Kodi kuseweretsa maliseche kuli koyenera kwa inu? Ganizirani zowona ndikudziyesa nokha.
Kodi mwaphunzitsidwa kuti kuseweretsa maliseche kwa akuluakulu n’kwabwino kwambiri moti kumachepetsa chilakolako cha kugonana? Kodi kusangalala ndi kugonana konse n’kopindulitsa mofanana? Kodi palibe chinthu chonga kutulutsa umuna kwambiri? Ndipo pali zotsatirapo zoopsa chifukwa chosachita maliseche pafupipafupi?
Ngati ndi choncho, mudzadabwa kudziwa kuti zikhulupiriro zimenezi zofala zimadalira kungomva chabe. Sizichirikizidwa ndi sayansi nthawi zonse. Ndipotu, kafukufuku wina amawafooketsa. Wofufuza Rui Miguel Costa anafotokoza mwachidule kafukufukuyu (womwe wafotokozedwa pansipa) mu Archives of Sexual Behavior: “ Kuseweretsa maliseche kumakhudzana ndi matenda amisala ndi kuwonongeka kwa prostate .” Ndipo mu 2017 gulu la ofufuza aku Switzerland linati , “Kuseweretsa maliseche kwagwirizanitsidwa—makamaka pakati pa amuna—ndi kuchita zinthu zochepa zogonana ndi mnzawo, kusakhutira pang’ono pankhani yogonana ndi ubale, kusakhutira kwakukulu pankhani yogonana, komanso kusakhutira pang’ono ndi thanzi la maganizo ndi moyo wonse (Costa, 2012; Gerressu, Mercer,Graham, Wellings & Johnson, 2008).
Chidziwitso chokhazikika chokhudza maliseche ndikofunikira kwambiri masiku ano. Popeza anthu ambiri akuyamba kuganiza zinthu zatsopano zokhudzana ndi maliseche mwachangu komanso nthawi zonse, n'zosavuta kuti ogwiritsa ntchito asinthe zizindikiro za thupi lawo kuti latopa nazo. Komanso, masiku ano, maliseche ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti ndi zofanana kwambiri. Chifukwa chake ngati maliseche ndi "abwino kwa inu," ndiye kuti kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti mobwerezabwereza kudzakusungani wathanzi . Malingaliro aunyamata ndi abwino kwambiri!
Izi sizikutanthauza kuti aliyense ayenera kudzimva kuti akuchita zachiwerewere. Kungonena kuti mutha kuwona zabwino pakubwezeretsanso chilakolako chanu chogonana. Pakadali pano, nayi nkhani yowonda pamiyambo isanu yotchuka yokhudza maliseche:
Bodza # 1 - “Simungathe kuchepetsa kuseweretsa maliseche osadzivulaza”
Anyamata zikwizikwi (ndipo ngakhale atsikana ena) akupeza kuti kusiya kudziseweretsa maliseche, komanso kupewa/kuchepetsa kudziseweretsa maliseche kwakanthawi kumabweretsa mavuto kapena kuletsa kugonana—kutanthauza kuti, ubwino wodabwitsa.
Mungapeze malipoti awo pa malo ngati awa , omwe amabweretsa vuto la masiku 90. Nazi malipoti atatu ochokera kumasamba ena ( malipoti ena ochokera kwa iwo ):
Ndine mnyamata wazaka 20 ndipo ... ndakhala ndikunyalanyaza maubwenzi ambiri chifukwa cha [kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula]; ndakhala ndikukwiya msanga, ndikudzudzula kwambiri, ndikunyoza komanso sindikudzidalira - mndandandawu ukupitirira. Ndinapewa zolaula/kuseweretsa maliseche chilimwe chatha osadziwa kuti ndinali ndi vuto m'manja mwanga (mawu osangalatsa) koma MWADAINE ndinamva kusiyana! Ndinakhala wodziwa zambiri, wosangalala, wokonda kucheza ndi anthu, wokhala ndi chiyembekezo komanso wokhazikika. Zomwe ndinakumana nazo zinali kuganiza zomwe ndingathe kungofotokoza ngati umuna wamphamvu komanso bata lamkati; ndi momwe moyo uyenera kukhalira. Ndinali wanzeru kwambiri, wochezeka, wochita zinthu mopitirira muyeso komanso wopanga zinthu. Lero (ndisanasiye) ndili wosatetezeka pang'ono, wamanyazi, wofunafuna kuvomerezedwa, ndipo palibe pafupi ndi kudziyimira pawokha m'maganizo.
