Yambani ku nkhani: Kugonana kwa zithunzi zolaula kumabweretsa achinyamata a ku America, poyerekeza ndi kuwononga mankhwala a cocaine
Molly Hendrickson, May 23, 2017
DENVER - Zizolowezi zolaula ndizomwe zikukula mwachangu mdziko lathu, ndipo ndizobisika kwambiri.
"Izi sizimatha, zili ngati khansa muubongo, koma ndi khansa m'malingaliro," watero wochita zolaula yemwe adatchulidwanso Joe, chifukwa samafuna kudziwitsa anthu. “Mumafunikira zinthu zakuda kwambiri, zovuta, komanso zachiwawa nthawi zambiri.”
Chifukwa cha munthu ameneyu, mbewu idabzalidwa ali ndi zaka 6th msinkhu ndi kuyang'ana kanema yowonetsera R. Patapita nthawi, vutoli linayamba kuchepa.
“Ndikudziwa kuti mdera lathu, sizikumveka kuti ndizowopsa bwanji. Zimawononga malingaliro, zimawononga kuthekera kogwira ntchito, sungayang'anenso azimayi chimodzimodzi, "atero a Joe.
Zithunzi zolaula nthawi zambiri zimafanizidwa ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Palibe amene akudziwa izi kuposa Chris, yemwe ndi dokotala wodziwa zakugonana.
"Ndicho chifukwa chake ndili ndi chipatala ichi kuthandiza anthu omwe akundionera zomwezi," adatero Simon.
Simon adakhazikitsa Denver's Restorations Therapy Center ku 2014 atalimbana ndi zolaula zake. Anatinso makolo ambiri sazindikira kuti ogwiritsa ntchito kwambiri ndi ana azaka zapakati pa 12 ndi 17 pomwe amakhala ndi zaka pafupifupi 8.
"Makampani opanga zolaula amafuna kuti ana azizolowera adakali aang'ono chifukwa amadziwa kuti ndi nthawi yomwe amakhala omvera kwambiri, amatengeka mosavuta chifukwa chakukula kwaubongo wawo," adatero Simon.
Ndipamene zimayambira, ubongo. Kuonera zolaula pa intaneti kumasefukira muubongo wanu ndi dopamine ndi ma opioid, mankhwala omwe amakupangitsani kumva bwino; ndipo mutha kuyisungabe yayitali kwakanthawi, ndikudina mbewa.
"Zinali zoledzeretsa, zinali ngati zowawa zanga zonse, chidani changa chonse, zonsezo zidasinthidwa, zidatha nditangoyang'ana zolaula, zinali ngati zitakokoloka zonse," adalongosola a Joe.
A Joe adati kumverera koti kupumula kumakhala kwakanthawi ndipo kumatsatiridwa ndikudzimva wamlandu komanso manyazi.
"Manyazi ndichifukwa chake chizolowezichi chimapitilira ndikulimba pakapita nthawi chifukwa simukufuna kuti aliyense adziwe," adalongosola a Joe.
"M'malo mokhala ndi luso lothana ndi zovuta, amaphunzira kuonera zolaula ndipo zovuta zotere zimatha, zimatha," atero a Simon.
Kwa Joe, malingaliro abodza omasuka ku kukhumudwa kwake, pomalizira pake adamumangirira kuzolowera. Mukuwona, kuwonera zolaula pakapita nthawi, kumapangitsa ubongo wanu kupanga njira zatsopano. Mukamawona kwambiri, njirazo zimakhala zolimba. Kusefukira kwa dopamine muubongo wanu, kumadzaza ma receptors anu ndipo pamapeto pake mumafunikira zinthu zolimba ndi zina zambiri kuti mufike mofanana.
"Izi ndizofanana ndendende ndi zomwe zidakwa za heroin zimakhala nazo akamakambirana zothamangitsa oyamba," adatero Simon.
A Simon adati koyambirira mwana akamayamba kuwonera zolaula pa intaneti, zotsatira zake zimakhala zoyipa kwambiri. Kafukufuku wambiri akuwonetsa kuti ogwiritsa ntchito zolaula amavutika kusunga maubale, sasangalala ndi anzawo, amakhala ndi libido yotsika ndipo nthawi zambiri amakonda zolaula kuposa kugonana ndi munthu. Akatswiri ngati Simon, akuwona chodabwitsa chatsopano; Zithunzi zolaula zinapangitsa kuti erectile iwonongeke, kapena PIED ndipo ikukwera kwambiri kwa amuna azaka za 20.
“Mankhwala a ED samagwira ntchito bwino kwenikweni chifukwa sikuti amangoyankha. Thupi limagwira ntchito bwino, limangokhudza kukhudzidwa, ”adatero Simon. "Zoonadi sizingafanane."
Kuledzera sikumangotengera amuna. A Simon ati azimayi ambiri akuwonera zolaula ndipo akuwona kuwonjezeka kwakukulu kwa azimayi omwe akufuna chithandizo chazovuta zapaintaneti.
Pali chiyembekezo. Othandiza ngati Simon adanena kuti njira yoyamba ndikusiya zolaula, zomwe zimadziwika kuti "kubwezeretsanso." Izi zimalola ubongo wanu kupanga njira zatsopano, zathanzi. Zitha kutenga kulikonse kuyambira miyezi 3 mpaka zaka 3 kutengera kuti munthuyo amawonera zolaula pa intaneti kangati.
“Ndiwo mphamvu zenizeni za zolaula. Njira zoterezi, zimamangidwa molimbika komanso kuzikika, zimatenga miyezi ngakhale zaka kuti zibwererenso zazikulu, kuti izi zisakhale zoyambirira, "adatero Simon.
A Simon amalimbikitsanso kuthana ndi chilichonse chomwe chingayambitse kuyambiranso, monga Facebook, Instagram ndi masamba azibwenzi monga Tinder ndi Bumble. A Simon adati onetsetsani kuti othandizira anu ndi ovomerezeka pazachizolowezi zogonana ndipo akuwalimbikitsa kuti azithandizirana ngati omwe amakonda kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo osadziwika.
Simon adati makolo akuyenera kuyamba kukambirana ndi ana awo moyenera zaka zakugonana komanso kukondana kuyambira ali ndi zaka 6. Makolo ayenera kukambirana ndi ana okulirapo pazomwe sizoyenera kuwona pa intaneti ndikuyika pulogalamu yolamulira makolo pazida zamagetsi za ana awo.
A Joe adati izi sizomwe ambiri amatha kumenya pawokha popanda thandizo.
"Sitimvetsetsa zamatsenga zamaliseche muubongo. Ndikudziwa momwe zimamvekera koma sindikudziwa momwe zimakhalira, sindikumvetsa kuti ndichifukwa chiyani ndizosokoneza bongo, sindimamvetsa chilichonse cha izi. Wothandizira amafunika kuti akhale wodekha. Gulu la magawo 12, gulu lothandizira liyenera kukhala ndi anzanu omwe amakumvetsani. Izi ndi zida zomwe ziyenera kukhalapo kuti zigwire ntchito. ”
Joe tsopano akuchira komanso wasiya zolaula pa intaneti kwa miyezi 7. Anatinso zolimbikitsa kuonera zolaula zilipobe, koma akuphunzira njira zatsopano, zathanzi zolimbana ndi kukhumudwa kwake.
"Ndidalowa mgulu la masitepe 12 ndipo ndidasiya kugwa. Zinali choncho. Zapulumutsa moyo wanga, ”adatero Joe.
Ngati inu kapena wokondedwa mukulimbana ndi zolaula, apa pali zina zothandiza kupeza:
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