Kulepheretsa ndi Kuyamba kwa "Dating Apocalypse", Vanity Fair (2015)

MAFUNSO: Ngakhale kuti nkhaniyi ikunena za Tinder, zolemba zochepa zimawonetsa kufanana kwazomwe zimapangitsa zolaula, kuphatikizapo zolaula zomwe zimapangitsa kuti erectile iwonongeke.

Ndemanga

Mvula imagwera movutikira, ndipo imayenda mkati kupita ku chipinda, chomwe chili ndi kama, tebulo, ndi ma tepi omwe ali ndi ma tepi kulikonse. Nkhani imayambiranso kugonana:

Courtney akudandaula kuti: "Amuna ambiri akusowa ntchito imeneyi. "Kodi ndiwotani kwenikweni? Sindikudziwa. "

Onse amaseka mosadziwika.

Courtney anati: "Ndikudziwa mmene ndingadziperekere ndekha.

Jessica anati: "Eya, koma anthu sadziwa choti achite."

"Popanda [vibrator] sindingathe kukhala nawo," akutero Courtney. "Sizinachitikepo" ndi mnyamata. "Ndi vuto lalikulu."

"Ndi vuto," Jessica akuvomereza.

Amalankhula za momwe sizachilendo kuti anthu ogonana nawo achotse chilakolako chawo chogonana. Ndi nkhani yodabwitsa yachipatala, kuwonjezeka kwa vuto la kugonana mwa anyamata achichepere, komwe kwachitika chifukwa cha zinthu zonse kuyambira mankhwala omwe amapezeka muzakudya zokonzedwa mpaka kusowa kwa chikondi pakugonana.

“ Ngati munthu sangathe kupirira,” akutero Rebecca, “ndipo ndiyenera kunena kuti, zimenezo zimachitika nthawi zambiri, amangochita ngati kuti dziko latha.”

"Pa 4 koloko mmawa uyu anali wokhumudwa kwambiri, ndipo ndinkakonda, Dude, ndimangoyenda kugona-ndi bwino," anatero Sara, 21, yemwe ali ndi tsitsi lalitali lakuda. "Ndimatopa kwambiri ndikunjenjemera."

Malinga ndi kafukufuku wambiri, amayi amakhala ndi ziphuphu pambali ya maubwenzi kusiyana ndi kusonkhana kosadziwika. Kafukufuku amene ofufuza a Kinsey Institute ndi yunivesite ya Binghamton anapeza, imapezeka kawiri konse.

“ Ndikaona makanda ofooka akubwera kwa ine, ndimati, Mulungu wanga ,” akutero Courtney, akuika zala zake pachikwangwani cha mtanda, ngati kuti akuthamangitsa vampire.

Amaseka.

"Zikanakhala bwino ngati akanatha kukhala ndi mphamvu zokha komanso kuti asadzafike pamasekondi awiri," anatero Rebecca.

“Ndikuganiza kuti amuna ali ndi malingaliro olakwika pa zenizeni za kugonana kudzera mu zolaula ,” akutero Jessica, akuyang'ana mmwamba pafoni yake. “Chifukwa nthawi zina ndimaganiza kuti kugonana kolaula sikwabwino nthawi zonse—monga kumenya munthu.” Akuchita kugunda ndi dzanja lake, akuwoneka wokwiya.

"Eya, zikuwoneka ngati zowawa," anatero Danielle.

“ Monga kugonana kolaula,” akutero Jessica, “akazi amenewo—omwe si osangalatsa, monga kukokedwa tsitsi lawo kapena kumenyedwa kapena kumenyedwa. Ndikutanthauza, chilichonse chomwe mumakonda, koma amuna amangoganiza”—mawu a m'bale—“ 'Ndimugona naye,' ndipo nthawi zina zimenezo si zabwino .”

“Inde,” Danielle akuvomereza. “Monga usiku watha ndinali kugonana ndi munthu uyu, ndipo ndine munthu womvera kwambiri—monga, osati wankhanza konse—ndipo mnyamata amene anabwera kuno usiku watha, anali kundipweteka .”

Iwo anali chete mphindi.