MAFUNSO: Kupezanso kwaposachedwa. Pepala loyamba lofotokozera zolaula-zomwe zimapangitsa ED komanso zolaula zomwe zimapangitsa kuti libido ikhale yochepa. Poyesera kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pavidiyo, 50% ya anyamatawo sakanakhoza kudzutsidwa kapena kukwaniritsa zosankha ndi zolaula (zaka zapakati anali 29). Ofufuzawo adazindikira kuti vuto la kusokonekera kwa amuna ndi "zokhudzana ndi maonekedwe akuluakulu ndi zochitika zogonana."Amuna opusa aja adakhala nthawi yayitali nthawi yayitali m'mabawa ndi mabafa momwe zolaula" zidali paliponse, "ndikusewera mosalekeza. Amunawo adafotokozera "kukhudzana kwambiri ndi erotica kumawoneka kuti kumapangitsa chidwi cha "kugonana kwa vanilla" komanso kufunikira kwakuchulukirachilendo komanso kosiyanasiyana."
Amunawo anali osakhudzidwa ndipo amafunikira chidwi chowoneka bwino kuti athe kudzutsidwa. Umenewo ndi umboni wa kulolerana, chomwe ndichizindikiro chofunikira cha kusuta. Ganizirani izi: anyamata ambiri omwe ali ndi zolaula zomwe zimapangitsa ED kuti azitha kukhala ndi zolaula. Komabe, 50% ya amunawa sakanakhoza kudzutsidwa ngakhale ndi zolaula.
Chifukwa chake ochita kafukufuku adayambanso kuyesa, nthawi ino kulola amuna kuti azisankha zolaula zawo, ndikupatsanso mitundu yambiri yazolaula "kinkier". Amunawo adaloledwa ngakhale kuyesa zosankhazo kuti aneneratu zomwe zingapusitse. Komabe, 25% ya amuna kuyesaku kwatsopano sanathenso kuyambitsa zolaula zakusankha kwawo. Pafupifupi yankho lililonse la erectile - labu lidayesedwa ndikuyesedwa ndi Kinsey Institute.
Kuti mupeze kufufuza kwambiri pa nkhani yowonongeka zolaula za kugonana zowonongeka onani:
- Zolaula ndi zogonana? Mndandandawu uli ndi zofufuza zoposa 40 zomwe zimagwirizanitsa zolaula / zolaula ku mavuto a kugonana ndi kuchepetsa chilakolako chogonana. The Zotsatira za 7 zoyambirira mumndandanda ukuwonetsa zovuta, pamene ophunzira adasiya kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndikuchiza matenda opatsirana pogonana.
- Zofufuza za 50 zofukufuku zomwe zikupezeka zikugwirizana ndi kukula kwa zolaula (kulekerera), chizoloŵezi choonera zolaula, komanso ngakhale kusiya (zizindikiro zonse ndi zizindikiro zosokoneza bongo).
- Zotsatira za zovuta pazoyanjana? Kufufuza kwa 75 kumagwirizanitsa zolaula kumagwiritsira ntchito kugonana kosachepera komanso kukhutira ndi chibwenzi. Monga momwe ife tikudziwira onse Kafukufuku wokhudza amuna adanena za kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula zambiri zogwirizana osauka kugonana kapena kukondana.
pomwe: Kusokonekera kwa Erectile ndi Kuyamba Kwambiri Kumuna Amuna Kapena Akazi Okhaokha (2019) Amuna achimuna amakhala ndi ziwonetsero zambiri za kusokonekera kwa erectile, kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula komanso kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula (CSBD).
Chidule chotsatira chatengedwa m'buku "Psychophysiology Yogonana., Chaputala: Dual-Control Model: Udindo wakuletsa zakugonana & kukondoweza pakugonana ndi machitidwe“. Wolemba: Indiana University Press, Mkonzi: Erick Janssen, mas. 197-222. LINKANI MUTU
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Monga gawo la kafukufuku wathu wokhudza kutenga pachiwopsezo chogonana, zomwe tazifotokoza koyambirira kwa pepalali, tidayitanitsa mafunso athu ndi mafunso kuti tizichita nawo kafukufuku wama psychophysiological (Janssen, Goodrich, Petrocelli, & Bancroft, 2006). Poganizira zovuta zomwe zidapezeka koyambirira kwa kafukufuku wowopseza, tidaganiza zogwiritsa ntchito kapangidwe ka kafukufuku wathu woyamba wa ma labotale pamachitidwe olamulira awiri (Janssen et al., 2002b).
