Mtsogoleri wa Middlebury College Health Center, Dr. Mark Peluso, akuyang'ana ED: amadana ndi zolaula (2012)

Lumikizani ku PDF - Chipatala chachipatala cha Parton chimachititsa kuti matenda a erectile asokonezeke

Ndi Saadiah Schmidt. Thu, 05 / 03 / 2012

Zaka zitatu zapitazo zawona chiwerengero cha ophunzira aamuna omwe amafotokoza kuwonongeka kwa erectile ndi mavuto ena okhudzana ndi kugonana ku Centeron Health Centre, malinga ndi Director and College Physician Dr. Mark Peluso.

"Iwo sangathe kupeza erection kapena kukhala ndi erection ndi mkazi," adatero Peluso. "Iwo amaganiza kuti amafunikira Viagra."

Panthawi yomwe maofesi amawachezera, Peluso adzafunsa wodwalayo mafunso angapo: Kodi mwakopeka ndi mnzanuyo? Kodi ndinu wokondana? Kodi muli ndi chizoloŵezi choletsa kugonana kwachiwerewere? Kodi mukugwiritsa ntchito zinthu monga mowa, zomwe zimawononga kugonana? Kodi mumakopeka ndi amuna ena? Malingana ndi Peluso, yankho la mafunso onsewa ndi "ayi."

Komabe, "nthawi zambiri, odwala anali oonera zolaula, ndipo sankakhala ndi vuto lochita zogonana pamene anali okha," adatero Peluso.

Pozindikira kuti zithunzi zolaula zikuwonjezeka kwambiri, Peluso akusonyeza kusiyana pakati pa zolaula ndi kuchitapo kanthu - monga momwe kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula kumawonjezereka, kotero kusakwanira kwa kugonana.

Mlangizi wamkulu wa chipatala cha Lauren Kelliher nthawi zambiri amalankhula kwa ophunzira aakazi za anzawo omwe amagwira nawo ntchito erectile.

"Ndikanati zaka zingapo zapitazo, zakhala zikudziwika kwambiri," adatero Kelliher. Amakhulupiriranso kuti kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula ndi chinthu chachikulu ndikulangiza amayi kuti alimbikitse abwenzi awo kuti asawagwiritse ntchito.

Peluso ndi Kelliher adanena kuti ambiri odwala omwe akufuna thandizo kwa erectile kulephera ndi kuyamba chiyanjano.

"Ndikuona onse awiri, koma nthawi zambiri anthu ali pachibwenzi kusiyana ndi nthawi yokha," adatero Kelliher.

Amuna "abwera chifukwa akufuna Viagra," anatero Peluso. "Adzakhala ndi mtsikana, kudzacheza ndi chibwenzi, kuyamba chiyanjano chatsopano ndikudzimva chisoni [chosemphana ndi erectile]."

Mnyamata wina wotchedwa sophomore yemwe wagwidwa ndi matenda osokoneza bongo a Erectile anati: "Umadziona ngati wosafunika komanso wamanyazi. "Ndizovuta kwambiri."

Zovuta ngakhale zikhoza kukhala za amuna, kuwonongeka kwa erectile kumakhudza amayi.

Mkazi wina wazaka zapitazo, dzina lake Sophomore, anati: "Mwamunayo amaganiza kuti [vuto lopweteka la erectile] ndilo vuto lanu, chifukwa ndilo momwe thupi la munthu likuchitira."

KODI PORNA YAMADZI?

Kodi zolaula zingakhudze bwanji kugonana?

Peluso anati, "Njira yeniyeniyo isanatsimikizidwe, koma pakhoza kukhala kusintha kwa ubongo mu ubongo umene umalepheretsa kugwira ntchito yogonana pogwiritsa ntchito zolaula."

Peluso anatchulapo phunziro limene ofufuza anapeza kugwiritsira ntchito kugonana kwa intaneti ndi naltrexone. Iwo anapeza kuti dopamine ndi ena odwala matenda opatsirana mu ubongo angakhudzidwe ndi zizoloŵezi zolaula amachita mofanana ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo.

