Kuyambira kukambirana ndi bwenzi lanu za zolaula, zolaula komanso kusiya zolaula zitha kukhala zovuta. Wher kodi kubwezeretsanso kuli kokwanira pachibwenzi?
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- SAYANSI:Studies kugwirizanitsa ntchito zolaula kapena zolaula / kugonana ndi zovuta zogonana, zochepa kugwirizanitsa ubongo ku zokhuza kugonana, ndi kuchepetsa kukhutitsidwa kwa kugonana
Kuchita zibwenzi panthawi yopangidwanso kungayambitse vuto lalikulu. Nazi zochitika:
Ndikupitiliza kucheza ndi atsikana ndipo ndikuganiza kuti ndapeza yosangalatsa kwambiri. Ndakhala ndikutuluka naye kawiri. Kenako ndidapeza tsambali ndipo ndidachoka ku PMO masiku 14 apitawo, kozizira. Tsopano, ndikumva zachilendo kwambiri. Zikuwoneka kuti libido yanga yatha. Ndilibe nkhuni zam'mawa kapena maloto onyowa. Ndipo ndimadzimva kuti ndikudzuka pokhapokha ndikamalemba zongoyerekeza zanga. Pambuyo pake ndiyenera kuchita ndi msungwana uyu, ndipo ndikuwopa mphindi ino chifukwa ndikudziwa kuti sindizipeza mosavuta. Sindikudziwa choti ndichite. Ndiyenera kusiya chibwenzi ndi atsikana? Mpaka nditayambiranso ubongo wanga? Chifukwa nthawi iliyonse ndikalephera kupeza erection ndimakhala ndi nkhawa.
Ndizabwino kukhala ndi bwenzi, koma akuyeneradi kumvetsetsa kuti ngati muli ndi ED kapena kuchedwa kuthamangitsidwa mungafunike kuchepetsa kapena kuthetseratu ziphuphu mukamayambiranso (ndipo osakakamiza kuti mukhale ndi malingaliro anu akale!). Pakadali pano, pali zambiri zomwe mungachite ndi mnzanu zomwe zingakupindulitseni nonse. Maganizo apa: Njira Yowongoka Yokhalabe Chikondi (makhalidwe ogwirizana) ndi Njira Yina Yopangira Chikondi (kugonana popanda kupita pachimake).
MFUNDO YOFUNIKA: Kukhala ndi ziphuphu kapena kuyesayesa kukakamiza mulole khalani opanda phindu - makamaka ngati muli ndi ED, koma kupsompsona, kukhudza, ndi kupusitsa, kungathandize kugwiritsanso ntchito ubongo wanu ku chinthu chenicheni. Kumbukirani, zoyambitsa zopangira pazenera zidapangitsa kuti mukhale osokoneza bongo kapena ED, osakhudzana ndi anthu. Simuyenera kungofooketsa zolaula zanu, muyenera kukulimbikitsani njira "zenizeni". Onani Chibwenzi Zotsatira za 5.
Mwamuna wina anafotokozera kusintha kwake mukutenga kugonana motere:
Nthawi yomwe amuna amadziseweretsa maliseche mosakhalitsa kenako mwadzidzidzi amakhala ndi chidziwitso ndi mkazi, kugonana kumawoneka kosiyana kwambiri. Izi zachitika kwa ine kangapo m'moyo wanga ndipo tsopano ndikumvetsetsa zomwe zinali kuchitika. Msungwana woyamba yemwe ndinagonana naye sanathenso kutuluka chifukwa sindinamve "kalikonse" pambuyo pogonana kwakanthawi. Ndizosiyana kwambiri ndi maliseche kuti malingaliro athu amasokonezeka pang'ono chifukwa chakumverera ndikosiyana. Kwa ine ngati nditataya lingaliro lakumverera ndekha ndiye kuti kukonzekera kumatha kuchepa.
Tsopano, nditalowa muubwenzi wokhazikika, wokhalitsa ndinakhala ndi nthawi yambiri yochita. Ngakhale okwatirana sanabwererenso ku maliseche. Komabe, nditapatukana, ndinapita chaka ndi theka ndikuyenera kudzisamalira ndekha (maliseche). Ndiye pamene ndidayamba kupanga chikondi ndi gf yanga yatsopano panthawiyo, ndidakumana ndikusowa kwakumva konseko. Poyamba ndimaganiza kuti ndi iye, koma kenako ndinazindikira kuti nditapita nthawi yayitali popanda kuseweretsa maliseche, ndimatha kumva kuti ndili mkati mwake, ndipo zonse zinali bwino.
Sizovuta nthawi zonse kulankhula za zinthu zosakhazikika monga kuchira chifukwa chogwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Koma mwina munganene kuti, “Aliyense amati zolaula pa intaneti zilibe vuto, koma kwa ine sizinakhalepo. Ndipo ndikufunikiradi nthawi yayitali kuti ubongo wanga ukhale wabwinobwino — chifukwa ndikufuna kukhala bwenzi labwino kwambiri kuposa onse omwe mungakhale nawo. ” Mutha kumuwonera mndandandawu kuti amvetsetse zomwe zikuchitika: Chiwonetsero chanu cha ubongo pa Porn.
Muyenera kumuuza Chinachake, chifukwa apo ayi adzaganiza kuti simumupeza wokongola. Iyenso, watengeka ndi chikhalidwe chathu cha zolaula-momwe amuna okhazikika amaoneka ngati akuchita mosakhazikika kwamuyaya. Mutsimikizireni (1) kuti kutsikako kuli chifukwa cha nkhani yanu, (2) kuti mukulimbana nayo, ndipo (3) mumamukondadi. Pali njira zina zambiri zodziwitsira kuti kupatula magwiridwe antchito.
Dziwani kuti magonedwe anu atha kukhala opambana mukachira. Werengani nkhani za ena za "ED Recovery" m'malumikizidwe a tsamba ili.
Mkulu wanzeru adapereka malangizo awa kwa anyamata akudandaula za ntchitoyo atangoyambiranso.
