Zizoloŵezi zolimbana ndi zolaula, zowawa zolaula komanso matenda oopsa a Erectile (ED) Ndi Billi Caine, B.Sc (Psych) RGN

"Zithunzi zolaula" zimatanthauzidwa kuti "zimakhala zochitika chifukwa choonera zolaula nthawi zonse kapena mopitirira muyeso. Zimadziwika kuti sizingatheke kuti munthu asamawononge zinthu zolaula. "

Erectile dysfunction (kapena ED) ndizosatheka kukhazikitsa kapena kusunga amuna okhudzana ndi zolaula pa Internet Age - kuposa momwe zinalili pa intaneti.

Chododometsa, zomwe kafukufuku wanga wazaka 2 wazolowera zolaula adapeza mobwerezabwereza anali amuna achikulire omwe sanali anamwali okha komanso omwe anali ndi vuto losokonekera la erectile. Chododometsa kwambiri chinali chakuti anamwali achichepere nawonso - ngakhale omwe anali azaka 14 mpaka 16 nawonso anali akuvutika kale ndi vuto la erectile.

Amuna ambiri amafotokoza kuti "moyo wawo wachikondi" ndi zolaula za 100% ndipo izi zidakhala choncho kuyambira pomwe adayamba kuwonekera ali achichepere. Amuna amwali awa amakhala amsinkhu kuyambira achinyamata mpaka amuna azaka za m'ma 30. Ochepa amakhala ndi zidole zogonana. Mmodzi anali ndi zidole 10 koma anali asanakhudze munthu wamoyo. Anali 20. Namwali wina anali ndi zaka 27, anali ndi vuto la erectile ndipo amatsogoleredwa "kudziwononga kwathunthu" kuseweretsa maliseche ndi anthu ena pa mawebusayiti komanso sanamvepo kukhudzidwa kwamunthu wina mdziko lenileni. Ena anali pa Viagra komabe anali kuvutikira kupeza kapena kusunga erection.

Mnyamata wina analemba kuti "Ndine 18 ndipo ndine wochita zachiwerewere kwa zaka zingapo ndipo ndakhala ndi ED Ndayamba kuyang'ana zolaula, zithunzi zolaula, zithunzi zolaula, kugonana, akazi achikulire, achinyamata . Kodi ndine gay? Sindinayambe ndamvapo kukopa kwa amuna kale. Ndayambanso kupita ku Ad Ads. Sindikudziwa ngati zili choncho chifukwa cha kuchulukana kapena ngati ndikugonana mwamseri. Ukundidya ine wamoyo. Ndine namwali. "

Zachisoni, anyamata ambiri amakhala mndende 22. Amadziwa kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndizomwe zimawalepheretsa kuti akhale ndiubwenzi weniweni koma alibe mphamvu zoyimitsa. Izi zimabweretsa kukhumudwa kwakukulu, kusungulumwa komanso kusungulumwa komwe kumawapangitsa kuti azichita zolaula zomwe zimapangitsa kuti azidzidana kwambiri komanso kusowa chochita. Ndipo kuzungulira kwake kumangokhalira kuzungulira ndikuzungulira. Wosuta wina analemba kuti "Ndimagwira 22. Sindinakhalepo ndi bwenzi kotero ndimasungulumwa ndimachita zolaula - ndiye zolaula zimandilepheretsa kukhala ndi chibwenzi." Wina analemba kuti: "Nthawi zonse ndimaonera zolaula ndikakhala wokhumudwa, wokhumudwa, wosungulumwa, wovunda kapena woganiza kuti sindidzakhala ndi bwenzi."

