Chifukwa chake ndili pano, 90 patatha masiku angapo. Ndayimitsa Turkey ozizira. Palibe kubwerera, ndipo palibe PMO. Ndikuganiza kuti izi ndi zomwe mumatcha zovuta modetsa nkhawa.
Nayi nkhani yanga. Ndiyesera kuti ndisunge mwachidule komanso mokoma, koma mwina ndilephera:
Ndiloleni ndikuuzeni kaye kuti sindinali wogwiritsa ntchito PMO kwambiri. Ndinkakonda kuseweretsa maliseche ngati 4-7 nthawi pa sabata, osapitilira kamodzi patsiku. Ndinazindikira nditawerenga malipoti a anthu ena kuti izi zimawoneka ngati zopanda ntchito poyerekeza ndi omwe amakonda kuseweretsa maliseche kangapo patsiku, tsiku lililonse. Komanso magawo anga samatha kupitilira mphindi 30, komanso nthawi zambiri mozungulira mphindi 15.
Komabe, tiyeni tibwezeretsere tepi masiku 90. Ndinali kuyambitsa gawo lina la PMO motero ndinalowa zolaula. Ndidayamba kukhala wopanda pake koma panthawiyi sindinali zovuta konse. Apa ndipamene zidandifika kuti china chake sichili bwino. Zinanditengera masekondi abwino a 30 kuti ndizivutike ngakhale kuti ndili ndi zibwenzi mazana angapo zomwe nditha kukwatirana nazo zikuwonetsedwa patsogolo panga. Ndidamaliza bizinesi yanga mwachangu kenako ndikuyamba kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi. Apa ndipamene ndidakumana ndi YBOP ndi subreddit iyi. Nditawerenga malipoti angapo komanso maphunziro asayansi ndidalimbikitsidwa kuposa kale kuti ndisiyire zonsezi. Ndipo ndizomwe ndidachita.
Zabwino, kutumiza ma 90 mwachangu kwambiri, nayi njira yolumikizidwa m'miyezi itatu iyi:
- Sabata yoyamba kapena iwiri: Ndinali wamanyazi. Nthawi zonse ndimangoganiza za PMO, ndimayendera bwaloli kangapo patsiku ndi zina zotero. Sikuti ndinali pafupi kubwereranso. Ndinaganiza kale.
- Sabata lachitatu ndi lachinayi: Pazifukwa zina ndidagona osavala zovala usiku umodzi. Bam! Kutulutsa kwa usiku koyamba zaka zambiri. Goo kulikonse. PMO pakadali pano si njira. Palibe njira yomwe ndikanakhazikitsanso baji yanga, ndipo mwina ndinali ndikulowa nawo pafleete pano.
- Sabata lachisanu ndi chimodzi mphambu khumi ndi chimodzi: ndimamva ngati wamkulu pankhani ya PMO, koma ndimakhala ndi chidwi chachikulu ndi atsikana a IRL. Inde, sindimaganiza za PMO kwambiri. Zachidziwikire, ndimamva bwino ndikugwira mbolo yako, koma sindinayipukute.
- Khumi ndi chimodzi mpaka pano: malingaliro anga panthawiyi anali ndipo anali osiyana ndi kale. Ndinazindikira kuti ndikuyandikira tsiku la 90. "Zitatha izi ndachiritsidwa!", Ndinaganiza. “Sindingathe kuseweretsa maliseche posachedwa! Oo mulungu wanga ndiye kuwala kwanga kwanyengo kuti ndiwone m'masiku ochepa ".
Ndipo ndi momwe ine ndiriri tsopano. Ndine wokonda ngati sabata yoyamba. Mbolo yanga imaganiza kuti gombe lawonekera tsopano. Zimandikumbutsa kuti "TIYENI TICHITE IZI!". Koma sindikudziwa choti ndichite. Ndikufuna kukhala ndi epic orgasm yomwe ingatsatire gawo la MO, koma sindikudziwa momwe ndingakhalire wokonda kuthamangitsa. Pali tizithunzi ta atsikana a bikini ponse pa youtube. “Si zolaula eti? Ndiye ndingatani ndikangogwiritsa ntchito chithunzichi ndikamayimba? Mukudziwa, ngati zonunkhira zowonjezera? ”. Ndikuganiza kuti izi ndi zomwe zingakwaniritsidwe, ndipo njira yopita ku zolaula siyitali kuchokera pamenepo. Ndipo ndakhala ndikuchita zolaula, mozama, sizabwino kwa aliyense.