Pali mwambi womwe umati, "Kulimba mtima kumangolimba mtima mukaopa". Malamulo anga ozungulira mantha ndi akuti, chilichonse chomwe ndimawopa ndikupita molunjika. Njira yokhayo yozungulira mantha ndikudutsamo. Poyamba ndinkakhala ndi mantha opanda pake amadzi akuya kotero ndidatuluka ndikukawerenga maphunziro othamangitsa m'madzi, komanso maphunziro oyendetsa kayak. Mantha amenewo kulibenso.
Chifukwa chake mumaopa kunyinyirika ndi mkazi yemwe angafune inu. Chifukwa chake, tonsefe tili. Musalole kuti izi zikulepheretseni. Tiyerekeze kuti muli ndi anzanu ndipo mkazi amene mumamupeza wokongola amakusangalatsani. Mutha kuyankha mwamantha ndikunyamuka ndi mantha anu opunduka, kapena mutha kuyambitsa zokambirana ndikupita komwe mantha anu akukufuulirani kuti muthawe. Akanena kuti, "mungafune kubwerera kumalo anga?" umamuyang'ana m'maso ndikunena, "Ndikuwona kuti ndiwe wokongola kwambiri; ndinu mkazi wokongola ndipo ndingakonde kukutengani pa zomwe mukufuna. Ndikufuna kukudziwitsani kuti ndili ndi ED yomwe ikuchitika pakadali pano ndipo sindingathe kulonjeza kuti ndidzakupezerani.
Kumwamba kumadziwa kuti mukuyenera. Zomwe ndingakupatseni ndi lilime lomwe limakupirirani zala zanu, ndipo ndimayang'anira zowonjezerazo. Ndiye ngati mukadali ndi chidwi ndikapatsidwa ulemu ”. Ndikukayika kwambiri kuti angakukanani.
Onani, kukhazikitsa kukhalapo kwa amuna kutembenukira kwambiri kwa mkazi kuposa mbolo yokhayo. Amuna amaganiza kuti magwiridwe antchito ndi omwe akazi amafuna koma ndi kukhalapo kwachimuna komwe amakulakalaka. Mwamuna yemwe amalimbana ndi ziwanda zake amatulutsa mphamvu yomwe nthawi zambiri imakopa chachikazi. Mukamayamwa nokha, kuti ndi njira yowonjezera yaikulu kuposa yochuluka. Mantha amawongolera pamene mumatsutsa ndipo amakula pamene muthamanga. Mantha ndi wodwala wopanda kuluma, pokhapokha mutamupatsa mano.
Mwamuna wa zaka 50 anali ndi uphungu uwu:
Ndikuti mumuuze, koma pita pang'onopang'ono. Zambiri zambiri mofulumira zimasokoneza anthu. Chifukwa chake kumuwuza kuti pomwe simunali 'osakwatiwa' mumakonda kuseweretsa maliseche kwambiri kumakhala kovuta kale. Kuwonjezera pa zolaula kumapangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta kwambiri. Kuvomereza zolaula kwambiri kumapangitsa kukhala koipa, (ngati ndi choncho kwa inu).
Ndikuganiza kuti ndiyamba ndi: "Hei, mukudziwa momwe anyamata amakonda kuseweretsa maliseche kwambiri? chabwino, ndimachita izi koma ndidasiya. koma kwa anyamata ambiri omwe amakonda kusokoneza libido yawo kwakanthawi, ndipo ndimakhala m'malo amenewo tsopano. Ndikutanthauza kuti ndikufuna, koma jr. siyimvera kwenikweni nthawi zonse - ngati mukudziwa zomwe ndikutanthauza. nthawi yayitali ikukula, ndipo ndikudziwa kuti ndichinthu choyenera kuchita; chifukwa sindikufunanso maliseche m'moyo wanga - koma kungogonana kopindulitsa komanso kokongola ndi mkazi m'modzi ndi m'modzi. Chifukwa chake ngati zili bwino ndi inu titha kungovala ndi kukumbatirana popanda zoyembekezera zina kupatula ngati mukufuna zambiri nditha kuchita zinthu zina - ndipo ngati jr. takhala amoyo tingathe kutero, chabwino? "
Ndikuganiza kuti muli ndi mfuti 50/50 panthawiyi muubwenzi wanu, moona mtima. Zomwe muyenera kupewa ndikuti apite kumalo omwe akumukweza, ndipo nkhaniyi imatha kukhala yokongola kwambiri - makamaka muubwenzi watsopano.
Chinthu chimodzi chotsimikizika ndichakuti, muyenera kuwonetsetsa kuti samayikulitsa ndikuti, "Sindikumutumiza." chifukwa ndiyo njira yotsimikizika yopangitsa kuti amathamange.
Zonsezi ndizovuta kwambiri. Zimatengera nthawi yayitali kuchiritsa. Kuthamanga chirichonse kumapangitsa kukhala koipitsitsa.
Ndikudziwa kuti moyo ndi waufupi, ndipo mumakumana ndi atsikana mukakumana nawo - ndipo mulibe ulamuliro pa izi… koma kuyesa kuponyera katundu uyu muubwenzi watsopano sizabwino kapena zosavuta.
TL; DR: Zachidziwikire, chinthu chokha chomwe muyenera kutaya ndi gf yanu yatsopano. Ndipo ngati simungathe kuchita bwino ndipo osafotokoza mwachangu, wapita. Ndipo ngati mungapitirire kufotokoza kapena kumuchotsa panthawiyi, wapita. Chifukwa chake mulibe chilichonse choti mutaye chifukwa njira yokhayo yomwe ndikuwonera kuti sanapite ndikulankhula kaye kaye.
Ngati mukuona kuti simuli omasuka kumasuka, muuzeni kuti mwawona kuti maubwenzi omwe amayamba pang'onopang'ono amakhala a nthawi yayitali, ndipo chifukwa chake - ngakhale mukufuna kwambiri kumuchitira zachipongwe — mukuyamba pang'onopang'ono ndikuyembekeza kuti ubalewo upitilira kwakanthawi.