Ena amadzipusitsa okha kuti chibwenzi chidzakonza zolaula zawo ndi mavuto a ED. Wodwala wina analemba kuti "Ndine 23 tsopano ndipo zolaula zanga zimayamba mofulumira kwambiri. Ndinkaganiza kuti ndikadzakhala ndi chibwenzi ndimasiya kuseweretsa maliseche ndikuthetsa vutoli. Komabe, ndinamupeza iye ndi thupi langa sangayankhe. Icho chinkafuna kuti azichita maliseche. Ankafuna kuti ndizikhala pamaso pa zolaula za pa kompyuta. Ndakhala ndikusowa chibwenzi chifukwa cha matenda anga omwe amachititsa kuti ndidziwe kuti ndine wodwala zolaula. "Wina yemwe analemba zachinyengo anati:" Kulowa mu chibwenzi sikungathe "kukonza" zowononga zamaliseche. Zolingalirazo ndizomwe zidzatero koma sizingakhale ngati ubale uli wosiyana ndi zolaula ndipo mwinamwake kusuta zolaula kudzawononga chiyanjanocho. Izi zikufanana ndi kuganiza kuti kulowa mu ubale kumathetsa vuto lililonse. Izo sizidzatero. "

Amuna ena amadziwa ubale sungathe kukonza zolaula zawo ndikugwiritsidwa ntchito kuti asakhale ndi ubale mmoyo wawo. Mmodzi analemba kuti "Ndayamba kujambulidwa pa 12. Ndine 19 ndipo ndinalibe chibwenzi kapena chibwenzi pamoyo wanga. Moyo wanga wachikondi ndi 100% zolaula. Ndikudziwa zolaula ndi chifukwa chake sindinakhalepo ndi chibwenzi. Mukungodziwa zolaula ndipo simukufuna kuyesetsa kuti mupeze chibwenzi. Sindimakhulupirira ngakhale. "

Namwali wina wazaka 24 analemba umboni womvetsa chisoni otsatirawa… “Ndimakhala moyo wapawiri wowopsa womwe umandikwiyitsa komanso kundipweteka. Kugonana mwachizolowezi ndi mkazi sikulimbikitsanso malingaliro anga. Ndimakhala ndi ED nthawi yomweyo. Sindinakhalepo womasuka kuti ndilowemo ndipo chifukwa chake ndidakali namwali. Kungoyesa kuyesa kugonana ndimayenera kulingalira za zolaula. Tsopano ndili ndi kusungulumwa kwakukulu komanso gulu lankhondo padziko lonse lapansi. Kwa kanthawi ndimaganiza kuti ndiyenera kukhala wachiwerewere ndipo ndidatulukira kwa anthu angapo kuti ndikangogonana ndi amuna ngakhale osalimbikitsa. Ndimachita maliseche 3-5 nthawi tsiku lililonse - ndikuchulukirachulukira m'malo osayenera - ntchito, nyumba za anthu, mabafa wamba, eyapoti, ndege, malo odyera, zipinda zama hotelo - mumazitchula. Khungu pa mbolo yanga limafota ndikumapweteka kwambiri komwe kumatenga miyezi kuchira chifukwa sindingathe kusiya kuseweretsa maliseche. Ngati ndili ndi "kuyabwa", ndiyenera kuyikanda - ziribe kanthu momwe zinthu ziliri. Ndinayima kamodzi kwa masiku 13. Chakumapeto kwa nthawi imeneyo, ndipo koyamba kuyambira kutha msinkhu, zinthu zazing'ono zokhudza mkazi zidanditembenuza - tsitsi, kumwetulira, kalembedwe etc. Zinali ngati chifunga chakwezedwa. Koma tsiku la 14, ndinabwereranso ndipo ndinayambiranso ndipo ndikadakhala wakuda kwambiri. Chiyembekezo chonse choti ndidzakhala ndi mkazi chinatheratu. ”

Mavuto ena amakhalanso ofanana. Wina analemba kuti "Ndine namwali wa zaka 24. Mukuchita zolaula kwa zaka 4. Lingaliro langa pa kugonana lasinthidwa ndi zolaula mpaka kufika poti ndikufunikira zolaula kuti zidzutse. Kukhala ndi akazi enieni sikungondidzutsa ine. Zimandipangitsa ine misala. "Nkhani zambiri za amuna ndizofanana ndi izi.