Ndili ndi zaka 21 , ndipo ndimamva ngati ndili ndi zinthu zambiri zoti ndilipire zaka zonsezi zapitazi zomwe sizinaphule kanthu. Kunena kuti ndimakhala wopanda mphamvu ngati ndikuchita PMO ndi kunyalanyaza. Ndimangokhala ndi nkhawa kwambiri, ndilibe chidaliro, sindingathe kuganiza bwino, sindingathe kuganiza bwino. Ndipo ndakhala ndikukhala zaka zambiri motere. Tsopano ndili wolamulidwa, wokhazikika, woganizira kwambiri, wodzidalira kwambiri, komanso ndili ndi maganizo akuthwa kwambiri. Ndipo awa ndi masiku 22 okha. Mukasunga mphamvu zanu, mumapeza chifuniro chosagonjetseka pomwe zomwe zikanakhala makoma akuluakulu m'mbuyomu zimakhala mipanda yaying'ono yofika m'mawondo yomwe muyenera kungoidutsa.
Tsiku lina, ndinapeza ma ripoti osiyanasiyana ndi mayeso a aphunzitsi kuyambira ndisanayambe kuseweretsa maliseche nthawi zonse komanso pambuyo pake. Panali kusiyana kwakukulu pa momwe ndimachitira (popanda kuseka) komanso momwe aphunzitsi anga amandionera. Maphunziro anga anali olimba kwambiri ndisanayambe kuseweretsa maliseche kangapo patsiku. Inde, zitha kukhala mwangozi koma sindikuganiza choncho nditazindikira momwe ndimagwirira ntchito bwino komanso kuganizira kwambiri ndikapuma pantchito kwakanthawi kochepa.
Kodi chimachitika ndi chiyani ndi umuna womwe sunatulutsidwe? Malinga ndi forum ya Cambridge University ya “NakedScientist” ,
Nkhumba zomwe zafika pazogulitsidwa zawo zimathyoledwa mwanjira yomweyi, tiyeni tinene, maselo a magazi amathyoledwa. Ndipo makamaka zakudya ndi zowonjezera zilizonse mu umuna zimangobwereranso mkati mwa thupi.
Bodza # 2 - "Palibe chinthu chonga kuseweretsa maliseche kwambiri"
Anyamata akunena kuti kudziseweretsa maliseche kwambiri n'kotheka ndi zolaula zachangu masiku ano. Nazi zizindikiro zina (zotengedwa kuchokera ku malipoti a anthu ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti):
- Kuchita maliseche mpaka kumapeto kwa madzi ouma kapena zowawa
- Zilonda, zotupa, kutupa, mabala kapena mabala kumaliseche kwanu chifukwa chotsutsana kwambiri
- Kutaya kutha "kumva" kugonana kapena mkamwa
- Kutaya chidwi mwa kugonana kwenikweni ndi enieni, zofuna za kugonana zosagwirizana ndi zachiwerewere
- Kusuntha kwa maola kuti chiwonongeke pachimake, nthawi zambiri chifukwa chokhala chosangalatsa
- Zizindikiro zina zokhudzana ndi chiwerewere, monga matenda osagwirizana ndi anthu, ubongo wa ubongo, kupsinjika maganizo, mavuto a achinyamata ogonana, komanso oopsa zizindikiro za kuchotsa pamene ayima, ndi zina zotero.
N’chifukwa chiyani chikhalidwe chathu sichinafufuze za kuthekera kwa kuseweretsa maliseche kwambiri? Mwina chifukwa - mpaka posachedwapa - anthu ochepa okha ndi omwe adagwa mumsampha woseweretsa maliseche mopitirira muyeso. Amasiya akangokhutira.