Kufikira momwe chilakolako chiri mbali ya chithunzithunzi, zingakhale zofunikira kukhala ndi mnzanu amene mumamukhulupirira ndikukambirana momasuka, kapena amene mungathe kutenga zinthu pang'onopang'ono. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, kungakhale kupanda nzeru kuyesa yankho lanu la erectile pa zochitika zolaula pamene mumakumana ndi winawake ndikupempha kuti thupi lanu lizichita.
Anthu ambiri pano akuwoneka kuti akuwona kugonana komwe kuli zambiri chikondi chenicheni ndi njira yochezeka. Izi zimakhala zomveka chifukwa chakuti nkhawa imalepheretsanso kusintha-ngakhale mu ubongo wobwezeretsedwa. Ndipo kukhudza kotentha kumachepetsa nkhawa.
Potsiriza, apa pali ndemanga za amuna osiyanasiyana pa forum. Wokamba nkhani woyamba watulukiranso mchitidwe wake wogonana atafika pamalopo ndi ED. Tsopano ali ndi masiku 71 opanda PMO.
Bwenzi lanu la chibwenzi likufuna kudziwa kuti zomwe zikuchitika ndizovuta kuwonjezera pa kusankha kwanu. Yang'anani izi zogwirizana. Muuzeni kuti mwasiyidwa ndi zolaula koma kuti mukufuna kubwerera mwakale. Muuzeni za yourbrainonporn.com ndikuti kuyambiranso ndiyo njira yobwezeretsa chidwi chanu chogonana kwa akazi enieni. Ndipo muuzeni kuti mumakopeka naye, koma kuti pakadali pano malingaliro anu abwinobwino okhudzana ndi kugonana agonjetsedwa. Mukudziwa kuti mumakopeka naye koma thupi lanu silimatero, pakadali pano, simudzakhala ndi chidwi ngati momwe mumawonera zolaula. Koma kuti ndiofunika kwambiri, ndiye mukonza zinthu.
Pomaliza, zingakhale bwino ngati mutamuuza kuti mumamufunadi komanso kuti mukuyambiranso kukonza zinthu, koma pamapeto pake mumusiyira kusankha. Izi zitha kumveka ngati zotsutsana, koma mwanjira iyi simumamatira. Mpatseni chisankho chakusiyani kapena ayi. Pambuyo pake, kuyambiranso kumukhudza iye mwanjira ina. Zomwe zingachitike, chitani izi poyambiranso makamaka mtsogolo.
Ngati muli pachibwenzi, muuzeni! Sindingathe kutsindika izi mokwanira. Osasungira izi kwa mnzanu; iye si wopusa ndipo angadziwe yekha ndikukhumudwitsani chifukwa choti simumukhulupirira, kapena posachedwa azindikira kuti china chake chalakwika ndipo adzakusiyani chifukwa simudzagawana nawo.
Inde, atha kuthamangira pakhomo mukamuuza, koma achita izi mukapanda kutero. (msungwana wanga adandiwuza kuti ndikadapanda kutseguka kapena ndikadapanda kutenga nawo gawo mwina akadakhala atatuluka milungu ingapo - zomwe zikadakhala zokhumudwitsa kwa ine. Ndikukhulupirira kuti iye ndikudina pamagulu ambiri, ndikukhulupilira kuti ndiamene ndimakhala - zomwe sindinamvepo kale ndi wina aliyense.
Kotero ngati mumamva mofanana mofanana ndi mnzanuyo, MUSAKHALE. Ingomuzani iye !!)
· Ine ndi msungwana wanga watsopano tidatenga pang'onopang'ono pamasiku angapo, titagwirana manja ndikupanga apa ndi apo. Nthawi zambiri ndimakhala ndikuwuma pang'ono kuchokera pa ichi chokha, chomwe chinali chizindikiro chabwino. Zinali zowonekeratu kwa ine kuti amafuna kutenganso zinthu pang'onopang'ono, lomwe linali dalitso potengera vuto langa.
Patsiku la 8 la mndandanda wanga wapano (masiku 8 palibe MO, masabata 5 opanda P), tinayesera kugonana mosapambana - ndendende zomwe ndinali kuopa. Ndinavutika panthawi yoyamba koma sindinathe kuyisamalira pamwambowu. Zokambirana zanga zamkati ndizomwe mungayembekezere (“zoyipa, zoyipa, zoyipa… osatinso, osati TSOPANO), zomwe mwina sizinathandize.
· Pamenepo, Ine adagulung'undisa ndi modekha anati "ok, Ndikufuna ndikuuzeni chinachake…". Pambuyo pofotokoza ziwerengero zina kuchokera ku kuyankhulana ndi dokotala, Ndinapereka mwachidule za PIED, mobwerezabwereza kufotokozera kuti (1) ichi sichinali cholakwa chake mwa njira iliyonse, ndipo (2) ndi kanthawi ndipo ndikukonzekera. Ndinamuuzanso kuti ndinasiya kuyang'ana pa zolaula pamene ndinakumana naye patangotha mwezi umodzi, kuti ndiyambe kuchotsa zonse zomwe ndikupanga ndikukambiranso ubongo wanga kachiwiri.
