LINK KU NKHANI - 'Achinyamata ndi Zithunzi Zolaula' (The Fix)
- Achinyamata achikulire mosadziwa amaphunzitsa matupi awo kuti amukitsidwe ndi zochitika zosiyana ndi zochitika zolaula, adalongosola Katehakis, amenenso ali wodalirika wodziteteza kugonana ndi wotsogolere wa chipatala Pakati pa Umoyo Wogonana ku Los Angeles. "Chimachitika ndi pamene magulu a neuronalwa ayamba kuwombera palimodzi, amawombera palimodzi," adatero.
- Mankhwala osavuta kwambiri amathanso kukhala ovuta kwambiri. "Chofunikira kwambiri kuchita ndikusiya kuyang'anitsitsa," adatero Katehakis. "Kwa anyamata omwe tawathandizapo, amafunika kuti azidya zolaula miyezi itatu kapena isanu kuti akonzenso."
Kulola achinyamata kuti azigonana msanga pa ukonde kungawononge kuwonongeka kwa thupi ndi maganizo.
Amuna achichepere kusiyana ndi kale akulimbana ndi vuto lofikira kukondana pakati pa maubwenzi ndipo akuvutika kwambiri kuti abwererenso ntchito yachiwerewere yogonana, malinga ndi akatswiri okhudzana ndi kugonana.
Zithunzi zolaula zapaintaneti kwambiri, makamaka chizolowezi chofunafuna zithunzi zatsopano komanso zowopsa, ndiye omwe amachititsa izi, malinga ndi akatswiri omwe amalangiza abambo ndi anyamata achichepere. "Zikuwoneka kuti pali njira yachikale yomwe ikubwera yomwe ndikuti chizolowezi choonera zolaula chimayamba mzaka zaunyamata, chimakhala chobisika kwakanthawi, osatero mpaka wachinyamata atakula ndikukhala ndi mavuto akulu m'banja [kodi] amakafuna chithandizo, ”Anatero a Matt Bulkley, mlangizi ku Youth Pornography Addiction Center ku St. George, Utah.
Kwa anyamata omwe tawachitira, akuyenera kuti azidya zolaula kwa miyezi itatu kapena isanu kuti akonzenso.
Achinyamata ambiri oonera zolaula amavutika kwambiri kuwonongeka kwa thupi komanso kuwonongeka kwa maganizo Adzakhala achikulire chifukwa kuwululidwa kunachitika panthawi yomwe ubongo wawo unali usanamalize kukula, Bulkley adalongosola. "Nthawi zina, kulephera kwa erectile ndi chifukwa cha ubongo wophunzitsidwa kudzutsidwa ndi zolaula," adatero.
Vuto limabuka pamene wocheperapo wamng'ono yemwe sanakhalepo ndi moyo weniweni wokonda chikondi kapena kugonana amadziwa "mbalame ndi njuchi" poonera zolaula. Achinyamata amatha kusokonezeka maganizo, kudzipatula komanso manyazi akamangoona zolaula. Mwanayo akayamba kukhala wamkulu kuti apeze chibwenzi, akhoza kukhala ndi vuto la kugonana, kukwatira komanso kugonana kwaokha. "Pokhudzana ndi kumvetsetsa chibwenzi, zolaula zimakhala zogwira mtima posocheretsa zomwe zimakhudza ubale weniweni," Bulkley adanena.
Kodi Kuonera Zolaula Kuli pa Intaneti N'kutani?
Asayansi akungoyamba kugwirizanitsa zolaula zowonongeka kwambiri ndi mayankho omwe amachititsa kuti azikhala osokoneza bongo. Poona zolaula, ubongo umatulutsa kuchuluka kwa mankhwala a neurotransmitter dopamine, mankhwala omwewo omwe amayambitsa khalidwe lofunafuna mphoto muzoledzeretsa, malinga ndi Psychology Today Wopereka Gary Wilson.