Vuto lalikulu masiku ano ndi kupeza mosavuta zinthu zatsopano zokhudzana ndi kugonana zomwe zimatipangitsa kuiwala kukhuta kwathu , komanso kusokoneza ubongo wathu. Ichi ndi chinthu chatsopano kwambiri kotero kuti kafukufuku sanapeze zenizeni. Nkhani zambiri zimapweteka mtima, ndipo ntchito ya liwiro lalikulu ikuwonekera:
Ndinali womanga thupi. Ndinachoka pa 220 mpaka 180, ngakhale NDI kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi ndikudya zakudya zambiri zamagulu ndi zopatsa mphamvu. Ndinali kutaya chabe. Ndinayamba kukhala ndi mantha opanda pake awa mozungulira anthu. Ndinadzimva kukhala wamantha ndi wofooka. Liwu langa ndi lopanda pake, ngati ndizomveka. Ndatayika ndekha. Ndinkavutika maganizo nthawi zonse. Ndinaleka kuchoka panyumba panga; anzanga pang'onopang'ono anazimiririka. Chifukwa chake tsopano ndine wowonda komanso wowonda pakati pa anthu, lol, komwe ndimakhala Mfumu ya sukulu yanga… wtf! Sindinasinthe ZINTHU ZONSE ZOTHANDIZA MU MOYO WANGA kupatula kuti ndimakonda kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndikuchulukirachulukira. Ndichoncho. Ndimaganizirabe zabwino, ndikupita kumabala, kudya athanzi, kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi, jazi yonseyo. CHINTHU chokhacho chomwe chidakulirakulira ndichikondi changa ndi atsikana onyenga omwe anali pazithunzi za pixelated. Ndimamva ngati kuti sindingathe kusumika maganizo kapena kumvetsetsa patatha nthawi pang'ono, masiku ena ndimakhala ndogona chifukwa chovala chakuthambo ndikoyipa….
Mu kafukufuku wotchedwa “ Makhalidwe a odwala malinga ndi mtundu wa hypersexuality ,” ofufuza adanenanso kuti mwa amuna omwe adadziseweretsa ola limodzi kapena angapo patsiku kapena ola loposa 7 pa sabata, 71% adanenanso kuti ali ndi mavuto okhudzana ndi kugonana, ndipo 33% adanenanso kuti amavutika kwambiri ndi okondedwa awo.
Talingalirani wogwira naye ntchito wosauka:
Miyezi ingapo yapitayo kampaniyo idapereka mafoni anzeru atsopano kwa oyendetsa ntchito omwe analibe kale. Zinangotengera nthawi kuti wothandizana naye asadziwe zamatsenga zolaula. Tsiku lina amayenda mumsewu mgalimoto yamakampani ndikuseweretsa maliseche mumsewu waukulu NDI wogwira naye ntchito mgalimoto. Zikuwononganso ubale wake ndi mkazi wake chifukwa atha kupita kunyumba ndikukayamba zolaula kuposa kugonana.
Komanso, zikuwoneka kuti kuseweretsa maliseche pofuna kumva (popanda zolaula kapena malingaliro a zolaula) kungakhale kochepa komanso kotopetsa kuposa kuseweretsa maliseche pofuna zolaula, ndi magulu ake osatha a okondana atsopano. Asayansi aphunzira kuti kuseweretsa maliseche pofuna kuonetsa nyenyezi yatsopano kumawonjezera kuchuluka kwa umuna ndi umuna woyenda (poyerekeza ndi kuseweretsa maliseche pofuna kuonetsa sewero lodziwika bwino). Komanso, nthawi yomwe imatenga kuti umuna utuluke imachepa kwambiri. Mwachidule, zachilendo zogonana zimamasulira kukhala umuna wobereka kwambiri komanso kutulutsa umuna mwachangu. Izi zimapangitsa kuti "zolumikizana zilizonse" (ngakhale zolingazo zili ziwiri zokha) zikhale zogwira mtima, komanso zodula kwambiri. Kafukufuku akuwonetsanso ntchito yayikulu yozungulira ubongo mukamakumana ndi mnzanu watsopano wogonana naye.
Zoletsa ndi zachibadwa pa zochita zina zonse za thupi. Mwachitsanzo, kumwa madzi, kudya, kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi, kukhala padzuwa, kunyamula zolemera, kukhala maso kapena kukhala pabedi. Komanso, nyama zina zoyamwitsa zimakhala ndi malire pa zochita zawo zogonana. Mwachitsanzo, ngati makoswe atulutsa umuna asanachire kukhuta, amasonyeza zizindikiro zodziwika bwino . Anthu nawonso ali ndi malire. Poyerekeza ndi mitundu ina, mwachitsanzo, umuna wa munthu wothandiza umatha mosavuta.
