES pa kuchuluka kwa kugwiritsa ntchito zinthu zogonana; komabe, apa panali kusiyana kwakukulu pa gawo la Sex Life komwe High Frequency Porn Users inanena za zotsatirapo zoyipa kwambiri kuposa Low Frequency Porn Users.

25) Kusintha kwa Chilakolako cha Kugonana ndi Kulumikizana kwa Mitsempha mwa Anthu Omwe Ali ndi Khalidwe Logonana Lokakamiza (2016) - "Makhalidwe Ogonana Okakamiza" (CSB) amatanthauza kuti amunawa anali okonda zolaula, chifukwa anthu omwe anali ndi CSB anali kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pafupifupi maola 20 pa sabata. Anthu omwe anali ndi CSB anali ndi mphindi 29 pa sabata. Chochititsa chidwi n'chakuti, anthu atatu mwa anthu 20 a CSB adatchula kwa omwe adawafunsa mafunso kuti anali ndi "vuto la orgasmic-erection disorder," pomwe palibe aliyense wa anthu omwe anali ndi CSB amene adanena za mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana.

26) Njira zolumikizirana pakati pa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndi kuchepetsa kukhutitsidwa ndi kugonana (2017) - Kafukufukuyu akupezeka m'ndandanda zonse ziwiri. Ngakhale kuti akugwirizanitsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndi kuchepetsa kukhutitsidwa ndi kugonana, adanenanso kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pafupipafupi kunali kogwirizana ndi zomwe anthu amakonda (kapena zomwe akufuna?) pa zolaula kuposa anthu kuti akwaniritse chilakolako chogonana. Chidule:

Pomaliza, tapeza kuti kuonera zolaula pafupipafupi kunali kogwirizana mwachindunji ndi zomwe munthu amakonda pa zolaula osati chilakolako chogonana ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi. Ophunzira mu kafukufukuyu adagwiritsa ntchito zolaula podziseweretsa maliseche. Chifukwa chake, izi zitha kukhala chizindikiro cha chizolowezi chodziseweretsa maliseche (Cline, 1994; Malamuth, 1981; Wright, 2011). Nthawi zambiri zithunzi zolaula zimagwiritsidwa ntchito ngati chida chodziseweretsa maliseche, munthu amatha kukonda zolaula mosiyana ndi zina zomwe zimayambitsa chilakolako chogonana.

27) “Ndikuganiza kuti zakhala ndi vuto lalikulu m'njira zambiri koma nthawi yomweyo sindingathe kusiya kuzigwiritsa ntchito”: Kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula molakwika pakati pa achinyamata aku Australia (2017) – Kafukufuku wa pa intaneti wa anthu aku Australia, azaka zapakati pa 15-29. Anthu omwe adaonerapo zolaula (n=856) adafunsidwa funso lotseguka: 'Kodi zolaula zakhudza bwanji moyo wanu?'.

Pakati pa ophunzira omwe adayankha funso lotseguka (n=718), kugwiritsa ntchito molakwika kunadziwika ndi omwe adayankha 88. Amuna omwe adalembapo za kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula molakwika adawonetsa zotsatirapo m'magawo atatu: pa kugonana, chilakolako cha kugonana komanso maubwenzi. Mayankho adaphatikizapo "Ndikuganiza kuti zakhala ndi mphamvu zoyipa m'njira zambiri koma nthawi yomweyo sindingathe kusiya kuzigwiritsa ntchito" (Mwamuna, Wazaka 18-19). Azimayi ena omwe adalembapo nawonso adanenanso kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kumakhala ndi vuto, ndipo ambiri mwa iwo adanenanso za malingaliro oipa monga kudzimva kuti ndili ndi mlandu komanso manyazi, zotsatira za chilakolako chogonana komanso zilakolako zokhudzana ndi kugwiritsa ntchito kwawo zolaula. Mwachitsanzo, monga momwe mayi wina adanenera; "Zimandipangitsa kumva kuti ndine wolakwa, ndipo ndikuyesera kusiya. Sindikonda momwe ndimamvera kuti ndikufunikira kuti ndiyambe, sizothandiza." (Mwakazi, Wazaka 18-19)

28) Zomwe zimayambitsa vuto la kugonana mwa anyamata komanso zamaganizo (2017) - Ndemanga yofotokoza nkhani, yokhala ndi gawo lotchedwa "Ntchito ya Zithunzi Zolaula mu Kutaya Kuchedwa (DE)". Chidule cha gawoli:

Udindo wa Zithunzi Zolaula ku DE

M'zaka khumi zapitazi, kuwonjezeka kwakukulu kwa kufalikira ndi kupezeka kwa zolaula pa intaneti kwapereka zifukwa zambiri za DE zokhudzana ndi chiphunzitso chachiwiri ndi chachitatu cha Althof. Malipoti ochokera mu 2008 adapeza kuti pafupifupi anyamata 14.4% adakumana ndi zolaula asanakwanitse zaka 13 ndipo 5.2% ya anthu amaonera zolaula tsiku lililonse.76 Kafukufuku wa 2016 adawonetsa kuti makhalidwe awa onse adakwera kufika pa 48.7% ndi 13.2%, motsatana.76 Ukalamba woyambirira wa kuwonetsedwa zolaula umathandizira DE kudzera mu ubale wake ndi odwala omwe ali ndi CSB. Voon et al. adapeza kuti anyamata omwe ali ndi CSB adawona zinthu zolaula ali achichepere kuposa anzawo athanzi omwe amalamulidwa ndi ukalamba.75 Monga tanenera kale, anyamata omwe ali ndi CSB amatha kugwidwa ndi chiphunzitso chachitatu cha DE cha Althof ndipo amasankha kuseweretsa maliseche m'malo mogonana ndi anthu okwatirana chifukwa chosowa chilakolako muubwenzi. Chiwerengero chowonjezeka cha amuna omwe amaonera zolaula tsiku lililonse chimathandizanso DE kudzera mu chiphunzitso chachitatu cha Althof. Mu kafukufuku wa ophunzira aku koleji 487 aamuna, Sun et al. adapeza mgwirizano pakati pa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndi kuchepa kwa chisangalalo chodziwonetsa cha machitidwe ogonana ndi okondedwa enieni.76 Anthu awa ali pachiwopsezo chachikulu chosankha kudziseweretsa maliseche m'malo mogonana, monga momwe zasonyezedwera mu lipoti la mlandu wa Park et al. Mnyamata wazaka 20 yemwe adalembetsedwa anali ndi vuto lopeza chilakolako chogonana ndi chibwenzi chake kwa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi yapitayo. Mbiri yokhudza kugonana mwatsatanetsatane idavumbulutsa kuti wodwalayo amadalira zolaula za pa intaneti ndikugwiritsa ntchito chidole chogonana chomwe chimafotokozedwa ngati "maliseche abodza" kuti adziseweretse maliseche pamene akusewera. Pakapita nthawi, adafuna zinthu zomwe zimakhala zowoneka bwino kapena zachiwerewere kuposa kufika pachimake. Adavomereza kuti adapeza chibwenzi chake chokongola koma ankakonda kumva ngati chidole chake chifukwa adapeza kuti chimalimbikitsa kwambiri kugonana kwenikweni.77 Kuwonjezeka kwa kupezeka kwa zolaula pa intaneti kumaika anyamata achichepere pachiwopsezo chotenga DE kudzera mu chiphunzitso chachiwiri cha Althof, monga momwe zasonyezedwera mu lipoti lotsatirali: Bronner et al. adafunsa mwamuna wathanzi wazaka 35 yemwe akuwonetsa madandaulo akuti sakufuna kugonana ndi chibwenzi chake ngakhale kuti amakopeka naye m'maganizo komanso m'maganizo. Mbiri yokhudza kugonana inavumbulutsa kuti izi zinachitika ndi akazi 20 apitawa omwe anayesa kukhala nawo pachibwenzi. Ananena kuti kugwiritsa ntchito kwambiri zolaula kuyambira ali mwana zomwe poyamba zinali zoophilia, ukapolo, sadism, ndi masochism, koma pamapeto pake zinapita patsogolo kukhala kugonana kwa anthu osintha chigololo, maphwando, ndi kugonana kwachiwawa. Ankaganiza za zithunzi zolaula m'maganizo mwake kuti agone ndi akazi, koma pang'onopang'ono zimenezo zinasiya kugwira ntchito.74 Kusiyana pakati pa malingaliro a zolaula a wodwalayo ndi moyo weniweni kunakhala kwakukulu kwambiri, zomwe zinapangitsa kuti chilakolako chichepe. Malinga ndi Althof, izi zidzaonekera ngati DE mwa odwala ena.73 Mutu wobwerezabwerezawu wofuna zithunzi zolaula zomwe zimakhala ndi zithunzi zambiri kapena zachiwerewere kuti zifike pachimake umatanthauzidwa ndi Park et al. ngati kuchita zinthu mopitirira muyeso . Pamene mwamuna akuyamba kukonda zolaula, kugonana m'moyo weniweni sikuyambitsanso njira zoyenera za mitsempha kuti atulutse umuna (kapena kupanga kukhazikika kosatha pankhani ya ED).77

29) Zithunzi zolaula zikuwononga thanzi ndi maubwenzi, malinga ndi kafukufuku wa Brno's University Hospital (2018) - Zili mu Chicheki. Tsamba ili la YBOP lili ndi nkhani yayifupi yofalitsidwa mu Chingerezi komanso kumasulira kosavuta kwa Google kwa nkhani yayitali yofalitsidwa kuchokera patsamba la chipatala. Zidutswa zingapo kuchokera ku nkhani yofalitsidwa:

Kuwonjezeka kwa kugwiritsidwa ntchito ndi kuwonetsa zolaula kumawononga kwambiri machitidwe abwino komanso ngakhale thanzi la anyamata, malinga ndi kafukufuku amene adawamasula Lolemba ndi Brno's University Hospital.