Katswiri wa zamagetsi a ku Italy, Carlo Foresta, adachita kafukufuku wa 2011 pomwe adapeza kugwirizana kwakukulu pakati pa zolaula ndi erectile. Amuna makumi asanu ndi awiri pa zana mwa phunziro omwe anavutika ndi kuwonongeka kwa erectile anali ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula nthawi zonse, ndipo zokambirana zinapereka kuti chiwerengero chenicheni chinali chachikulu kuposa ichi. Gululi linagamula kuti "kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa Intaneti nthawi zonse kumabweretsa kukhumudwitsa kwa anyamata komanso kusokonezeka maganizo."

Malinga ndi akatswiri ena azachipatala, zolaula zimatha kukhala chidakwa.

"Kafukufuku akusonyeza kuti pangakhale anthu ena amene angakhale ovuta kuonera zolaula omwe ali ndi khalidwe losokoneza bongo mpaka atasokoneza miyoyo yawo ndipo sangathe kuwona momwe akuonera," adatero Mtsogoleri Wamkulu wa Health and Counseling Services Gus Jordan.

Malinga ndi Wothandizira Pulofesa wa Chisipanishi Juana Gamero de Coca, yemwe wachita kafukufuku pankhani ya zolaula ndipo amaphunzitsa semina yam'mbuyomu yotchedwa Heterosexual Relationships, zolaula zamakono zino "zovuta kwambiri" kuposa zaka 15 zapitazo.

"Kuonera zithunzi zolaula kumaphatikizapo kudutsa malire," anatero Gamero de Coca. "Ziyenera kukhala kuti zitha kukakamiza anthu ndi malingaliro opusa ... Porn zimakhala zachiwawa kwambiri, zopotoka [zaka zaposachedwapa]. Kumayambiriro kwa zaka za 20th, ma buku ngati Madame Bovary ndi Wokondedwa wa Lady Chatterley zinali zoletsedwa chifukwa ankaonedwa ngati 'zolaula.'

"Ndikuganiza kuti zolaula monga tikudziwira zidzatha," iye anapitiriza. "Kuzunzidwa, kugwiriridwa ndi kugwiriridwa kwa ana kumakhala kovuta."

Malingana ndi Gamero de Coca ndi akatswiri ena, izi zimakhudza ogwiritsira ntchito: zokonda zimasintha kuti zikhale zoopsa kwambiri pamene zimakhala zovomerezeka ku zomwe zinawadzutsa.

The Campus adaletsa mayina a ophunzira omwe amawopa zochitika za anthu.

"Pachiyambi, nthawi zonse zinkakhala zojambula," adatero mwamuna wamwamuna woyamba. "Tsopano ndi mavidiyo pa intaneti. Ndikuganiza kuti kunali kosavuta kuti ndiyambe kuima. "

Kuonera zithunzi zolaula kungapangitse anthu kusudzulana ndi zolaula za ophunzira-zinkangokhalira kuganiza zinthu zosiyana ndi munthu wina.

"Kwa ambiri, kugonana kwenikweni sikugwirizana ndi zolaula zomwe zimapereka," anatero Peluso. "Choncho, [amuna] amatha kugonana ngati akukumana ndi chinthu chenicheni."

Mnyamata wina wamwamuna woyamba adanena kuti amayerekezera zolaula ndi kugonana kwenikweni.

"Ndikuwona zinthu zolaula ndikufuna kuziyesa," adatero. "Koma sindiwayerekezera atsikana amene ndimagona nawo kwa atsikana oonera zolaula."

Mayi wina wazaka zapakati, dzina lake Sophomore, ananena kuti: "Zambiri zomwe timachita zimachokera pa zomwe timaganiza kuti anyamata amafuna ndi zomwe timaganiza kuti amawonera pa zolaula, koma simudziwa."