· Anatenga izi momveka bwino. Anamwetulira (pafupifupi anaseka pang'ono), akunena kuti ali ndi nkhawa kuti mwina ndi vuto lake ndipo adandithokoza chifukwa chomutsegulira. Anatinso anali wamanjenje (za kusadziŵa zambiri) ndipo kuyambira pano, ziphuphu zanga zimangokhala kwa iye yekha. Tonse tidavomereza kukhala oleza mtima, podziwa kuti zinthu zikhala bwino pakapita nthawi. Lumikizani
Tsiku 7 - Ndinaphika mabodza amitundumitundu kuti ndipewe kugonana, koma patsiku 5, nditawerenga mayankho kangapo, ndidakumana ndi bwenzi langa za vuto langali. Munthu… Ndikuganiza kuti chinali chinthu chovuta kwambiri chomwe ndidachitapo. Ndinayamba kumuuza pang'onopang'ono za momwe, "china chake" chinali cholakwika ndi ine. Liwu langa linayamba kusweka ndipo ndinatsala pang'ono kuyamba kulira. Ndinkadziona kuti ndikunyansidwa ndekha. Koma kenako ndidamva mawu achikondi kwambiri omwe adanenedwa kwa ine: "Osadandaula. Zikhala bwino, Tithana nawo limodzi. ” Damn, ndimkonda mkaziyu 😉
Ndinafika pomuuza gf wanga za chinthu chonsecho ndipo iye ndiwodabwitsa komanso wothandizira. Kumuuza za ichi chinali chimodzi mwazinthu zovuta kwambiri zomwe ndidachita m'moyo wanga. Ndinkamva kukhala wosatetezeka komanso wosasangalala lol. Koma zidatibweretsadi pafupi kwambiri.
Chibwenzi changa amakhala pafupifupi ola limodzi ndi 1/2 kutali ndi ine. Ndinamuuza kuti ndikusiya zolaula ndipo ndikupatsa thupi langa kupumula kwamuyaya. (Amadziwa kuti ndimayang'ana zolaula) Zinthu zandithandizira izi chifukwa sitinakumanenso kwa masabata angapo m'mbuyomu ndipo tinkakhala ndi mwezi uti. Zomwe zimachitika ndikuti timacheza kumapeto kwa sabata yatha ndipo ndidayamba kuvutikira (pafupifupi 70% yomwe ili yabwino kwa ine, kupatsidwa komwe ndinali mwezi wapitawo) ndipo zinali pa tsiku la 31. Zogonana zinali zosiyana chifukwa ine ndinamverera iye pomwe ndisanamve kena kena koma sizinali ngati dzulo.
Ndinamuuzanso chibwenzi changa. Ndimadziwa kuti anyamata ambiri pano sakudziwa kapena amaopa kuchita izi. GUYS, ndikukuuzani pakali pano: TIYANI ZONSE PA PHIRI. Inde zokambiranazo zinali zochititsa manyazi komanso zosavuta, komaliza, zinayenera kuchitika kuti ubale ukhale woona mtima ndi umene ungapitirize. Chibwenzi changa chinali kumvetsa bwino, makamaka pamene ndinamupatsa chiyanjano ndi YBOP.
Ndinapereka chibwenzi changa usiku watha komaliza. Tinali tikulumikizana kwakanthawi ndipo pamapeto pake ndinapezanso gawo limodzi mwazomwezo 80%. Zachilendo momwe zimakhalira koma sizodzaza. Nthawi zonse amandipatsa mutu ndipo sindinatengeke koma ndinataya mwangozi. Ndinali wokwiya poyamba panali patadutsa masiku khumi kuchokera pamene O wanga womaliza.
Chifukwa cha kukhumudwa kwanga, ndinamuuza za vuto langa. Ndipo kuti kunali kofunikira kuti ndipite mwezi umodzi popanda kugonana, kugonana kwakamwa, kapena kugonana, koma kuti ndikhoza kuchita chirichonse kwa iye. Izi zinali zabwino. Ingwiro basi. Tsopano onse anadzipereka kwa iwo ndipo ndinamuuza kuti asandipatse kanthu mpaka mweziwo utatha.
Msungwana wanga adangothetsa chibwenzi nane. Ine ndinali ndisanamuuze iye. Sitinayese kugonana ngakhale pang'ono chifukwa sindinali okonzeka. Amakhala wankhanza komanso wosapita m'mbali pankhani zachiwerewere ndipo ndikuchedwa kupatsidwa mwayi kuti ndikubwezeretsanso. Sitinachite chilichonse ndipo adatopa ndi izi. Ndikumvetsa kukhumudwa kwake. Sindinkafuna kudumphadumpha chifukwa ndikudziwa kuti ngati siziyenda bwino ndiye kuti ndigwedezeka ndi izi. Nthawi yomaliza yomwe ndimakhala ndi ED ndi munthu wina ndidakhala wokhumudwa kwambiri. Ndimamukonda kwambiri, tili ndi kulumikizana, ndipo ndimakhala womasuka naye koma sindinakhale ndi chilakolako chogonana chifukwa libido yanga ndiyotsika kwambiri.
Ndikuwonabe atsikana ochepa pakadali pano koma ndikuwatenga pang'onopang'ono nawo onse. Koma sindinakhalepo mu mkhalidwe womwe ukanandikakamiza kuti ndiyambe kufotokoza za "kuyesera" kwanga koma ndili wokonzeka kutero ngati kuli kofunikira. Pakadali pano, ndimakhala wokondwa ndikamacheza ndi atsikana ndipo izi zikuwonetsa kuthupi. Kukhala mumkhalidwe wadzutsawu sikungakhale kovuta kukana kupitilira apo.
Ndikumva kuti ndakhazikika ndi m'modzi mwa atsikanawa (kumuwona usikuuno) kwanthawi yayitali kuti ayambe kufunsa mafunso osavutitsa posachedwa. Ndikukonzekera kunena kuti: "Sindingathe kupitiliza, chifukwa pano ndikuyesa kudziyesa ndekha. Tsopano ndikumva ngati ndadzisungira ndekha ndipo ndaganiza zopeweratu zachiwerewere kwanthawi yayitali ”. Sindikuganiza kuti pali chifukwa chilichonse chotsegulira zolaula, kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo kapena kusokonekera kwa mtundu uliwonse - ndizochita zanga zokha.