Iwo adati anyamata ambiri anali osakonzekera ubale weniweni chifukwa cha nthano zowonongeka zomwe anali kuziwona. Amuna ambiri atayang'anitsitsa ndi zolaula sakanakhoza kulimbitsa mu chiyanjano, phunziroli linawonjezera. Lipotilo linati, "Maganizo ndi ngakhale chithandizo chamankhwala ankafunika.

Ku Sexological Department of The Faculty Hospital ku Brno, timapezanso maulendo ambiri omwe amapezeka achinyamata omwe satha kuchita zachiwerewere chifukwa cha zolaula, kapena kukhazikitsa ubale.

Zowona kuti zolaula sizongokhala "kusiyanasiyana" kwa moyo wogonana koma nthawi zambiri zimakhudza mtundu wazakugonana zimatsimikiziridwa ndi kuchuluka kwa odwala mu Gawo Lachiwerewere la Chipatala cha Brno University omwe, chifukwa chakuwunika mopitirira muyeso zosayenera zokhudzana ndi kugonana, akulowa m'mavuto azaubwenzi.

Pakati pazaka zapakati, amuna ndi akazi m'malo mwa kugonana ndi zolaula (kuseweretsa maliseche kumapezeka nthawi iliyonse, mwachangu, popanda malingaliro, kuthupi kapena chuma). Nthawi yomweyo, kukhudzidwa ndi zoyipa zenizeni (zenizeni) zogonana zomwe zimaphatikizidwa ndi chiopsezo chokhala ndi zovuta zokhudzana ndi kugonana zomwe zimangogwirizana ndi mnzanu zimachepa kwambiri pakuwunika zolaula. Uwu ndi chiopsezo chokhala pachibwenzi komanso kuyandikira muubwenzi, mwachitsanzo, kupatukana kwamaganizidwe a anzanu, kufunika kogonana pa intaneti kukukulira pang'onopang'ono - chiopsezo cha kuledzera kumawonjezeka, komaliza, kugonana kungasinthe mwamphamvu komanso Zithunzi zolaula sizokwanira, ndipo anthuwa amapotoza (mwachitsanzo, sado-masochistic kapena zoophilous).

Chotsatira chake, kuyang'ana mwakuya zolaula kungayambitse chizoloŵezi chogonjetsa, chomwe chikuwonetsedwa ndi kusokonezeka kwa kugonana, chisokonezo cha maubwenzi omwe amachititsa kukhala paokha, kusokoneza maganizo, kapena kunyalanyaza maudindo a ntchito, kumene kugonana kumakhala mbali yofunika kwambiri pamoyo.

30) Mavuto Okhudzana ndi Kugonana mu Nthawi ya Intaneti (2018) - Zolemba:

Chilakolako chakugonana, kuchepa kwa kugonana, komanso kuwonongeka kwa erectile (ED) kumafala kwambiri kwa achinyamata. Mu phunziro la Italy kuchokera ku 2013, mpaka ku 25% mwa maphunziro omwe akukumana ndi ED anali pansi pa zaka 40 [1], komanso mu kafukufuku wofanana wofalitsidwa mu 2014, oposa theka la amuna achikulire a ku Canada pakati pa zaka za 16 ndi 21 anadwala matenda ena opatsirana pogonana [2]. Pa nthawi yomweyi, kufalikira kwa miyoyo yoipa yokhudzana ndi organic ED sikunasinthe kwambiri kapena kuchepa kwa zaka makumi anayi, kutanthauza kuti EDG yokhala ndi matenda a psychogenic ikukwera [3]. DSM-IV-TR imalongosola makhalidwe ena omwe ali ndi hedonic, monga njuga, kugula, khalidwe la kugonana, kugwiritsa ntchito intaneti, ndi masewera a masewera a pakompyuta, monga "kusokoneza maganizo kwapadera osati kwina kulikonse" -ngakhale izi zimatchulidwa kuti zizoloŵezi zowonongeka [4 ]. Kafukufuku waposachedwapa wanena kuti khalidwe lachizoloŵezi chogonana ndi zovuta zokhudzana ndi kugonana: kusintha kwa njira zokhudzana ndi kugonana komwe kungakhudzidwe ndi kugonana kungakhale chifukwa cha kubwereza mobwerezabwereza, kopambana.

Pakati pa zizoloŵezi zoipa, kugwiritsa ntchito Intaneti molakwika ndi kuwonetsa zolaula pa Intaneti zimatchulidwa kuti zingakhale zovuta zowononga kugonana, nthawi zambiri popanda malire enieni pakati pa zochitika ziwirizi. Ogwiritsa ntchito pa Intaneti amakopeka ndi zolaula pa intaneti chifukwa cha kudziwika kwake, kukwanitsa, ndi kukwaniritsa, ndipo nthawi zambiri kugwiritsa ntchito kwake kungapangitse owerenga kugwiritsa ntchito chizoloŵezi cha kugonana ndi anthu pa Intaneti: M'mabuku amenewa, ogwiritsa ntchito amaiwala kwambiri "kusintha" kwa kugonana, kupeza chisangalalo chochulukira pa zosankha zofuna kugonana zofuna kugonana kusiyana ndi kugonana.

M'mabuku, ofufuza sagwirizana ndi ntchito zabwino ndi zoipa zolaula pa Intaneti. Kuchokera kumbali yolakwika, imayimira chikonzero chachikulu cha khalidwe lachinyengo, chizoloŵezi chogonana, komanso erectile dysfunction.

31) Kodi Kugwiritsa Ntchito Zithunzi Zolaula Kukugwirizana ndi Kugwira Ntchito kwa Erectile? Zotsatira Kuchokera ku Kusanthula kwa Cross-Sectional ndi Latent Growth Curve "(2019) - Wofufuza yemwe adayika anthu pachiwopsezo ndi " chizolowezi choonera zolaula " ndipo adati mwanjira ina " chimagwira ntchito mosiyana kwambiri ndi zizolowezi zina ," tsopano wasintha luso lake kukhala ED yoyambitsidwa ndi zolaula. Ngakhale kuti kafukufuku wolembedwa ndi Joshua Grubbs adapeza mgwirizano pakati pa magwiridwe antchito ogonana osakwanira komanso chizolowezi choonera zolaula komanso kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula (pomwe akuchotsa amuna osachita zogonana komanso amuna ambiri omwe ali ndi ED ) , pepalalo limawerenga ngati kuti lathetsa kwathunthu ED yoyambitsidwa ndi zolaula (PIED). Njira imeneyi si yodabwitsa kwa iwo omwe atsatira zomwe Dr. Grubbs adanena kale zokhudzana ndi kampeni yake ya " chizolowezi choonera zolaula ". Onani kusanthula kwakukulu kumeneku kuti mudziwe zambiri.

