Ndi Jenny Valentish (kulumikiza ku nkhani yapachiyambi) - Ndemanga YBOP: Onani Dr. Berry chifukwa cha ED.
Ndi m'badwo wapamwamba wa Gen Z tsopano uli ndi zaka 24 (eya, wachikulire uja - mwina mwakhala mukuwatcha zaka zikwizikwi), chidwi cha anthropological pamapeto pake chikuchoka pamayendedwe a avocado ndikuyamba moyo wachinsinsi wa Zeds.
Zizoloŵezi zawo zili pansi pa microscope mu comfine wachinyamata wotchedwa Netflix, Sex Education, ponena za mwana wamwamuna wogonana ndi wogonana (yemwe ndi mkulu wachithunzi cha Gen-X, Gillian Anderson) amene amasankha kupereka nzeru zomwezo kwa anzako osaphunzira kusukulu.
Pogwiritsa ntchito, woonayo akuphunziranso za kuvala makondomu, kuyendayenda gag reflex, kubwezera zolaula ndi zokopa ... ayenera kutero.
Chotsatiracho chimawoneka kuti kugonana kwa Gen-Z ndi kovuta komanso kosiyanasiyana, kawirikawiri kulibe malingaliro.
Hysteria yopanda 'kugonana' Gen-Z
Izi zikusemphana ndi chidwi chadzidzidzi m'miyoyo yachiwerewere ya Gen-Z, zikomo pang'ono posachedwapa malipoti ndi kafukufuku amene amapeza Gen Z sagonana kwambiri kuposa mibadwo yakale.
Uthengawu ndi wakuti Gen Z nayenso amasinthidwa kuti achoke.
Kafukufuku wotereyu adalimbikitsa kulingalira monga ma Courier Mail Gen-Z Ayenera Kuchita Phwando Monga Ndi 1979 (“Bwanji sakusangalala ngati ma Baby Boomers? '), Omwe ndi ochepa ulemu kuposa a Louis CK chotsutsana kwambiri chobwezera comedy, komwe amati ana masiku ano ndi okalamba nthawi yawo isanakwane ndipo akuyenera "kulumikizana chala ndi kulumikizana ndikuchita kuwombera kwa Jell-O".
Kugonana kumawomboledwa - ndipo nthawizonse imapezeka
Ndiye kodi a Gen Zs amagonanadi pang'ono? Osati ngati mumavomereza kuti "kugonana" kwasinthidwanso, atero katswiri wama psychology ku Melbourne Dr Matthew Berry.
"Achikulire amatanthauzira zakugonana ndi ndalama zakale ndipo a Gen Z akutanthauzira zogonana ndi ndalama zatsopano," akutero.
“Ganizirani mutu wina - kulumikizana. M'badwo uliwonse amaimbidwa mlandu wolemba makalata ochepa komanso osayimba foni, koma njira yathu yolankhulirana yasintha.
"Mofananamo, Gen Z atha kukhala kuti sagonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, koma akuchita zogonana zambiri.
"Ndinganene kuti ali ndi chiwerewere chifukwa amakhala akugonana pa 13, 14, 15."
Dr Berry amadziwika mitundu iwiri yazodzutsa - mtundu wa dopaminergic womwe umachokera kuzowoneka zowoneka, ndi mtundu wa serotoninergic womwe umachokera pachibwenzi chamalingaliro. "Achinyamata ambiri sanakumaneko ndi chibwenzi chotere," akutero. Zotsatira zake, amawona makasitomala ambiri achimuna omwe amakumana ndi zovuta muzochitika zenizeni m'moyo.
Mosiyana ndi kugonana mwaumwini, zolimbikitsa zogonana pa intaneti zimapezeka nthawi zonse, kaya ndi Snapchatting nudes kapena zombie-scrolling through Tinder or Grindr profiles. Koma Dr Berry akuti maubongo athu sanasinthe kuti athetse mphotho za dopaminergic, ndipo zotsatira zake ndizokhumudwitsa komanso kutayika.
Kugonana monga chizindikiro chaumwini
Pitani kudzera pa Instagram ndipo ndizovuta kuyika chisokonezo mozungulira "osagonana" a Z ndi mbiri yakugonana yomwe ogwiritsa ntchito achichepere ambiri amakhala nayo, zomwe zimayamikiridwa kwambiri ndi ophunzitsa m'chiuno a Kardashian komanso katundu wopopera.
Koma kupezeka pa intaneti nthawi zambiri sikungafanane ndi kugonana kwapaintaneti
Adolfo Aranjuez, mkonzi-wamkulu wa nkhani zachiwerewere ndi jenda Archer, akuti, "Neoliberalism tsopano yakhazikika kotero kuti dzina lanu ndi gawo la mtundu wanu" - ndipo kugonana ndi gawo lalikulu la mtundu wa Gen Z.
"Muyenera kukulitsa mzimu wokhudzana ndi chiwerewere chifukwa kugonana kumagulitsa," akutero Aranjuez.
"A Gen Zs adabadwira kudziko lodzidzimutsa posachedwa. Makolo awo sanachedwe kupereka mayankho, ndipo akakula pamakhala ndemanga ndipo amakonda kuwatsimikizira. Chifukwa chake, pali gawo lowonetsa lomwe ladziwika kwambiri. ”
Izi zimakhudza Gigi Engle, mphunzitsi wodziwa kugonana ndi aphunzitsi omwe ali ndi mlungu uliwonse gawo la malangizo.
"Palinso kukakamiza kwakukulu kuti atsikana achichepere azigonana," akutero.
“Kutsimikizika kutengera ngati anyamata akufuna kugona nawe kapena ayi. Zimakhala zokhumudwitsa kwambiri kuti timawona kukwera kwamphamvu kwamakhalidwe achikazi ndikusintha pakukhala ndi mwayi wogonana, koma mukayang'ana ana asekondale ndi ana aku sekondale, akadali m'malo odabwitsazi pomwe amaganiza kuti chilichonse chimakhudzana ndi kugonana kwawo. kukhumba. ”
'Kodi ndinu anyamata kapena atsikana?'
Only 66 peresenti ya Gen Zs okalamba pakati pa 16 ndi 22 amadziona okha mchitidwe wogonana okhaokha - chiwerengero chochepa kwambiri cha mbadwo uliwonse - malinga ndi lipoti la 2018 Ipsos MORI, Pambuyo pa Binary: Moyo ndi Zosankha Z. Z.
Kafukufuku Hannah Shrimpton akuti zotsatira zake zidzakhala pansi pa chikhumbo chachinyamata kufunafuna kudziwa.
"Koma ndichachidziwikire kuti kuvomereza kwa LGBTQ + pagulu kumatanthauza kuti achinyamatawa ali ndi mwayi wokhala ndi malingaliro osagwirizana ndi kugonana, m'njira yomwe mibadwo yam'mbuyomu idalibe."
Dr Berry akuti amakambirana zambiri zakugonana pamasamba ndi makasitomala awo. "Ndikuganiza kuti saopa kucheza ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha," akutero.
"Achinyamata omwe ndimayankhula nawo samapita ku malo ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, chifukwa funso loti 'Kodi ndinu anyamata kapena atsikana?' yakhala yachibadwa monga 'Kodi muli ndi redheads kapena blondes?'
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