Kwa oledzera omwe sali anamwali ndipo ali-kapena akhala-mu ubale kapena maukwati - nkhani zawo ndizosautsa. Wina analemba kuti "Nthawi zina ndimayang'ana zolaula musanayambe kugonana monga njira yokhayo yomwe ndingadzutse ndikukhala ndi maganizo koma nthawi zina sindingathe kumangokhalira ndi zithunzi zolaula zomwe sindingathe kuzichita komanso ndikuchita zinthu zolimbitsa thupi. Zina kuposa izo ine sindimagonana ngongole nkomwe. Ine ndimangokhala ndi usiku umodzi ndikuima ndipo sindinakhalepo ndi ubale kumene ife tinali kugonana pokhazikika. Ndimakachetechetsanso kwambiri NDICHITO mwamsanga ndipo sindinasinthidwe ndi abambo. "

Amuna adziphunzitsa okha - kudzera mu maliseche monga munthu amene akufotokozedwa - kungoyankha mwamphamvu kuposa momwe abambo onse amatha kugwirira. Mitsempha ya mbolo imatha kukonzedwa kotero tsopano munthu sangathe kuyankha zowonongeka kwambiri. Ndipo zolaula zambiri zomwe zimadetsa amuna zikuyenera kudziwa bwino izi. Wina analemba kuti: "Kuchita maliseche kumakhala koposa kugonana kwabwino komanso chifukwa chake thupi langa silinayankhe. Sindingathe kuchita. "

Chimodzi mwazinthu zomwe zidandidabwitsa pakufufuza kwanga ndi momwe amuna kapena akazi anzawo okonda zolaula nthawi zonse amayenera kubereka amuna anzawo ogonana nawo. Izi sizinamveke pa intaneti isanachitike komanso zowopsa modabwitsa kuposa zinthu zambiri zomwe ndidakumana nazo pakufufuza kwanga. Amayi sanayambe apemphetsa amuna kuti agone nawo pa intaneti. Zosiyana kwenikweni. Nthawi zambiri kunkachitika nthabwala pakati pa akazi makamaka momwe amuna nthawi zonse amakhala ndi njala yogonana komanso zopweteka chifukwa chake chifukwa chomwe mawu oti "sindingagonane. Ndimva mutu ”anabadwa. Mzimayi amangofunika kukhudza mwamunayo mwamunayo pang'ono pang'ono ndipo amayamba kukomoka ndikufuna kugonana nthawi yomweyo. Amayi, pamapeto pake, adayamba kukaikira ngakhale kukhudza anzawo chifukwa chakulakalaka kwawo komanso kufunika kogonana. Ndi akazi, makamaka, kukhala ngati madzi ndipo amafunika kuwotha moto pang'ono asanakonzekere kugonana (zimatenga akazi kumaliseche mphindi 20 kuti adzuke kwathunthu) mavesi amuna omwe ali ngati moto ndipo amafunika kutsitsidwa, kusalingana anali ofala nthawi zonse pakati pa amuna ndi akazi komanso chifukwa chake amuna nthawi zina anali "ovuta". Sichikuwonekeranso tsopano kuti tili ndi zolaula pa intaneti komanso pa intaneti…

Mwamuna wina analemba kuti "Kugonana ndi mkazi wanga akusintha. Ndikufuna kugonana ndi iye mocheperapo ndipo ndikufuna kuti ndizichita mowa kwambiri. Iye wanena kuti iye nthawi zambiri ndiye woyambitsa zogonana ndipo ine wokongola kwambiri sindingakhoze kukwaniritsa zovuta pamene ine ndimagonana naye. Izi zimakhudza kwambiri ndipo tsopano ndikufufuza zolaula pokhapokha pa zolaula. Ndikuwona moyo wanga ukuchoka ndipo ndikuwona zotayika zonse. Ndine 26. "Mwamuna wina analemba kuti:" Ndili ndi mavuto okhwima ndi mkazi wanga komanso ndikudzipatula nthawi zambiri. Ndimasiya kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndipo mavuto a erection amachoka ndipo ndikuganiza kuti ndili bwino tsopano ndikubwerera ku zolaula ndipo amayamba kachiwiri. Ndizovuta kwambiri. "