Tikagwiritsa ntchito kapangidwe kameneka (ndimitundu iwiri yamafilimu ogonana, zosokoneza ndi magwiridwe antchito) ku zitsanzo zatsopanozi, komabe, tidakumana ndi chinthu china chosayembekezereka, koma chodabwitsa. Amuna khumi ndi awiri, kapena pafupifupi 50% mwa maphunziro oyamba a 25 (amatanthauza zaka = zaka 29), sanayankhe pazokakamiza zogonana (mwachitsanzo, kuuma kwa penile kochepera 5% pazosewerera zosakanikirana; Amuna a 8 anali ndi kukhazikika kwa 0%) . Izi, monga tikudziwira, ndi amodzi mwamaphunziro owerengeka a psychophysiological omwe amuna adatenga nawo gawo omwe adalembedwa m'deralo - kwa ife, kuchokera kuzipinda zosambira, zipatala za STD, malo omwera mowa, ndi zina zambiri.
M'malo ena mwa awa, zoyambitsa zogonana (kuphatikiza zowonetsera makanema) zimapezeka paliponse, ndipo izi, kuphatikiza ndemanga za omwe akutenga nawo mbali zakusowa kwa zinthu zosangalatsa, zapadera ("niche"), kapena zopitilira muyeso kapena "kinky", zidatipangitsa taganizirani kuthekera kwakuti kuchuluka kwa anthu osayankha kukhoza kukhala kokhudzana ndi kuwonekera kwambiri pazochitika zolaula. Kukambirana ndi mituyi kunalimbikitsa lingaliro lathu kuti mwa ena mwa iwo kutengeka kwambiri ndi zolaula kumawoneka kuti kwapangitsa kuti azikhala ndi chidwi chochepa ndi "vanilla sex" erotica ndikuwonjezera kufunikira kwachikhalidwe komanso kusiyanasiyana, nthawi zina kuphatikiza kufunikira kodziwikiratu mitundu yazomwe zimalimbikitsa kuti adzuke.
Tidakonzanso phunziroli ndipo tidaganiza zothetsa zosokoneza ndi magwiridwe antchito ndikuwonetsanso makanema atsopano, osiyanasiyana, komanso makanema atali. Komanso, m'malo mopereka nkhani ndi makanema okhawo omwe asankhidwa ("osankhidwa ndi ochita kafukufuku"), timawalola kuti azisankha ma clip awiri kuchokera pagawo la 10, pomwe kuwunika kwamasekondi 10 kudawonetsedwa ndikuphatikizira mitundu ingapo ya kugonana machitidwe (mwachitsanzo, kugonana kwamagulu, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, S & M, etc.). Tidapezanso maphunziro ena a 51 ndipo tidapeza kuti ndi makonzedwe abwino akadali amuna 20, kapena pafupifupi 25%, sanayankhe bwino pazakanema zogonana (kukhazikika kwa penile kochepera 10% poyankha kanema wodziyimira wokha).
Tinayambitsa ndondomeko yowonongeka kuti tiwone ngati anthu otchuka amatha kusiyana ndi anthu ochepa omwe amagwiritsa ntchito zaka, kugonana, SES, SIS1, SIS2, zomwe zimakhala ndi mavidiyo okhudzana ndi zolaula, zovuta za erectile, komanso chiopsezo cha kugonana monga zosiyana siyana. Chitsanzo chogonjera chinasankha pakati pa magulu awiri (÷ 2 (8) = 22.26, p <;; onani Gulu 01), pofotokoza 2% yazosiyana. Pafupifupi 39% ya omwe adatenga nawo gawo adasankhidwa moyenera (z = 4.61, p <.001), ndimitengo ya 82% yaokwera ndi 59% ya omwe akuyankha otsika (pChizindikiro <.01). Zotsatirazo zikuwonetsa kuti wophunzirayo atha kusankhidwa kukhala woyankha wamkulu zaka zake zitachepa ndipo ma SES ake komanso chiopsezo chake chogonana chotenga zochuluka chikuwonjezeka. Omwe amagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amatha kutchulidwa kuti ndi otsika kuposa omwe amatenga nawo mbali amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Pomaliza, kuwunikaku kunawonetsa kuti kuchuluka kwa makanema olaula omwe adawonedwa chaka chathachi akuwonjezeka omwe akutenga nawo mbali amatha kusankhidwa kuti akhale osayankha bwino.
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