Kufewa ndi kufota ndi gawo limodzi la izo. Inenso ndinachita chimodzimodzi. Ndikanapita sabata limodzi kapena ayi ndikukhala ndi PMO ndikudzipereka chifukwa ndinali woopsa kwambiri, kapena ndikanachita PM ndikuyembekeza kuti ndilipiritsa libido yanga. Izi zinangoipitsa zinthu. Muyenera kudutsa milungu ingapo-anthu ena amapita miyezi-kumene mumakhala ndi nkhawa kuti libido yanu ikupita kwamuyaya komanso nkhawa kwambiri kuti mbolo yanu ikuchepa kwambiri mukuganiza kuti ikubwerera m'mimba mwanu ngati mutu wa kamba. Ndizowopsa. Zili choncho. Koma ingoganizirani kuti mudzikhala okhwima kuti thupi lanu likhale ndi nthawi yobwereranso.
Mukumva ngati munthu wolangika, wothamanga komanso wokhala ndi benchi. Mwavulaza machitidwe anu azakugonana ndipo tsopano muyenera kuyikapo ndikulola kuti ichiritse. Ngati ndikadakhala inu (ndipo izi ndi zomwe zimandipangitsa kuti ndisasinthane) ndimapeza pepala, ndipo tsiku lililonse mumapita opanda PMO, mumthunzi m'bokosi laling'ono, mwina musanagone. Mutha kubwereranso kangapo, koma mukayamba "kuthamanga" bwino, mpikisano wanu umalanda ndipo musanadziwe kuti miyezi iwiri yadutsa ndipo mudzakhalanso bwino.
Ndadutsa miyezi iwiri tsopano ndipo zinthu zili bwino. Ponena za kuyanjana ndikumachira, ndinganene ngati ubalewo sungadikire miyezi iwiri, kapena sungakhale limodzi ndi kuchira kwa miyezi iwiri, ndiye mutenge miyezi iwiri kuchokera kuubwenzi. Pali njira zopangira. Koma mukufuna ndipo mukufunika kuti izi zisamaliridwe, chifukwa chake zikhale zofunikira kwambiri. Zabwino zonse!
Chosangalatsa ndichakuti msungwanayu sanadandaule kwenikweni ndi vuto langa la ED. Akuwunikiranso ubale wake pakadali pano (kuletsedwa kwa kugonana kwa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi) kotero ndikuganiza mwanjira ina kupeza mpumulo kupeza munthu yemwe sakumukakamiza. Ndizopusa zomwe tinapezana nthawi imeneyi m'miyoyo yathu. Nthawiyo ikuwoneka kuti ndiyabwino kwambiri kuti ikhale yoona.
Mosiyana ndi izi, wokondedwa wanga adatenga ED wanga kwenikweni. Nthawi imeneyo sindimadziwa kuti ndichifukwa chiyani zimachitika kapena sindimatha kumufotokozera. Ndikupita kuchipinda tonsefe tinkangokhalira kusokonezeka komanso kukhumudwa Ndikumva kuti yakwana nthawi yoti ndifotokozere bwenzi langa latsopanoli za mbiri yanga yaposachedwa yakugonana komanso zomwe ndikukumana nazo. Zimamveka ngati kusuntha, koma pambuyo pa sabata yatha [kukondana kwambiri, osagonana] ndimamukhulupirira ndipo ndimaona kuti akuyenera kudziwa.
Ndili ndi nkhani yatsopano yonena za chinthu chodabwitsa chomwe chidachitika usiku womwewu (usiku 21). Koma choyamba ndiyenera kugawana zomwe ndazipeza / malingaliro okhudzana ndikubwezeretsanso komwe ndili pano. Ndikupeza kuti zongopeka, kwa ine, ndiye ulusi womaliza womwe uyenera kudulidwa kuti ndidzichotsere zolaula. Tsoka ilo likuwoneka ngati lolimba kwambiri ulusi wonse.
Kuleka zolaula kunali ngati kuponyera ubongo wanga wosauka m'bwatolo. Kupereka Maliseche kunali ngati kumuponya m'madzi ndikutuluka. Zimakhala ngati ndikasiya zozizwitsa, ubongo wanga ukupita "Hei, KODI MUNTHU WABWINO!" pamene ndimachotsa kuyandama. Ndipo kenako ndikulowera kwakuya! Izi ndi zomwe ndidakumana nazo pakati pa masiku 16 mpaka lero (21) .. mosasunthika.
Zakhala zovuta kwambiri kubwereranso ku malingaliro chifukwa, ndikuganiza kuti njira yokhayo ndingathe kukwaniritsira zokhazokha (zomwe ndilo zokha zomwe ndikulolera kukhala nazo pakalipano) ndikukhala ndi zogonana. Ubongo umafuna kwambiri pamene mukuyesera kuima. Uthenga wabwino ndi (nkhani zoipa kwa munthu wosaleza mtima) ndi kuti pamene mukusiya malingaliro ndikuyamba kulola kuti choonadi chilowe m'malo mwake, malingaliro anu amayamba kukhala osamvetsetsa malingaliro. Tsoka ilo, ndikupeza kuti ilo limataya chidwi ndi malingaliro asanayambe kuvomereza zenizeni chifukwa cha nthawi yomwe zikuwoneka kuti palibe chokhachokha (flatline). Chowopsa kwambiri. Koma osati kuti muwope! Onani ndime yotsatira:
Ndinalumikizana ndi mkazi wodabwitsa, wokongola, wanzeru usikuuno. Ndi munthu wina wakale yemwe ndimakonda, koma njira zathu sizinadutse mwanjira imeneyi. Ndinali wamantha poyamba pomwe adanditumizira meseji kuti amafunitsitsa andiwone mawa usiku (usikuuno). Ndinkadziwa kuti sindinayambirenso ndipo, choipa kwambiri, kuti ndinali wosalala. Ndipo ndidakhala ndi mayeso ofunikira tsiku lotsatira komanso pakati pawo, ndipo kuda nkhawa ndikudzifunsa zoyenera kuchita pankhani ya mtsikanayo, sindinathe kugona tulo konse. Chifukwa chake osapumula, ndikudutsa mayeso a 4-hour, ndikukhala mosabisa, ndidamupatsira mameseji oti ndikufuna tikumane naye 8:00.