Ngakhale pepala la Grubbs nthawi zonse limatsutsa mgwirizano pakati pa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kwambiri ndi kugonana kosayenera, ubalewu unanenedwa m'magulu onse atatu - makamaka chitsanzo chachitatu, chomwe chinali chitsanzo chofunikira kwambiri chifukwa chinali chitsanzo chachikulu komanso kuchuluka kwa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Chofunika kwambiri, msinkhu wa chitsanzochi ndi womwe unganene kuti PIED ndi wofunika kwambiri. N'zosadabwitsa kuti chitsanzo chachitatu chinali ndi mgwirizano wamphamvu kwambiri pakati pa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kwambiri ndi kugwira ntchito kosayenera kwa kugonana (–0.37) . Pansipa pali magulu atatu, omwe ali ndi mphindi zawo zapakati pa tsiku zowonera zolaula komanso mgwirizano pakati pa kuchuluka kwa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula (chizindikiro choyipa chimatanthauza kugonana kosayenera komwe kumalumikizidwa ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kwambiri):

Chitsanzo cha 1 (amuna a 147): ausinkhu wa zaka 19.8 - Zosintha 22 Mphindi zolaula / tsiku. (-0.18)
Chitsanzo cha 2 (amuna a 297): ausinkhu wa zaka 46.5 - Yomweyi 13 Mphindi zolaula / tsiku. (-0.05)
Chitsanzo cha 3 (amuna a 433): ausinkhu wa zaka 33.5 - Yomweyi 45 Mphindi zolaula / tsiku. (-0.37)

Zotsatira zomveka bwino: chitsanzo chomwe chimagwiritsa ntchito zolaula (#3) chinali ndi mgwirizano wamphamvu kwambiri pakati pa kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula ndi zosauka, pamene gulu lomwe limagwiritsa ntchito (#2) linali lofooka kwambiri pakati pa kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula ndi zosautsa. Chifukwa chiyani Grubbs sanagogomeze chitsanzo ichi mu kulembera kwake, mmalo mogwiritsa ntchito ziwerengero zowerengetsera kuti ayesedwe? Kufotokozera mwachidule:

Chitsanzo #1: Avereji ya zaka 19.8 - Zindikirani kuti osuta zithunzi zolaula zakale za 19 sanabwerenge zolaula zomwe zimapangika (makamaka makamaka pogwiritsa ntchito 22 maminiti tsiku). Ambiri a zolaula-zinachititsa ED kupuma nkhani YBOP yasonkhanitsa ndi amuna akuluakulu a 20-40. Nthawi zambiri zimatengera nthawi kuti ipange PIED.
Chitsanzo #2: Avereji ya zaka 46.5 - Anapatsa maminiti 13 okha patsiku! Ndi kupatulidwa koyenera kwa zaka 15.3, gawo lina la amuna awa linali makumi asanu ndi chinachake. Amuna awa sanayambe kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti pa nthawi ya unyamata (kuwapangitsa kukhala osatetezeka kuti athetse chilakolako chawo chogonana pokhapokha pa zolaula za pa intaneti). Inde, monga momwe Grubbs adapezera, kugonana kwa amuna okalamba nthawi zonse kwakhala bwino komanso kulimbitsa mtima kuposa onse omwe amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa nthawi ya unyamata (monga omwe ali ndi zaka za 33 mu chitsanzo 3).
Chitsanzo #3: Avereji ya zaka 33.5 - Monga tanenera kale, chitsanzo cha 3 chinali chitsanzo chachikulu kwambiri cha zolaula. Chofunika kwambiri, zaka za m'badwo uwu ndizomwe zinganene kuti PIED. N'zosadabwitsa kuti chitsanzo cha 3 chinali ndi mgwirizano wamphamvu kwambiri pakati pa ntchito zolaula komanso zosavuta kuchita (-0.37).

Grubbs adagwirizanitsanso kuchuluka kwa zizolowezi zolaula ndi ntchito yogonana. Zotsatira zake zikuwonetsa kuti ngakhale m'magawo omwe ali ndi ntchito yabwino yogonana, chizolowezi cha zolaula chinali chogwirizana kwambiri ndi kugonana kosayenera ( -0.20 mpaka -0.33) . Monga kale, mgwirizano wamphamvu kwambiri pakati pa chizolowezi cha zolaula ndi kugonana kosayenera ( -0.33 ) unachitika mu chitsanzo chachikulu cha Grubbs, ndipo chitsanzo cha zaka zapakati chomwe chingakhale ndi ED yoyambitsidwa ndi zolaula: chitsanzo 3, zaka zapakati : 33.5 ( maphunziro 433 ).

Dikirani kaye mufunse, ndinganene bwanji kuti ndikugwirizana kwambiri ? Kodi kafukufuku wa Grubbs sakunena molimba mtima kuti ubalewo unali " waung'ono mpaka wapakati ," kutanthauza kuti si nkhani yaikulu? Monga momwe tinafufuzira mu ndemangayi , kugwiritsa ntchito kwa Grubbs mafotokozedwe kumasiyana kwambiri, kutengera ndi kafukufuku wa Grubbs yemwe mwawerenga. Ngati kafukufuku wa Grubbs akunena za kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula zomwe zimayambitsa ED, ndiye kuti manambala omwe ali pamwambapa akuyimira mgwirizano wochepa, womwe waponyedwa pambali muzolemba zake zodzaza ndi zinthu.

Komabe, ngati ndi kafukufuku wotchuka kwambiri wa Grubbs (" Kupanduka monga Chizolowezi: Chipembedzo ndi Kukana Makhalidwe Monga Onenera za Chizolowezi Chodziwika ku Zithunzi Zolaula "), komwe adalengeza kuti kukhala wachipembedzo ndiye chifukwa chenicheni cha "chizolowezi cholaula," ndiye kuti manambala ochepa kuposa awa amapanga "ubale wolimba." Ndipotu, mgwirizano "wolimba" wa Grubbs pakati pa chipembedzo ndi "chizolowezi cholaula chodziwika" unali 0.30 yokha ! Komabe adagwiritsa ntchito molimbika kuti abweretse chitsanzo chatsopano, komanso chokayikitsa cha chizolowezi cholaula . Matebulo, maulumikizidwe ndi tsatanetsatane womwe watchulidwa pano akupezeka mu gawo lino la kusanthula kwakutali kwa YBOP.

32) Kafukufuku wa Ntchito Yogonana ndi Zithunzi Zolaula (2019 ) - Mu kafukufukuyu, ofufuza adafufuza kulumikizana pakati pa ED ndi zizindikiro za chizolowezi cha zolaula pogwiritsa ntchito mafunso a "kukhumba". Ngakhale kuti palibe kulumikizana kotereku komwe kudapezeka (mwina chifukwa ogwiritsa ntchito sayesa molondola kuchuluka kwa "kukhumba" kwawo mpaka atayesa kusiya kugwiritsa ntchito), maubwenzi ena osangalatsa adawonekera muzotsatira zawo. Zidutswa:

Mitengo ya operewera erectile inali yotsika kwambiri mwa iwo [amuna] omwe amasankha kugonana ndi amuna okhaokha popanda zolaula (22.3%) ndipo anawonjezeka kwambiri pamene zolaula zinali zovomerezeka pa kugonana kwapakati (78%).

... Zithunzi zolaula ndi kusagonana ndizofala pakati pa achinyamata.

...Amuna omwe ankagwiritsa ntchito pafupifupi tsiku lililonse kapena kuposerapo anali ndi ED rate ya 44% (12/27) poyerekeza ndi 22% (47/213) kwa ogwiritsa ntchito "osazolowereka" (≤5x/sabata) , zomwe zinafika pakufunika pa kusanthula kwa univariate ( p = 0.017). Zingakhale kuti voliyumu imagwira ntchito pamlingo winawake.

… Matenda a PIED omwe akuwoneka ngati omveka bwino akuwoneka kuti ndiwotheka ndipo akuchokera kwa ofufuza osiyanasiyana omwe amagwira ntchito osati gulu laling'ono la ofufuza lomwe lingasunthidwe ndi tsankho. Komanso kuthandizira mbali ya "causation" ya mkanganowu ndi malipoti a amuna omwe ayambiranso kugonana atasiya kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula mopitirira muyeso.

… Ophunzira okha omwe akuyembekezeka kuthana ndivutoli ndi omwe angathetseretu vuto lazoyambitsa kapena kuyanjana, kuphatikiza maphunziro opitilira omwe akuwunika kupambana kwa kudziletsa pochiza ED mwa ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Anthu owonjezera omwe amafunikira kulingaliridwa makamaka ndi achinyamata. Pakhala pali nkhawa zakuti kuwonetsedwa koyambirira pazithunzi zolaula kumatha kukhudza chitukuko. Mlingo wa achinyamata omwe amawonetsedwa zolaula asanakwanitse zaka 13 wakwera katatu pazaka 50 zapitazi, ndipo tsopano wazungulira XNUMX%.