Mwamuna wina analemba kuti "Ndikhoza kupeza erection mosavuta ndikangowonjezera laputopu koma sindingapeze imodzi yogonana pogwiritsa ntchito njira yachibadwa (kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kwalemetsa kwa zaka 6). Komanso pamene ndili pabedi ndi mkazi wanga ndimayenera kuganizira zolaula kuti andithandize kuti ndikhale ndi erection. "Mnyamata winanso analemba kuti:" Ndine wolekerera wa 28 wa chaka chimodzi. Porn zinkakhudza zogonana zanga pamene sindinagone naye. Tsopano ndakumana ndi munthu ndipo vuto langa sindingathe kudzutsidwa pamene ndili naye. Ndikhoza kungodzuka pamene ndikuyang'ana zolaula. Ndimachita manyazi komanso kulephera. "

Porn amadzetsa amuna nthawi zonse kufotokoza momwe libido yawo ndi anzawo akuwonongedwa chifukwa cha zolaula zawo. Mwamuna wina analemba kuti "Ndimamva ngati kugonana kwanga kugona pang'ono pokhapokha ndikadzuka ndikuyang'ana zolaula." Wina analemba kuti "Zanga zanga zolaula ndi zowononga zakhala zikuchitika kwa zaka 16 (kuyambira zaka 13). Tsopano pamene ndikuyesera kugonana ndimataya kukwatira. Ndili ndi malingaliro ambiri odzipha. "Mnyamata wina analemba kuti," Kwa nthawi yonse yomwe ndikukumbukira, sindinathe kuzigonjetsa panthawi yogonana. Izi zimapangitsa kugonana kusokoneza ine. Komabe ndikutha kuononga zolaula. "Wina analemba nkhaniyi kuti mobwerezabwereza zithunzi zolaula zinkasokoneza anthu ..." Ndikupeza kugonana kwenikweni ndikukhumudwitsa ndipo ndimakonda kuchita zolaula ndikugonana. Zimandipangitsa kulira ngakhale ndikuganiza kuti ndingakonde kudzisangalatsa pamaso pa makompyuta osati ndi mkazi wabwino. Icho chiyenera kutha tsopano. "

Wodwala wina analemba kuti "Ndakhazikitsa mfundo zabwino zokhudzana ndi zolaula ndipo tsopano palibe chomwe chidzagwirizane ndi zomwe ndikuyembekeza kudziko lenileni ndipo sindingathe kukwatira zachiwerewere." Wina analemba kuti "Sindingathe kukwanira bwino pamene Ndili ndi mnzanga. Kugonana kumakhala kosautsa pambuyo podabwitsa kwambiri. "Wina analemba kuti:" Sindikumva kuti ndine wofanana kwambiri ndi kugonana kwenikweni monga momwe ndimakhalira ndi maliseche ndi zolaula. "Wina anati" Ndimasangalala ndi kugonana kwachibadwa pokhapokha mkazi atachita zolaula. "Wina analemba kuti" Ndakhala ndikuledzera kuyambira zaka 13-14. Ndakhala ndikugonana nthawi 3 - onse ndi mahule ndipo alephera kusunga. Sindinakhalepo ndi chibwenzi. "

Wodalirika wina analemba kuti "Sindimasangalala ndi kugonana kwambiri. Ndakhala ndikugonjetsedwa ndi zolaula pa moyo wanga wachikulire. Kufika kwa intaneti kunangopangitsa kuti zinthu zikhale zovuta kwambiri. "Wina analemba kuti:" Ndimaona zachiwerewere komanso zolaula ngati 2 mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya zachiwawa komanso atayang'ana zolaula, zimangokhala ngati ndikuyenera kukambiranso maganizo anga kuti ndikathe kugonana. Ngati sindinayang'ane zolaula, sindikanakhala ndi vuto pofika pachimake. "