Komabe, pakadali pano, chikhulupiriro chakuti kudzisangalatsa sikumalumikizidwa ndi lamulo la kudziletsa chikadali chokhazikika. Lingaliro limeneli lingayambike chifukwa chakuti, pamene anthu akulowerera mu chizolowezi (chifukwa cha kusonkhezeredwa ndi zolaula zothamanga kwambiri), amaona kuti chilakolako choyaka ndi chilakolako cha chilakolako cha kugonana. Mtsikana wina wazaka 30 anati,
Ndimamvera chisoni anyamata achichepere omwe adayamba kuthamanga kwambiri kuyambira kutha msinkhu. Zili ngati kuwombera heroin musanamwe mowa wanu woyamba.
Palibe kuchuluka kwa nthawi yomwe ubongo wa munthu wokonda kwambiri zolaula ungakhutiritse , kotero anthu omwe amakopeka ndi chizolowezicho amamva ngati sakukhutira. Komanso, anyamata omwe ali ndi chizolowezi chokonda kwambiri akasiya, nthawi zambiri amakumana ndi kuchepa kwakanthawi, koma koopsa kwa chilakolako cha kugonana komanso kukhudzidwa ndi mbolo - osatchulanso zizindikiro zina zopweteka zosiya - zomwe zingawabwezeretse ku zolaula zothamanga kwambiri chifukwa cha mantha, ndikulowa kwambiri mu chizolowezi chawo.
Bodza lachitatu # 3 -
Kuyambira nthawi ya Kinsey yatsimikiziridwa, koma sichirikizidwa ndi umboni, kuti khalidwe lonse la kugonana ndilofanana. Izi zakhala zowonjezera zowona kuposa mfundo. -Stuart Brody, katswiri wa zamaganizo
Kugonana (PVI) kumagwirizana ndi thanzi labwino la maganizo ndi thupi, magwiridwe antchito abwino ogonana komanso ubale wabwino wapamtima— poyerekeza ndi maliseche ndi machitidwe ena ogonana . Mayi wina anati:
Ndinalibe vuto lakumva kwa mmawa pakatha zaka 10 ndikukhala ndi zipsyinjo ndi mwamuna wanga. Chikondi chonse chimene chinadzaza kukonza kwathu chikondi chinatulukamo ndipo chimaphimba zoipa zomwe zimaoneka ngati ine monga wamasiye. Kuzengereza ndi wokondedwa kumasiyana kwambiri ndi kumapeto kwa milomo yopanda kanthu.
Monga tafotokozera mu buku lakuti The Lazy Way to Stay in Love , makhalidwe ena amalembedwa ndi gawo loyambirira la ubongo ngati zizindikiro zolumikizirana . Zizindikiro zotere zimamangirira anthu chifukwa zimatonthoza chitetezo cha ubongo mwa kutulutsa oxytocin mu amygdala. Ndi njira yachilengedwe yolimbana ndi nkhawa. Kukhudza nthawi zonse kofunda, mwachitsanzo, kwawonetsedwa kuti kumachepetsa kuthamanga kwa magazi , makamaka mwa amuna.
Kodi kugonana mwachikondi kumaonekera ngati chizindikiro cha chikondi m'njira yomwe kugonana nokha sikuonekera? Ndithudi kusiyana kumawonekera ngakhale mu mahomoni a zochita ziwirizi. Mwachitsanzo, kugonana ndi pachimake kumatulutsa prolactin yochulukirapo kanayi ya maliseche, zomwe zimathandiza kuletsa chilakolako chogonana kwa kanthawi. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, pachimake chomwe chimapezeka mwanjira zosiyanasiyana sichimasinthana malinga ndi zotsatira zake.
N'zomveka bwino kuti kugonana kumapereka mphotho zazikulu zakuthupi ndi zamaganizo kuposa anyamata ena okonda kugonana. Chisinthiko chimakonda machitidwe omwe angalimbikitse majini mtsogolo. Kusinthana kwa chikondi mwina kumakhala kopindulitsa chifukwa kumathandiza makolo ogwirizana. Chifukwa chake, ana omwe ali ndi osamalira awiri odzipereka amakhala ndi mwayi wabwino wopulumuka.
Komanso, monga momwe Brody ndi ena adanenera, chisinthiko chingasankhe njira zamaganizo zomwe zimapindulitsa PVI - chifukwa zolimbikitsa kudziseweretsa maliseche m'malo mwake zimafuna ndalama zolimbitsa thupi. Zoonadi, zolimbikitsa zachiwerewere zachilendo masiku ano zikuwoneka kuti zitha kukopa ogwiritsa ntchito ena kuti asaone ubwino wa PVI (ndi kusafa kwa majini).