Kafukufuku amene ali pamwambawa adaperekedwa pamsonkhano wa American Urological Association wa mu 2017. Zidule zingapo kuchokera m'nkhaniyi zokhudza izi - Kafukufuku akuwona kulumikizana pakati pa zolaula ndi vuto la kugonana (2017):

Anyamata achichepere omwe amakonda zolaula kuposa zochitika zenizeni zogonana angagwidwe mumsampha, osatha kuchita zogonana ndi anthu ena mwayi ukapezeka, malinga ndi kafukufuku watsopano. Amuna omwe ali ndi zizolowezi zolaula nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi vuto la kusowa maliseche ndipo nthawi zambiri sakhala okhutira ndi kugonana, malinga ndi zomwe kafukufukuyu adapeza Lachisanu pamsonkhano wapachaka wa American Urological Association, ku Boston.

" Chiwerengero cha zinthu zomwe zimayambitsa vuto la kugonana m'gulu lino ndi chotsika kwambiri, kotero kuwonjezeka kwa vuto la kugonana komwe taona pakapita nthawi kwa gululi kuyenera kufotokozedwa," adatero Christman. "Timakhulupirira kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kungakhale chimodzi mwa zinthu zomwe zimayambitsa vutoli".

33) Kusokonezeka kwa Kugonana kwa Bambo Watsopano: Nkhani Zokhudza Kugonana (2018) - Mutu uwu wochokera m'buku latsopano la zamankhwala lotchedwa Paternal Postnatal Psychiatric Illnesses ukufotokoza za momwe zolaula zimakhudzira kugonana kwa bambo watsopano, ponena za pepala lomwe linalembedwa ndi wolandila tsamba lino, " Kodi Zithunzi Zolaula za pa Intaneti Zimayambitsa Mavuto Ogonana? Ndemanga ndi Malipoti a Zachipatala ." Tsambali lili ndi zithunzi za zigawo zofunikira kuchokera mu mutuwu.

34) Kufalikira, Maonekedwe ndi Zotsatira Zomwe Mumadziona Ngati Mukugwiritsa Ntchito Zithunzi Zolaula mwa Ophunzira a ku Yunivesite ya ku Poland: Kafukufuku Wosiyanasiyana (2019) Kafukufuku wamkulu ( n = 6463) pa ophunzira aku koleji aamuna ndi aakazi (zaka zapakati pa 22) akufotokoza kuchuluka kwa zizolowezi zolaula (15%), kuchuluka kwa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula (kulekerera), zizindikiro zosiya, ndi mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana ndi ubale wokhudzana ndi zolaula. Zidutswa zofunikira:

Zowonongeka zomwe zimawonetsa kuti zolaula zimagwiritsidwa ntchito zikuphatikizapo: kufunikira kwa kukakamiza kwa nthawi yaitali (12.0%) ndi zowonjezera zokhudzana ndi kugonana (17.6%) kuti zifike poyerekeza, komanso kuchepa kwa kukhutitsidwa kugonana (24.5%) ...

Kafukufukuyu akuwonetsanso kuti kuonekera koyambirira kungagwirizane ndi kufooka kwa chilakolako chogonana monga momwe zikuwonetsera chifukwa chofuna kulimbikitsidwa kwa nthawi yayitali komanso chilakolako chogonana chofunikira kuti munthu afike pachimake akamadya zinthu zonyansa, komanso kuchepa kwa chikhutiro chogonana ...

Zithunzi zolaula zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pochitika nthawi zinafotokozedwa: kusinthira mtundu wina wa zinthu zosaoneka bwino (46.0%), kugwiritsa ntchito zipangizo zomwe sizikugwirizana ndi kugonana (60.9%) ndipo zimayenera kugwiritsa ntchito zambiri Zinthu zoopsa (zachiwawa) (32.0%) ...

35) Ufulu ndi thanzi la kugonana ndi kubereka ku Sweden 2017 (2019) - Kafukufuku wa 2017 wochitidwa ndi The Swedish Public Health Authority uli ndi gawo lofotokoza zomwe adapeza pa zolaula. Zofunika apa, kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kwambiri kunali kogwirizana ndi thanzi losauka la kugonana komanso kuchepa kwa kusakhutira ndi kugonana. Zidule:

Amuna 41 pa 100 azaka zapakati pa 16 ndi 29 amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula pafupipafupi, mwachitsanzo, amaonera zolaula tsiku lililonse kapena pafupifupi tsiku lililonse. Chiwerengero chofanana pakati pa akazi ndi 3 pa 100. Zotsatira zathu zikuwonetsanso mgwirizano pakati pa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pafupipafupi ndi thanzi loipa la kugonana, komanso mgwirizano ndi kugonana kwa malonda, ziyembekezo zapamwamba kwambiri pakuchita zogonana, komanso kusakhutira ndi moyo wa kugonana . Pafupifupi theka la anthu onse amanena kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula sikukhudza moyo wawo wogonana, pomwe gawo limodzi mwa magawo atatu sakudziwa ngati zimakhudza kapena ayi. Azimayi ndi amuna ochepa akuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kumakhudza moyo wawo wogonana. Zinali zofala kwambiri pakati pa amuna omwe ali ndi maphunziro apamwamba kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula nthawi zonse poyerekeza ndi amuna omwe ali ndi maphunziro ochepa.

Palifunika kudziwa zambiri zokhudza kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula ndi thanzi. Chidutswa chofunika kwambiri ndi kukambirana zovuta za zolaula ndi anyamata ndi anyamata, ndipo sukulu ndi malo achilengedwe kuti muchite izi.

36) Zithunzi Zolaula pa Intaneti: Kuledzera kapena Kusokonezeka kwa Chiwerewere? (2019) – Ulalo wa PDF wa mutu wa Introduction to Psychosexual Medicine (2019) – White, Catherine. “ Zithunzi Zolaula pa Intaneti: Kuledzera kapena Kusokonezeka kwa Chiwerewere. Mau Oyamba a Mankhwala Okhudza Kugonana?” (2019)

37) Kudziletsa Kapena Kuvomereza? Mndandanda wa Zochitika za Amuna Pochitapo Kanthu Pothana ndi Mavuto Omwe Amadziona Ngati Ogwiritsa Ntchito Zolaula (2019) - Pepalali likunena za milandu isanu ndi umodzi ya amuna omwe ali ndi chizolowezi choonera zolaula pamene ankachita pulogalamu yolowererapo yoganizira (kusinkhasinkha, zolemba za tsiku ndi tsiku & kulowa m'makalata sabata iliyonse). Anthu onse 6 akuwoneka kuti apindula ndi kusinkhasinkha. Zogwirizana ndi mndandanda uwu wa maphunziro, awiri mwa 6 adanenanso za ED yoyambitsidwa ndi zolaula. Malipoti angapo akuwonetsa kuwonjezeka kwa kugwiritsa ntchito (chizolowezi). Mmodzi akufotokoza zizindikiro zosiya. Zidule kuchokera ku milandu yomwe ikunena za PIED:

Pedro (m'badwo 35):

Pedro anadzinenera yekha kuti anali namwali. Pedro analankhula za manyazi omwe anakumana nawo poyesa kugonana ndi akazi m'mbuyomu. Kugonana kwake kwaposachedwa kunatha pamene mantha ndi nkhawa zake zinamulepheretsa kupeza mbewa. Anati vuto lake logonana linabwera chifukwa cha kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula…

Pedro adanena kuti chiwerengero cha anthu oonera zolaula chinali chochepa kwambiri pofika kumapeto kwa kafukufukuyu komanso kusintha kwakukulu kwa malingaliro ndi zizindikiro za thanzi la maganizo. Ngakhale kuti adawonjezera mlingo wa imodzi mwa mankhwala ake oletsa nkhawa panthawi ya kafukufukuyu chifukwa cha kupsinjika pantchito, adati apitiliza kusinkhasinkha chifukwa cha ubwino womwe adapeza wokhala chete, woganizira, komanso wopumula womwe adakumana nawo pambuyo pa gawo lililonse.

Pablo (m'badwo 29):

Pablo ankaona kuti analibe mphamvu pa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Pablo ankatha maola angapo tsiku lililonse akuganizira za zolaula, kaya pamene anali kuonera zolaula kapena poganizira zowonera zolaula nthawi ina iliyonse akamatanganidwa ndi kuchita zinazake. Pablo anapita kwa dokotala ndi nkhawa za mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana omwe anali nawo, ndipo ngakhale adaulula nkhawa zake zokhudza kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kwa dokotala wake, Pablo adatumizidwa kwa katswiri wa kubereka wamwamuna komwe adapatsidwa jekeseni wa testosterone. Pablo adanena kuti kulowererapo kwa testosterone kunalibe phindu kapena phindu pa vuto lake logonana, ndipo zomwe zidamuchitikirazi zidamulepheretsa kupeza thandizo lina lililonse pankhani yogwiritsa ntchito zolaula . Kuyankhulana asanaphunzire kunali koyamba kuti Pablo alankhule momasuka ndi aliyense pankhani yogwiritsa ntchito zolaula zake…

38) Nkhani yofotokoza maphunziro omwe akubwera - yolembedwa ndi pulofesa wa Urology Carlo Foresta, purezidenti wa bungwe la Italian Society of Reproductive Pathophysiology - Nkhaniyi ili ndi zotsatira za maphunziro a nthawi yayitali komanso ophatikizana. Kafukufuku wina adakhudza kafukufuku wa achinyamata aku sekondale (masamba 52-53). Kafukufukuyu adanenanso kuti vuto la kugonana linawonjezeka kawiri pakati pa 2005 ndi 2013, ndipo chilakolako chochepa cha kugonana chinawonjezeka ndi 600%.