Wodalitsidwa wina analemba "ndine 22 ndipo libido yanga yawonongedwa kwathunthu. Sindinatembenuzidwenso. Zangoyamba kumverera ngati kutamandidwa kwaulemerero - ngakhale panthawi ya maliseche. "Wina analemba kuti" Zachulukitsidwa kuti zisawonongeke. Sindingathe kuchita ndi akazi enieni ndikuwasiya akudzifunsa ngati pali chinachake cholakwika ndi iwo (osati mwadala) ndiye kuti mupite kunyumba ndikukwera ku kanema koyipa komwe ndikukwera kachiwiri - ndiye ndimasewera ndikugona. Izi ndizochitika. Ndikungofuna kugonana bwino komanso kugonana. "

Pakati pa mutu womwewo, wina wodakwa analemba kuti "Zapita patsogolo kuti ziwononge zolaula ndi zina zoopsa kwambiri. Ndinayamba kuchita zolaula ku 11 (tsopano ndine 27) ndipo ngakhale kuti mtsikanayo anali wokongola bwanji, sindinapezekanso bwino. "Wina anati" nthawi zonse ndimafuna zolaula "zoletsedwa" kuti ndizikhala ndi zolaula. Ndine 26 ndipo sindinayambe kugonana kapena chibwenzi. "

Umboni woterewu walembedwa mobwerezabwereza ndi zolaula. Wina analemba kuti: "Ndili ndi zofooka zochepa tsopano ngakhale ndikuona zolaula komanso sindingathe kukhala olimba." Poyankha, munthu uyu yemwe adachiritsidwa analemba izi ... "Ndinkangokhalira kukweza mpiringidzo kuti ndipeze zozizwitsa zanga. Kuledzera kumakupangitsa kuti ukhale wovuta mosavuta. Ndinayenera kupitirizabe kukumbukira mpaka chinachake chinandichititsa kuti ndikhale wolimba. Pamene mukuyamba kusiya zolaula, mkati mwa mwezi umodzi, zosankhidwa zoyenera kubweranso. "

Wodwala wozunzidwa wina analemba kuti "Ndikukonzekera kukwatira mnzanga koma ndikuwopa kuti ndikukumana ndi mavuto ndikutha kudzuka kapena ndikuwukitsidwa ndipo ndikuwopa kuti zikhoza kuipiraipira." Wina wolemba chidindo analemba kuti "Kugonana kwanga koyamba kunali kovuta kwambiri zaka zolaula ndi maliseche. Ndili mwana weniweni. "Wina analemba kuti:" Ndakhala ndikuchita zolaula kuyambira ndili ndi 12 ndipo ndinayamba kugonana ndi 27. Sizinali zosangalatsa monga momwe ndimaganizira ndipo sindinasinthe. Kodi izi zikukhudzana ndi chizolowezi changa chotere? "Wina analemba kuti" Pamene ndinagonana ndi mkazi wokongola, ndinapeza (patatha zaka 2 za kusagonana) PLAIN. Zinkamveka ngati "Kodi izi ndizo?" Kuphatikizana kwa zaka za 2 popanda mkazi (zosankha zanga) ndi kukhumudwa kwa zolaula ndikuganiza kuti ndi zomwe zandichitira ine. Kugonana naye ndikumangokhala ngati ntchito ndipo palibe malo ovuta komanso osangalatsa ngati ndikukhala pa mpando wanga wapamwamba. "

