Chiwerengero cha Anthu Akufuna Chithandizo Chakumwa Kwauchidakwa Miyendo Yam'madzi (LadBible)

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Kwa zaka zambiri, intaneti yathu imathamanga (kutengera komwe mukukhala) yayenda mwachangu komanso mwachangu. Kumayambiriro kwa nthawi yoyamba, kungotsitsa 200kb JPEG kumatha kutenga nthawi yayitali kuposa kuphika chakudya chamadzulo, pomwe pano zimabwera m'kuphethira kwa diso - ndipo zikhala bwino. Anthu padziko lonse lapansi amatha kusuntha makanema a HD popanda kuda nkhawa kwambiri ndipo tonse ndife othokoza chifukwa chaukadaulo. Komabe, pali gulu limodzi lomwe lazunzika kwambiri chifukwa cha intaneti mwachangu: anthu omwe ali ndi zolaula.

Rob Watt, yemwe ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo a Harley Street, adawona kuchuluka kwa peresenti ya 100 poitumiza ku chipatala chake cha Innisfree Therapy pazaka zisanu ndi chimodzi zapitazo. Odwala amayamba zaka zapakati pa zaka zapakati pa zaka zapakati pa zaka zapakati pa zaka zapakati pa zaka zapakati pa zaka zapakati pa zaka zapakati pa zaka zapakati pa zaka zapakati pa zaka zapakati pa zaka zapakati pa zaka.

Iye anawauza Standard Standard: “Omwe akukhudzidwa ndi chiwerewere masiku ano sakudziwika kwa makasitomala omwe akuwonetsa zaka 10 zapitazo.

"Tikuwonanso anthu ambiri akuwonetsa zolaula zolaula ndipo, m'badwo wachinyamata, izi zikuwonekera kwambiri. Ndi zolaula, mutha kupeza zokulirapo, zabwinoko, zachangu, komanso zovuta nthawi zonse.

“Dopamine ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo a chikhumbo ndipo mwina ukhoza kukhala pa coke, kukhala ndi mzere umodzi osayika pansi mpaka chikwamacho chikamalize. Pali kulolerana komwe kumachitika - mwanjira ina, nchiyani chakuthandizani dzulo sichikuchita lero, ndipo pali zinthu zina zakuda zomwe zikuchitika kunja kuno. ”

Kwa zaka zambiri, anthu ambiri otchulidwa dzina lawo awonetsa kuti amadana ndi zolaula monga Terry Crews.

Akatolika anauzidwa Ife Sabata Lililonse"Kwa zaka, zaka, zaka, chinsinsi changa chodetsedwa chinali chakuti ndimakonda kwambiri zolaula. Kwenikweni, zasokoneza moyo wanga m'njira zambiri.

"Ndinali ndi mwayi waukulu kwambiri kuposa kale lonse. Ndimamva kuti dziko lapansi lili ndi ngongole nane. Ndimamva ngati mkazi wanga ali ndi ngongole yanga yogonana.

“Usana ukakhala usiku ndipo mukuwonabe, mwina mwapeza vuto. Ndinayenera kupita kukakonzanso. Sindinapeze thandizo kuti ndibwezere mkazi wanga. Ndinalandira chithandizo chifukwa ndinkafuna thandizo. ”

Sizothandiza kwenikweni kuti mutha kuwonanso zolaula zenizeni.

Zakhala zovuta kwambiri kuti munthu azichita zolaula kuti aziwoneka kuti ndi osokoneza bongo.

Zaka ziwiri zapitazo a Association of American Sexuality Educators, Aphungu ndi Achipatala adati 'sichipeza umboni wokwanira wotsimikizira zakugonana kapena chizolowezi zolaula monga matenda amisala, ndipo sapeza maphunziro ophunzitsira zakugonana ndi njira zamankhwala komanso zophunzitsira kuti zizidziwitsidwa mokwanira ndi chidziwitso chokwanira chokhudza kugonana'.

Siphatikizidwenso ngati vuto mu Kusanthula ndi Buku Lophatikiza la Mavuto a Mitsempha.

Izi zikuwuluka pamaso pa umboni wosonyeza kuti anthu ena akamaonera zolaula amapanga mayankho ofanana ndi kukhala ndi mzere wa cocaine. Ngati mutha kumwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo a cocaine, bwanji osakhala ndi chizolowezi cholaula?

Ngakhale sizingavomerezedwe m'mabuku ovomerezeka, sizinalepheretse akatswiri kupereka chithandizo.

Njira yothetsera chidziwitso, yothandizira komanso yothandizira ndi kudzipereka. Njira zina zothandizira anthu oledzera ndikuyika zojambulidwa kuti zisawone zofuna zogonana pa intaneti.

nkhani yoyamba

Stewart Perrie in  Matenda a m'maganizo