N’zoonekeratu kuti masiku ano kudziseweretsa maliseche si chinthu chachilendo pakati pa anthu omwe amagonana. Koma chosangalatsa n’chakuti, ngakhale zili choncho, kudziseweretsa maliseche si chinthu chosangalatsa. Ndipotu, kudziseweretsa maliseche nthawi zambiri kumagwirizanitsidwa ndi kusakhutira ndi zinthu zingapo za moyo popanda kudalira kuchuluka kwa PVI , ndipo kumawoneka kuti kumachepetsa ubwino wa PVI.
Ngati mungathe, yerekezerani kugonana ndi maliseche nokha ndikuwona zomwe mukuziwona pamasiku otsatirawa.
Nthano # 4 - "Kuchita maliseche pafupipafupi kumapindulitsa moyo wanu wogonana"
Kodi mukudziwa kuti kugonana kwambiri kumakhudzana ndi kusokonezeka kwa ntchito zogonana mwa amuna ndi akazi? Kodi kumakhudzana ndi kusakhutira kwambiri ndi maubwenzi komanso chikondi chochepa kwa okondedwa? Kugonana kwambiri kumakhudzananso ndi zizindikiro zambiri za kukhumudwa komanso zizindikiro zina zingapo za thanzi lofooka la thupi ndi maganizo, kuphatikizapo kuthamanga kwa magazi chifukwa cha kupsinjika maganizo, nkhawa komanso njira zosakhwima zodzitetezera ku maganizo.
Mwachionekere, kafukufukuyu sakutsimikizira kuti kudziseweretsa maliseche kumayambitsa mavutowa, koma zikupangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta kunena kuti kudziseweretsa maliseche ndi mankhwala abwino pa thanzi. Mwachidule, ngati muli ndi mwayi wokhala ndi mnzanu, tsatirani upangiri woseketsa wa Bill Maher ndipo osachepera pangani kudziseweretsa maliseche kukhala chisankho chanu chachiwiri.
Nthano # 5 - "Kuchita maliseche pafupipafupi kumalepheretsa khansa ya prostate"
Sizikudziwika. Mwina ubwino wa kugonana kwa pathupi umakhudzana kwambiri ndi kugonana ndi munthu wina , makamaka kugonana kwa mbolo ndi nyini (PVI) osati kudziseweretsa maliseche. Komabe, kafukufuku wambiri wa khansa ya prostate womwe ulipo kale unabisa izi mwa kufunsa mafunso osasankhidwa bwino. Ofufuza ankaganiza kuti kutulutsa umuna konse kungakhale ndi zotsatira zofanana pa khansa ya prostate (ngati ilipo), kotero anawona kudziseweretsa maliseche, PVI ndi machitidwe ena opangitsa kuti munthu afike pa kugonana ngati "kutulutsa umuna." Komanso, anayenera kudalira zokumbukira za amuna zokhudza kugonana zaka zambiri zapitazo.
Zotsatira zake sizinali zotsatizana. Monga momwe ofufuza a kafukufukuyu omwe amatchulidwa kawirikawiri pochirikiza nthano # 5 adanenera, "Mafukufuku asanu ndi anayi adawona mgwirizano wofunikira kapena wosafunikira pa ziwerengero; maphunziro atatu adanena kuti palibe mgwirizano; maphunziro 7 adapeza ubale wosiyana pa ziwerengero; ndipo kafukufuku m'modzi adapeza ubale wofanana ndi U." Mu kafukufuku wina, kudziseweretsa maliseche pafupipafupi kokha kunali chizindikiro cha chiopsezo chowonjezeka cha khansa ya prostate m'zaka za m'ma 20, 30 ndi 40 pomwe ofufuza pamapeto pake adaganiza zosiyanitsa zochita zodziseweretsa maliseche ndi PVI (mu 2009). PVI idatsimikizira kuti imateteza thanzi la prostate mwa amuna okalamba komanso yosalowerera ndale mwa amuna achichepere. Kafukufuku waposachedwa adapeza kuti khansa ya prostate yocheperako ndi 19% m'ma ejaculators omwe amapezeka pafupipafupi. Komabe, mafunso ambiri akadali osayankhidwa, monga china chomwe ofufuzawo adayang'anira.
