Ndikufuna kunena kuti moyo wanga wakhala uli bwanji m'masiku onse a 90 apitawa popanda kusefa. Ndiloleni ndiyambe kunena kuti ndakhala ndikuvutika kuti ndisunge zovuta kuchokera nthawi yomwe ndinapeza NoFap ku 2012.
Zinanditengera pafupifupi zaka ziwiri kuti ndifike panthawiyi popeza masiku 90 ndiokwera kwambiri kuposa kale lonse. Zomwe zidandipangitsa kuti ndifike pomwepa ndi lonjezo langa kwa MULUNGU. Masiku 90 apitawo nditalephera mobwerezabwereza ndikuyesera kumbuyo kwanga ndidayamba kulira. Ndinapanga pangano ndi MULUNGU kuti ndisadzapitenso ndipo iyi ndi njira yanga yomwe imandilimbikitsa. Kodi izi zikutanthauza kuti ndilibe zolimbikitsa? Ayi, zolimbikitsazi zilipo ndipo posachedwa ndidadabwitsidwa ndi chidwi chomwe ndidatsala pang'ono kumaliza. Komabe ndidakumbukira lonjezo langa ndipo posakhalitsa malingaliro anga adavomereza kuti sindingathe.
Nkhani yakwanira tsopano, nazi zomwe zachitika:
- Kwachikhalidwe kwambiri, m'mbuyomu sindinkafuna chilichonse chokhala ndi anthu pafupi nane. Ndinali bwino kukhala ndi gulu laling'ono la abwenzi, komabe, tsopano ndikulankhula kwa pafupifupi aliyense amene ndimakumana naye. Ndapanga anzanga ambiri atsopano ndi abwenzi kusukulu ndipo ndikulankhula ndi anthu omwe atsala mosabvuta. Ndinkakhala ndi vuto ndi izi koma anzanga omwe ndinkaphunzira nawo m'kalasi adanditcha munthu wofunika kwambiri m'kalasi. Ndipo ndilibe Facebook kapena twitter haha.
- Kulankhula ndi akazi, chifukwa sindikulekanso ndimakhala wolimbikira kwambiri pankhani ya akazi. Ndinayankhula zambiri ndi akazi ndipo ndimamva bwino ndikakhala nawo pafupi. Sindingathe kuyankhulira aliyense amene amachita nofap koma kwa ine malingaliro anga achimuna a Alpha amatenga gawo. Mwanjira ina, kwinakwake ndiyenera kuyanjana ndi azimayi ndikawawona. Pakadali pano ndagwira akazi opitilira 30. Ndine wokonda zachipembedzo kotero sindinapite kukagonana kapena kukhala pachibwenzi koma ndimangolakalaka kuti ndilankhule nawo ndikuyandikira pafupi nawo, mpaka pano zikuyenda bwino kwambiri.
- Kuyang'ana bwino, ndapeza chatsopano pazinthu zonse zomwe ndimachita monga sukulu, ntchito, moyo, ndi zina. Ndimakonzekera, ndimakonza ziwembu ndipo ndimaganizira kwambiri. Ndimakhala mwamtendere ndi chilichonse m'moyo wanga ndipo ndikufuna kukhala munthu wabwino kwambiri yemwe ndingakhale. Sindilinso wokhalabe ndi zolakwa nthawi zonse za uve zomwe ndimakonda kuchita ndikuwonera. Izi zitha kumveka zachikale koma ndapezanso ulemu wanga, kunyada kwanga ndi ulemu wanga.
-Ndimawona azimayi pazomwe ali, zolaula ndizonyansa komanso mankhwala owononga kotero kuti amawonongeratu chithunzi chanu chazomwe mumaganizira komanso cha akazi. Sindimawonanso akazi ngati nyama zina zongofuna kusangalala nazo, m'malo mwake ndimawaona ngati anthu omwe ayenera kulemekezedwa ndikukhala osilira 24 / 7.
- Chikumbumtima choyera,
Chowonadi chiyenera kunenedwa pamwamba pa zabwino zonse zomwe ndanena ndizomwe ndimazikonda kwambiri. Sindimanyansidwanso ndekha ndipo sindine kapolo wa chilengedwe cha malingaliro oyipa. Ndikakumbukira zinthu zodwala zomwe ndimayang'ana ndi maso anga misozi imayamba kutuluka. Posachedwa ndidapeza zithunzi kuyambira ndili wachinyamata ndipo ndidadziyankhulira ndekha kuti: Ndikadakhala kuti mukadadziwa matenda anu pambuyo pake. Tsopano ndili womasuka. Ndinkadzida ndekha moona mtima komanso moona mtima chifukwa cha zomwe ndidachita, nthawi zina ndimayesetsa kudzimitsa mkwiyo chifukwa chowonera zinthu zodwala komanso zonyansa. Tsopano zonsezi ndi zakale ndipo ndakhululuka zolakwa zanga. Mulungu akalola sindidzachita maliseche ndikuonera zolaula. Ndikukonzekera kukwatira posachedwa kuti ndikwaniritse zokhumba zanga m'njira yovomerezeka. Pomaliza ndakhala ndikudikira kwa nthawi yayitali kuti ndinene izi ndipo tsopano ndikhoza kunena, MULUNGU andithandize kuti ndinene izi kwa moyo wanga wonse:
Ndine womasuka.
LINK - Malipoti a masiku a 90
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