Kodi "Zachibadwa" Zolaula Zimayang'ana Kukhala Wanu?
Ndimaziwona mobwerezabwereza ndi makasitomala anga. Amuna amabwera kudzakambirana ndi madandaulo a kutsika kwa libido, kuchedwa kapena kusakhalapo, ndi mavuto ndikumangika kwawo osakhala olimba komanso okhutira monga kale, kapena osakhalanso ndi zovuta konse. Chinthu choyamba chimene ndimawafunsa ndikuti ngati amaonera zolaula nthawi zonse ndipo yankho lake ndiloti inde.
Zizolowezi zolaula ndiye manenedwe pompano pankhani zakugonana kwa abambo ndipo nthawi zambiri ndimakhala ndi vuto ndi dzina laulemu. Kuzitcha kuti chizolowezi kumatanthauza kuti timaziyang'ana motengera: Kodi chizolowezi chazolaula chimakhudza moyo wanu wachikhalidwe? Ubale wanu? Ntchito yanu kapena kusukulu? Mkhalidwe wanu wachuma? Zimayambitsa mavuto azamalamulo? Ngati muyankha inde ku limodzi la mafunso awa ndiye kuti muli ndi vuto lokonda zolaula.
Nkhani yanga ndi lingaliro limeneli ndikuti ngakhale mutakhala ndi "zachizolowezi" zamaliseche zomwe sizikukhudzani zilizonsezi, zanu
chizolowezi zolaula chitha kukhalabe ndi vuto pakugonana kwanu. M'malingaliro mwanga "Kodi Mumakhala Ndi Vuto Lolaula?" mafunso owunikira
ayenera kuyang'ana chinachake monga izi:
- Kodi mukupeza kuti mukufunika kuseweretsa maliseche komanso pachimake nthawi zambiri kuposa kale?
- Kodi zosankha zanu sizikhala zolimba komanso zowonjezereka?
- Kodi muli ndi nthawi zomwe simungathe kupeza erection?
- Kodi mumapeza kuti zimatenga nthawi yaitali kuti zifike pachimake kuposa kale?
- Kodi pali nthawi pamene simungathe kutero?
- Kodi mukupeza kuti zimatengera zokondweretsa kwambiri kuposa momwe zinalili kale?
- Kodi zimakuvutani kuti mumalize kugonana?
- Kodi zimakuvutani kuti mukhale pachimake pa kugonana mkamwa?
- Kodi mumapeza kuti zithunzi zina zogonana sizimadzutsa konse?
- Kodi mumajambula zithunzi zolaula mumutu mwanu panthawi yogonana kuti zikuthandizeni pachimake?
- Kodi kugonana ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi sikokwanira monga kuseweretsa maliseche?
Ngati munayankha inde kwa ena mwa mafunso ali pamwambapa, ndiye kuti ndizotheka kuti kuwonera zolaula kwanu kwayamba kukhudza kugonana kwanu. Amatchedwa deensitization. Kwenikweni mukamachita maliseche zolaula, zochitika zenizeni pamoyo zimatha kudzutsa milingo yoyenera.
Ndiye mumatani? Pulogalamu imodzi yopambana idapangitsa amuna kusiya zikhalidwe zonse zogonana masiku 90: palibe zolaula, opanda maliseche, komanso osagonana. Izi zimapatsa nthawi ubongo kuti ubwezeretse muyeso wake woyambirira. Zachidziwikire kuti ndizosavuta kuzinena kuposa kuzichita koma ndi zina, kuthandizira, upangiri, ndi mphamvu zambiri ndizotheka komanso koyenera kuweruza ndi maumboni.
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