Ngati kutulutsa umuna kunali koteteza kwambiri ku khansa ya prostate, munthu angaganize kuti ansembe angakhale pachiwopsezo chachikulu cha kuchuluka kwa amuna ndi akazi. Zikuoneka kuti sizili choncho. Kufufuza mwachangu kunapeza maphunziro awiri omwe adayang'ana ansembe ndi khansa ya prostate. Pofufuza zolemba za ansembe 6226, yoyamba idapeza kuti "Imfa khumi ndi ziwiri kuchokera ku khansa ya prostate zidawonedwa pomwe 19.8 amayembekezeredwa " kutengera kuchuluka kwa amuna ofanana. Kafukufuku wina sanapeze kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa kuchuluka kwa amuna ndi akazi omwe ali ndi khansa ya prostate pakati pa ansembe 1432 ndi amuna ena.
- Fufuzani sayansi yomwe ilipo yokhudza zizindikiro zonse zodziwika za khansa ya prostate Zizindikiro za khansa ya prostate by Kafukufuku wa khansa UK.
- Werengani izi Nkhani yokhudzana ndi zofalitsa zokhudzana ndi maliseche komanso kansa ya prostate.
Kuphatikiza apo, kupatulapo khansa ya prostate, mwa amuna omwe ali ndi ED, kudziseweretsa maliseche pafupipafupi kunkagwirizana ndi mavuto ena a prostate , kuphatikizapo kuchuluka kwa ma antigen a prostate komanso prostate yotupa kapena yofewa. Mwanjira ina, kuyesa kudziseweretsa maliseche kuti mupeze prostate yathanzi sikungagwire ntchito.
Chinanso chosangalatsa ndi mawu a Richard Wassersug PhD, katswiri wa khansa ya prostate komanso Pulofesa wa Faculty of Medicine, Faculty of Medicine ku Dipatimenti ya Sayansi ya Urologic ku University of British Columbia, omwe adalembedwa mu Julayi 2017:
"Palibe deta yabwino kwambiri yomwe ndikudziwa yosonyeza mgwirizano (wabwino kapena woipa) pakati pa kuchuluka kwa umuna ndi chiopsezo cha khansa ya prostate . Posachedwapa tawunikiranso deta ya MtF, omwe ali ndi vuto la kusowa kwa androgen ndipo, ndithudi, ali ndi chiwerengero chochepa kwambiri cha khansa ya prostate komanso mwina nthawi zambiri amafika pachimake."
Tsopano popeza mwaganiziranso nkhani zodziwika bwino zokhudza kugonana, pangani mayeso anu, monga momwe mnyamatayu adachitira: Zimene nofap yandichitira . Dziyeseni nokha kwa miyezi ingapo ndikuwona zomwe mukuwona. Ubongo ndi zizolowezi za aliyense ndizosiyana. Pomaliza, ndi zotsatira za labotale yanu zomwe zimakukhudzani.
Zowonjezera: Zokumana nazo Zofotokozera ndi Zinthu Zokhudza Kugonana ndi Kusamalirana Pakati pa Okwatirana Achikulire Okondana
Kuchokera mu kafukufukuyu: “ Kukumbatirana pafupipafupi ndi kusangalala [kumagwirizana] ndi zochita zogonana zogonana ndi mnzanu, koma molakwika ndi kugonana nokha .” Mwanjira ina, munthu akamaseweretsa maliseche kwambiri, sakonda kukhudzana mwachikondi. N’zosadabwitsa kuti anthu ambiri omwe kale anali kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula amanena kuti kukumbatirana kumakhala kosangalatsa kwambiri pakapita nthawi.
Zowonjezera: Kusiyana kwa Anthu, Maganizo, ndi Ubale mu Machitidwe a Kuseweretsa Maliseche Kwaposachedwa Pakati pa Achinyamata
Kuchita maliseche kumakwera. Zosangalatsa zambiri zimagwirizana ndi chisangalalo chachikulu. Chimwemwe chochuluka mu chiyanjano chogwirizana ndi kuchepetsa maliseche. Ndipo ndikudabwa kwakukulu (irony pano), ngati anthu ali ndi zibwenzi zambiri zogonana, amakonda kuseweretsa maliseche pang'ono. Zowonjezera:
Pali… zifukwa zokhulupirira kuti kuchuluka kwa maliseche pakati pa achinyamata kukukulira.
Ichi ndi chifukwa chake: Deta ya NHSLS inanena kuti 29 peresenti ya amuna omwe ali ndi zaka 18-24 inanena kuti kuseweretsa maliseche kamodzi pamlungu.