Chiwerengero cha achinyamata omwe adasinthidwa ndi kugonana kwawo: 2004 / 05: 7.2%, 2012 / 13: 14.5%
Chiwerengero cha achinyamata omwe ali ndi chilakolako chogonana chochepa: 2004 / 05: 1.7%, 2012 / 13: 10.3% (ndiwonjezeka 600% m'zaka 8)

Foresta akufotokozanso kafukufuku wake womwe ukubwera, “ Sexuality media and new forms of sexual pathology sample 125 young men, 19-25 years ” (dzina la Chitaliyana – “ Sessualità mediatica e nuove form di patologia sessuale Campione 125 giovani maschi ”). Zotsatira za kafukufukuyu (masamba 77-78), zomwe zidagwiritsa ntchito International Index of Erectile Function Questionnaire, zidapeza kuti ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula wamba adapeza 50% yotsika pa domain ya chilakolako chogonana ndi 30% yotsika pa domain ya erectile functioning.

39) (sikuwunikidwa ndi anzawo) Nayi nkhani yokhudza kusanthula kwakukulu kwa ndemanga ndi mafunso omwe adalembedwa pa MedHelp okhudzana ndi vuto la kugonana. Chodabwitsa ndichakuti 58% ya amuna omwe amapempha thandizo anali azaka 24 kapena kuchepera. Ambiri amakayikira kuti zolaula za pa intaneti zitha kukhalapo monga momwe zafotokozedwera mu zotsatira za kafukufukuyu -

Mawu ofala kwambiri ndi "erectile dysfunction" - omwe amatchulidwa katatu nthawi zambiri monga mawu ena - kutsata "zolaula," "nkhawa," ndi "kuonera zolaula."

Mwachiwonekere, zolaula nthawi zambiri zimakambidwa kuti: "Ndakhala ndikuwonera zolaula pa intaneti nthawi zambiri (4 nthawi zina 5 pa sabata) zaka za 6 zapitazo," munthu wina analemba. "Ndili mkatikati mwa 20 ndipo ndakhala ndi vuto lokhazikitsa ndi kukondana ndi anthu ogonana nawo kuyambira ndili ndi zaka 20 ndikuyamba kuyang'ana pa zolaula za intaneti."

Nkhani yokhudza kampeni yaposachedwa ya spin: Akatswiri Ogonana Amakana Zolaula Zoyambitsa ED Podzinenera Kuti Kuseweretsa Maliseche Ndi Vuto (2016)

DAVID LEY: Komabe, Dr. Zimbardo amalephera kuvomereza kapena kuganizira kusintha kwakukulu kwa chikhalidwe cha anthu chomwe chinachitika ndi kukhazikitsidwa kwa mankhwala opangira erectile, ndipo zomwe zawonjezeka kwambiri kuulula kuvuta kwa erectile, mwa kuchepetsa manyazi omwe amagwirizana nawo.

YANKHO: Kafukufuku wofufuza kugonana kwa anyamata achichepere kuyambira 2010 akufotokoza kuchuluka kwa zovuta zogonana m'mbiri, komanso kuchuluka kodabwitsa kwa mliri watsopano: kuchepa kwa chilakolako chogonana. Zalembedwa m'nkhaniyi komanso mu pepala lowunikidwa ndi anzawo lokhudza madokotala 7 a US Navy - Kodi Zithunzi Zolaula za pa Intaneti Zimayambitsa Mavuto Ogonana? Ndemanga ndi Malipoti a Zachipatala (2016)

Ley sanatchulepo kalikonse chifukwa, palibe umboni wotsimikizira zomwe ananena kuti kuyambitsa Viagra (1997) kunapangitsa kuti amuna anene zoona m'maphunziro okhudza kusagwira bwino ntchito pogonana (zaka 13 pambuyo pake). Izi si ziwerengero za amuna omwe amapita kwa madokotala awo kukapempha mankhwala a ED. Ziwerengero za ED zomwe zatchulidwazi zimangotanthauza maphunziro omwe adawunikidwa ndi anzawo (nthawi zambiri osadziwika) pa kuchuluka kwa kusagwira bwino ntchito pogonana kwa anthu ambiri. Kunena kwina, 'Viagra hypothesis' ikunena kuti mu kafukufuku aliyense wofalitsidwa pakati pa 1948 ndi 2010, m'maiko padziko lonse lapansi, anyamata achinyamata omwe adatenga nawo mbali nthawi zonse ankanama za momwe amagwirira ntchito pogonana. Kenako, mwadzidzidzi, mu 2010 anyamata onse ( ndi anyamata okha ) adayamba kunena zoona za mavuto awo a ED. Izi n'zosamveka. Zomwe Ley ananena zili ngati kunena kuti kuyambitsa aspirin kunapangitsa kuti maphunziro osadziwika anene kuti mutu wa mutu ukuwonjezeka ndi 1000% pakati pa gulu limodzi lokha. Mfundo zina zingapo zomwe zimatsutsa zomwe ananena za "Viagra imayambitsa ED":

1) Mawu oti "kufuna kuulula" sakugwira ntchito pano. Kuchuluka kwa chilakolako cha kugonana (ED) ndi kuchepa kwa chilakolako cha kugonana si ziwerengero za amuna omwe amapita kwa dokotala wawo chifukwa cha vuto la kugonana . M'malo mwake, kuchuluka kwa chilakolako cha kugonana (ED) ndi kuchepa kwa chilakolako cha kugonana zimachokera ku maphunziro omwe amagwiritsa ntchito mafunso osadziwika bwino pomwe amuna amayesa ubwino wa chilakolako chawo cha kugonana komanso chilakolako chawo panthawi yogonana. Zimenezo sizinasinthe chifukwa Viagra idayambitsidwa.

2) Kukwera kwakukulu kwa ED ndi kuchepa kwa chilakolako cha kugonana kunachitika mwa amuna osakwana zaka 40 okha . Izi zokha zikutsutsa zomwe Ley ananena.

3) Munthawi yomweyi panali kuwonjezeka kwa chilakolako chogonana chochepa (ndi umboni wa kuwonjezeka kwa zovuta kufika pachimake). Kafukufuku wamkulu kwambiri ku US wochokera mu 1992 adanena kuti 5% ya amuna osakwana zaka 40 anali ndi chilakolako chogonana chochepa.

Kafukufuku wa 2014 ku Canada adanena chilakolako chogonana chochepa pa 24% a zaka za 16-21!
A 2014 kufufuza kwa amuna achiCroatia 40 komanso pansi pa chikhumbo chokhudzana ndi chiwerewere cha 37%.
Apanso, izi zikugwirizana ndi phunziro 2015 achikulire aku Italy aku sekondale (18-19), omwe adapeza kuti 16% ya iwo omwe amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula kangapo pa sabata amafotokoza zosayenera zogonana. Omwe sakonda zolaula adanenanso za 0% ya chilakolako chogonana (monga momwe amayembekezera azaka za 18).

4) Masiku ano, kuchuluka kwa ED nthawi zambiri kumakhala kokwera kwa anyamata kuposa amuna okalamba (omwe mwachionekere sankagwiritsa ntchito zolaula zambiri pa intaneti akukula). Kafukufuku waku Canada wa 2014 adanenanso kuti 53.5% ya amuna azaka zapakati pa 16-21 ali ndi zizindikiro zomwe zimasonyeza vuto la kugonana. Kulephera kugwira ntchito bwino kwa erectile kunali kofala kwambiri (27%), kutsatiridwa ndi chilakolako chochepa chogonana (24%), ndi mavuto okhudzana ndi orgasm (11%).

Zowona: Awa ndi apamwamba kusiyana ndi omwe analembedwa kwa zaka za 50-60 mu phunziro lalikulu la 1992 pa amuna 18-60!