Wilson ndi wolemba wothandizira bukuli, Mtsinje wa Cupid, ndi mtsogoleri wambuyo YourBrainOnPorn.com, tsamba lawebusayiti lomwe limafufuza mitu yokhudzana ndi sayansi yaukadaulo, zizolowezi zamakhalidwe komanso zakugonana. M'nkhani yake, "Chifukwa Chiyani Johnny Watch Porn Akakonda?" Wilson akuwonetsa momwe ubongo wachichepere umakhala pachiwopsezo chofuna kusangalatsa kwa dopamine poyerekeza ndi owonera achikulire. Ubongo wachinyamata ndiomwe amakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi dopamine azaka zapakati pa 15 ndipo amayankha kanayi mwamphamvu kwambiri pazithunzi zomwe zimawoneka zosangalatsa. Kuphatikiza pa kukondweretsedwa kowonjezeka, achinyamata ali ndi kuthekera kwakukulu kolemba nthawi yayitali patsogolo pakompyuta osatopa. Kuphatikiza apo, achinyamata amachita motengera zokhumba m'malo mokonzekera mwanzeru. Makhalidwe amenewa amaphatikizira ubongo wachinyamata makamaka pachiwopsezo chogwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Zolaula zolaula paubwana zimakhala zovuta kwambiri chifukwa cha njira zamitsempha zamaubongo panthawiyi. Kuzungulira kwaubongo kumakula ndikutsatiridwa ndikudulira mwachangu njira zama neuron zapakati pa 10 ndi 13. Wilson adalongosola izi ngati "kugwiritsa ntchito kapena kutaya" nthawi yakukula kwa wachinyamata.
Wilson adalembera kuti: "Timaletsa zomwe tingasankhe-osazindikira kuti zisankho zathu zinali zovuta kwambiri kumapeto kwa nthawi yomaliza, yotulutsa, ndi mitsempha." "... Ichi ndi chifukwa chimodzi chomwe kafukufuku amafunsa achinyamata momwe kugwiritsira ntchito zolaula pa intaneti kumawakhudzira sizingathe kuwonetsa kukula kwa zolaula. Ana omwe sanachitepo maliseche popanda zolaula sakudziwa momwe zimawakhudzira. ”
Achinyamata akutsalira popanda kumvetsetsa khalidwe labwino la kugonana chifukwa akhala akudziwonekera mobwerezabwereza ku malo atsopano omwe amawoneka mwachidwi ndi kufufuza nthawi zonse komwe amaperekedwa ndi zolaula za pa Intaneti.
Zotsatira Zosatha Zolaula za pa Intaneti Zidakali Zovuta Kwambiri
Zomwe zimafotokozera zolaula pa intaneti-kudzipatula, voyeurism, kuchulukitsa, kusiyanasiyana-zimafotokozanso chifukwa chake zolaula pa intaneti ndizosokoneza komanso zowononga kuposa zolaula zam'mawa. "Panali nthawi yomwe anthu amawonera zolaula m'magazini osindikizidwa ndipo ena [owonera] adakopeka nazo kuposa ena," Katswiri wa zamaganizidwe a Alexandra Katehakis adauza Zokonza. "Kenaka, patapita nthawi, kanema kanema kanema ndi kanema kamene kanagwira ubongo mosiyana ndi kusindikiza. Tsopano, zolaula za pa intaneti ndizopambana kwambiri moti zimagwiritsanso ntchito ubongo wa amuna. "
Achinyamata achikulire mosadziwa amaphunzitsa matupi awo kuti amukitsidwe ndi zochitika zosiyana ndi zochitika zolaula, adalongosola Katehakis, amenenso ali wodalirika wodziteteza kugonana ndi wotsogolere wa chipatala Pakati pa Umoyo Wogonana ku Los Angeles. "Zomwe zimachitika ndikuti ma network a ma neuronal ayamba kuwombera limodzi, amalumikizana limodzi," adatero. "Ndi zolaula zapaintaneti, zithunzizi ndizamphamvu kwambiri komanso zowoneka bwino kwambiri kotero kuti ndizododometsa kwa kachitidwe ndipo munthu amalandira mlingo waukulu wa dopamine… popita nthawi, amafunikira [dopamine] yochulukirapo."
Ngakhale ambiri mwa omwe amadziwika kuti ali ndi chizolowezi choonera zolaula ndi amuna, akazi nawonso atha kukhala pachiwopsezo ndipo amatha kuwonongeka kwamuyaya, adatero Katehakis.