Ndinazindikira kuti sizili ngati kuti ndingangomuphulitsa mpaka ndikuganiza kuti ndayambiranso, komwe kungakhale masiku ena 60+ pazomwe ndikudziwa; Ndiyenera kupita pakali pano. Chifukwa chake tidalumikizana, ndipo ndine wokondwa kuti ndidatero. Tinali ndi chakudya chamadzulo, zakumwa zingapo ndi dziwe lowombera. Kenako tidabwerera mgalimoto yake ndikuyamba kupanga malingaliro. Poyamba, sindimamva chilichonse kunjaku koma kutentha komanso kutentha kwa magazi. Ndizachilendo kutengeka ndikukhalamo koma osakhazikika.
Pamapeto pake, mphindi yomwe ndikuganiza kuti tonse timaopa kwambiri idachitika pomwe adatchulapo zakuti `` samandimva ''. Iyo inali mphindi yovuta!
Koma apa ndi pomwe zonse zidatembenuka. Pakadali pano, ndimaganiza, "Nditha kupanga chowiringula cha BS kuti ndichifukwa chiyani izi zikuchitika, kapena ndingotenga Fn ndikulankhula, ndikumuuza zachiwerewere, kubwezeretsanso komanso chisokonezo chonse ndikulola tchipisi titagwa mulole. ”
Chifukwa chake, nditaganizira mwachidule, ndidamuwuza zowona, zomwe zidandidabwitsa kuti amamvetsetsa za mitundu yambiri yazakugonana komanso momwe zimathandizira ubongo (wochenjera kwambiri). Ndidamuuza kuti ndiyenera kuzengereza pang'onopang'ono ndipo sichingakhale chinthu chabwino kupita mpaka nditayambiranso. Izi zidapangitsa kuti pakhale zokambirana zolimbikitsa zokhudzana ndi kugonana, chikondi, uzimu, komanso chikhalidwe. Izi zidatipangitsa kuti tiyambenso.
Zinthu zitayamba kutentha ndipo momwe amandikanda ine pamapeto pake ndinayamba kulimba. Palibe nthawi yomwe ndimadzikhudza kapena chilichonse. Tiyenera kupitiliza kupanga maola awiri. Zinali zodabwitsa. Ndinkasunga koyera nthawi zambiri - osalowa buluku. Ankazikondanso. Tonsefe tinamva kulumikizana kwenikweni. Ndimamukondadi mtsikanayo ndipo ndikufuna kuchita zinthu zina.
Ndizachilendo, patsiku la 15 nkuti, malingaliro anga atha kundipatsa erection pafupifupi masekondi 20, koma zimanditengera ngati mphindi 15 kuti nditenge imodzi ndi mkazi weniweni. Izi zikuwonetsa kuti pali kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa zongopeka ndi zenizeni pokhudzana ndi njira yonse yoberekera, ndikuti sindinayambitsenso. Zikuwonetsanso, komabe, kuti kutsetsereka sikutanthauza kwenikweni, ngakhale kuli kwenikweni. Pambuyo pa chokumana nacho chodabwitsa chimenecho sindimamva ngati kuyerekezera. Ine kulibwino ndingodikira mpaka nditamuwonananso.
momwe PMO wa bf wanga adandikankhira kumalo amdima… nanga bwanji kuli kuwala mumphangayo [wamkazi]
Akuti anyamata (ndi atsikana)
Choyamba - Ndine mtsikana ngati mukutsutsana ndi atsikana omwe amatumiza pano chonde musamawerenge. Itha kukhala ndi zoyambitsa za ena.
Chachiwiri - ndikulemba izi chifukwa ndikukhulupirira kuti izi zitha kuthandiza anthu ena kunjaku. Komanso Chingerezi si chilankhulo changa, chifukwa chake pls ndikhululukire zolakwa zilizonse zomwe ndipange.
Izi ndi izi: Ndine 26 yo. Ndili ndi chibwenzi chabwino (32) ndipo takhala pachibwenzi chachikulu… mpaka chaka chapitacho china chake chidayamba kusokonekera.
Poyamba adayamba kupewa kugonana. Tinkangogonana sabata iliyonse ya 4-6… ndipo OKHA chifukwa ndinali kuchipempha. Nthawi zonse anali "wotopa" komanso wopanda chidwi; adalankhula za "kupsinjika pantchito", adandiuza "kuti ndisapitirire". "Moyo sudalira zogonana wokha ukudziwa" - ankakonda kunena kuti ... Ndinayamba kudzifunsa ndekha, mawonekedwe anga, kufunika kwanga. Kwa ine sizinali zokhudzana ndi kugonana, ndinkafuna chibwenzi. Ndinkafuna kuti andisangalatse ngati mkazi, ndikufuna kumva kuti NDIKUFUNA. Koma sizinali kupezeka. Anzanga kuntchito amawonjezera momwe ndimawonekera, amuna ena anali kundimenyabe kunja uko, koma kunyumba, kunalibe CHINTHU. Ndipo tikamagonana sizinali ngati momwe zimakhalira. Zodziwikiratu, zoyipa, zonga zolaula. Osakumbatira pambuyo pake. Osapsyopsyona komanso alibe chiwonetsero. Kugonana - chiwonongeko - muli ndi zomwe mumafuna, tsopano ndisiyeni kwa masabata 4.
Zina mwa ubale wathu zimawoneka ngati zabwino, chifukwa chake ndimaganiza kuti ino ndi nthawi yokhayo yomwe tikudutsamo ndipo pamapeto pake zikhala bwino. Ndinaganiza zopirira komanso kumvetsetsa. Ndinasiya kufunsa zogonana.