Chifukwa chake ndikukufunsani akatswiri, mukuganiza kuti ndiyenera kukhala ndikudziletsa ndekha maliseche kapena ndiyenera kulola kuti ndichite kamodzi kapena kanthawi? Monga ndanenera - sindine wogwiritsa ntchito zolemetsa ndipo mwina sindikhala mmodzi TSOPANO. Choipa kwambiri chomwe chingachitike ndikuti ndimayang'ananso zolaula, komabe ndikupeza kuti izi sizingachitike.
Kotero kuti tifotokozere motere: Sindinayambe ndagwiritsirapo ntchito maliseche ngati chowiringula kuti musacheze ndi abwenzi, masewera olimbitsa thupi kapena china chilichonse chonga icho. Ndinkangochiboola tsiku ndi tsiku kapena zochepa kwa pafupifupi mphindi pafupifupi 15 kuti ndimalize. Chifukwa zinali kumveka bwino.
Chonde ndidziwitseni zomwe mukuganiza! Ndikufuna, koma tsopano ndili ndi baji yomwe imati masiku 90 ... imamveka ngati yosamvetseka komanso yopusa.
Komanso, ndikudziwa ambiri a inu mukufuna kumva momwe ndasinthira mwatsatanetsatane. Palibe chomwe chachitika chomwe simunawerengepo kale, koma pali zinthu zochepa zomwe zitha kunenedwa.
- Sindinali wopunduka pagulu, kutali ndi ilo. Komanso, ndizovuta kuwona zosintha kuyambira miyezi itatu, popeza mumangodziwa momwe mukumvera lero. Ndipo sindingalole kuti nofap ikhale ndi mbiri yonse yazosintha zomwe zachitika. Ndikuyesera kuti ndikhale otseguka komanso ochezeka komanso osapereka kwenikweni pomwe kulibe ma fuck. Ndayambanso kuyang'ana atsikana m'maso monga momwe tafotokozera mu subreddit yachinyengo. Koma sindingayesere kukonza izi zikadapanda kuti pakhale nofap poyamba. Ndikudziwa ambiri a inu simukonda malingaliro okopa, koma andipatsa maupangiri abwino.
- Atsikana a IRL amakopeka kwambiri. Kugwirana ndi mtundu wina uliwonse wakugonana kumapangitsa kuti mbolo yanga ikhale yosangalala kwambiri. Simumva izi ngati muli PMO pafupipafupi, osati ine.
- Sindikudziwa ngati pali zina zambiri mukamayankhula za nofap yomwe. Nofap idachititsanso kusintha kwa chipale chofewa m'moyo wanga pomwe adapanga mfundo ziwiri. Nditasiya kusamba ndinayamba kukhala wopambana komanso wodziletsa. Izi zandithandiza kuyesera kudzisintha ndekha m'mbali zina za moyo wanga. Kupeza chilimbikitso ndichimodzi mwazinthu zofunika kwambiri pa nofap m'malingaliro mwanga. Zambiri mwa "zotumphukira" zomwe anthu amalankhula zitha kufotokozedwa mpaka pano ndikuganiza.
Ndipo ndizo zonse. Chonde, lembani ndemanga ndi malingaliro anu. Zikomo chifukwa cha chithandizo chonse. Reddit iyi yakhala yothandiza nthawi zambiri 🙂
LINK - Ndazichita! Masiku a 90, koma akuwoneka ngati tsiku la 5. Anthu anzanga, ndimachokera kuti?
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Miyezi ya 11 yapitayo, pomwe gululi lidakhala ndi ochepera theka la mamembala monga lero, ndidapanga izi Tumizani pa subreddityi ndikufotokozera chifukwa chomwe ndimaganizira zongomaliza miyezi yanga ya 7. Ngati mukufuna kusunga kuwerengako kochepa, ndikufotokozera mwachidule momwe (nthawi imeneyo) malingaliro anga anali operewera komanso kuwuma, ndipo izi zimandikhudza.
Pambuyo pake, ndinayesetsa, ndipo ndinapambana, kutaya unamwali wanga ndili ndi zaka 23 ndipo ndinakumana ndi mtsikana masabata angapo pambuyo pake. Tsopano, ndikudziwa zomwe mukufuna kumva. Mukufuna kuti ndikuuzeni nkhani ya momwe ndidakhalira ndi boner wokwiya ndikupanga naye chikondi usiku wonse. Tsoka ilo, izi sizinachitike. M'malo mwake, dick wanga nthawi zambiri amangokhala atangokhala, akuchita zosewerera. Panali magazi angapo omwe ankathamangira kwa iwo nthawi ndi nthawi, koma palibe chomwe chidakhalapo. Monga momwe mungaganizire, ndinali wovuta kwambiri. Sanandichititsenso mantha panthawiyi. Ndidamuwuza mosavutikira kuti: "mukudziwa, ndikuganiza ndili ndi nkhawa ina", kwinaku ndikupachika mbolo yanga yopanda kanthu patsogolo pake (anali atagona wamaliseche, kudikirira kuti ndichite chinthu changa, ndingathe mukuganiza ..?)