Mfundo zomwezo zimagwiranso ntchito - kugonana kumalumikizidwa ndi zomwe taphunzira poonera zolaula. Kwa akazi, izi zitha kupotoza malingaliro atsimikizidwe, chisangalalo komanso gawo lawo pakugonana. "Makolo ayenera kukambirana ndi ana awo," anawonjezera Katehakis. "Ayenera kukambirana za cholinga cha kugonana, tanthauzo la kugonana ndi chifukwa chomwe anthu amagonana." Popanda zokambirana izi, achinyamata amakhala achikulire popanda kudziwa zenizeni za ubale wabwino. "Patapita nthawi pakhoza kukhala mavuto pachibwenzi, kulephera kulumikizana ndi munthu wina komanso kulephera kukhala pachibwenzi chokhalitsa," adatero.
Kufunafuna Zolaula Zosautsa
Chisokonezo chokhudzana ndi zolaula-malo ambiri ochiritsira osadziŵika-amachititsa ambiri ovutika kukhala osungulumwa ndi opsinjika maganizo omwe angakwaniritse kufunikira kwa kumva bwino-bwino chifukwa cha vutoli.
Mankhwala osavuta kwambiri amathanso kukhala ovuta kwambiri. "Chofunikira kwambiri kuchita ndikusiya kuyang'anitsitsa," adatero Katehakis. "Kwa anyamata omwe tawathandizapo, amafunika kuti azidya zolaula miyezi itatu kapena isanu kuti akonzenso."
"Komanso, kuleka kuyang'ana pazithunzi sikokwanira," adapitiliza. “Nthawi zambiri munthu amatha kupezeka akuyang'anabe zithunzi m'mutu mwake. Anthu ena atha kuyang'ana [zolaula] ngati anthu ena omwe angamwe kapu ya vinyo osakhala nayo, pomwe anthu ena sangayang'anenso. ”
Maofesi omwe amachititsa kuti munthu azigonana nthawi zambiri amawonanso zolaula, ngakhale kuti ziwirizi ndi zosiyana kwambiri: zolaula zimaphatikizapo pixels osati munthu wina.
"Chinthu chachikulu chomwe anthu ambiri akuyenera kumvetsetsa ndikuti [zolaula] zitha kukhala zosokoneza bongo komanso kuti zisapeputse zomwe zingachitike pamoyo wachinyamata," adatero Bulkley. Achinyamata omwe amakonda kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula pa intaneti atha kuwonetsa zizindikilo monga kuchuluka kwa nthawi yomwe amakhala ali okhaokha, nthawi yochulukirapo yowonera zida zamagetsi, kusintha kwa malingaliro kapena machitidwe monga chilankhulo chovala amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso kavalidwe ndikuchepetsa chidwi chawo kusukulu ndi zochitika zina.
Aphungu pa Youth Pornography Addiction Center ku Utah amathandizira achinyamata kukhazikitsanso malingaliro awo povumbula zovuta zomwe zidalipo kale kapena zidawonjezeredwa ndi vutoli. Bulkley anafotokoza kuti: "Kuledzera ndi njira yothanirana ndi mavuto." M'malo mothetsa vutolo, amatembenukira kuthawa kwakanthawi. ” Kuthandiza achinyamata kupanga njira yodziwira mavuto ndi momwe angathetsere zolakalaka ndi njira imodzi yogwiritsira ntchito upangiri wa kuchipatala ku likulu la Bulkley.
Pofuna kulandira chithandizo chokwanira kwambiri, malowa ali ndi pulogalamu yachipululu komwe achinyamata "amachititsa kuti" asokoneze "mafilimu komanso zithunzi zolaula, komanso zojambula zokhudzana ndi kugonana komwe zimapezeka paliponse pamalonda a mabasi.
Komabe, monga zinthu zambiri, mavuto amatha kuchepetsedwa koyambirira mukamacheza ndi banja lanu, Bulkley adati. "Makolo akuyenera kumvetsetsa, ngati sakonda kapena ayi, ana adzawonetsedwa zolaula ... Mutha kuchita zonse zomwe mungathe kuti muwateteze, koma ndi chikhalidwe chathu chogonana komanso mwayi wofikira, sikuti ndi nthawi yake. ”
Bulkley anapitiliza kuti, "Ndikulankhula ndi ana anu mosalekeza, ndipo kuyenera kukhala kukambirana koyambirira komanso zokambirana zomwe zikupitilira mzaka zawo zokula."
Sarah Peters adalembera Los Angeles Times, Daily Pilot ndi California Health Report. Iyi ndi nkhani yake yoyamba Zokonza.
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