Vutoli litangoyamba, ndayamba kuzindikira kuti chibwenzi changa chimayamba kundinyoza, kutalikirana, kundipsera mtima. Anayankhula zopusa. Palibe choyipa kwenikweni, koma samandiyanjanso…
Nthawi zina amakhala pamenepo ndipo zimawoneka ngati .. ..monga anali wopanda mzimu. Pepani ngati kufananaku kukuwoneka kowopsa, koma ndi momwe ndidamupambanitsira. Amapewa anthu ena, amakonda kukhala payekha, samafuna kupita kunja… Nthawi zambiri ndimapereka ndemanga ngati "sitili 70 pano, tiyeni tisangalale ndi moyo hun", ndimayesera kuti ndimusangalatse ndi zinthu zosiyanasiyana koma sizinatero ' ntchito. Nthawi iliyonse ndikamukumbatira, kumpsompsona mwana wankhuku sindimayankha. Tikawonera kanema limodzi ndipo ndimayesera kudalira iye modekha, kuti ndimve kulumikizana ndi anthu, amakhoza kunena "usandigwire uchi, ndinali womasuka ndekha, ndikungofuna kukawonera kanema" .
Sindinadziwe chomwe chinali cholakwika. Mwina samangokhala munthu wokonda "kukhudza"? Mwinanso anali chikhalidwe chake? Kapena mwina ndikufuna kwambiri? Mwina mwezi wamawa / chaka zisintha ...
Ndinadana ndi munthu wozizira yemwe anali kukhala. Tinayamba kukangana mobwerezabwereza. Ndipo kugonana kamodzi pamwezi, miyezi iwiri iliyonse kunali kundipha. Nthawi zambiri ndimalira (nthawi zambiri ndikakhala kwayekha, koma nthawi zina pamaso pake kuti ndimuwuzenso zomwe zimandichitikira. Sizinathandize).
Ndinatembenuka ndikukhala ndi maliseche. Sindinkafuna kumubera ndipo chilakolako changa chogonana chinali chokwera, chifukwa izi zimawoneka ngati kusuntha. Koma ndinkadziona kuti ndine wosatetezeka ndipo sindinkasangalala. Ndinkafunabe kukhala ndi "mamuna" kunyumba, osati munthu wina aliyense amene amakhoza kugula ndikundiyendetsa kupita kuntchito.
Ndinayamba kuganizira amuna ena. Ndipo ndikulingalira kukhala ndi wina, wina wokonda, wofunda. Wina yemwe angandigwire dzanja, wina amene angandikumbatire usiku, wina wokonda kugonana. Ndimaganizira usiku, nditagona pafupi ndi chibwenzi changa - yemwe panthawiyo anali ngati loboti kuposa mwamuna weniweni kwa ine. Kwa nthawi yoyamba m'miyezi ndidayamba kuzindikira anyamata ena omwe amandifuna. Pomwe ndinali wokondwa sindinasamale za kupita kwawo, koma tsopano mawu awo abwino andithandiza kumva ngati mkazi. Sindinapite konse ndi aliyense wa anyamata amenewo, osanamiza. Amangowoneka osamala komanso achikondi poyerekeza ndi bwenzi langa.
Kuposa, sabata yapitayo, ndinazindikira kuti chibwenzi changa chimakonda kwambiri zolaula komanso maliseche. Ndinabwereka laputopu yake ndipo ndinawona zinthu zonsezi… Zinakhala zoonekeratu kwa ine kuti miyezi yonseyi ndimayesetsa "kulumikizana" ndi iye… amathera akuyang'ana azimayi ena. Osewera pa zolaula. Amalembetsedwanso patsamba limodzi la akulu omwe amakhala ndi "zibwenzi" ndipo amatumiza mauthenga kwa azimayi ena kumeneko. Wamng'ono, wamkulu… Mmodzi wa iwo anali wamkulu monga amayi anga. Sanali wokongola, osati wina yemwe ndimamverera kuti ndimamuchitira m'moyo wanga ... Chifukwa chiyani pa dziko lapansi angandichite izi? Kuwonongeka komwe ndidakhala nako panthawiyo sikungathe kufotokozedwa…: /// sindingafune kwa aliyense.
Ndidakumana naye. Apa ndipamene adasweka ndikuvomereza kuti anali PMO. Nthawi yonseyi ndimaganiza kuti samakonda zogonana ... amakhala pafupifupi m'mawa uliwonse m'mawa kuseweretsa maliseche kubafa ndikuwonera zolaula. Ndikukumbukira kuti amakonda kucheza nthawi yayitali kubafa koma zidandizindikira kuti ichi ndichifukwa chake. Zinandidzidzimutsa - kudabwitsidwa kwathunthu - chifukwa sindimamuganizirapo kuti ndi m'modzi mwa "anyamata aja" Mukudziwa, ndimaganiza kuti anyamata okhawo omwe akuchita maliseche ndi omwe sangathe "kugonana mwachizolowezi" ... Amuna, opambana , amuna okongola samathera m'mawa kukhudza maliseche awo ... Ndizo zomwe ine. Sizinapange tanthauzo lililonse kwa ine.
Kuwona mtima kwake ndiye chifukwa chokha chomwe sindinasamukire nthawi yomweyo. Ndinalira ndikulira masiku otsatira… Sindikufuna kufotokoza mwatsatanetsatane zomwe ndidakumana nazo koma ndichinthu choyipa kwambiri kukumana nacho. Monga mkazi ndimamva kuti dziko langa lagwa. Kudziwa kuti adalimbikitsidwa ndi "azimayi aja" ndikuwakonda ine zinali zopweteka kwambiri.
Ndinayang'ana zambiri zokhudzana ndi zolaula ndipo ndinapeza yourbrainonporn, forum iyi, masamba ena ... Tidayankhula zambiri. Zambiri. Ndipo izi mwina ndizomwe zidapulumutsa malingaliro omwe ndidamusiira. Anandiuza kuti atsimikiza mtima kuti amumenya. Zinadziwika kuti aka ndi koyamba kuzindikira kuti ALI NDI VUTO LALIKULU. Sindinamvetsetse chifukwa chomwe sanazindikire izi koyambirira?! Izi zinali kumukankhira kumalo amdima kwambiri… kutali ndi ine, banja lake komanso moyo wamba. Ndinaganiza mumtima mwanga kuti ngati nditafika poti ndikawone zochulukirapo pa intaneti zitha kukhala ntchito yanga ... nditha kuzindikira kuti ndili ndi vuto, sichoncho? Kukhala m'zaka zabwino kwambiri m'moyo wanu ndikuwataya motero ... Ayenera kuti adadziwa… Kapenanso ndimaganiza choncho. Zowonjezera zimawerengedwa pazowonjezera zolaula pomwe ndimadya kwambiri ...
