Sindikunena zambiri, Ndikungonena kuti ndakhala ndikuonera zolaula kwa miyezi 6, ndipo nditha kuwerengera kangapo kuyambira nthawi imodzi. Ndikulemba zabwino zonse zomwe ndakumana nazo ndi NoFap:
- Kuchotsedwa kwa galasi lakunja (kujambula zolaula kunandipangitsa kukhala wowonera, ndipo nditawona mkazi wokongola, panali khoma losaoneka lomwe likundilepheretsa kumuyandikira), sindikuyang'ana akazi, sindimalola malingaliro anga kuti "ndikulakalaka atha kukhala anga tsiku limodzi", ndimangopangitsa kuti zichitike.
- Mphamvu zambiri tsiku lonse
- Kukonda kwambiri moyo
- Mphepete mwa malingaliro kuposa anyamata wamba
- Kugulitsa bwino
- Umunthu wokongola, wamatsenga
- Kukopana ndi akazi ndi 100% zachilengedwe; Ndinkayesa kuganizira njira yanga yokopa ndikugwiritsa ntchito "logic" kuti ndikope akazi, izi sizinali zabwino, osati zabwino konse. Kwenikweni, amayi ankakonda kundifuna, ndiye ndimatha kuzipukusa chifukwa cha zolaula / fap zosokoneza bongo komanso manyazi - sindimaganiza kuti ndiyenera kukhala bwenzi.
- Sindikanidwa nthawi zambiri. Ndikutanthauza kuti zizichitika, koma ndazindikira kuti kulemera kwambiri komwe ndachepetsa, komwe ndimakana kukana, pali zinthu zinanso zofunika kuziganiziranso; sungangosiya kuseweretsa maliseche ndikuyembekezera kuti akazi aziunjikira pamwamba panu, muyenera kuzilola kuti zidutse mbali zina za moyo wanu poyamba. Ndimaganiza kuti ndidakanidwa kamodzi, koma patadutsa milungu itatu atathetsa chibwenzi chake, ndine woyamba kulemberana mameseji, mwina ndikubwezanso, mwina ndimomwe zimapangitsa kuti banja lithe; angadziwe ndani. Ndani amasamala.
- Mphamvu zanga ndizodabwitsa; Tsiku lililonse ndimapambana pang'ono, ndipo chidwi chanu chimawonjezeka, NoFap imathira mbali zina m'moyo wanga, NoLaziness, NoDirty, NoSpending, NoSwearing, NoFear, ndi zina; Ndayamba kukhala wamisala wokhalitsa komanso munthu wangwiro.
- Ndasintha nthawi yowerengera ndikuwerenga mabuku, chisankho chabwino kwambiri.
- Mukaphatikiza NoFap osayang'ananso kwa azimayi, azimayi sadzakhalanso mphotho yanu, kutanthauza kuti simukuwopa kuwafikiranso, sindimakonda kuyika mawu awa; koma mbolo ndi nyini zili pamlingo umodzi; iye salinso pachithunzi.
- Maliseche achotsedwa m'malingaliro mwanga ngati njira yogonana. Sizachilendo kwa ine panonso. Ndinapitilizabe tsiku lina, ndipo ndili ngati, "WTF ndiyenera kuchita, pali zithunzi, sindingathe kuyanjana ndi azimayi awa, ndiye tanthauzo lake ndi chiyani?"
- Kugonana ndiko mphamvu yamphamvu kwambiri yodziwika kwa munthu, taganizirani izi; mutha kuyang'ana zolaula kwa maola 5 patsiku osaganizira za izi, tsopano zikadakhala zotani mukadakhala ndi mphamvu zomwezo, ndikuzigwiritsa ntchito pazinthu zina. Ndizotheka kuposa momwe mukuganizira. (Yang'anani kuyamwa - Napoleon Hill m'buku lake la Think and Grow Rich) - Mukawerenga izi, Napoleon Hill amafotokoza chifukwa chake amuna ambiri samachita bwino mpaka atatha zaka 40; ndichifukwa chakuti sakuwononga mphamvu zawo zakugonana kuthamangitsa atsikana / kuseweretsa maliseche ku zolaula - motero amakhala ndi chidwi chokwaniritsa zolinga zawo. Ingoganizirani inu mukadali achichepere, ndikukhala ndi chilakolako chogonana, mukuwononga mwayi wabwino kwambiri. Imani.
- Mukazindikira zamatsenga pazakugonana (sindine mbuye pano, komabe ndikuphunzirabe / ndikukula m'njira zake), lekani kuyang'ana zogonana (kuphatikiza zolaula), ndikuyang'ana kwambiri pakupanga. Mudzadzipatula kwa akazi. Osandifunsa chifukwa chake, koma azimayi amakonda amuna omwe amakhala okhaokha.
Ndikudziwa kuti maubwino anga akuwoneka kuti akungokopa azimayi, chifukwa ndi zomwe anyamata pano akufuna kuwerenga. Koma chowonadi ndichakuti, zandichitira zambiri; Ndinazindikira kuti akazi sindiwo kiyi wachimwemwe, ndikuti ndimkati. M'malo mwake, azimayi omwe ndimakopeka nawo ali nawo khalani katundu. Sindikudziwa yemwe ali woyenera kwa ine, chifukwa ndiwokongola ndimikhalidwe yabwino; akazi apamwamba kwambiri. Kotero ndine wokhutira kwathunthu osakopa akazi ambiri.
Ndikulingalira za mphamvu zanga zogonana pakupanga zizolowezi zabwino, kukhala opindulitsa, ndikukhala wabwinoko, chifukwa moona mtima ndizomwe NoFap ili, ndipo ngati mukufuna kuchita bwino ndi akazi, mudzazindikira kuti muyenera kungoyang'ana pakupanga zizolowezi zopambana ndikuwongolera nokha. Izi zikuthandizani kuti mukhale akazi ambiri, ndikulonjeza.
Ulusi - Ubwino Wanga wa NoFap
by Makhalidwe
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