5) Maphunziro awiri omwe adasindikizidwa PAMBUYO pa Viagra atayambitsidwa adanena kuti kuchuluka kwa ED mwa anyamata kunali kwakukulu. Ngati zotsatsa za Viagra zidayambitsa ED mwa amuna, kodi sitingawone kuchuluka kwa ED mwa amuna okalamba? Awa anali maphunziro ochokera kumayiko omwewo aku Europe pogwiritsa ntchito mafunso omwewo (GSSAB). M'malo mwake, kuchuluka kwa anyamata ndi kwakukulu kwambiri tsopano.

The 2001-2002 ED mitengo ya amuna 40-80 anali pafupi 13% ku Ulaya.
Ndi 2011, ED mitengo mu achinyamata Azungu, 18-40, adachokera 14-28%.

6) Kuganiza bwino: Palibe umboni uliwonse wosonyeza kuti mnyamata wamakono sangachite manyazi kwambiri akakumana ndi vuto la kugonana monga momwe mnyamatayo analili mu 1995 (kachiwiri, manyazi si ofunika chifukwa deta yonse inachokera ku kafukufuku pogwiritsa ntchito mafunso osadziwika).

DAVID LEY: Inde, nkhani zambiri zowonedwa ndi anzanu tsopano zatulutsidwa zomwe sizipeza umboni wa PIED, koma mmalo mwake, zapeza zotsatira zosiyana, kuti zolaula ndi kugwiritsira ntchito maliseche, zikhoza kuchititsa kuchepetsedwa kwachiwerewere.

YANKHO LA GAWO LOYAMBA: "Nkhani zambiri zowunikidwa ndi anzawo zasindikizidwa tsopano zomwe sizinapeze umboni wa PIED "

Choyamba, pali njira imodzi yokha yotsimikizira ngati vuto la kugonana limayamba chifukwa cha zolaula (PIED) kapena ayi: Chotsani kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kwa nthawi yayitali ndikuwona ngati wodwalayo akuyambiranso kugwira ntchito bwino kwa kugonana. Maphunziro atatu achita izi, zomwe zimatsimikizira kuti pali zovuta zogonana zomwe zimayambitsa zolaula. Onani mndandanda uwu wa maphunziro 28 omwe akugwirizanitsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula/chizolowezi chogonana ndi mavuto ogonana (oyamba 5 akuwonetsa chifukwa chake ophunzira adachotsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndikuchiritsa zovuta zogonana).

"Nkhani zingapo" zomwe Ley angatchule ndi mapepala awiri okha omwe amati sanapeze mgwirizano wochepa pakati pa kuchuluka kwa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndi vuto la kugonana. Pepala loyamba, Prause & Pfaus 2015, latsutsidwa kwambiri chifukwa cha kusowa kwa deta, zonena zosathandizidwa, njira zoyipa, ndi mawu omwe akutsutsana mwachindunji ndi deta yake, kotero kuti, kwenikweni, sakuvomerezedwa. Linatsutsidwa mwalamulo mu nyuzipepala yamaphunziro ndi wofufuza komanso dokotala wa zamankhwala obereketsa. Kutsutsa kumeneku kumavumbula mabowo ambiri mu pepalalo.

Pepala lachiwiri ( Landripet & Stulhofer ) linapeza kuchuluka kwakukulu kwa chilakolako chogonana ndi ED mwa amuna osakwana zaka 40 (sichinali kafukufuku wathunthu, koma "kulankhulana mwachidule"). Mosiyana ndi zomwe Ley ananena, kafukufukuyu adapeza mgwirizano wochepa pakati pa ED ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Chidule sichitchula mgwirizano wofunika kwambiri: Amuna 40% okha a ku Portugal ankagwiritsa ntchito zolaula "kawirikawiri," pomwe 60% a ku Norway ankagwiritsa ntchito zolaula "kawirikawiri." Amuna aku Portugal anali ndi vuto lochepa kwambiri la kugonana kuposa aku Norway.

Kumalo ena, olembawo amavomereza mgwirizano wofunika kwambiri pakati pa zochitika zosavuta zambiri zolaula ndi ED, koma zimati kukula kwazomwe kunali kochepa. Komabe, izi zikhoza kukhala zonyenga malingana ndi MD yemwe ali wolemba masewera odziwa mbiri ndipo adalemba maphunziro ambiri:

Kusanthula njira ina (Chi squared),… kugwiritsa ntchito pang'ono (vs. kugwiritsa ntchito pafupipafupi) kudawonjezera zovuta (kuthekera) kokhala ndi ED pafupifupi 50% mwa anthu aku Croatia. Izi zikuwoneka zomveka kwa ine, ngakhale zili zochititsa chidwi kuti zomwe adapeza zimangopezeka pakati pa anthu aku Croatia.

Nayi gawo lobisika lomwe limanena zambiri za olemba awiriwa: "Kulankhulana kwachidule" kwa Landripet & Stulhofer sikunatchule maubwenzi atatu ofunikira omwe adapereka pamsonkhano wa ku Europe (zolembedwa kuchokera mu chidule chawo):

Kufotokoza zomwe amakonda pa mitundu ina ya zolaula kunagwirizana kwambiri ndi vuto la kugonana kwa amuna (koma osati lokhudzana ndi umuna kapena chilakolako).

Kuchuluka kwa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kunali kogwirizana pang'ono koma kwakukulu ndi kuchepa kwa chidwi chogonana ndi akazi okwatirana komanso kusokonekera kwa kugonana komwe kulipo pakati pa akazi

Olembawo akutsutsa zomwe adapezazo ndipo akunyalanyaza zomwe adapeza pofika pamapeto awo, chifukwa akunyalanyazanso ndemanga yovomerezeka ya wofufuza za zolaula waku Denmark Gert Martin Hald yokhudza kafukufukuyu, momwe akuti:

Komabe, mu kufufuza zolaula, kutanthauzira kwa "kukula" kungadalire kwambiri pa chikhalidwe cha zotsatira zomwe zaphunziridwa monga kukula kwa ubale womwe umapezeka. Choncho, ngati zotsatira zake ziyenera kuonedwa kuti ndizo "zokwanira" (mwachitsanzo, makhalidwe achiwerewere), ngakhale kukula kwazing'ono kungakhale ndi chikhalidwe chachikulu komanso chofunika kwambiri [2].

Ndemanga za Gert Martin Hald zikugogomezera kufunika koyesa zinthu zambiri (oyimira pakati, oyang'anira) osati kuchuluka kwa zinthu zomwe zimachitika pa sabata m'miyezi 12 yapitayi:

Chachitatu, kafukufukuyu salankhula za oyang'anira omwe angakhale otsogolera kapena oyimira pakati paubwenzi omwe aphunzira komanso sangathe kudziwa zomwe zingachitike. Zowonjezerapo, pakufufuza zolaula, chidwi chimaperekedwa pazinthu zomwe zingakhudze kukula kapena kuwongolera maubwenzi omwe aphunziridwa (mwachitsanzo, oyang'anira) komanso njira zomwe zingakhudzire izi (mwachitsanzo, oyimira pakati). Kafukufuku wamtsogolo wokhudzana ndi zolaula komanso zovuta zakugonana atha kupindulanso ndikuphatikizira zina mwazoyang'ana izi.

Mwa kuyankhula kwina, kugwiritsa ntchito chosinthika chimodzi chokha monga "maola ogwiritsira ntchito mwezi watha" sikungawulule chilichonse. Zatsimikizika kale mu kafukufuku wokhudza chizolowezi cha zolaula pa intaneti ( 1 , 2 , 3 ) ndi chizolowezi chosewera masewera apakanema pa intaneti , kuti zizindikiro sizikugwirizana ndi "maola ogwiritsira ntchito." M'malo mwa maola ogwiritsira ntchito pano, kuphatikiza kwa zosintha kumawoneka kuti kukugwirizana bwino ndi ED yoyambitsidwa ndi zolaula. Izi zitha kuphatikizapo:

Kugonana kwa maliseche ndi zolaula popanda zolaula
Kugonana kwa munthu ndi maliseche ku zolaula
Ziphuphu m'magulu amtundu wina (pamene munthu amadalira zolaula)
Namwali kapena ayi
Maola ambiri ogwiritsiridwa ntchito
Zaka za ntchito
Age anayamba kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula
Kuchuluka kwa mitundu yatsopano
Kukula kwa zolaula zopangidwa ndi zolaula (kuyambira pakufika ku zolaula zatsopano)
Makhalidwe atsopano pa gawo (ie mavidiyo osonkhanitsa, ma tebulo ambiri)
Ubongo wokhudzana ndi mowa umasintha kapena ayi
Kukhalapo kwa chiwerewere / zolaula

Njira yabwino yofufuzira za vuto la kugonana lomwe limabwera chifukwa cha zolaula, ndikuchotsa kusintha kwa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti ndikuwona zotsatira zake. Kafukufuku woterewu akuwonetsa zomwe zimayambitsa m'malo mwa ubale womwe ungathe kumasuliridwa. Tsamba langa lalemba za amuna zikwi zingapo omwe adachotsa zolaula pa intaneti ndikuchira ku zovuta zogonana zomwe sizinachitikepo nthawi yayitali.

