Pali malipoti ambiri masiku 90 omwe ndikuganiza kuti ndikungotchula zina mwazosintha zomwe zikubwera m'maganizo mwanga pompano. Zosintha zambiri zomwe ndakhala ndikumva mwina sizingachitike chifukwa cha nofap, koma m'malo mongoganiza kuti "Chabwino, simungathe kuthawira kwa PMO, bwanji osachita china chothandiza m'malo mwake?" Sindikubwerera kwa PMO kachiwiri, ndikudziwa.
Kumbali inayi sindikuletsa kuti ndisewere maliseche (popanda zolaula), koma pakadali pano sindikuwona kufunika kochita izi. Ndimasangalala ndi zinthu zina m'moyo kwambiri kuti ndizitha kuzichita.
Maphunziro Abwino: Ndimaphunzira ku yunivesite ndipo ndachedwa kumaliza maphunziro, chimodzi mwazifukwa zazikulu zomwe ndinayambira nofap chinali kupeza nthawi yambiri ndi chidwi chowerenga. Pamlingo wa 0-5 (1 ndiye kalasi yoyamba pomwe mumaliza maphunziro) magiredi anga achoka mozungulira 0-2 mpaka 3-4. Ndikumva kuti ndili ndi kuthekera kokulirapo, ndipo ndikuganiza izi makamaka chifukwa chakuzindikira komanso kudzidalira.
Kuzindikira komanso kulimba mtima: Ndikumva kuti palibe chilichonse chomwe sindingathe kuchita masiku ano. Mwinamwake ine ndiribe mphamvu zoposa, koma ine potsirizira pake ndathana ndi mantha anga olephera. Ndimawona dziko mosiyana, ndisanawone zinthu zovuta (monga mayeso, kukumana ndi anthu atsopano ndi zina zambiri) ngati zopinga (zomwe zikundilepheretsa kuti ndikhale wotayika kunyumba kungokhala PMO'ing), tsopano ndikuwawona ngati zovuta komanso mwayi. Mwina sindingakhale wangwiro, koma ndimatha kusintha nthawi zonse.
Kumva wolumikizidwa ndi ena: Ndikumva kuti ndimatha kulankhula bwino ndi anzanga. Ndimasangalala kucheza kwambiri ndipo sindiopa anthu. Anzanga ena akamandikumbatira ndimakumbukira ndikumva pang'ono. Tsopano ndikumverera mosiyana, ndipo nthawi zambiri ndimayambitsa kukhudzana. Mwinamwake ndisanathetsere zolaula ndi kugonana, ndipo ndinkachita mantha kuti ndikumbatire chibwenzi cha mnzanga chifukwa cha izo. Tsopano ndikudziwa kuti chilichonse sichiyenera kuchitidwa chiwerewere ndipo zimamveka bwino kukhala opanda malingaliro amenewo.
Pali zinthu zina zambiri zomwe zidadutsa m'masiku awa a 90, koma sindingapeze chifukwa choyesera kuzilemba zonse pano. Ndipitiliza kutumiza pano pa subreddit iyi, ndipo ndikukuthokozani nonse chifukwa chondithandizira. Zakhala zikulamulidwa nthawi ndi nthawi, koma zakhala zofunikira.
LINK - Ena amaganiza tsiku 90
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