Kodi "Zachibadwa" Zolaula Zimayang'ana Kukhala Wanu?
Ndimaziwona mobwerezabwereza ndi makasitomala anga. Amuna amabwera kudzakambirana ndi madandaulo a kutsika kwa libido, kuchedwa kapena kusakhalapo, ndi mavuto ndikumangika kwawo osakhala olimba komanso okhutira monga kale, kapena osakhalanso ndi zovuta konse. Chinthu choyamba chimene ndimawafunsa ndikuti ngati amaonera zolaula nthawi zonse ndipo yankho lake ndiloti inde.
Kusuta zolaula ndi chinthu chomwe chimagwiritsidwa ntchito kwambiri pa nkhani za kugonana kwa amuna ndipo nthawi zambiri ndimakhala ndi vuto ndi dzina la amuna. Kutcha kuti chizolowezi kumatanthauza kuti timachiwona kuchokera ku lingaliro la chizolowezi: Kodi chizolowezi chanu chosuta zolaula chimakhudza moyo wanu wachikhalidwe? Ubale wanu? Kagwiridwe kanu ka ntchito kapena sukulu? Mkhalidwe wanu wazachuma? Zimayambitsa mavuto azamalamulo? Ngati muyankha inde ku funso limodzi mwa mafunso awa ndiye kuti muli ndi chizolowezi chosuta zolaula.
Nkhani yanga ndi lingaliro limeneli ndikuti ngakhale mutakhala ndi "zachizolowezi" zamaliseche zomwe sizikukhudzani zilizonsezi, zanu
chizolowezi zolaula chitha kukhalabe ndi vuto pakugonana kwanu. M'malingaliro mwanga "Kodi Mumakhala Ndi Vuto Lolaula?" mafunso owunikira
ayenera kuyang'ana chinachake monga izi:
- Kodi mukupeza kuti mukufunika kuseweretsa maliseche komanso pachimake nthawi zambiri kuposa kale?
- Kodi zosankha zanu sizikhala zolimba komanso zowonjezereka?
- Kodi muli ndi nthawi zomwe simungathe kupeza erection?
- Kodi mumapeza kuti zimatenga nthawi yaitali kuti zifike pachimake kuposa kale?
- Kodi pali nthawi pamene simungathe kutero?
- Kodi mukupeza kuti zimatengera zokondweretsa kwambiri kuposa momwe zinalili kale?
- Kodi zimakuvutani kuti mumalize kugonana?
- Kodi zimakuvutani kuti mukhale pachimake pa kugonana mkamwa?
- Kodi mumapeza kuti zithunzi zina zogonana sizimadzutsa konse?
- Kodi mumajambula zithunzi zolaula mumutu mwanu panthawi yogonana kuti zikuthandizeni pachimake?
- Kodi kugonana ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi sikokwanira monga kuseweretsa maliseche?
Ngati mwayankha inde ku mafunso angapo omwe ali pamwambapa, ndiye kuti n'zotheka kuti kuonera kwanu zolaula kwayamba kukhudza kugonana kwanu. Zimatchedwa desensitivity. Kwenikweni, mukamachita maliseche kwambiri, zochitika zenizeni sizingakupangitseni kukhala ndi chilakolako choyenera.
Ndiye mumachita chiyani? Pulogalamu imodzi yopambana inapangitsa amuna kusiya kugonana kwa masiku 90: osaonera zolaula , osadziseweretsa maliseche, komanso osagonana. Izi zimapatsa ubongo nthawi yoti ubwererenso ku msinkhu wake woyambirira. Mwachionekere n'zosavuta kunena kuposa kuchita koma ndi chidziwitso, chithandizo, uphungu, ndi mphamvu zambiri ndizotheka komanso koyenera poganizira umboni.