CHIDULE: Kafukufuku mmodzi yekha wovomerezeka wayesa kufananiza kuchuluka kwa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndi ED. Mosiyana ndi zomwe Ley ananena, kafukufukuyu akuwonetsa mgwirizano umodzi wofunikira pakati pa ED ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Pochotsa "kulankhulana kwachidule" kumeneku, tili ndi maphunziro 25 omwe amafotokoza za ubale pakati pa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula mwa anyamata ndi ED, anorgasmia, chilakolako chochepa chogonana, kuchedwa kutulutsa umuna ndi kutsika kwa ubongo ku zithunzi zogonana.

DAVID LEY: "Zowonadi, zolemba zingapo zowunikiridwa ndi anzawo tsopano zatulutsidwa zomwe sizinapeze umboni wa PIED, koma mmalo mwake, atapeza kusiyana kosiyana, kuti zolaula zimagwiritsira ntchito ndi kugonjetsa maliseche, zikhoza kuchititsa kuchedwa kwachisokonezo. "

YANKHO LA GAWO LACHIWIRI: " koma m'malo mwake, ndapeza kuti zotsatira zake, kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula komanso maliseche nthawi imodzi, zitha kubweretsa kuchedwa kwa kugonana ."

Zachilendo bwanji. Ley akuwoneka kuti akunena kuti kuchedwa kufika pachimake ndi "chosiyana" ndi vuto la kusagwira ntchito bwino kwa chiwerewere. Ley akumukonda. Izi ziyenera kukhala zidutswa zapamwamba kwambiri zomwe adalembapo. Ley akuwoneka kuti akuwonetsa zotsatira za kafukufuku wa 2015 pa amuna omwe ali ndi matenda a hypersexuality - " Makhalidwe a Odwala Malinga ndi Mtundu wa Kutumiza kwa Hypersexuality: Kuwunikanso Tchati Chochuluka cha Milandu 115 Yotsatizana ya Amuna ".

Kafukufukuyu adagawa amuna 27 ngati "odziteteza ku maliseche," zomwe zikutanthauza kuti ankadziseweretsa maliseche ola limodzi kapena angapo patsiku kapena maola opitilira 7 pa sabata. 71% ya ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula mopitirira muyeso adanena kuti ali ndi mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana, ndipo 33% adanenanso kuti anachedwa kutulutsa umuna.

Kodi amuna 38% otsala ali ndi vuto lotani lokhudza kugonana? Kafukufukuyu sananene, ndipo olembawo anakana kupereka tsatanetsatane. Zina ziwiri zazikulu zomwe amuna amasankha pankhani ya kugonana ndi ED ndi low libido. Mumayesa masamu.

Zoona zake n'zakuti, kuchedwa kwa umuna chifukwa cha zolaula nthawi zambiri kumayambitsa vuto la kugonana chifukwa cha zolaula. Monga ED, kuchedwa kwa umuna ndi chimodzi mwa zifukwa zazikulu zomwe amuna amasankhira kupewa zolaula pofuna kuchira. Tsamba lino lili ndi nkhani zambiri za amuna omwe adachira kuchedwa kwa umuna chifukwa cha zolaula. Kuchedwa kwa umuna kumabwera chifukwa cha kusintha komweko kwa ubongo komwe pamapeto pake kumabweretsa PIED (monga kuletsa/chizolowezi ndikusintha chilakolako cha kugonana cha munthu ku chilichonse chokhudzana ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti m'malo mwa kukhala ndi okondedwa enieni).

CHIDULE: Ley akuyesera kusintha kuchuluka kwa 71% kwa anthu ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula mopitirira muyeso kukhala umboni wakuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula n'kopindulitsa kwambiri! Umenewo ndiye Ley wabwino kwambiri.

DAVID LEY: Kafukufuku wochuluka chaka chatha kuchokera kwa olemba monga Joshua Grubbs wa Case Western ndi Alexander Stulhofer waku Croatia, akhala akutsimikizira udindo wamakhalidwe abwino chipembedzo mikhalidwe ya iwo omwe amadziwika kuti ndi ogonana kapena achiwerewere. Mwanjira ina, ofufuza onsewa awonetsa kuti anthu omwe amachita zachiwerewere / zolaula samangoyang'ana zolaula kapena kugonana kuposa wina aliyense - amangomva kuwawa komanso kutsutsana kwambiri pankhani yogonana komwe akukhala nako.

YANKHO: Zambiri? Popeza palibe mawu, tiyeni tiganizire maphunziro awiri omwe atchulidwa: Pankhani ya Grubbs ndi Stulhofer, kodi ofufuzawa asiyanitsa bwanji pakati pa manyazi okhudzana ndi kugonana/zolaula ndi manyazi ndi kulephera kulamulira kugwiritsa ntchito ngakhale zotsatirapo zoyipa? Izi sizikufotokozedwa. (Mwanjira ina, sanatero.)

Ponena za pepala la Stulhofer ( Kodi Chilakolako Chachikulu Chogonana Ndi Mbali ya Kugonana Kwa Amuna? Zotsatira Zochokera ku Kafukufuku Wapaintaneti) Mapeto ake akuti:

Poyerekeza ndi zitsanzo zina zonse, amuna omwe ali m'gulu la anthu okonda kugonana kwambiri anali ndi mwayi waukulu wokhala osakwatira, osati amuna okhaokha, opembedza, ovutika maganizo, okonda kutopa ndi kugonana, omwe amakumana ndi zotsatirapo za kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo, omwe ali ndi malingaliro oipa pakugwiritsa ntchito zolaula, komanso omwe amayesa makhalidwe abwino a kugonana. Mosiyana ndi zimenezi, gulu la anthu omwe anali ndi chilakolako chachikulu chogonana linasiyana ndi anthu omwe anali ndi zilakolako zogonana pongonena za malingaliro abwino okhudza kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula.

Choyamba, Stulhofer adanenapo zochepa kwambiri pakati pa gulu lachiwerewere (zolaula / zolaula) ndi gulu lapamwamba la libido. Monga tafotokozera pamwambapa, izi zikutsutsa zomwe Ley akuti "achiwerewere" amangokhala ndi chilakolako chofuna kugonana.

Chachiwiri, omwe amakonda kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula amakhala ndi malingaliro olakwika pazogwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Kodi ndizodabwitsa kwambiri kuti munthu wokonda mankhwala osokoneza bongo amadzimva kuti amalephera kugwiritsa ntchito ngakhale atakumana ndi zovuta zina? Kodi sitingayembekezere kuti chidakwa chomwe chimatha kuledzera chimakhala ndi malingaliro olakwika pakumwa mowa? Kodi mawu oti "kuwunika kogonana" amatanthauzanji akagwiritsidwa ntchito pakugwiritsa ntchito zolaula zomwe zikusokoneza moyo wanu? Zitha kukhala zophweka monga, "Omwe amamwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo amakhala ndi malingaliro olakwika pazomwe amachita."

Ponena za zotsatira za Grubbs et al , kodi zingatheke kufotokozedwa, mbali ina, ndi mfundo yakuti anthu achipembedzo nthawi zambiri amadziwitsidwa bwino (kapena, nthawi zina amadziwitsidwa mopitirira muyeso) za zoopsa zogwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti, kotero "amalumikiza mfundo" mwachangu komanso mochuluka akafunsidwa za chizolowezi chawo? Anthu achipembedzo mwina amakondanso kuyesa kusiya, motero amakhala ndi zizindikiro zovutitsa zosiya kapena kuzindikira kuti sangathe kulamulira kugwiritsa ntchito kwawo (mwina) kosazolowereka. Zizindikiro zosiya zimadzetsa nkhawa. Mosiyana ndi zimenezi, anthu osapembedza saganiza zoyesa kusiya zolaula kotero kuti sangakumane ndi zilakolako zazikulu ndi zizindikiro zosiya pokhapokha atagwa pakhoma kapena atavulala ndikuyesera kusiya.