Ambiri amalephera kulemba nthawi ndi nthawi kuti "N'zosavuta kuchita zolaula kuposa kugonana. Momwemonso ndi maliseche. "Amuna ambiri amalembanso zinthu motsatira izi ..." Ndili ndi nkhani zakugonana. Ziri zosavuta kuti tipeze zolaula kuposa anthu enieni. "Kapena ..." Ndayamba kuyang'ana zinthu zovuta monga manyazi. Pamene ndimayang'ana zolaula, ndimangomva chisoni kuti ndipeze chibwenzi. "Kapena ..." Nditangoyamba kuchita zolaula pa intaneti, chidaliro changa pa nkhani yogonana chinakhala chochepa kwambiri Ndinayamba kuchita mantha. Izi zimandikhudza ine lero. "Kapena ..." Ndimaona kuti kugonana kwa pa Intaneti kuli pangozi kusiyana ndi kuwonetsa masewero a ubale weniweni. Ndikuwononga moyo wanga ngakhale. "Kapena ..." Ndakhala ndikuchita zolaula kuyambira ndili ndi 10 pamene ndapeza bambo anga. Ndakhala ndikuledzera kuyambira - zaka 25. Ndakhala ndikukhala moyo wanga wachikulire kwambiri - tsiku linalake. Magazini ndi mavidiyo zinali zosavuta kukhala ndi chiyanjano kusiyana ndi chinthu chenicheni. "Wina analemba kuti" Zithunzi zolaula ndizoyamba kukonda ndi kukhumba. Ndinaziona ndisanakumane ndi mkazi. "

Pogwiritsa ntchito mitu yofananayo, wodwala wina analemba kuti "Ndakhala ndikuwonera zolaula kuyambira ndili ndi 12. Ndinayamba kupeza magazini a amalume anga ndipo kuyambira nthawiyo sindinathe kuwonetsa zolaula. Kuyambira ndili mwana sindinamvepo kuti atsikana anandipeza wokongola kotero kuti zolaula zanga zandichititsa kuti ndisamalimbikitse ubale wabwino ndi wapamtima ndi akazi. Ine tsopano ndili mu 20 wanga ndipo ndimamva ululu wokhala ndekha. Kukhumudwa ndi chidani chokha kumadzaza mtima wanga chifukwa cha zovuta zowononga zolaula ndi chiwerewere zandiponyera ine. Moyo wanga ndi sham. Pamene ndikuwona abwenzi anga akukwatira, khalani ndi ana ndikusangalala ndi moyo, nthawi zina ndimamva ngati ndikufuna kudzipha ndekha. "

Wachidakwa wina wokhumudwa kwambiri analemba kuti "Nditatha kuyang'ana zolaula kwambiri, zolaula zanga sizinapezekenso. Choyipa chachikulu ndikuti sindinakhalepo ndi chibwenzi kapena kugonana kotero zimandisokoneza. Ndine 18 ndipo ndikumverera kale ngati bambo wazaka 70 yemwe ali ndi vuto la erectile. Tsopano zolaula zosakhala zolimba sizimandidzutsa ndipo ndimafunikira zolaula zowopsa kuti ndizidzuka. Tsopano ndikusowa zolaula zolakwika kuti ndizidzuka. Kuonera zolaula kwazaka zambiri kwawononga kugonana kwanga konse. Ndayesera kusiya koma ndizovuta kwambiri. Ndimachita manyazi chifukwa ndikufunitsitsa kusiya zonsezi kamodzi kokha. Ndikufuna kukhala ndi chiwerewere CHABWINO ndi chibwenzi chenicheni komanso zogonana zenizeni. Sindikudziwa momwe ndingapewere zonsezi - kuyesayesa kulikonse kwakulephera kwalephera. ”

Mnyamata wina wodzitcha anati "Ndatsegula akaunti yanga yoyamba kubanki kuti ndigule makamera a ngongole. Ndine 18. Kulipira msungwana kuti ndikhale wamaliseche kumandichititsa kumverera koopsa. Ndakhala ndikukumana ndi msungwana weni weni koma sindingathe kuthana ndi kukhudzana ndi intaneti ndi mtsikana wina pa webcam. Ndikadzatengedwanso sindidzasamala ndipo ndizoopsa. Ndilo ndondomeko yomwe imangopitilira ndikupitirirabe. Ndikudziwa zimenezo."

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