Tsopano ndikumukhulupirira iye mwina sakanazindikira komwe zolaula zimamupangitsa. Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa inenso - ndidayamba kupita komweko ndipo sindinazindikire ziboliboli zofiira…: Ndinali pachibwenzi ndipo ndimachita maliseche nthawi zambiri kuposa nthawi yomwe ndinali wosakwatira… sindinali wokondwa koma sindimadziwa chifukwa chake…. Ndidayimba mlandu ena. Ndani akudziwa kuti zinganditengere pati ..
Mpaka Loweruka lapitali sindinawonepo zolaula ngati chinthu cholakwika. M'malo mwake, ndakhala "womasuka" za izi ndipo ndimaganiza kuti sizingakupwetekeni ngati mukudziwa kuzigwiritsa ntchito. Awa ndi B * S. Zimakupweteketsani mukazigwiritsa ntchito. Zidzakupangitsani kukhala achisoni, osungulumwa, osakonda. Osasangalala. Palibe chabwino chilichonse chomwe mungatuluke muubwenzi wanu ndi zolaula. Ndikulakalaka anthu atalankhula momasuka za zomwe PMO wachita m'miyoyo yawo.
Tatsala pang'ono kutayana. Sindikunena kuti tithana nazo - zangokhala sabata imodzi ndipo ndikudziwa kuti vuto lake labwerera. Anali kubisa kwa zaka zambiri. Palibe kukayika kuti apeza ulendowu movutikira. Ndipo ndiyeneranso kumudaliranso, kudzidalira ndekha, kusiya kudzifananitsa ndi azimayi ena… Zikhala zovuta: / Koma mtima ndi malingaliro ake zili pamalo oyenera. Ndipo zanga zilinso.
Chifukwa chake tikupanga masiku 90 awa palibe vuto la PMO limodzi. Ndikukhulupirira ndi mtima wonse kuti "igwiritsanso ntchito" malingaliro athu ndi matupi athu. Zowona sindikufuna kukhala moyo wanga chonchi. Ndipo ndikudziwa kuti akumvanso chimodzimodzi.
Ndikudziwa kuti tili ndi zonse zomwe tikufuna kuti tichite bwino. Ndikudabwa ngati zingathandize aliyense ngati ndilembera pano nthawi ndi nthawi, ndikuwuza zomwe takumana nazo…
Ndikukhulupirira kuti mwazipeza mwa inu nokha ndikuzindikira kuti muli bwino kwambiri kuti sh * t. Moyo weniweni ukukuyembekezerani. Musataye nthawi yanu yofunika kuyang'ana akazi achilendo akufalitsa miyendo yawo ndi anyamata osasintha pakati pawo…: /: /: /
Ndikukuyamikirani inu nonse chifukwa chokhala amphamvu, kupitiliza ulendo uno ndi kufuna kusintha 🙂
Ndili ndi nkhani yachangu yoti ndigawe pankhaniyi. Ndakhala ndikudandaula pang'ono posachedwapa za momwe atsikana angachitire ndikawauza kuti sindimayang'ana / kuwonera zolaula. Usiku watha msungwana wina adandilembera meseji ndikufunsa za sabata yanga, yadda yadda. Tinalembera mameseji mwina kwa maola angapo. Komabe, nthawi ina adafunsa zomwe ndimachita ndipo ndidamuuza kuti ndimawonera kanema. Adatinso, "ngati mukufuna zosangalatsa zenizeni bwanji osayang'ana zolaula? "Ndikuganiza kuti amayesera kuti anditumizire zolaula kapena zosazindikira. Sindinachite izi kotero ndinangomuuza zoona, zomwe ndikuti sindimayang'ananso zolaula chifukwa ndimamva bwino popanda izo.
Anali ndi chidwi ndipo anafunsa chifukwa chake amaganiza kuti anyamata onse amachita. Ndidamuuza kuti amatero, koma ambiri amakhalanso achidwi nawo pamlingo wina ndipo zimakukhudzani pachinthu chenicheni. Ndinamuuza kuti ndikhale ndi chinthu chenicheni ndipo ndimakhala womasuka komanso wokonda akazi ndikapanda kuchita. Anamaliza kunena zinthu zonsezi momwe amaganizira kuti ndizabwino kwambiri zomwe sindimachita ndipo zimandipangitsa kukhala munthu wabwino ndipo ndiyenera kukhala ndi atsikana amtundu uliwonse (lol zikadakhala choncho). Chachikulu chinali chakuti amaganiza kuti ndizabwino kuti ndikuchita izi, ndipo ndikumverera kuti amayi ambiri amamvanso chimodzimodzi.
Kotero anyamata, musawope kukhala owona mtima ndi mtsikana kuti musamapange / kuwonera zolaula. Ndikuganiza kuti ambiri samakonda kuonera zolaula, choncho ngati zingakupatseni mfundo za brownie. Kuphatikizanso kumakupangitsani kukhala owoneka ngati alpha komanso olamulira moyo wanu. Mawere:
-sungwana wamkazi sindimayang'ana zolaula
-andifunsa chifukwa chake ndinaima
-yesera kufotokozera izo
-iye ankaganiza kuti izo zinali zodabwitsa
-chimwemwechokhachokhachokha
Gawo lapadera lokhala ndi gf kupyolera apa ndikuti mumatha kumuuza za vutoli. Atsikana ndi olankhula mwachibadwa kotero amafuna kuti amve zonsezo 😀 Komanso mtsikana amakonda pamene mukuyesera kukonza ubwenzi.
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