Ngati chipembedzo chinali chinthu chofunikira kwambiri pa "kukhulupirira chizolowezi cha zolaula," munthu angayembekezere kuti ambiri mwa omwe ali pamisonkhano yobwezeretsa zolaula ndi achipembedzo. Sizimene timaona. r/nofap , malo otchuka kwambiri ochezera zolaula omwe timawadziwa, adafunsa mamembala awo (mu 2012). 60+% ya mamembala awo sanali achipembedzo (23% Achikhristu). Patangopita nthawi yochepa kuchokera pamenepa, "Christian nofap" idakhazikitsidwa, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti chiwerengero cha achipembedzo pa r/nofap chatsika kwambiri tsopano. Mu kafukufuku wa mamembala ena , 11% okha ndi omwe adasiya chifukwa cha chipembedzo. Kuyambira kafukufuku woyamba uja, chiwerengero cha mamembala pa r/nofap chakwera kwambiri. Tsopano ndi mamembala 170K+, ndipo ambiri sanali achipembedzo.

Grubbs imafunikira njira yabwinoko - njira zomwe sizimasokoneza manyazi chifukwa chokhala "osatha kusiya chizolowezi chomwe chimabweretsa zoyipa" ndikuchita manyazi chifukwa cha zolaula. Zochitika ziwiri zosiyana.

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… Mwa magwiridwe antchito awo, akatswiri amisala amayesetsa kuteteza zabwino ndi ufulu wa iwo omwe amacheza nawo mwaukadaulo komanso anthu ena okhudzidwa…. Chifukwa ziweruzo ndi zochita za akatswiri azama psychology zimakhudza miyoyo ya ena, amakhala tcheru kuti azisamala pazazachuma, zachuma, zachikhalidwe, zandale kapena zandale zomwe zitha kuyambitsa kugwiritsa ntchito molakwa mphamvu zawo ...

Mfundo B: Kukhulupirika ndi Udindo (mbali ina)

Akatswiri a zamaganizidwe… akudziwa maudindo awo pantchito zawo zasayansi kwa anthu komanso madera omwe amagwirako ntchito. Akatswiri azamakhalidwe abwino amatsata miyezo yamakhalidwe, kufotokozera maudindo ndi maudindo awo, amavomereza udindo woyenera pamakhalidwe awo ndikuyesetsa kuthana ndi kusamvana komwe kungapangitse kuti azichitira anzawo zachinyengo. …

Mfundo C: Umphumphu (mbali ina)

Akatswiri a zamaganizo amayesetsa kulimbikitsa zolondola, kuwona mtima ndi zoona mu sayansi, kuphunzitsa ndi kuchita masewero olimbitsa thupi. Muzochita zamaganizo awa samabisa, kubodza kapena kuchita chinyengo, kutengeka kapena kusalankhula molakwika.

Mfundo D: Kulemekeza Ufulu wa Anthu (mbali ina)

Akatswiri a zamaganizo amasonyeza chidziwitso choyenera ndipo amatha kuonetsetsa kuti zomwe sangakwanitse kuchita, malire awo komanso zolephera zawo sizimapangitsa kuti azichita zinthu zosayenera.

Mfundo E: Ulemu (mbali ina)

Akatswiri a zamaganizo amalemekeza ulemu ndi zoyenera za anthu onse, komanso ufulu wa anthu payekha, chinsinsi, ndi kudzidalira.

David Ley kusamvana pazachuma (COI)

COI #1 : Pa mkangano wowonekeratu wazachuma, David Ley akulipidwa ndi kampani yayikulu yamalonda a zolaula ya X-hamster kuti akweze mawebusayiti awo ndikutsimikizira ogwiritsa ntchito kuti chizolowezi cha zolaula ndi chizolowezi chogonana ndi nthano! Makamaka, David Ley ndi Sexual Health Alliance (SHA) yomwe yangopangidwa kumene agwirizana ndi tsamba la X-Hamster (Strip-Chat). Onani "Stripchat ikugwirizana ndi Sexual Health Alliance kuti igwire ubongo wanu wodera nkhawa womwe umayang'ana kwambiri zolaula ":

Bungwe lolangiza la Sexual Health Alliance (SHA) lomwe likuyamba kumene likuphatikizapo David Ley ndi "akatswiri" ena awiri a RealYourBrainOnPorn.com (Justin Lehmiller ndi Chris Donahue). RealYBOP ndi gulu la "akatswiri" odzitcha okha omwe amachirikiza zolaula , omwe amatsogozedwa ndi Nicole Prause . Gululi pakadali pano likuchita zinthu zosaloledwa zophwanya malamulo a malonda ndi kugwirira anthu m'nyumba zawo zomwe zikuyang'ana ku YBOP yovomerezeka. Mwachidule, omwe akuyesera kuletsa YBOP akulipidwanso ndi makampani opanga zolaula kuti akweze mabizinesi awo, ndikutsimikizira ogwiritsa ntchito kuti mawebusayiti a zolaula ndi makamera sayambitsa mavuto (dziwani: Nicole Prause ali ndi ubale wapagulu ndi makampani opanga zolaula monga momwe zalembedwera patsamba lino ).

Munkhaniyi , Ley akutsutsa kutsatsa kwake kolipira makampani opanga zolaula :

N’zoona kuti akatswiri azaumoyo wogonana omwe amagwira ntchito limodzi ndi malo ochezera a pa Intaneti amakumana ndi mavuto ena, makamaka kwa iwo omwe akufuna kudzionetsa ngati osakondera. “Ndimayembekezera kuti [olimbikitsa zolaula] onse azifuula kuti, ‘O, taonani, onani, David Ley akugwira ntchito yokhudza zolaula,’” akutero Ley, yemwe dzina lake limatchulidwa kawirikawiri m’madera oletsa kugonana monga NoFap.

Koma ngakhale ntchito yake ndi Stripchat mosakayikira imamupatsa chakudya kwa wina aliyense wofunitsitsa kuti amulembe ngati wakondera kapena mthumba la malo oonera zolaula, a Ley, malonda amenewo ndi oyenera. "Ngati tikufuna kuthandiza [oonera zolaula], tiyenera kupita kwa iwo," akutero. "Umu ndi momwe timachitira izi."

Kodi wasankha? Ley akutikumbutsa za madokotala otchuka a fodya , ndi Sexual health Alliance, Tobacco Institute.

COI #2 David Ley akulipidwa kuti achotse zolaula ndi chizolowezi chogonana. Kumapeto kwa positi iyi ya blog ya Psychology Today, Ley akuti:

Kuulura: David Ley wapereka umboni pamilandu yokhudza milandu yomwe imakhudzana ndi zachiwerewere. "

Mu 2019 tsamba latsopano la David Ley linapereka ntchito zake zabwino zoti "zitsutse" :

David J. Ley, Ph.D., ndi katswiri wazamisala komanso woyang'anira wotsimikizika wa AASECT wokhudza zachiwerewere, ku Albuquerque, NM. Wapereka umboni waukatswiri komanso umboni wazamalamulo milandu ingapo kuzungulira United States. A Dr. Ley amadziwika kuti ndi akatswiri pazachinyengo zabodza zokhudzana ndi chiwerewere, ndipo adatsimikizika ngati mboni waluso pamutuwu. Iye wachitira umboni m'makhothi aboma ndi feduro.

Lumikizanani naye kuti mupeze ndandanda wa zolipiritsa ndikukonzekera nthawi yoti mudzakambirane za chidwi chanu.

COI #3: Ley amapeza ndalama pogulitsa mabuku awiri omwe amakana kugonana ndi chizolowezi chogonana (“ The Myth of Sex Addiction ,” 2012 ndi “ Ethical Porn for Dicks, ” 2016). Pornhub (yomwe ndi ya kampani yayikulu ya zolaula ya MindGeek) ndi imodzi mwa mabuku asanu olembedwa kumbuyo kwa buku la Ley la 2016 lonena za zolaula:

Chidziwitso: PornHub inali akaunti yachiwiri ya Twitter kubwereza tweet yoyamba ya RealYBOP yolengeza tsamba lake la "akatswiri", zomwe zikusonyeza kuti PornHub ndi akatswiri a RealYBOP agwirizana . Zodabwitsa!

COI #4: Pomaliza, David Ley amapeza ndalama kudzera mu masemina a CEU , komwe amalimbikitsa malingaliro a anthu okana kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo omwe afotokozedwa m'mabuku ake awiri (omwe mosasamala amanyalanyaza (omwe mosasamala amanyalanyaza maphunziro ambiri ndi kufunika kwa matenda atsopano a Compulsive Sexual Behavior Disorder mu buku lothandizira la World Health Organization). Ley amalipidwa chifukwa cha zokambirana zake zambiri zomwe zikuwonetsa malingaliro ake olakwika pa zolaula. Mu chiwonetserochi cha 2019 Ley akuwoneka kuti akuchirikiza ndikulimbikitsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kwa achinyamata: Kupanga Kugonana Kwabwino ndi Kugwiritsa Ntchito Zolaula Mwanzeru mwa Achinyamata.