NFSS, pakali pano, imapeza kuti 35 peresenti ya amuna akuluakulu a 18-24 amafotokoza kuti ali ndi masturbated tsiku lapitalo-kaya lero kapena dzulo. Powonjezedwa kuti ikuphatikize masiku asanu ndi limodzi apitawo, chiwerengero chimenecho chikukwera ku 68 peresenti.
Ngakhale kuti njirazi sizikufanana mwachindunji—ndipo nkhawa zokhudzana ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu mwina zachepa m'zaka 20 zapitazi— komabe sizikutanthauza kuti kudziseweretsa maliseche kwawonjezeka koma m'malo mwake kungayambitse kuwonjezeka kwa chizolowezichi pakati pa amuna.
Zomwezo zakhala zikuchitikanso pakati pa akazi.
Ngakhale akazi 9 pa 100 aliwonse azaka zapakati pa 18 ndi 24 adanena kuti anali kuchita maliseche kamodzi pa sabata mu 1992 NHSLS, akazi 36 pa 100 aliwonse azaka zomwezo mu NFSS adanenedwa kuti anali kuchita maliseche sabata yatha. Inde, gawo lina la izi lingakhale chifukwa cha chitonthozo chowonjezeka pakuvomereza maliseche, koma kunena kuti kuwonjezeka kwa 300 peresenti kumachitika chifukwa cha kuvomereza mosavuta sikukuwoneka ngati kotheka, makamaka chifukwa cha mgwirizano wochepa wa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula zomwe zatchulidwa m'magome obwerezabwereza. Mu 1992, panalibe zolaula pa intaneti. Ngakhale kufunikira kwenikweni kwa maliseche kukanatha kuwonjezeka m'zaka 20, kulimbikira kwaukadaulo ndi kulimbikitsa kufunikira kwa anthu kwawonjezeka.
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Chifukwa cha mayanjano osokoneza bongo omwe amalembedwa pano ndi kwina pakati pa kugonana ndi maliseche komanso kukhala mwamtendere ndi chibwenzi, umboni wochulukirapo (m'malo momangokhalira kugwiritsira ntchito maliseche) umayenera kutipangitsa kuti tisiye. Ngakhale kuti kugonana kumadzitamanda chifukwa cha zoopsa zaumphawi, zimapangitsa kuti phindu la maganizo komanso zachibale likhale lofala, ndipo mwina akhoza kuchotsa ndalama.
... Zoonadi, kupangitsa kuti zolaula zikhale zowonjezereka komanso zowononga maliseche-zooneka bwino mu NFSS-zikuwonetseratu kuti sizinangokhala zochitika zenizeni za m'zaka za zana la 21 koma zimakhala zovuta zatsopano kuti anthu akule bwino.
Zowonjezera: Zomwe zimayambitsa kutopa kwa akazi - Kudziseweretsa maliseche sikuwonjezera kuchuluka kwa kutopa kwa akazi panthawi yogonana ndi okondedwa.
Zowonjezera: Zinthu Zamaganizo Zomwe Zimakhudza Chilakolako Chogonana, Zochita Zogonana, ndi Kukhutira Pakugonana: Maganizo Osiyanasiyana . Chidule:
(a) omwe adatenga nawo gawo pazokonda zogonana [okondana] anali okhutitsidwa kwambiri pakugonana, adawonetsa magwiridwe antchito am'maganizo, ndipo amadziwika ndi kulumikizana pakati pazomwe zimapangitsa kuti apeze mphotho zabwino komanso kudziletsa (njira yolimbikitsira, kulumikizana motetezeka , kudziletsa, kusamala kwambiri); (b) omwe ali ndi chidwi chofuna kuchita zachiwerewere komanso okhutira adakhutitsidwa pang'ono ndikuwonetsa mtundu wamaganizidwe omwe amadziwika kwambiri ndi kutengeka (chidwi chachikulu chopeza mphotho mwa akazi, komanso kudziletsa mwa amuna); (c) omwe amatenga nawo gawo pazakugonana komanso zolimbitsa thupi anali osakhutitsidwa kwenikweni pankhani zachiwerewere ndipo anali ndi chidwi chachikulu chopewa zovuta zoyipa komanso kudziletsa (kupewa kwambiri, kusadzidalira, komanso kusazindikira).
Pomaliza, kwa iwo omwe ali ndi chidwi, Kafukufuku wokhudza kuyanjana pakati pa kugonana ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo muubongo