Pambuyo pa chidziwitso ichi pomwe ndidamaliza zojambula zanga ndi gawo la PMO. Izitu zinali zodziwika bwino zotsutsana, koma zitatha izi ndidabwerera ku zizolowezi zanga zakale za PMO ndipo zimandibweretsa komwe ndili lero. Ndiyenera kunena zinthu zingapo:
- Ndinali PMO weniweni kwaulere pafupifupi miyezi 5-6. Pambuyo pake ndidayamba kukumana ndi zinthu zina zamtundu wina ngati choloweza mmalo (chifukwa sizinali zomwezo, ndimaganiza) mbolo yanga yopanda moyo.
- Ndinali ndi ziphuphu chimodzi kapena ziwiri ndisanakumane ndi mtsikana uja. Izi zidakwaniritsidwa pokupukuta malowa pansipa. Sizinapangidwe kwenikweni, koma zinali zoyipa kuchokera kusewera kwanga.
- Sindinakopeke ndi mtsikanayo, zomwe mwina zidakhudza kuchepa kwa d. Komabe ngakhale ..
- Sindinewotchera kwambiri ndipo nthawi zambiri ndimangolakalaka PMO kamodzi, nthawi zina kawiri, tsiku ~ mphindi 15. Chifukwa chake chidziwitso changa sichingagwire ntchito kwa anyamata omwe ali ndi zovuta za PMO.
Ndiye, kodi ndikuyimira pati lero? Ndalemba izi kuti ndiyesere kuthana ndi zolemba zomwe ankhondo ena akukuuzani kuti ndizabwino kwambiri. Ndikulimbikitsa aliyense kuti apewe PMO kwakanthawi. Ndichinthu chosangalatsa, ndipo chimafuna kulimbika mtima komanso kutsimikiza mtima ndipo zimayenera kulemekezedwa. Osangolola kuti zipite patali ngati mukuwona kuti sizikupatsirani zina zowonjezera. Dziwani kuti zochepa zoyambira ndizachilengedwe. Koma kwa ine, kupitirira miyezi 3 kapena kupitilira apo, kumangokhala kosavuta. Ngati inunso mumamva chimodzimodzi, muyenera kuganiziranso zolinga zanu. Ndikuganiza kuti woyamba kapena miyezi iwiri yoyamba inali yopindulitsa kwambiri pokhudzana ndi kugonana kwachilengedwe (mosiyana ndi komwe kumazungulira pakompyuta).
M'malingaliro mwanga, zolaula ndizoyipa kwambiri kuposa kuseweretsa maliseche (makamaka, popanda zolaula sindimachita maliseche nthawi zambiri). Apanso, ndinamva kusiyana koyambirira kwa gawo langa la nofap. Kungokhala ndi mtsikana opaka mwendo wanga milungu ingapo kungandipangitse kuti ndikhale wosangalala kwambiri, ndipo ndikuziphonya. Zinkawoneka ngati zachilengedwe komanso zolondola. Ndimamvanso ngati munthu wabwino chifukwa ndikuganiza kuti zolaula ndizokayikitsa pazifukwa zamakhalidwe, koma sizinapite patali kuposa izi pakukonza zinthu.
Chifukwa chake, kufotokozera zinthu: zindikirani kuti ulendowu uli ndi zotsatirapo zosiyanasiyana kwa anthu osiyanasiyana, ndipo musamve chisoni ngati mukufuna kuchotsa ntchitoyo kale kuposa momwe mukuganizira (kwa ine, ~ miyezi itatu). Sindikufuna kuti muzimva kuti mwapanikizika. Chitani izi, chifukwa zitha kukhala zabwino kuti muyesenso. Koma ngati mukuganiza kuti sizikukuthandizani, ndinganene kuti muyenera kuyambiranso makinawo.
Ndilembanso izi lero chifukwa lero ndi tsiku lomwe ndaganiza zoyesa kusiya zolaula komanso china chilichonse.
Khalani otetezeka, ndipo yesetsani zomwe mumachita ngati mukuwona kuti ndichabwino kuchita.
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