Gamero de Coca inafotokoza kafukufuku waposachedwapa omwe amasonyeza zaka zapadziko lonse zomwe anyamata ayamba kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndi zisanu ndi zinayi.

"Izi ndi zoopsa kwambiri," adatero. "Zonse zomwe akuphunzira zokhudza kugonana - nkhani yosangalatsa kwa mnyamata ndi mtsikana aliyense - akudyetsedwa kwa iwo ndi mafilimu ndi zolaula."

Amuna ambiri (azimayi) a ku Koleji amavomereza kuti adayang'ana zolaula asanayambe kugonana.

"Ndinaonerera zolaula zambiri ndisanagonepo," adatero mwamuna wamwamuna woyamba.

SKEPTICISM

Ophunzira ena amakayikira za kugwirizana pakati pa zolaula ndi erectile.

"Kugwiritsa ntchito njira ina iliyonse yowunikira kungathandize munthu kukhala wosasinthasintha, koma kuti awononge zithunzi zolaula," anatero Claire Sibley '13. "Sindinakhulupirire kuti ndilo nkhani yathu yomwe tikugwira nayo. Tikukuuza kuti tikukamba za kuwonongeka kwa erectile ndi zolaula - pambuyo pake, zolembazo zimapangitsa kuti amuna aziwonerera zolaula.

"Zimene ndikuganiza kuti zikunyalanyazidwa ndizosavomerezeka mwachidziwikire - zosadziwika bwino kwa amayi, koma zenizeni. Ngati vutoli ndilosalaula, yankho lake ndi-yesani kugonana popanda kugonana. Ngati izi sizigwira ntchito, khalani ndi tulo ndikupanikizika. "

ZINTHU ZINA

Amuna amakhalanso ndi vuto la "kugwa kwa kondomu," kapena kuti sangakwanitse kukhazikitsa kondomu pogwiritsa ntchito kondomu. Gulu la kafukufuku wa ku Italy la Foresta linapezanso kuti zolaula zomwe zimakhudza kuwonongeka kwa erectile zinagwirizana ndi kuchepa kwa kugwiritsira ntchito kondomu.

"Makondomu ndi otsika kwambiri, ndipo kusuta zolaula sikungathandize vutoli," adatero Peluso. "Mwanjira inayake, mukutsitsimuka mobwerezabwereza."

"Ndikuganiza kuti nthaŵi zina anthu amagwiritsa ntchito [makondomu] ngati chifukwa [cha] chifukwa chomwe sangathe kapena kusunga," adatero Kelliher. Komabe, nthawi zambiri kusiyana ndi kuona zithunzi zolaula kumapitirirabe. "

Matenda a kugonana a kondomu amachititsa khalidwe loopsya - okondana nawo chifukwa cholephera kukonzekera ndi kondomu angasankhe kutetezedwa kwapadera kuti azigonana nthawi yomweyo.

Kelliher akunena kuti adawona kuwonjezeka kwakukulu kwa kufuna kwa Plan B kuyambira ku 2005. Amanenanso kuti adawona zifukwa zambiri zokhudzana ndi ziwalo zoberekera m'mimba zaka zisanu zapitazo kuposa kale. Chiyeso cha mankhwala a chiberekero, pa $ 110, ndizoyezetsa matenda opatsirana pogonana kwambiri.

"N'zosadabwitsa kuona kuti [malonda a zolaula] atenga chinthu chosavuta komanso chosowa kutali ndi m'badwo wanu," anatero Kelliher. "Izi siziyenera kukhala zovuta kwa ana a msinkhu wanu. Tikukhulupirira kuti tingayambe kukambirana za izo ndikupangitsa kuti ophunzira akhale omasuka kwambiri ngati akukhala ndi vuto. Titha kuthandiza pamenepo ndipo titha kuwatha kupyolera mu izi. "

Peluso, Jordan ndi Kelliher amalimbikitsana ophunzira omwe akuvutika ndi matenda ochepetsa erectile kuti apeze chithandizo cha erectile kulephera ku Centeron Health Centre.