Pomaliza !! 90 masiku ovuta!
Ndimakumbukirabe nthawi yoyamba yomwe ndinapereka PMOed, kumbuyo ndili ndi 11 yo. Chinali chinthu chomwe ndinachipeza ndekha, palibe amene analankhula nane ndipo sindinadziwe ngati chinali chabwino kapena choipa, koma nthawi yoyamba yomwe ndinamverera bwino, zinali zodabwitsa ndipo ndinalonjeza kuti sindidzachita izo kachiwiri. Zachidziwikire kuti panthawiyo sindimadziwa momwe kumverera kotereku kumawonekera, zimawoneka ngati zosangalatsa zopanda vuto, chifukwa chake ndimazichita tsiku lililonse tsiku lotsatira.
Nthawi iliyonse ndikachita izi ndimadandaula, nthawi iliyonse ndikadandilonjeza kuti ikhala komaliza, koma sichinali chomwecho. Zaka zingapo zapitazo ndidayamba kufunafuna magulu omwe ali ndi chidwi chofanana chosiya chizolowezichi, ndidapeza subreddit iyi ndi masamba ena angapo. Zinali zabwino kudziwa kuti sindinali ndekha poyesayesa kusintha. Ndinamvetsetsa bwino zavutoli komanso njira zosiyanasiyana zosiya. Ndinayesa njira zosiyanasiyana, ndimayesa pafupifupi chilichonse chomwe ndingaganizire, koma ndimakanika. Ndimakumbukirabe momwe zinali zosangalatsa kuwona zolemba za anthu zikufika masiku a 90, zimawoneka ngati zosatheka kuti ndifike kumeneko, ndinali wodzipereka kwathunthu koma ndimangopeza masiku 30 okha. Anthu omwe anafikira masiku 90 anali ngwazi kwa ine. Sindikunama ngati ndikunena kuti ndalephera maulendo XNUMX ndisanafike kuno.
Ndiye zinali zosiyana bwanji nthawi ino poyerekeza ndi zomwe ndinayambiranso? Ndikutsimikiza kuti kusiyana kwakukulu ndikufuna kwanga. Ndidayesa njira zambiri zakunja, monga mvula yozizira, kupita kokayenda ndikamakakamizidwa, kukhala ndi kalendala yotsata momwe ndikupitira kapena kulemba tizidutswa tatsiku ndi tsiku. Nthawi iliyonse ndikayambiranso, ndimayesa kuchita zosiyana, njira yatsopano, koma posachedwa ndimalephera. Nthawi ino ndidatopa ndikulephera kwambiri, kotero ndidangoganiza zosalephera. Kunali kutsimikiza mtima kotero kuti zilibe kanthu momwe ndimamvera chisoni, kapena momwe zilimbikitso zanga ziliri, sindingathe PMO. Ndinkafuna kudzitsimikizira ndekha kuti ndimayang'anira zochita zanga, kuti ndimatha kupanga zisankho ndikusintha moyo wanga, kuti ndili ndi moyo tsopano ndipo ndimatha kuchita chilichonse chomwe ndikufuna, ndidachita. Munthawi imeneyi kusowa kwa PMO kunandikakamiza kuti ndipeze china chosiyana, chomwe chimakhala ndi zinthu zabwino monga kukhala ochezeka, ochezeka, kuwonjezera anzanga komanso kukhala olimba mtima. Ndisanachite mantha kufunsa mtsikana, koma masiku ano ndichinthu chachilengedwe, monga ndimapita kumaphwando nthawi zambiri ndimakhala ndi atsikana otentha, zomwe sizinachitike kwa ine. Ndakhala ndikupita kumalo olimbirako thupi pafupipafupi m'miyezi yapitayi ndipo ndili bwino nthawi zonse, sizabwino koma ndikupitabe patsogolo.
Ndikuganiza kuti iyi ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yotsekera chaka changa, ndangomaliza maphunziro anga onse ndipo ndikumaliza maphunziro mwezi wamawa, ndalandila ntchito yabwino chaka chamawa, posachedwapa ndalandira GF yatsopano, ndiyenda miyezi ingapo yotsatira kuti ndingopuma kumaliza sukulu, ndipo, zikuwoneka kuti ndi chaka chabwino chatsopano, ndiyesetsa kuchita bwino chaka chamawa.
TL; DR Ndinasintha kwambiri chaka chino ndipo ndingokulangizani kuti muchite zomwe muyenera kuchita, osatinso chifukwa, osazengereza, ingochitani.
Wodala chaka chatsopano kwa aliyense !!
LINK - Masiku a 90, zaka 10 akuyembekezera mphindi ino
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